We're Getting Married

Hello friends! And welcome to another video. Today I will take over the channel and hope to commit. I guess we'll all know in a few minutes...for now, I still don't know. So, as you may or may not know, Safiya and I have been dating for over 4 years. and since then we have done many things. We've seen each other through career changes, we've traveled the world together, we've adopted and cared for a dumpster cat together. Hey buddy. And for the last few years, we've worked together practically non-stop on this channel. So we spent a lot of time together.

When I say 4 years, I literally mean 4 years. And since we are always together, it will be very difficult to surprise her. So I'll have to film this video in parts, probably while she does yoga. That's the only activity she does that I don't like to do. It's really hot. Now I think that from the beginning I always felt that we were going to be together forever, as if we were already

married

. Saf: Oh my God, leave me alone. Tyler: I'm bitter. And although we've been talking about

getting

married

for a while, I guess the only reason we haven't done it yet is because we started dating when we were kind of young, but now we're less young, so it seems. like a good time. and I don't know, I really want to marry her.

Then I'm going to ask. Full disclosure, I'm a little nervous, but I don't plan on using something like a jumbotron, so I think I'll be fine. But as to how I'm going to propose it, we'll get to that in a second. For the first step of this plan, I needed a ring. So, as you may also know, Safiya thinks she's a bat. I know, this is the woman I will marry, or at least try to marry. But with that in mind, I thought it would be cool to get a black engagement ring that matched her entire theme.

She'll presumably wear it a lot, she'll wear a lot of black, it'll be good! After some research, these really black diamonds are treated to get this black. But there are these natural black diamonds that look more like a smoky gray that I think are pretty stunning. So I scoured a few jewelry stores in Los Angeles, as well as many online stores looking for natural black diamonds, and after finding several pretty good options, some with extra diamonds around them, some with little skirts, I finally found one that I really liked. , and I asked for it. Here it is.

Safiya doesn't know we have this right now. I've been hiding this in a random mailbox for the past few days. And the delivery guy came when we were working, so I had to interpret this as a box from Urban Outfitters. I'm not sure Safiya bought it, but we ordered a lot of things from Urban Outfitters. Tyler: Oh yeah. - Oh that's amazing. Well. So here it is. I think she definitely captures that bat vibe that she wanted, although it leans like the Eye of Sauron, which wasn't intentional, but was welcome. Yes, that's amazing. This is exactly what I wanted.

Let's see if it fits me well. I have chubby fingers. Okay, so it's like... on my knuckle. I could use it. I think it looks great and I think she'll love it. Now let's move on to how I will do it. Down and... away. Well, that's a good click. Once again... good noise. Well, like I said, it will be a little difficult to do this as a surprise since we are together so much earlier. But I think I have an idea. Now, a lot of times, maybe once a month, Saf and I go to Disneyland. Usually at night after all day editing or uploading a video.

So I was thinking, I could offer her the idea of ​​going to Disneyland tonight and while we're there, I could propose to her. And Disneyland is actually a great place because in addition to going there a lot, it's also the location of our first "date." More like the "unofficial before we dated" date. It's actually kind of a point of contention because Safiya complains that I didn't "make a move" on said non-real date. -There were many opportunities and he didn't take advantage of them and then, when he dropped me off at home, he was waiting for him to lean in to kiss me and he didn't, and I felt a little offended. - I was seeing it as a transition date.

How to go from friendship to courtship. But since then it has become our favorite date spot. And we often film there in ugly clothes. So, inside Disneyland, our key destination is Snow White's Wishing Well. The one we go to, throw coins in, make a wish, etc., etc., every time we visit. We came here the first time we had our first "date", but also Saf, you always come here, right? - So I'm thinking that's the place of money. Now the next question is: I think it would be fun to film it and share it with you. So we have to take a camera there and someone else to film what happens from afar.

Unfortunately, we are not currently filming something that would justify me, like taking a camera there. And definitely not someone else. So if he did any of those things, it would be a pretty big reveal. So I'm going to have our editors Emily, who you saw throw a rock earlier, and Claire, who also appears in that video for a brief moment, take one of our cameras to Disneyland in front of us and wait strategically by the well. so they can jump at the right time. Alright, see you in a few hours? Alright, that's the plan. I guess Saf will probably be home soon, I don't have a watch.

So I'm going to hide this ring again. I think we'll work a few more hours and then see if Safiya wants to go to Disneyland. She usually does it. So I guess this will probably happen tonight. What do you think? Pretty good, right? Would you say yes, Crust? Ah, come on, you would say yes. Bring it around town! He thinks it's a snack. Okay, so this is happening. We're going to Disney. I'm pretty sure Claire and Emily are down there waiting for us. I'll text them in a second. But this is not a drill. This is happening, so...

I'm very excited. Emily: Okay, so we're here at Disney... Are we going to the secret hideout? - Secret filming location? - Secret filming location. - Yes, that sounds less doubtful. - Well, we just arrived at Disneyland. Safiya is in the bathroom. We have to head in the direction of the castle and the well so we can synchronize with Emily and Claire. And I texted Emily, told her I was nervous. I'm a little bit nervous. I have to be careful not to telegraph anything to Safiya. I almost told her on the tram that she was nervous, which would have been obvious.

