You Probably Know A Narcissist (here’s how to spot them)

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are people in this world who seek to take advantage of others, whether they are classified as

narcissist

s, compulsive sociopaths, or pathological liars, they operate differently than most people you will encounter, making

them

even more dangerous because they do not stand out. in an obvious way. So in this video you will learn how to

spot

some of those types and we will take Elizabeth Holmes as our main example. She was able to raise almost a billion dollars for her company Theranos, which promised to perform full blood scans. drawing just a few drops of blood from her finger, this of course would have been a revolution in the medical industry if it were real, behind the scenes Elizabeth and her boyfriend Sonny were hiding the fact that these tests did not and never did work , they deceived investors. and more than a million people who took Thera nasal tests expected accurate readings, which of course was impossible now.

Unfortunately, Elizabeth Holmes is not entirely unique: the NIH reports 6.2 percent of Americans. He has a

narcissist

ic personality disorder and dr. Paul Ekman says that no more than five percent of people are pathological liars, which is potentially 1 in 20 people, so in this video we are going to explore how you can

spot

these dangerous personalities before they are taken advantage of, as they

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you will do it. You encounter a few of

them

in your life and I'm not trying to label them exactly, but they often exhibit behaviors that are consistent with narcissistic personality disorder, so a big motivator for these types of personalities in the first place is that the world sees them in a way that strokes their ego, they are highly motivated to maintain the personality they have built, so be on the lookout for people who focus intensely on their image, for example, Elizabeth Holmes wanted to be the female Steve Jobs, for example. what wore black turtlenecks and copied his live demonstration slowly.

She revealed the product and hired a group of former Apple employees at the start of her company. Now, of course, many people have idols that they emulate, but a major sign that you are dealing with a dangerous personality is that in an attempt to maintain their personality, they lie about seemingly ridiculous things, perhaps tell fantastic stories about their own. life that never happened, like the fire festival co-founder who insisted he had bought an island owned by Pablo Escobar when in reality they were kicked off it. that island by the real owner for even mentioning the name other than Pablo in the promotional materials now in Elizabeth's case a ridiculous lie that she told all the time was about her voice listen to the baritone that affected almost all the time this is what It happens when you work to change things and first they think you're crazy, then they fight you, and then all of a sudden you change the world and that clip is from the beginning of the interview, she's poised and prepared, but as the employees later reported, the baritone sometimes slipped. at the end of a long day, you leave her talking in a voice that sounds pretty typical of a young woman and you can see the same thing happen briefly in that same interview, once the questions get more difficult, then they fight with you and suddenly you change.

I talked about it in an interview I did with Forbes and that we made the decision to expand our testing menu since t

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is no real victim. This type of lying to promote a particular image may seem outlandish and forgivable, but it is very distrustful of these four, it may be signs of a deeper need to control how people see them and that is a textbook narcissistic trait and These people are often very disconnected from the feelings of guilt or shame that would deter other people from this fraudulent and harmful behavior. These types also tend to have a very different relationship with lying in general, most people have limits on how blatantly we are willing to lie, we prefer to bend the truth and the more egregious our lives become, the less visibly uncomfortable we feel. with the narcissistic type they can make out blatantly fossilized bolds without missing a beat listen, for example, how Thera

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s, they demonstrated some of their fake tests, they would organize these demonstrations, they would prick the fingers of visiting VIPs, they would put the blood in the slot of the cartridge, they would groove the cartridge. to the mini lab, you

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it's starting to worry and then they would tell you it's going to take a little time, why don't you come and visit the lab?

Then the VIP would leave the room, then a thorough employee would stop the machine and take the blood and take it to the lab and that small blood sample would be analyzed in the back by one of their lab technicians or on one of the Siemens machines. . These demonstrations occurred repeatedly with extremely smart people, including a former Secretary of State and Silicon. Valley investors whose job it is to be skeptical, but none of them caught on with Elizabeth, most likely because she doesn't show the same nervousness about lying as most people, so don't assume that a calm demeanor means someone is telling you. the truth. especially if they are this narcissistic type, if this person is, for example, or even deeper on that spectrum of psychopathy, studies involving fMRI scans show that they may not even spend any more time processing in life because their Brains do not need to suppress the truth even to focus attention or control body language.

