The person you really need to marry | Tracy McMillan | TEDxOlympicBlvdWomen

Your presence. I realized he was bright, happy and a jokester. As a result of dating, "I felt like I was

really

passionate! Look, I'm very committed to myself." In fact, on this date, she wasn't trying to get the other

person

to like her. I care more about how I feel about myself than how he feels about me, not because he is selfish, but because the only relationship I will ever have with someone is a relationship that is essentially with myself but will be with myself. them now. What turned out was that he liked me and we are still together.

It's exhilarating and amazing, but I've been married three times, so I had to wait! (Laughs) The thing is, I didn't want to be protected by

marry

ing him and, God forbid, a stroller. I'm just here to have a relationship. I'm not eager to hear the words: "Will you

marry

me?" Anyway, these words are

really

powerful and so powerful that for someone like me I don't

need

to hear them from him; Because I've already heard it from myself. It's like he took me to the top of a mountain, or maybe to the bottom of the ocean, knelt down and said, "I will never leave you." And now I'm married to the only

person

I've ever been with.

I have always wanted to be with myself. (Applause) Thank you.