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GIRL CHAT VAULT: Charging a Cover for Attending a Child’s Party

GIRL CHAT VAULT: Charging a Cover for Attending a Child’s Party
so I have one question who is ready for some

girl

chat

okay yes it's almost the weekend y'all so is everybody excited so excited and I need of course you got a tradition Friday's here at the real are always fresh fun and festive that's right we don't celebrate plain old Friday oh hell no we celebrate Fri yeah okay today we are getting into the Valentine's Day spirit with a raspberry romance martini right it's a mix of muddled raspberries cranberry juice and vodka
girl chat vault charging a cover for attending a child s party
with a delicious mint cookie crumble you can't help but feel the love when you sip on this cocktail to learn how to make this mocktail or cocktail for your Valentine head over to the real calm can we say cheers before you sip Lonnie oh we're already drink yeah very good sorry Jeannie beautiful thank you speaking of a

party

one single mom recently decided that any kid coming to her twins fifth birthday

party

will have to pay a

cover

charge according to the Daily Mail rumor Ali invited 60
of her

child

ren's classmates to the

party

and plans to collect $10 per

child

at the door is the door charged now rumor reportedly assisted that all the money will go towards the

party

's expenses and that each kid will get a gift on the way out while many parents feel like it's the height of rudeness to charge per

child

other parents think it's a great idea and are considering doing the same so to marry you had two beautiful Lobos including a five year old would you charge at
Ayden's

party

okay if I am honest I went hard for my

child

ren's first birthday

party

it was really expensive it was so expensive that I told myself I am never ever ever doing that again until they are 16 years old there are ways you can have really cost-effective birthday parties you don't have to charge to go to a birthday

party

I think that that's unfair why am I gonna pay for something that you invited me to I think that it's true all you have to do is keep the

party

simple kids only care about cake ice cream games and their favorite friends and they're gonna have a blast I mean there's there's water balloon toss games there's potato sack what is a feasible is it more of a competition thing between parents well and that's the thing I believe it's up to you as a parent if you want to spend a lot of money you're gonna spend a lot of money and I think mom's they sometimes want to outdo the other moms that's a

party

really
isn't about the

child

itself I eat times where moms do the birthday

party

really for themselves that's what I'm saying like the color coordination the beautiful like centerpieces and stuff that the kids wouldn't even remember however I remember when I was growing up we didn't have a lot of money and I remember my mom having to ask me okay kong-kong means daughter in vietnamese who do you want to have there and she asked me and I would kind of go oh my god well you know I love
everybody I love Sam I love Frankie I love Ronald why do I love all guys but I had a lot of friends and then she would say you know pick your favorite five or your favorite eight kids and when I picked them you know it was it was just it was fine but then later on as my brothers came into the family we made more money and so they were allowed to have maybe like the whole class come and I realized that my mom had to budget and had to cut corners cuz we would go to Chuck E Cheese it she'd have
to give every kid a roll of cheeses great for their tokens yes but everything jape costs money and it depends it's relative right how much everything costs oh I don't think it's right to charge people to and be invited but I think there's ways to go around to even maybe asking to help as a potluck maybe all the parents to bring something if you know that prices is a problem you know and I think she did go all out she invited 60 kids to her parties but she has two kids she has
twins and they had different classrooms but you don't have to invite everybody not everybody is afraid they dry got their favorite an old man you guys I'm on the opposite side of this one okay I was like sounds fine to me as long as you give the parents a heads up that hey it's gonna cost $10 I think it's rude that if they arrive and then you're like I need $10 but it's to be a trip if you give somebody a heads up and you're like hey I don't have the money to pay
girl chat vault charging a cover for attending a child s party
for like the food the cake it's expensive if everybody can just pitch in for it's like going to a birthday dinner as an adult yeah and everybody pitches in and the birthday

girl

doesn't pay to me it feels the same the other thing is someone said like well does that make some people feel embarrassed because they're asking for money if they don't have money and my thing is why would you invite somebody to you or invite let your kids hang out with somebody that would make fun of
them or that is it like close enough by family where if you need it to help you could be like hey things are a little tight right now doing something for the kids but I like don't have money for the cake or the food to feed all the kids well I'm pitch in but then that's a lot of money yes six hundred dollars if all sixty kids come back I'm sorry you have a head

party

if you can't but this is my thing birthday parties are meant to be a celebration if you only got a friend that
you could talk to and say hey can you help me celebrate my kids

party

and just we invite whoever want to invite or you know save up a little and you know when your baby's

party

is about to come up so you know why don't you start saving beforehand instead of you know putting it on because just like she can't afford it you know ten dollars is a lot for a lot of people and what if you know that more than one mother has more than one yeah that's thirty forty bucks yeah maybe they
can't afford that yeah where does our went to a university she was a student so that's another thing my factor how am I swear to you guys this is the reason why I love the Internet and I love Pinterest you can actually have $50 birthday parties yes there are ways to do it kids don't need all all of that yeah all for me like what if she can't even afford the cake somebody kids oh there's an aunt or an uncle that knows how to bake I come from a Vietnamese family and my family
we found ways way to cut a pineapple real dope if you use those leaves put a candle in it and say happy Monday ya can do it but but you're right cakes today are expensive they start at 30 but if they're already wants like a specific cake what if he wants like that pants and he just doesn't want the pineapples that's what the Vietnamese do I loved wonder woman mama might cut Wonderwoman out of a piece of paper and stuck it on a toothpick in the final happy birthday sometimes we
didn't have birthdays sometimes we didn't have Christmas and it's a hard conversation but it's a serious conversation and if you're in that particular I'm sorry but explain that to your

