What's It Like To Be Intersex? | Minutes With | UNILAD

out of common courtesy, I would explain things all the time anyway, like I would immediately say, like hey, you know I have um, you know, like you know I have a small, you know, small dick or I would say oh. Do you know that I have or when you were born did your parents know that you were

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? It's kind of hard to know if your

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is normally um at birth, unless you have like your ambiguous genitals are so ambiguous that you obviously realize that you know. the person's hermaphrodite rod is intersex, yes when I was born I had a big clitoris but there was no immediate concern or anything like that so I had a vagina and great respect of course yes you were ready like then when you were a child , Yeah.

I was raised as a girl, when did you notice there was a difference between you and the other girls? I thought I looked like a girl, but you know, according to my entire school and everyone who has known me in the last 25 years, I look like a boy. There was nothing about me that screaming girl other than the fact that she had a hole in her vagina. . I had never liked dating any of the girls he had. He had never liked interacting with them. He had never related me to them. I always had a very hoarse voice.

He had no chest. It was as if it were. I was on soccer teams. I was on basketball teams. I was doing the best in all my sports. Does it feel strange to be different from other girls? Yeah, it was just a constant comment I knew when PE was going to come up or something like that, something that involved sports activities or anything that had to do with gym class, I knew you know the girls were going to start, you know they didn't know. It allowed me to change with them. in her locker room or anything because even though I say clitoris, I mean it in general terms, my clit is basically like a very small cock, I can swear that yes, yes, so it's like it's a very small cock, it still has erections. um, he still has it, it's very veiny and uh, yeah, I love it, so um, yeah, but obviously that was the conflict of interest all along, it was where to change, who to change to, we used to change next door, like was that constant. like a battle like a double edged sword 24 7.

People's parents would come up to me asking me like they were in shock, they would just say there's no way you're a girl, you're a boy, um you know, they asked me To do it. I lifted my shirt up a lot and obviously had a very masculine chest. People didn't believe me. You know, these are adults who would do this too and because of the way I am, I didn't see it as offensive. I just saw them as stupid because if I told you I'm one thing and you tell me I'm not something else and you're like 30 35 like that, that makes you look stupid, no offense, I think you're like a fan, but if not, sometimes I feel like you know maybe they're right, that I'm a girl, that maybe this whole girl thing isn't for me and I think they would say once or twice where I Maybe I'd be mad that they were asking these questions because there were some moments. difficult like in every lesson, every lesson in school, constant questions, constant questions, I could never concentrate on my lessons, I think.

I failed some general exams just because of all the questions they asked me. I was having very, very, very bad abdominal pains and I thought it might have been stones. I don't know

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it could have been, so I went to the Mosby when they did the ultrasound well, I had to wait for the ultrasound to go to my GP, then I finally had the ultrasound and then, yeah, when they did the ultrasound, They saw the testicles that were placed on either side of where you would think the ovaries would be, I guess, just to break them down, so you had inverted testicles in your body, yeah, you had ovaries too, yeah, and ovaries in the body too, yeah, so at this point you have everything.

I had everything. I had everything I had I had the masculine and the feminine of that whole moment when they do the scan How did you feel like it all made sense? I felt like everything made sense. It felt like the end of the day. I had a hunch, I already knew, uh, my need to want to be a boy, but then wanting to be a girl didn't even make sense to me, I just wanted for a minute to literally just put on, you know, something nice. like a girl and the next minute I put on something really cute like a boy because I could do both, trust me, I was a beautiful girl, but obviously, I don't know, I feel like I have a lot more respect for being a man than I do.

I did it as a girl, so I thought, well, it could be Amanda, so a lot of my decision was influenced, which is sad to say by other people's opinions, but it was also something I knew I wanted because I knew that yes I would have stayed as a woman, I would have always been full of art,

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life would have been like as a man if I had stayed as a man, what I am now. I often, sometimes, sometimes think, oh, what life would have been like as a woman. You have an argument. with your parents and then about how your parents felt, um, you know my mom and my dad, especially my mom, okay, dad, you too, I know you've done everything you can to be able to understand how you are, how are you.

I know we are going to live as a family. Do you know what happens if I change my mind? But my mom has always been there. You know, she came with me to all my appointments. To my endocrinology appointment. She came with me to all therapy appointments. four and she came with me to them and you know we celebrated it after every time, you know this was like the version of her of her son of her going through puberty and knowing that this is really natural and this is normal. something that we couldn't have helped and you know she's been very supportive so yeah, I'm very grateful for that, you know, my brother and my sister, they don't know anything, when they find out, it will be because of this video. because obviously I've told him over and over again, but I don't think I've explained it to him the way that it's hard to explain to your brother and sister that you were born a certain way that they weren't.