But I did not. And I don't think she suspects anything, so we'll find out pretty soon if it was a good idea or not. Fingers crossed. Hello, Saf. - Yeah? - Do you want to close your eyes and do a cartwheel? Okay, you go first. Hello, Safiya. That's why we always talk about Team Tysaf and Team Safty. And they are always in this together forever. But I just wanted to see, do you want to... make it official? Will you marry me? You're crying? Do you like it? I have it, it's like smoky and dark. Left hand, okay.

I have to get used to these things. Yeah? That's pretty good! (Safiya sobs happily) - No, he still looks pretty good. - Well. - The security guy totally saw the ring so I had to hide it from him. Hi guys. Here, high five. Did we get it, do you think? - I feel very strange. - Okay, so Saf said yes. - I did. - There. - Yes. - On the finger. - Did you like the quick hand? - That was pretty good, yeah. I put it there. - Congratulations. - Thank you. (Both laugh) Well, were you surprised? - I can't say that I didn't suspect ANYTHING. - Good.

Fair: in all the days and weeks prior to it. - I'm not so discreet. (Both laugh) - But I will say that I was definitely overwhelmed with emotion. - You cried. - I cried a lot. - Quite a bit, yes. - I didn't expect to be so crybaby. - Yes, it wasn't a lot of crying. I think it was the right amount of crying. - We cut the crying a little. - We did it, we had to do it. - There was some squawking. But I, like at the time, they were cute. - This is normal? - I have no idea.

It's a good cry though, right? It's a good cry. Did you like my speech? I was rehearsing that in my head, I was thinking... That's why I wasn't talking on the way here. I was nervous. My original plan was to end the speech with: "Would you marry this idiot?" I do not know why. On the tram I thought, "Oh, I got the best finishing line." But then you were crying and I forgot to tell you. I wanted to say, "Are we

getting

married?" - I mean, I think I would have said yes even if you had said, "Would you marry this idiot?" - Oh, that could have reversed it. - Oh, no, no, no. - You would have said: "Let me think for a second." - I might have had to go around the well and come back. - Well.

Let's think about it. Alright then... Here's the big question. Well, I mean, it's another question. - This is the big question? - This is a video full of great questions. Did you like the ring? Do you like the ring? - I love it. -Yeah? - I think it's fantastic. - Do you want to give me a high five for choosing the ring? There you go! To anyone in the comments: you like the ring! - It looks like the Eye of Sauron, which I really like. But it also looks like... the dark gray version of Elle Woods' engagement ring, seen in Legally Blonde 2.

I'm just worried about losing it. - I'm very worried that you're going to lose control. - Yes, just because I feel like I don't usually wear a lot of jewelry. And I feel like I could easily quit and then... 10 minutes later, be like... BAAAAAAH! So I'll have to be VERY careful. I also like that after the proposal, you tried to film me and the ring in various locations for no reason. - I'm trying to take a photo of you and... The background, it's great. I don't know, maybe show the ring? Yesssss! Bright! It was an action shot!

I'm already evolving into the dad of the video camera. I was like, "Let me film it! It's on your finger! Let me film it!" - That's Tyler's final form. - Yes, that is yet to come. Because all that footage (we saw it) is completely unusable. - I think I sort of sealed my own fate there when... I initially gave you the camera. - Oh. I thought you were going to say you sealed your face when you said yes. - Oh! That seems fine to me. - So, that's our announcement. - Yeah! We haven't set a date or anything yet, we've more or less talked about it.

I think we're shooting for the end of next year. And we'll probably do a couple of videos about it. - Good. - We will not necessarily become a wedding channel. - No. - And by "necessarily" I mean we're not going to do it. But we are going to make some videos as the content appears. I also wanted to slide this in here. We film a lot of our videos out of order, so if you see me without my ring, it's probably just because we filmed it before this. - Yes. - Although I also have an irrational fear of dropping this into a steaming vat of lipsticks.

Therefore, I may not choose to use my ring in strategic videos in the future either. So if you don't see me wearing it... no big deal. Is it okay if I don't use it? - Yeah! I don't want you to lose it in a tub of lipstick! - Well! So... I think that's it. - Yes. - Tyler has abdicated all responsibility. - I'm just removing this output. - He says: "I did my thing and now I'm going to relax." Thank you all so much for watching. If you liked that video... Should we ask them to mash the like button?

I feel like that might be a little cheeky. - Hey, that would be nice! Why not? How far away! I don't know! - And if you want to see more videos, not necessarily like this one, be sure to hit the subscribe button. - You can only do it once. - Ideally. - Yes. Very good, well... we are already engaged! That was Tyler's acquisition. And I guess we'll see you next time! - Yeah. Okay, I'm sorry- (stutter) I'm excited to film! - Okay okay. I'm not going to. I'm like dad at home videotaping it right now. - I say... "smile!" - You said yes!