What Nobody Tells You About Your Twenties | Livi Redden | TEDxBayonne

For each of us, our foundation becomes more stable as our communication skills improve to stop leaks in our bathroom. As we learn to trust people again, our air conditioning starts working again as we learn to regulate emotions better. Pillar number 3 is action. A few years ago, I convinced my mother to jump off a plane with me in New Zealand. She asked me if she had checked the safety record of this company we were jumping with and I told her yes. I didnot do that. While we were sitting in the parking lot, I started looking up reviews and topics, and it turned out that her plane had crashed just a month before, but no one had died.

So I thought maybe we'd be okay. So, like a wonderful daughter, I told my mother it was very safe and we went inside. Considering I'm here today and she's in the audience, we live, that's good. But the interesting thing about skydiving is that you don't feel at all

what

you expect. The world has always made it seem so scary and chaotic, but it's not that scary or chaotic. You're falling too fast for

your

mind to realize

what

's happening, and before you know it, you're floating slowly and enjoying the view. Skydiving is more peaceful than anything else.

I began to realize that making bold decisions in our lives is very similar to skydiving. The people in our lives who have never jumped, who have never skydived, are often the ones who give it the reputation of being scary and very messy. This is also what happens when bold decisions are made. People who never did it or didn't believe they could really do it. These are usually the people who make us feel afraid or contribute to our feeling of fear. Quit a job you hate or go back to

your

parents. Ending a relationship knowing it doesn't serve you is scary.

It's really scary. But if it's right and there's a way to make it work, it will bring you a lot of peace from the chaos. It will bring you much peace from chaos. It will allow you to live more harmoniously. That is why it will bring you this essential essence of peace. The courage to jump when you know your inner self is urging you to do so. This is the art of the third pillar, action. Renunciation of existence and learning. The concepts I teach are not entirely unique; However, when I share them with young adults, they get life-changing results.

When I share these simple mental and emotional skills, I receive feedback, direct messages, and messages like this: << I'm 18 years old and my little sister and I live in a small apartment. Your videos have helped me relieve a lot of stress. <twenties don't have to be confusing or miserable.