GIRL CHAT VAULT: Turning Down a Proposal

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, okay, firstly, it's fair to say that grandparents play a very vital role in the lives of their grandchildren, they can be an inexhaustible source of love and support for them, however, for many families it is not always that simple, believe it or not, estrangement from grandparents is a real thing today, as many parents They do not allow their parents to see their children due to personal grudges or a problem between them and if the situation remains unresolved, then the grandchildren are the ones who end up suffering by losing the opportunity to meet their grandparents, so ladies, do you think That it's fair for parents to get in the way of their children having a good relationship with their grandparents sometimes? sometimes it's interesting, it depends, I mean well, if they're abusive or something, Medicaid, right, but let's know, take that out and say maybe, if there is any, if it's not detrimental to the well-being of the child in saiga, obviously, If your child is not safe with their grandparents then they should not be there, but this is just my opinion.

I really believe in honoring our parents. I believe in honoring. I understand that we may not agree with every decision our parents make. I will never go. agree with everything they did when you were a child, you may not agree with everything they do now that you are an adult, but you still honor your parents, that is your mother, that is your father, and they deserve to have a relationship now, does that mean? I leave you my children and I'm going to say no. I think there are boundaries that you can decide for yourself that are good for you as a parent and for your child, but I just don't think it's unfair.

I think it's unfair and more important for the child, yes, and I think well, yes, he admits that he doesn't have bad parents. I mean, as an example, a grandparent and a parent may not always agree with your parenting style, they may say something and then sometimes. you get into your feelings and if that's the case, I think everyone needs to be an adult, I would be an adult teacher, their feelings come out of their feelings and, you know, let the grandson, the grandson, be with a grandparent because I know for me. I mean, I didn't know my dad's side of the family because they were estranged and that hurt me.

I know my mom's side and I love that relationship that I have and I feel like a grandfather and grandson relationship is very special and I'm not going to let my feelings get in the way. I'm going to be an adult. The grandfather is doing something that the father simply knows because sometimes his stubbornness in the relationship says, for example, if his son is with them and they think. They get the feeling that I know I raised you this way, but maybe you don't want that done, so what do you do in that case? What if you know that there are cases where I am even telling minor things?

It may seem like something minor, but it could be important to the child, like their eating habits or the way they eat. Styles, let them be pampered, let them get away with it, you know what to do, you can supervise, they should or you have an adult. conversation like you have to sometimes you have to make sure sometimes you have to worry sometimes you have to remind your parents that you are an adult now Yes, of course, now he respects my choices and has to go back and forth if that were a Good dance, yes, you set limits, that's how it is when you decide, I don't trust you or spanking either, good plan, so yes, I don't see why we can't all spend time together, but my son will know that his grandfather, yes , Yeah.

That also makes me think that sometimes there is the right time in the right place and the right age, so my mom actually the reason she met my father and why she got pregnant with me is because she ran away from me. grandfather, my grandfather was extremely abusive and harsh with my mother and when she raised me I heard some stories that made me never want to meet him in my life, so throughout my life my mother practically isolated us from my grandfather and my brothers, our children and Then they always said: What is this about my grandfather?

They missed a grandpa at home so they went to visit him separately, but I never kept in touch with them or visited them because of the things I imagined doing to my mom, so last Christmas. Now I'm 39 at Christmas, I don't know where these kids thought it was a cute idea, but out of nowhere, you know, they called my grandpa to ask what he was doing for Christmas and of course I was alone because my whole family said : "You mean you're old, you know you'll be alone in your house, so he's alone, my brothers brought him in and when the door opened and my grandfather walked in, something and I think it's the Holy Spirit in the room just gave us It invaded everyone because it was Christmas and because of the look on his face, I knew that he knew he had done wrong and there is no way he can erase that time, but just to let time and our hearts let themselves heal and open.

I walk individually through our relationships so we sat grandpa down, took some photos with him and he was one of the best grandfathers alive, yes exactly, anyway you could take photos with him, yes post a photo of my grandfather, he, he. Incredible, they asked how your mother handled that calm. I know she was there. Everyone was like, "Oh my God, it's Y," which means Grandpa and some people cried and some people with the kids were a little scared because they'd heard about it. him as if he shouldn't be near us, but my mother stayed very still, you know that she is the lioness of the house and we are.

I looked at her and thought, she can go crazy very quickly, she some time throws things, she is crazy, but she. He looked at me and said okay yeah and we said okay now looking back since your mom regrets the bad times or you regret this time

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it was only Christmas you gotta go slow with Mom, I ask that, but I do want to. to ask I want to ask mom, what was your dad like? He missed the birth of my brothers. I was surprised by my cute butt growing up. Yes, grandparents can sue for visits.

