GIRL CHAT VAULT: Period Shame

You are right, as women we all face something once a month, which is totally natural, yes, however, many people still feel uncomfortable and disgusting. I'm talking about your

period

being okay, in fact, a new study from Pink says that 58% of women admitted to feeling embarrassed during that time of the month and 42% said they actually experience embarrassment from family members and Male friends, so ladies, do you think

shame

is real on these streets? It can be real like in the workplace if someone says oh she. you must be on your

period

like this it's so corny we're all like we go it's not like we just had it yesterday at some point having your period becomes a normal thing where you actually know how to handle it you know when it's coming you know you might be a little in a bad mood, but you like it when people point out that it's very cheesy, yes, well, you're right about reaching a certain age where you realize that it's something that's part of what they give you if you're a teenager and you have cramps and menstrual moments, well of course you are new to this so maybe you know you have a little wiggle room, yes once you become a grown woman you will understand that it will come out sometime during the month . and you're going to deal with it, but don't blame us and act like we don't know how to live our lives that deal with what God gives us, a good gift, silica face, you guys feel like that time of the month really gets.

You're depressed, well, I guess I'm still embarrassed just because you guys remember watching those educational PSA movies in school, yeah right, the old ones, yeah, some guilty type commercials. I'm one of those

girl

s who made those movies the way people hold the target. Sorry, white, yeah, so you know, when you sit in health class and you watch a really old movie and you like, oh my God, this is so boring that they're going to play on the VHS machine, yeah, they're going to play on the television. I was that. Girl, you guys, that was like one of my first ones, are you gonna have to do what you said?

I have to do everything I had to have, like the embarrassing conversation, you know, with my mom and be like mom. I think I started my period at its highest. the world knows, I was the lord and someone recognized me, hey, that's that period,

girl

, it was me, our real family, we are some of the best researchers and doctors, our real fans, I'm the genius, my own Instagram dragged me into this video, well, I guess. We always think about how this originated, okay in some societies and in some religions, you know, they consider a woman who is in her cycle to be impure, yes, and that's why they put certain things or you know ways of acting when a woman is on , so it's like everyone knows you because you're not supposed to sleep, touch or hug like purple letters, yes, but some people and some religions are modernizing it.

Also what happened at school, they were actually trying. I still have to teach, I think now they need to modernize it and teach that it is natural and that women should not be ostracized in terms of maturity when you are so immature and you are like 12 years old in class and there is someone talking about their period the People will laugh and do stupid things because they are immature, but let me remind everyone that there is a reason for a cycle if life really begins, that is the purpose of everything, if you don't understand it, then you know I'm about to begin, like most of the time, I'm going to have sex very quickly with very young girls who will be embarrassed and you have to understand when you understand, that's your sign, mainly a bet that you are becoming a woman and there is nothing wrong with that, my mom actually said when I got my period, I said congratulations, you're becoming a woman, it was very, very similar, congratulations, now I'm not pregnant, amazing face when I got my period, I literally liked it, I knew exactly where to go I know where my mother's hiding place was and I kept pushing.

I think sometimes two women use it as an excuse nowadays too because if you're in a relationship and you act a little weird, which I will do to you. you're our baby two days later it was being a mess it's like we have to stop like women yes we moan like yelling at a handler your pen that's already 30 years old even if all 15 arousal is important if you don't talk about this if you don't You know, give classes to everyone, mom, don't talk to them, everyone, dad, don't talk to them every time. I don't have mom and dad or someone you can have like I like, I had that me, look this way they do it right, under control, no, I'm legit, I'm still embarrassed to buy tampons and I'm sending my husband to do it.

They make Adam buy the tampons from him. I'm not a

shame

d anymore guys this is too TMI okay but I had a hard time learning how to use tampons because I wasn't sexually active aha while I was you know how to use them so it wasn't fun I'll tell you what, so she used sanitary pad, I use sanitary pads. I did it for a long, long time, it would hurt and then, you know, I read about yeah, wear the Pearl, this one is pretty. I didn't hand it in then. I had a baby. I had the hard cardboard ones that don't even the applicator knows which car remembers what I remember when we entered my arena.

You know, she told me how to do it first. We used to have a pass to add this gizmo with River and you'd have to hook. he put it on with that inside and the pants were like a bridge it was like the past that you have today was great and you have to do it and then it was covered you act like you were born before there is no oh home after having a baby No, he has a house where I leave it like a phone book and that thing goes from the belly button to the end, it's true, it's big underwear, which is a huge tray because you continue to bleed after having your baby, a lot of people don't.

