Utah Mormons Parents Fight Over "No Provocative Dress Code" Rule | World's Strictest Parents

Teen mom always takes care of number one. I just want to come in because you can make a spectacle of yourself and not really pay attention to saying, give me the bottle. I'll make a more fun one. I don't care what other people think. I'm one night Mitch goes out and gets drunk she smokes and I'm terrified that you'll get drunk like that one night she won't know what she's doing she's a girl whales out there Hanna is raising 9-month-old Tanisha alone after separating from her father. Being a single mother hasn't changed her self indulgent behavior yes her life is I'm 17 I'm still a kid I still want to go out and beat up Warren but don't think selfish I'll leave Baby two nights a week that's how lucky people are , face like that, honey, people fall down the stairs and everything you can't get up, she's just wild, she's a wild giant, basically, she lives how she wants to live.

Hannah lives completely. her about the benefits, but she no longer accepts anyone's advice. Tommy looked at his or I just thought this is where you sit her way all the time, if you don't give her a turn, the salary flies away in a way that could leave him then. Twitter now makes me angry, she can't live like this, she has a baby, just, oh, this experience will be alayan or something. Seventeen year old James is obsessed with his image, that's my hat, I wear LeBron, my image is very important because it makes me who I am it's nasally distinctive see if it makes me stand up and it means that it's just me James can't stand being at home he spends his life going out with friends escaping from my mom because I my mom has a difficult relationship like we really don't get along, do we?

James is wasting his time. You know, he just focuses on friends and goes out drinking, he just smokes. We need a nut this empty since he is approximately 12 years old. It's a pretty important part of my life. I smoke weed every day, it's always good, slug, when you're done, like James's

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divorced when he was seven, he hardly ever sees his father, he's been fine, not from another man, but I'd like to have him in the land, it's just difficult on yours so far. anyway James contacts his father as if she wants money from him or something she otherwise can't get enough of his constant excitement.

James's mother is about to kick him out for good. They can go back to the marriage behind and just start. To the smallest detail that I say on the bus, maybe yes, well, things have been real, so I hope that after this trip we can start again. James needs to realize that he has potential, but I need him to make these changes, I'm sorry. To try to get their family life back on track, both

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agreed to send their wayward teenagers to the other side of the

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s. blow, but I'm proud of him for doing this, it's also a little sad socially and something Marsh is out there, yes, the teenagers' four thousand five hundred mile trip will end here, the town of Tooele in the state of Utah, in deep in the American Midwest.

Here they will stay with a clean-living Mormon family who dedicate their lives to God. We follow his teachings, his Bible principles and that's how we run our house. Spencer is a plumber while mom Nikoline homeschools her four 12-year-old children. Quinton 11 years Page 7 years London and Porter use 5 discipline is very important in our home for a person to be successful in life they have to learn to control themselves for the lives of children it is very good to have morals and norms and

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s in the home home we consider ourselves very patriotic in our family we instill in our children to love their country, to love their God, to be a person who can change their country for the better sir. lady.

We strictly control your children's access to youth culture We are not allowed to see or hear anything that the Prophet himself would not hear We hold these truths to be self-evident That all men are created equal Drinking drugs and sex There are selfish behaviors that destroy lives They have only a goal for your children they have to make a difference in this

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a difference forever that's why we parent the way we parent because we are forever warriors after 20 hours of travel James and Hannah land in the state capital , Salt Lake City, Abby's Pegasus at nine years old: obviously addicted people who get very stressed.

Utah is one of the most conservative states in the United States. You have to be 18 to smoke and 21 to drink alcohol if you live in a neighborhood like this, especially now. It's too late, welcome to Utah, I'll give you everything. Hi, I'm Jeff, I'm Nicola. Now, some things we don't usually do in our house, we don't smoke, can I take them away from you? I'm ready I'm subject to disrespecting what I really need to smoke and the thing is that then you will have a smell on you after the Jo Jo thing, my bug has a horn without stickers for 10 days, but I'll hold out. to these words right now and your lighter and stuff, I'll take the cigarette, okay, it's not just that I'm a black, not really, are you going to give this?

Do you know what, let's go over all the things inside? Okay, so thank you. and I guess you just had some soda or something, we usually don't drink coke, but if you want to finish that today, do it, yeah, can I smell what you're drinking to make sure it's not like that? alcohol or something, oh, I can smell it from here, okay, you know what it actually is, it smells like alcohol. I'm so sorry I made you do that because actually, you're going to have a harder day now because of it, so I'm going to throw this in the sewer, okay, and we'll feed the street, okay, that's just a waste. , now it's just a trunk in the car that I need for the next 10 days.

