GIRL CHAT VAULT: A Mom Refuses to Call Her Daughter Beautiful

Oh, that sounds good, I'm going to say that you guys are ready for some

girl

talk, you sound ready, well here we go first, it's fair to say that all mothers find their

daughter

beautiful

, right? But a mother is in the headlines for refusing to say it out loud. According to the Daily Mail at the moment, from the moment Claire O'Reilly gave birth to her

daughter

Annie, she noticed that the only thing people would compliment Annie on was her beauty, to the point that Claire took the decision to never

call

your daughter

beautiful

, stunning or pretty in the hopes that your daughter will find strength in her character and abilities, not just her looks, so ladies, moms should stop

call

ing your daughters beautiful because it could send the wrong message, why wouldn't they ask the question?

But I actually think this sounds crazy. Crazy to me, yes, because I think it is the responsibility of parents to teach their children that there is more to the word beautiful: it doesn't just mean a physical act of a kind that I can continue forever and I tend to think my children are very beautiful . but thank you I think it is very very important to teach them you know other things I always say you know Aidan you were very brave to protect your sister or Araya you are so thoughtful that you want to share your favorite toy with your brother and I know how difficult it can be but I'll end with that is so beautiful it's so cute I'm confused by the idea that one cancels out the other yeah, that being beautiful means you're not all the rest of those things, why can you?

Be both and encourage your children to guess what everyone is beautiful about. Ajith wishes mom was sitting here at this table, listening to this because she would say this, but no, she wouldn't. They never called me beautiful like my mom does. Say oh you're beautiful, she doesn't say that and you know you'd think she's some kind of her, she feels like a beautiful, it's not because my mom always says that when you're beautiful, you make money when you hit really rich. and what she means by that is that when you are smart, when you focus on all the other attributes besides your looks, you are actually the richest person in the room because you have something that will last you forever and what I love is When I grew up putting on lipstick my mom said don't do that because it's cute it makes your people listen to what you say like lipstick and like polishes what you're going to say to the world when you put on makeup like look you're actually presenting yourself so that people can see you. pay attention differently, not because you're trying to be prettier, it's a strange thing, but like in my culture, we don't really sit there praising people, I tell you you're very pretty, we focus. about your intelligence and your studies and it's just a different way of living.

Well, I have a question, but I personally experienced something different with your mom, yes, like your mom, she always says to reflect yourself, your children are beautiful or get married, you are so beautiful. I love your mole, yes she did and she actually puts your mole on, so is it different because this opens up a whole different conversation? It could be true, yes, is it different for her to call other people beautiful and her other children of her beautiful, so yes, her? Her thing is not because she's protecting you guys and she's gotten absolutely tougher on me and she doesn't think I don't expect other people to have thick skin like I do, so she'll walk in and she'll call me like she has a makeup artist who maybe He didn't do a great job, you know, with my makeup or I look crazy just on the show.

The first person she calls me when I leave the live recording. hell, you put on makeup, you fire them now, it's a trap, they're real, it was that part of growing up. I know you're like dough now, but growing up it was that hard when you're trying to figure out, you know, I mean, we all went through it. Awkward phase when you are not sure about something that was so difficult in your adolescence. Not hearing from your mother that you are beautiful. Many of my Asian friends grew up with the same understanding. I can't speak for them, but not for me.

I don't care much about appearance. Honestly, I love having a good personality and just having a good time in life, so I don't really mind being ashamed of how I look. No? I mean, it's just part of my personality and I'm not jealous of other women at all, so I don't know if that's a bad thing, but for me I live in a very happy bubble that's mine, my rose colored glasses are on when I know they're on, I can turn them off to be honest with you, but I also know how to leave them on to be real with myself, you know what I mean, yeah, so I don't know for others.

I think, while she was growing up, my mom did both. I am beautiful and smart and I thought you look like you and you smart like cash to me. I have always liked any child. I don't care if he is a man or a woman. I always tried to encourage them and tell them that there are some and them. You're beautiful, yeah, and cheer them up, but they're also smart, so you know they're different ways of looking at it, but you know we all grow up differently and this is what we have, this show that everyone thinks is beautiful, it's music. , so if you're at a music festival with your boo this summer and the music ends up getting you in the mood.