I'm not telling you that, but look, I was right on the cusp of that. Genius, that was right, like editing the phone and having cars and it was like they hadn't invented the pass that just sticks. Oh my gosh, yeah, that's what they had, but really. because today's packaging is thank god she's small she's small but we had huge boxes wait okay if that's Lonnie's virgin yeah feeling old my version of feeling old today is remembering if you took or not the one you put. Siri, you can, you can become toxic, is it contrary? But I'm not the only person sitting there, he just pulls one out, unwraps it and waits a minute.

No, girl, that's what the rope is for, it can't hold there, yeah, but some people forget that. If you had known I remember this because it was my mother, my friend's mother, we thought she was losing weight and all this other kind of stuff, yeah, and we thought something was really wrong with her and she was getting sick, We're saying you could buy it. she was losing weight a lot she went to the doctor they looked for her there and it was an old temp that had been there for I don't know how long maybe T that's why I didn't do it you were real Wow I used the pads for a long time so have Be careful with that, be very careful, that's what you should go to your doctor because my friend had an IUD and she forgot that she had the IUD and they infused it and they had to go in and take it out.

So that's why women have to go to the DA, it's a reason for the doctor to get a checkup, so you can check it out, don't get too drunk, yeah, where you forget to fill up there and then have sex and then those things. get really weird, it's okay, I'm ashamed of the period: Best friend psychologist Barbara Greenberg recently wrote an article in US News and World Report describing a new trend sweeping schools across the country and that bans best friends, yes you guys this is real, many schools want to ban kids. of having best friends because they feel like children, if they lose that status later it could cause them emotional distress, like if you are no longer someone's best friend, which is why some schools also believe that children who say they have best friends exclude others children. in class and it makes them feel bad, so ladies, do you think this is a realistic policy or is it just very silly?

I think that's very silly. I think there is a difference between hugging and pampering your children, you pamper your child, they are going to become unsuccessful adults, they have to go through the bad to appreciate how good all of life is, your electric children experience life Right, the whole purpose of parenting, I mean, if I'm wrong, yes, is to prepare your children for the real world absolutely and if you continue to do that. I think this is so dumb on so many levels that you can't be as protective of your kids to protect them. They feel bad.

They should actually get used to it. There will be times in life when someone is going to do that. Yes, I remember my first breakup with my boyfriend and I remember crying on my mom's shoulder. You want to know her answer. How was she? Oh, I'm sorry, honey, but this is going to happen again. She keeps it real, but she kept going. it really prepared me and it happened again Darlene Darlene maybe I see that I'm more worried about cliques in schools ah because that's what I'm going to look for yeah and that's where it gets dangerous I don't care that you have friends and everything, but when you have certain cliques and you see a kid sitting there alone all the time and he has no friends, I'm more, I wish I hope schools consider that more than it's okay to be young to get older a recent post on the site girls of a certain age asked to women how honest they are with people about their age mm-hmm, so some people said they were proud of their age and one woman even said that she gathers so that people think she looks good for her age, Ha ha, that's clever.

Okay, another woman admitted that she just doesn't correct people if they think she's younger than she really is, so should women get older as a point of pride for a woman or is it something they should hide well? Have you tried it when it comes to certain finances? The problem is that there are certain industries that actually exclude women because of their age, especially in this industry in Hollywood corporate America, so you know I'm like that if you have to earn your bread and you have to put in some digits, put those in. digits because you have to do what you have to do, you know, there are people who know everything, I know that you can't get a job, which Glenny, society as a woman, has a kind of shelf life in Hollywood. one from the United States and the technology industries: yes, my father, he is in his 60s, but he is such a good engineer that he sometimes wonders if he should tell people his age because people will assume that a 70-year-old man will already be too old old to work at his company but he is more out of touch if you are right in marketing they want young modern people who are connected and socially savvy social media savvy love that's why I really love one of my who I admire when it comes to aging. women and she's my own mom, my because mom, she really she really lives a life where she learned she went through so much pain and stress in Vietnam that she learned today after expelling three children and raising them to be beautiful people who love and and we're In the family, she knows that she should be free of burdens and stress, and that's why she, you know, although people congratulate her for being young, she just, you know, she knows that heart, Asians know raisins, yeah, and she knows it.

We look young because we are happy and that's all and I think we can hide it. I think we can help make this not be such a big problem for women who are in certain positions and you know if it's the industry or whatever hiring women. no matter what women have to help women get out of their sister. Oh yeah, if you're a woman in power, hire an older woman. I even love that Covergirl did that, yes, Covergirl hired the woman she was 60 years old for. to be a model and I thought it was amazing, but it's so true that we can help each other and go against the stigma of oh, if you're old, you know you're done or whatever the case may be, yeah, that's right.

It's not true, I think the group of women ages gracefully, there is nothing sexier, it's real, I have the opposite effect, I think for so long I have looked so young, there are still people to this day who say: " "Oh my God, I'm so surprised I can." I don't think they have two children, guys, I'm almost 40 years old and you know, they are young, youthful-skinned ladies.