If you have some problems, just understand that if you sue for visits, it is not easy to obtain the rights. , it's the cost of the lawsuits and also the cost of the lawyer, but what you just said, I only say it because what you just said, yes, you waste time and time is valuable, you have to do it. stand up for your right, you want to fight and maybe you have to figure it out, so all the best for the people, the well-being of frustrated parents, a mother of two recently sparked a huge debate on the site Mumsnet after she revealed that she turned down the offer from your partner. marriage

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because it was not considered enough, the woman who bore that name still didn't realize it, she said she waited two years for her boyfriend to propose to her, but when the big moment came, all she did was write do you would you marry me on the board and left it? ring on the kitchen table, that sounds thoughtful to me, okay, okay, guys, okay, there's more.

The woman claims that she ruined what was supposed to be the most important moment of her life and that her

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lacked creativity, romance and thought, however, other readers on the site said that she was being ungrateful and had unrealistic expectations. , so now ladies, do you have the right to be upset? I thought about your face, basically, she said she just said this, she just did this she does this, marry me, yeah, everyone who has a family or a partner, what? Do you throw it on the kitchen table? I will post your hand. Maybe she describes it as thrown on the kitchen table.

I don't know about you guys you're on Pinterest because there are some really cute things I've seen on the boards where write it beautifully school teacher I lie on your hand and your butt should have been angry yeah murder the rain should have been and wait, I read the article and they actually have two kids, you don't just leave a diamond ring. a table that was left there if you want to surprise her and you write it in this beautiful black book or you say that, although swoosh, she will obviously say it like that because she's feeling a little bitter Betty right now, but what if reading is yes? it was in a beautiful black you know what I'm talking about keep pinching and yeah this baby can be really beautiful and I think he did that if he left it there and then once she saw it maybe he came out and said: You know what I'm saying, okay, so you're adding more to the short, yeah, but I'll tell you that if something isn't romantic at all, this would be kind of like if you said no, it might be.

I don't think so if he left. and as if I was surprised that, as you know, there are so many people that I have put like roses all over the place in the note that I gave you here, you have a black board on the kitchen table, it's not necessary, just those two , Yeah. He liked the idea of ​​the whiteboard, but he could have done it in a way that you know how they have, like magnetic letters of the alphabet, you know, or something cute, they have seats, but he should incorporate the children into the proposal.

You know, a video didn't help to be so romantic? like she wanted him to be, that's why it's very important, she already lived it with them, well, it didn't matter, I mean, she was probably like: I already have two children living with you, you don't have to make the effort that I will say that having been Married before didn't last, but we won't judge on this show now. I'm just saying that when it comes to the way that story was proposed to you, it's a story that the woman tells for the rest of her life all the good friends all the family members on the 40th anniversary the 50th anniversary asked how he proposed.

You don't want me to include a chop Sir on the kitchen table okay, let me explain I agree with you on one point. I don't think I should have been ungrateful because the thing is, obviously when I read the article, she said she was looking for, you know, she's been waiting a long time up to this point, so I would have been grateful if this was my thing. I think this is where I could be spoiled. Oh, well, hey boy, hey, blonde, Jack, they've been spoiled. Sorry, I'm thinking of Israel, if Israel had a blackboard and a kitchen. table, it will be so bomb that you don't know it, I mean, there are ways that people can do these things where you are going to cry while having the most beautiful moment of your entire life with a damn blog board. and it goes off, you know, I had been engaged before, yeah, I think what makes the biggest difference or the transformation, I think it makes the biggest difference depending on the person and I think we all know who we date, right man, like you I'm going to say.

You're okay, now I knew the guy I was dating, yes, this person went out of his way for everyone else, everything else, the person is very detailed, he always goes over the line and if the day you were leaving marry, the six o'clock person said to you sister, can you find a restaurant that is open? and it's like, oh, this is it, there's a restaurant, I want to ask him to marry me, there's a restaurant and he didn't do any planning? Was the location investigated? meaning to me at all oh I see I release it hey the black beard meant a lot to you now I get it I don't get it I get it it could mean something to someone you get like a blackboard could mean something to someone if the person is someone who is oriented to the details, plan things beautifully every other time and now for this engagement, you know, meet me wherever I leave it, I just want you to know don't leave it out, yeah that's what you say, I hope when Israel looks at this, this amazing man who took her to play with his parents and went through everything he did to propose to her and found out he could have made you happy with a black ball.