Emotional Intelligence: Using the Laws of Attraction | D. Ivan Young | TEDxLSCTomball

uh it's really good to be here and first I want to recognize these students because this isn't easy when you're a student, it's not even easy when you're a professional, so can we give these guys a hand? Thanks, I'm here. to tell you about two things that you would think just don't go together, those two things are

emotional

intelligence

and the

laws

of

attraction

. I was talking to Dr. Thomas the other day when I came to rehearsal and he said, well, doctor,

emotional

intelligence

is, isn't it about being aware and clear about your feelings and other people's feelings when you're in the middle of it? a series of circumstances or a situation with them?

I say yes, that is definitely a definition for that and a very precise way. definition for that, but the truth about emotional intelligence goes far beyond having clarity about people, it is clarity about situations, circumstances, why are you there when you stop and think? I am in this situation. I'm in the middle of something now. What's that? something and most likely something is a set of circumstances or a dilemma that you may even find that you attracted into your life and that is where the

laws

of

attraction

meet emotional intelligence such as the things that you hope will come to you , what we What I believe is that if we say some affirmations, if we take a moment and visualize something, make a vision board or something like that, that's what's going to happen, but it's not true, in fact, If I say right now, don't think about a chimpanzee wearing a red tie and a blue and white striped suit, whatever you do, can't you imagine this chimpanzee with this red bow tie and this blue striped suit, what are you still thinking about?

That's the same thing I told you not to think about because that's where you're putting more movement into your emotion and the more emotion you pour into something, the more of it you receive; In other words, you can say one thing and do another and, as we well know, many of us usually say all the right things, but do we do them if they don't believe me? Let's go to someone's house and look at all the dusty workout equipment. Let's look at all the diets they tried. Let's go to a gym and look at the people who signed up and don't come anymore because what?

What we have done is we have taken the laws of attraction and misapplied them. We don't take the things we feel we deserve seriously enough to manifest in our lives and how can you stop that simple control of what you feel? what you constantly think about is exactly what you get if you keep thinking it's my luck it's never me everyone has it but I'll never have it I'll never live in that house you know it's for them whoever they or those people are when you constantly think about how much bills cost, what do you end up with more dismissal notes, more bills when you constantly think about I don't want to gain more weight or I don't need to lose? uh, you know, I lose some of these bad habits that I have.

I want to stop smoking. I'm not going to smoke. What do you do when the pressure hits? You go get a cigarette and smoke again. You get frustrated and eat again. As you continue to do these things, your thoughts and feelings are equal to the manifestations you get in your life. Here you have the million dollar solution for that first control of what you think about your mind and you know that there are many theories around this concept, but I am going to tell you that everything that is seen comes from what was not seen, that chair you are sitting in with the clothes you are wearing now with someone else's.

I did it once, someone thought I don't know it a long time ago. guys should wear ties, you know, somehow we thought riding a horse wasn't enough, maybe if I can build this contraption, I could fly like a bird, everything we do started in the Unseen and someone calls those things that don't they are. as if they are and have manifested them, but here is the trick for you and the solution, you must understand that conscious thought is not your solution. Conscious thought generally reacts to a set of circumstances, generally paying attention to what is before you, that subconscious. thinking you'll associate that with things like have you ever driven home from work and you don't even remember driving home because you had something on your mind or you automatically get in the car and just check for something without even paying attention to what's happening. you are doing, your subconscious mind is the part of you that drives results in your life as you learn to master sensitivity to circumstances, paying special attention to the core things, as we call them the little things, if you stop worrying about what happened. in the past and feeling guilty or anxious about what may or may not happen in the future and operating in this moment, you will train your subconscious mind to start manifesting the things you really want and a short way to express this is everything in your life It happens for a reason, your responsibility is to look at these things in your life and ask this question: why now why is this person getting on my nerves?

Well, they are probably getting on your nerves because there is a part of your character that is being reflected back to them on what you need to work on, we get frustrated, we get angry and we are almost just baffled by what we don't understand. You have to be willing to take time in every moment of every situation in your life and examine it for its meaning. meaning you have to examine it for its purpose, you have to examine it to see what this is supposed to teach me right now in my practice, something that I constantly tell people I talk to at conferences like this or even in my office . is to stop being so reactive and become proactive don't wait to really talk listen don't just see things look at them you know when you hear something you are perceiving it at the expense of all the white noise of rubble that surrounds it when you look at something you are deliberately ignoring things that otherwise they could distract you.

It takes effort to be successful, but the greatest effort is mastering how you use your mind as we evolve, and I'm not getting into the religious stuff. so there won't be any offer you don't have to panic but we come from somewhere that we received from a higher source and we conceived when our parents decided to confirm that but I think before we got here we made a decision why we would come and We came to experience the contrast and challenge that everyday life presents us. Seeing your creator, of whom you are a co-participant in that creation, is smarter than you think.

In fact, you can find out exactly what everything in your life means. ask a question, a word, why and it's okay, you know, even when dating women it's good to look at a guy and say, well, why are you here? What are you supposed to teach me and without thinking I'll probably tell you the truth? The same is true about the things you're trying to court in your daily life in your career, ask yourself why am I doing this, what motivates me to do this, why do I feel the way I feel about what I'm doing and you know what? you don't have to wait for an answer, you can get an answer if you close everything, go into a quiet space and just meditate, and I don't mean the lotus position, what I mean is taking. the moment of being silent, of being still, of allowing your circumstances to speak to you in such a way that it resonates at your core, remember, I said emotion, it's like that guerrilla counter when you look around for a metal object and the more You get further away, the further the church gets, but the closer you get, the closer those screeching gets and the way you can compare that to your spirit speaking to you, the better you feel about it, the more you should do it and if it doesn't make sense to anyone, but it is better that you accept the facts, but never confuse the facts with the truth.

Seek the greater truth. You know, anything that someone has done that required more, caused that individual to confront themselves, confront their fears, confront other people, confront the culture and have to make a decision, you know what you said, I can't, the system says I can't, but something inside me says I can and when you seek the greater truth, you come into direct contact. alignment for that very moment, that same reason, that purpose that makes your emotional intelligence and the laws of attraction become one, as they become one, you will find this sense of passion resonating ca

using

and stirring something within you as you that passion stirs inside you.

The purpose and then begging just arises. You know this thing exists. If you ever watch a football game, you don't see the guy sitting there waiting for the ball to come and you don't see the quarterback throw it behind the field of gu just as he hits the ball and that receiver throws it out that ball is in the Sometimes you have to run with faith, you have to run without seeing the result, but simply knowing that there will be the result you want and how you feel it, how you believe you will do it. receive because at the end of the day what you are looking for ladies and gentlemen what you want what you long for is also sought have a great day