There is a place you can go to get it in the porta potti. I know online marketplace Ticket recently surveyed 1,000 people and found that almost 10% of them had done it at a porta potti or a music festival, wait a minute and it's not there. 28% of people admitted to doing it in the field, while 15% admitted to doing it in a crowd of people, I mean stairs, that's believable, yeah sorry, audience members are there laughing and nodding slightly, yeah

girl

, yeah, shaking my head, so ladies, what's up with everyone getting weird? Uh, you know, you know, sometimes you give me, it's all kind of the smoke's gone yeah, yeah, no, someone's pass to something, yeah, I'm all for going crazy when you feel it, okay, you guys You know, but I have a problem with the porta potti, yes, as if the field doesn't bother me. get a little blanket you lay her down you know it's a nice time don't get upset about it when you're around people let me tell you the number one place everyone should do it the first time everyone should have it done at Coachella was when Beyoncé was on because no one was paying attention to you, she was kissing her bachelorettes, you could have been in the corner doing your thing, no one cared what you were doing, let's all focus on Beyoncé, what do you think?

A quarter pop now, Florida's potty, let me. I tell you my pills I'm not a germaphobe so I'm not a junior but I'm a smeller of fake smells that affect my private parts okay it's like I'm jazz so unattractive when I smell MVP you don't care it doesn't matter if you're missing it I don't know, Lonnie, you wouldn't do it on a port-a-potty, you really wouldn't have done it on a port-a-potty, the show is called real I was young, young, yeah, I know I look like I'm 3000 years old now, but there was a time when we were adventurous, where are we, where are we, just kidding, but I'm going to say, just do it with the place where the Woodstock people, yeah, yeah, okay, so Lonnie was in Woodstock.

That was done in a port-a-potty where were you I want to know okay, look, okay, I was young, huh, it was during my college years, oh, okay, and when you're young I think you should experience things and what happened was that I was cooking but I didn't know the cookie was loaded with the right money, but here's what worries me: I watch enough Instagram videos when boots knock, things get tough, yes, port-a-potties can tip over and smell good . oh my god, yes, she was so small, wait, you guys like it, wait, wait. On the next level, I have a question: was hand sanitizer invented?

Then she said Cheetah Girls was 70 years ago. I don't care, I'm an agent. and I love it, but would you do it again? It depends on who the person was because sometimes you just know they move on. Is it TMI? No, what's the next topic? No, how did you position yourself? I know what I remember at the time I was a lot smaller then, you know, no, you were sitting on the other UI, right, yeah, yeah, the other way around was him sitting on the toilet and then I thought he'd be sitting on your life tomorrow, so we smoke pot I've never had a pot cookie, although I heard it's a whole different ball game, that's what I'm saying, that's why I still do it because it was like, oh, but it was wonderful, every girl You need a good old pair of jeans, right?

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Of course, why are they talking about all the people? It's okay, they save money like that, they bought a pair of jeans and came in fifth place. How are you saving money? So every practical person I know would buy these jeans, so I have a fashion question to ask you. Jeannie, is there a pair of jeans that are classic and can last up to 50 years? Yes, does it exist? Yes, actually I would say that the classic straight leg is always like a firm Jean that will always stay there, forget it forever, isn't it a little too. boot cut it's not too flared it's just a straight leg it's not Jenny either but the joke is if you're going to be the same side seven pound wall I think that might help you stay you know if you can cum My jeans don't fit, it does change at 30 it changes at 40 I imagine but you do it you work it you work it if you stay like this yes but I'm with Adrian different jeans highlight different silhouettes and outfits I wish I personally wouldn't want that, but I want to tell you my favorite Jean.

Can I tell you which is my favorite Jean? Which? Yes, it's very affordable because you know I don't like to spend a lot of money on fashion, especially because it changes all the time. My favorite jeans are. American Eagle, they're nice, you know what I'm talking about, the Super Stretch. The Super Stretch line came out about three years ago and killed it so much. Now they have the Super Stretch which is super super stretchy and the super super stretchy men's jeans. It's so bomb that you buy one you get half off another $40 legging jeans the jeggings oh yeah no no they're not jakey they're real jeans Robert Stretch can't they be that stretchy?

They're not the kind I can wear from here to The public likes your panties, no, no, no, those are from Charlie's pages about your curves, erisa, but they hug your butt and they fit like that and they come in many different cuts, yes, they are very good and Americans are welcome. I'm serious, okay?