Hannah and James will live like children of the family, from doing daily chores to Shawny likes the city, but she lives in a modest 4-bedroom house. They surround themselves with photos as a reminder of the importance of family. It's a photo of Spencer's brothers and sisters and his children. I don't even have photos. my babies to show you a couch Carly her babies have a baby yeah oh really she left him with her mom actually Gayle a name is Tanisha she's not so it's amazing I think it's a little shocking that she has a baby I think it's sad I hope she is a good mother who stays Hannah will share a room with eleven year old Paige James, she will stay with a thirteen year old girl.

I just saw Quinton's room, it seemed very nice. I don't think they seemed so strict and I don't know, we've been difficult. Mormons believe that parents have absolute authority over their children before they welcome teams into their home. Spencer and Nikoline want to set the house rules, so I made them each a little packet and they have a bunch of our house rules in them and we'll go over them with you, okay, things we will and won't do, Number one is the language in our home, we don't swear, we don't gossip about other people or we are rude to other people.

We do not consume alcoholic beverages or addictive substances, energy drinks, hard liquor, coffee, tea, caffeinated drinks, etc., we do not have coffee here, it is addictive, so the other things and these are rules that we cannot and will not accept. We accept smoking, remember that all of these are no answers, no. No, because I need my nicotine. I would say no, no, no, no, no, no, I wouldn't call it necessary, so we're going to have to work on it a little bit, okay, okay, let's see what we're going to use. says that we will not wear clothing that shows our shoulders, stomach, back or thighs, clothing that is too tight or tight or inappropriate, all underwear must be completely covered by outer clothing, clothing that is considered dirty and unkempt or that contains emblems or images that do not invite the The Spirit of the Lord is inappropriate, okay, really, please change our appearance.

We have come to change our attitude. I don't see why we change our clothes. Our

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sense has something to do with our attitude or how awesome that is. It's important to mention the way you present yourself to the world, it shows the world what statement you're making, so if you're making a

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to have some angles, I'm still going to change, I won't change in any of my ways. We're going to go through that and these are not answers, so we're going to talk about these things. Wait, am I close? I'm not when he's good at smoking.

I'm emphasizing that the rules we have may seem extreme. but there are rules that we have implemented for our family and anyone who lived in our house would be expected to follow these rules when given firm boundaries, James and Hannah have left it challenging to see what we want to do. Mike smooth, uh, so me. I'm not going to be tiny, I wasn't afraid, it's my body and surely, realizing that one of my main priorities in life is my appearance, because that's where the people present are raised as such. Some I cover with a blue top pimple, if you have it.

It shows off, but I know you want it, the teams arrived on Memorial Day, a holiday throughout the United States, and tonight they are starring in a celebratory barbecue, we want you to meet our family, we want you to be able to have at the end of this fun no matter where you are. I will be able to work without your choice. You know, I'm okay with spending a little money on clothes if it's going to be something that you can feel comfortable wearing and that also conforms to standards. Well, I understand why you can't show your shoulders.

God gave us shoulders for a reason and it's obviously if he's not there. People make clothes like this. So obviously we really did POTUS. If you show that you have to be gentle, we're starting off in a really strange way here. place with her at 17, having a long history apparently that if I have a fit I get what I want, I'll eventually get what I want and she may give a little to try to please, but then she still wants what she wants. This is going to be complicated with her, this is going to be difficult, mother, stress is a key tenet of the Mormon faith for Nikoline, commitment is not an option, there are laws, right, I will not use it, there is no way I will if Hana does not meet the requirements.

Standard She can't join the meeting tonight I don't want my family and children to watch you Nikoline believes that standing firm and enforcing boundaries is the key to good parenting She will never make a threat she is not prepared to carry out. Out, but you still have an attitude problem, yeah, because what would you say to me? Oh hey. V James leaves with Spencer to make it to the family reunion on time. Nikoline is left to deal with Hannah's rudeness. Actually, yeah, I think Mia's change, well, don. I don't want to wait for it to change like that right now.