All of this happens naturally to them. It is as if they are inventing a world in their head without any effort and this is how many people allow themselves to be fooled by compulsive and pathological liars. that lying must stress others out, they take people out because it stresses them out and it doesn't make sense that someone could lie so comfortably, so they assume that comfortable behavior means the liar is telling the truth. A much better heuristic for detecting pathological lies is the 10,000 foot view and this means rather than observing an individual's body language or even listening to their explanations, of which there will be many, you summarize their statements at a very high level and then you let your intuition tell you if that makes sense in the case of Elizabeth Holmes, that's exactly how The reporter who solved her case was first inspired to delve into her story and that story, something that seemed strange to me was the notion that a 19-year-old college dropout with only two semesters of Chemical Engineering under her belt had dropped out of college. and he pioneered new and innovative science, you know that's something that's possible in the realm of computers and computer software, obviously with Mark Zuckerberg, Bill Gates has done it, but in medical science you need formal training. and it takes years and decades of research to add. value, this is an important point, it seems that psychopaths, sociopaths, whatever you call them, and I'm not saying that Elizabeth Holmes falls into this particular category, but whatever this category of compulsive lying is, these people find it easier to fool our brain than our instinct. reactions and it is partly because they have an explanation for everything.

Here is an example. My grandfather was going to get a fair nose test and he had a needle in his arm. You know, it's like that. I thought it was a single drop of blood and there. There would be some excuse you know about why they needed to do a vein draw, but you know that for everyone else it's a prick in the finger and you continue to believe it. Another thing you tend to notice about this type is that they often don't. Give up the lie When most of us are caught red-handed, we slump our shoulders in defeat, all that's left to do is feel ashamed, say we're sorry, and hopefully be forgiven, but this type of person who compulsively lies will continue even when the cat is out of the bag Billy McFarlane of the fire festival and for me, for example, he pulled a second scam while out on bail.

He offered his email list for the fire festival, Grammy tickets to meet and greet celebrities like LeBron James of course that he didn't have access to if they would just send him some money. Now listen to what Elizabeth Holmes told investors just a month before Theron oh closed its doors after the government barred her from holding a position as an official at a public company. The SEC, in a letter to shareholders that day, basically explained that the company would likely be liquidated by the end of July. Wow, but the interesting thing is that she is telling people that she is going to start a new company, oh my God, that is so unhinged, that is true, even after being convicted of securities fraud and having criminal charges earrings.

Elizabeth kept the idea that she would soon be running a company and again this serves to illustrate that this guy has a very different relationship with the truth. The image has priority over the external one. In reality and it seems to happen effortlessly eventually, in the event that you raise your issues with this person, they will most likely dismiss you and despise you in one of two ways: They will usually label you as an enemy and eliminate you like Elizabeth Holmes and her boyfriend did so when their subordinates raised issues. He received this email from Sunny Bhiwani.

That reckless comment based on absolute ignorance is very insulting to me, but if anyone else had made these statements, we would have held them accountable in the strongest possible way, the only reason. I have taken so much time away from work to address this personally because you are mr. Grandson of Schultz, the only email on this topic I want to receive from you in the future is an apology or, if more powerful, they will worry Aswany by appealing to some kind of conspiracy against their homes, for example, he said that no one could see the technology in their faces, for this reason, the only way we would get answers to our questions was if we signed confidentiality agreements because Thera knows the patented technology, these trade secrets were so valuable that Quest and LabCorp, the two dominant players in laboratory industry, We are trying to find answers to these questions by any means possible, so when you start hearing an ultimatum with us or against us or you hear about how secrecy is necessary for reasons that could make for a good plot in a John Grisham novel, put yourself on red alert.

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