child

ren and you know you try to save and try to you know you try to get the money but if that's the way you want to do it find but also remember that there may be somebody that just can't afford to pay ten that's the best of charge at a club that's this club charges ladies
night right did that growing up like I don't know if any of you guys ever had McDonald's birthday parties yeah so uh yeah a little

girl

had a McDonald's birthday

party

in my church growing up and I went to her birthday

party

and you had to pay for your own food at McDonald's that's kind of the same thing with the $10 no tip I think it was $10 happy meal it was me and I was like 99 cents back in the day I remember they had their the dollar menu yeah pay for your own food and
then she she had like a jet oh my gosh she had the trays and the trace out all the burgers stacked up on it yeah yeah it was cool all right so be real with your kids be real with your kids and that honest yeah it's like you ain't but that is a put in one verbally because when you real with your kids it builds character so if you say you know we can't invite everybody but maybe we can invite a few of your friends do you like what Tamara says go on Pinterest fine you know I say annika
girl chat vault charging a cover for attending a child s party
ways to have a good birthday charlie just cut a cake with your family we sing happy birthday kids to

charging

adults a reddit reader recently posted this question asking other users for advice he said I am buying a house and my

girl

friend is moving in with me should I charge her rent one user said quote if you are moving her into a house you are buying she should at least pay for utilities well ok however another woman disagreed saying quote I would never charge my husband or boyfriend rent I
think it's just common sense if you want to have a stress-free relationship so ladies do you think his boo should help pay the bills yeah I you guys are shouting yes and I agree with you but I think it depends and I'm gonna explain I think it depends if he purchased the home as an investment which a lot of people do they purchase homes as an investment and they actually have people rent rooms out so it helps them pay for the cost of the house if that was he was if that's what he was
intending on doing and now he is renting her one of the rooms in the house does that make sense Bhalla no you know like she's paying renter yeah like he's I was renting it I just feel correct wrong to me she's taking space where he could be making money yes yeah now that means everybody got to pay their part okay so you're saying guess she's sorry like yes I don't want miss guess so then she should now features what the house and he's living in it by himself then no I
do not think he should charge her for moving because the obviously person living with me and I paying stop you gonna pay you guys are in a relationship and you should help yeah but what she's not able right now I guess I'm just old school you guys if you play in house and you're doing things that married people are doing for me I'm sorry married people don't pay rent I guess that's just how my bed should he should she pay rent that's what I'm going off of
we're talking about buildings I think as an adult bills like light bills well when he says water bill charge her for living they're like put money towards the home I think he shouldn't charge her but I think a real woman or real mate who sees that this man is going or this person is going in and taking on the whole responsibility should speak up and say how can I help yeah contribute out of it and here's where I actually when I thought it when I'm thinking about this question
it brings me back to be very appreciative about the way my parents raised me because my mother and my father taught me that if I contribute then I have ownership to say something because I'm a part owner with you but if I'm just freeloading and I'm just sitting there I don't I'm not easy to take advantage of people like that does that make sense you want to be a part you want to feel like you have purpose in that be realistic you don't have to be married to live together
yeah a lot of people live together and when they decide to live together they do it because of financial reasons no no I guess the question would be if if she or he cuz most time is he decides you know I don't want to pay nothing do you say well you gotta you got a chip in on the rent that's it's just called chipping in and I think that that's fair but you have to have those conversations before and you you know yeah you guys help me help me understand this because I didn't
I didn't do this I got at the very old-school way I didn't live with my boyfriend before I I got married so this is the way I guess people are doing things now with this cool FICA do you boo you know I'm not telling everybody should you know do it like so in that sense if you guys break up okay because you're both not on ownership of no it's at home so it's his or her home or her home and what do you do which is what I did yeah you go let me say something you have to be
very careful when you have somebody move in with you because once they move in after a certain oh if it's over 30 days then you have to evict them if something should happen so theory it is very hard to get somebody to move out when feelings and emotions get in there and somebody's seen the movie the break-up it's with Vince Vaughn and Jennifer Aniston right you haven't seen it watch it it's gets very complicated right oh yeah it takes that it takes that mentality I mature
mentality to step up like for example my brother is actually living with me right now and he's getting his life together you know and so I'm not asking my younger brother to pay right and I'm not asking him to do much at all that's for him yeah it's my again in this case sometimes it's a necessity they need that yes but here's what I love and I respect him cuz you know you watch them still they see how much are you really gonna take advantage of the situation and he
chips in on every single thing he cooks every day for my family he helps around the house with everything we need he built he buys groceries for us he's always driving me different places so he's like this I got you on gas so there's ways to pitch in so it's not necessarily always just bang gas right so what you guys are saying is when you enter this kind of verbal agreement you you're not forcing the person to to pay rent you're just in a relationship where y'all
decide to move in y'all gonna already have that establishment I don't see nobody just saying no I ain't paying nothing another day I think this is just a jump off topic all right that's father white took it a literal yeah boyfriend before and we just split the rent 50/50 yeah getting an apartment together we went into it we said 50/50 even though I was the name on the lease it was my husband and I my husband and I young we have two homes I helped with one and he helps with the
same thing I'm saying we just think that something you gonna pay me one way or the other baby I heard that she recently participated there's something for a really great cause Tosa but I did okay recently I got the chance to be on this amazing game show called do or dare bit super cool basically I competed against my

girl

Mel B who's been on the show all right and guys we did these really crazy dares to win money for charity now over the course of the season the show has already
raised $500,000 yes and the fans can donate to yes you at home you can donate my goal was to help raise money to help were taco with their re

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