Almost everything I say, what you're arguing with, makes me feel like you're ashamed to accept me as myself, safe to see your family, it's something special, that's why I. I'm mad at you and that's why it's probably not wise for us to leave, so it sounds like, come on, she has very strong opinions and that she only cares about her image and I hope that if she ever decides to tear down her wall just a little bit that we can show you something bigger to worry about something better, I mean family relationships, all those things are much more important than someone's image and I hope you understand that it doesn't even cover everything they bought you, everything you just ate me has hated shattered just because she's a total Bible destroyer doesn't mean I want to be.

Memorial Day is a nationwide family holiday. James James, happy to meet you, we welcome our friend here and this is her mother who is there at home. James hardly spends time with her. Her close relatives, Martin, never do anything other than stick our tongues in his, so now we do a lot just to do our thing. It's the end of James' first day living by the books and their strict rules. He had been a little strict with what he wears because people wear what they like so they feel comfortable asking me well. I don't know if you had any different ideas about how we could get over his past, I hope you can.

We were a little sad that she was missing all this, quite nice, really, the woman heals a little, but the rest of the doctor is the other day. The woman in the stable did not speak. I'm also getting to know most of the people. I'm here and save yourself any arguments and get along today. The teenagers will be homeschooled by Nikoline. It's like 7:25 right now, but first the entire family is expected to do their best with the chores. All of these lists are task lists. Chores are very important in our house. because number one keeps the house clean and number two teaches us how we should do things when we grow up, I mean who gives me two balls, it's a board and a job and a kitchen to approach things, let me guess, a laborer, children, yes I hate that you have to do housework.

It should be. I haven't been very friendly. I'll show you what happens, so Nikoline believes that homeschooling her children helps protect them from the temptations of the playground. The reason I homeschool is because I want to. May they do good in the world and know what good means. I don't want them to be confused with someone else's priorities in life. Hannah andI said I wasn't going to do a question and answer session. My confidence wasn't good enough, but then I decided why not. At the end of the day I need to improve. I'm sure why not?

I stood up in front of a bunch of people and talked about myself and asked questions about what they were asking there. It just made me feel better laughing because I'm so excited right now because your name feels so much better, so much more confident, younger Nikoline. Sister Janelle has a baby the same age as Hannah's daughter. You have a little munchkin this big, yeah, and he depends on me for everything. Tanisha depends on you for everything and that includes learning everything she needs to know to survive in the world. world when they are adults I can't believe that someone who is a mother is willing to just go out and drink smoke take two days off from being a mother just so she can achieve her own fulfillment I don't accept J's training, come on, say where I mamasa think this is It's my three times I couldn't do what I mean she doesn't know I'm actually doing drugs and drinking but you should go home and sleep where your son sleeps that's what a mom does so you know what when Davis Wake up, I'll be there, if he wakes up in the middle of the night, I'm there, he knows it. that I love him more than drugs I love him more than alcohol but actions show otherwise sometimes how can I love alcohol and I'm drunk I still have wrinkles on my body?

Well, that's a good question. Haleh's rebellious lifestyle began when his. family life broke up as a united family and we all moved on and then me, Mormon, my dad broke up and then they decide to divorce us, then we lost contact with me, Zach, then Hanna hasn't seen her dad for over five years . I'm to blame 40 I think that's where a lot of Anna's anger comes from and she's the cause of the child, so do it and now we've been raised without a thousand. I'm losing myself, so why are you blaming me for that? Despite her behavior, Hanna's mother has always supported her, but after a week apart she wants Hanna to know how much pain she has caused.

I really love missing you and I love you so much. Tunisia is happy and well, so don't worry about her, Hannah. being part time you have my heart broken with your behavior your drinking and smoking really scares me it's out of control I just want you to realize it's because I care so much about you you have to take other people's feelings into consideration I hope you learn to be a better person and respect the people around you I love you very much and I wish you all the best oh my lord more Oh I can't do it now look at my little girl I have been with her, she is beautiful Nikoline and Spencer want Hannah looking forward to a new life with his family.

She has asked her sons to sing for British teenagers. You made me last. Oh yeah, she doesn't deserve it. She feels bad, quite angry about those things and about understanding your sacrifice, which is a deep form of love because you are selfless oh, it's so beautiful. I miss my mom. She loves it. I'm going to be the same guy sometimes, a Charlie pawned the baby on people when he had it. When I go out, now I have realized that. I should only do that because I only have one life with it. I know she will see an agent.