You don't even know, I mean, they don't know anything about when you wrestled as a kid, around 13. These are pretty formative ages. How was it treated? Did you have to like explaining things before sexual interactions? Yes, out of common courtesy. Anyway, I would explain things all the time, like I would immediately say, like hey, you know I have, you know, I have a small, you know, a small cock, or I would say, oh, you know, I have. a o I think you know because I am intersex I feel like men have the aura of a woman, although you can clearly see that I am a man, they get the aura of a woman, so they might get confused thinking why I like him why I start to like him like this person why am I starting to like him my emotions are changing even though they are straight and the same thing happened to women too they say oh so why am I like this is when I used to identify myself as just wherever I went as one of those things where and I realized it was because I don't think they actually fully understood that I'm a boy and a girl, so if a boy fell in love with me, then I guess I'd be straight and if a girl fell in love with me , I guess it would be straight, bisexual or son, I don't know, I don't know.

I don't really research your thing, sex is different with different genders definitely sex is definitely uh different with different genders um so with men it would be more um less passionate it would be uh let's have sex when we leave. being at the door um and then with women was more romantic, you know, I would be the guy, you know what I'm saying, I'm leaving it out, I would be I think I prefer sex with women, but the feeling with men. when I had a vagina tour it was nice, I'm not going to lie, it was very nice, but women give you something that men just don't give, I don't think, when you were 15, you wanted to do it.

Live like a man, so what has to happen? So they held me up and it makes your face more um, I went from a size seven to a size ten and a half and of course it obviously gives you more bonus, you get an erection like every morning, like a normal guy would, of all Anyway, you get really hairy like everywhere until then, your face gets really hairy. I loved it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, every second I was like, oh, it was the best. moments of my life actually I'm not even going to lie the best moments of my life I look amazing and I maintained my I maintained my I went to the gym every day I was actually using testosterone to build what I think should have been built like you know what do I mean? maybe a while ago, you know what I'm saying?

So it was a thing where I was just using the testosterone as best I could to my advantage. um, you know, I had more stamina. I was horny. every day, so it was beautiful to feel those feelings. It was really nice, can you tell us what surgery entails when you are intersex? So phalloplasty and metardioplasty, so we'll start with metoidioplasty, metodioplasty is basically when uh They release the clitoris, so instead of keeping the free space held up by the ligaments that they cut, they cut the ligaments and free up the free space, which then gives you something like what I have right now, like the baby penis. and then they close the vagina, what they do next is create the urethral lengthening so that the urethra can pass through the very small hole in the small penis, so the second surgery is the phalloplasty, so with the phalloplasty it is a way more invasive surgery that requires a lot more of your time, your life, your energy, your mental health, but they basically cut the skin off the forearm, they also take an artery from the forearm and take a little bit of fat and all that.

Obviously, the penis may have a bit of fragmentation. I have metroidioplasty and phantoplasty. I wanted two cocks, first of all, let's get this straight. Second, I waited to make sure I could fuck both at the same time because what guy wouldn't want to have two cocks? What phrase were you happy you did? I'm happy I did it now and I'm also looking forward to you finishing the rest once I get my erectile device, I'm going to get one where you can squeeze the balls and then it goes up like a natural erection. I can't wait, squeezing the ball makes me feel a little sick, yes, but that's the only way it gets. difficult if there is something people can learn from this video about being intersex, what do you want it to be?

I feel like an alien 24/7, even right now sitting here I feel like an alien because I'm talking about something I didn't ask for, do you understand what I'm saying? I would have loved to be a naturally beautiful woman with, you know, a husband and a few kids that drive me crazy and a big house and all that kind of stuff. Or I would have preferred to have been a normal man with, you know, a normal penis and functional, a wife and some children who also drive me crazy, but that's what I would have wanted. I didn't want so much confusion because the confusion is immense, what else can we do to facilitate someone's growth and sex?

I think, to be extremely honest, I just don't mention it most of the time, but that will never happen, people will never stop mentioning it. but when someone finds out that you're intersex, they never keep quiet about it or if they're going to tell their friend, of course, they're going to tell their friend because it's something different and when, when something is different. obviously you know people want everyone to know you know I'm saying that oh hi here's my regent intersex friend and then the next thing you know the whole house party or rave or some big event I'm at everyone you know, yeah, just Don't make a big deal of it because basically intersex people always think of genitals right away, well, first of all, they're confused and then when you explain to them what it means, they go straight to all these genitals.

Yeah, I'm not going to ask you this about your penis or your vagina unless I want to have sex with you, so why are you asking to see my penis because of trans men and trans women and stuff like that? Intersexuality becomes like this. I just got inducted and that's why I make videos like this because I want to make intersex something people think about when they think about trans. I think of any of the lgbtqia. I want you to think about eyes and insects. I was sitting in my parents' living room and it was like I didn't know midnight, one in the morning.

I actually opened the website again and in the first half hour of being up we sold 30,000 pounds of product, so to go from 300 pounds a day to 30,000 pounds in half an hour, all the good stuff sold out, was absolutely mind-blowing. .