She will know that she will not want to miss men. Make all the time we have. She will worry now. I just want to be a normal cold person. I want to be the best woman I can for her and I mean she just wanted to have a life like mine. I don't want to drink alcohol or drugs or smoke marijuana. I wanted to be a cocaine business, so it's necessary. In fact, she'll grow up now and start being more because that's what I'm Mormon about. I can not change. It's James and Hannah's last full day with the packs, so you'll want to know what we're doing today.

Okay, Nikoline wants the teenagers to join her. our annual benefit gala in Salt Lake City, this event is incredibly important to me, so I hope you will be very respectful, it is a big event and strictly black tie, you will get kid gloves, James, you will go with Spencer and he will teach you how to drive really, really, in Utah teenagers can drive legally from the age of 15 taking lessons with dad is a rite of passage for American kids smart Spencer wants to give James a chance to shine I would live like my dad He likes to work nearby, but I don't think it's really about sitting there initially.

It's been a little different living with daddy's lab because I'm not used to having my own brown diaper since I saw how Spencer is on these kids. I wish my dad was. Out with him, take his spot and park in that spot, just make sure you're between the two lines, he's a good father and he means well, he's got a good heart and he's a good family man, he understands, he smiles quickly and he didn't bring nothing suitable. she to where Hannah is looking for the perfect party dress which is very beautiful. They have decided that James is ready to listen from home.

You obviously knew things needed to change, we couldn't cry like this. I think it's very baby that you do this, be strong as soon as he recognizes you. I look forward to a new beginning when you step down. She's been there for me my whole life, she's been a single mom and she just went on vacation, you know what? After this all-out war, she puts it in his face again once you're no longer bothered. Hannah is ready for the night when there is only an hour left until the gala James has lyrics the emotions take over he is a little upset I go ahead if I can try and get out of then you can at least time to get dressed and get to the party for me you just have I have to breathe well because my cat I can't bring someone there who's dancing like my mom, okay, you're not my mom, she has one more, don't talk tonight, your mom, right, that's what she even stopped doing to talk to you, no, my mom, don't bother him. even more so because I am only one month old I am joking for 10 days but you are still not my mom everyone gets angry everyone gets angry you know there are times when you want to put a hole in the wall but if you can control your emotions and overcome selfishness then you have conquered a lot and I hope James conquers it tonight I'll dress well I'm tired I know you decide I'm really upset now I don't know why you can hug me James Do you know I want you there?

Do you know that I want you sitting next to me so I can be proud of you? You know I do? But I need you to respect me. I need you to be the boy I'm proud of. tonight you have to be on my team or I can't take you, you have a promise to me right now that you will, otherwise I don't even want to take you there because it will just be more disappointing if I tell you that you can't go in because you're still too tense. . Can you do that for me? Yes, you look great, thank you.

Okay, tonight's charity ball will be held at the Utah zroll Capitol building and will be attended by the cream of Salt Lake. City Society, for the first time in the palace of its life, discovered that it can combine low glamor and modesty tonight and I feel better than ever. We usually say we're scared tomorrow and they feel fine then, but I can. I can't even see who is in this chase and it feels even better than wanting to do it with the little scares. It has been more than a week since the teens have consumed alcohol.

Tonight was no exception. I was for James, the night has given him a chance. to reflect on his lack of self-control. I don't know why I reacted like that. Sometimes I have trouble managing my anger issues and sometime I just often go over everything about my actions because I should do them. love because sometimes I just get it so there's no reason to apologize when you've done something wrong it's very mature yeah because it takes a big person to admit that sometimes thanks for coming with me sorry funky I was happy Coming with James and Hannah still has good and bad moments, but they have completely changed.

I think they have vision, they see their lives with a different set of eyes because they have been in a different environment long enough to be able to see the world differently. James and Hannah's time in Utah has come to an end. He will remember the family forever because that life helped me a lot. This is just one of the experiences. I will never forget the work. No, actually called I'm sorry, I'm a stronger person, one of those walls that I thought was going to come down and I'd be gone I want to go home I want to go home but I've stood out and I've changed in so many ways and I think I I feel like a piece stronger and now I just feel better about myself or I feel happier pexif good good family with you so that we like to talk to each other and spend time together we do everything possible to go and I think it's great like this and I want to come back, I know. that my relationship my mom is going to change I'm going to let her bring more into my life and we'll talk to her about more good things it's also good to see you, the most important thing I've learned or us is dominant, yes, so on.

So if I mean you closed, this will be a new beginning because I'm so sorry to be apart, everything set and everything good since you asked me why, thank you.