Teens Turn On Each Other and Fight | The Indiana Family Full Episode | World's Strictest Parents

Sixteen-year-old Jess is a long flight away from meeting her strict new

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. Hold on to your bag while you're here. Do you want a more handsome man for his real m

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? Jenny, it will be a welcome break. Jess needs to realize that she doesn't have it that bad at home, she actually has it pretty good. I don't think they can change me. It took me 16 years to get like this. I just don't like authority because they tell authority what to do. she'll just do what she wants whenever she wants jess come on come on you're not doing anything jessica chess I smoke cigarettes I smoke too much marijuana I drink too much alcohol I don't work I don't study I tell her I hate her clear so go away push it up do all your work yourself she actually she collapsed one day in a park from too much substance I almost died of liver failure for a moment I thought oh my god I'm going to lose her and then when she was feeling better and we were discharged from the hospital she just wanted to go out again if You keep doing what you want to do They'll eventually give up You'll be traveling with 16-year-old Kyle from the sunny coast of Queensland So how much money do you want?

Do you think you love Kyle? Well, how much money do you want? How much do I receive? Since he was three years old, he has lived with his grand

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and they are beginning to wonder if they have spoiled him too much. We want to see an improvement in his attitude when I see him as a better guy we hope something good comes out of this I don't know everyone else is happy with me so why change for two people I don't ask if I can do something I tell them sometimes you'll just go and I will look around me.

He is not here. Like they couldn't stop me. If they catch me, I'll end up throwing a punch at them. Do not touch me. Sometimes I deserve everything we can get. Oh, I will. Slow down, I'm doing 70. In the 80s, shut up, no, I won't go and you can leave. Schoolwork is not a problem, he doesn't seem to bring anything home, no, I was in suspended playoffs, but he is very fat. girl at our school is so bad that I got suspended like three times for b

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ing her, do you hear me? He used to bring home a lot of different girls every week and she's always afraid that I'm going to get him pregnant or something and different dozens of them my mom I'm mad at her because she failed she was really into heroin in the end the community services department came and took him away they gave us a business card and two kids and we're trying to say you know we've given you a lot just give me a little back I don't expect much from Kyle at all just take back your threat and respect I'll give you a hug something that you don't do it very often she keeps giving you a hug he's a badass kid have a great time bye see you yeah bye I don't even think I ran away look you guys are having a great time australian australian australian the teenagers are being sent to noblesville

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a small town voted the best place in America to raise your children and they will live with an extremely conservative and religious

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We really feel that you have to have love and discipline without

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other, it just doesn't work. We definitely believe that corporal punishment or spanking is appropriate jonathan is the pastor of his local church and along with kathleen, the proud parents of canyon, jocelyn christian and jillian, well, I can't ride my bike around the neighborhood, I can only ride where my mom can see me, it's important Be a strict parent, children should feel safe, it will be too low for you, definitely not, if I'm not sure if I think it's appropriate or not, we'll take it to your dad and then let him he makes the decision.

Parents control what their children watch on television, the music they listen to, and have all the passwords to their computers. I just come in here and check what's going on. They know that we can search their myspace at any time and ensure that you will not receive any filth or derogatory material. You have four kings, but it's a far cry from what our Australian teenagers are used to, but they want to show Jess and Kyle why they think their way is right. God loves Jess and Kyle. too much for there not to be some positive changes in their lives as a result of this week 24 hours of travel and our

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finally arrive in Indiana.

It's pretty nice around here oh, it looks good. They are all dull colors and nothing good. I think it's beautiful. Yes, you're from Sydney and you haven't seen it in real life until you go to the castle for the next seven days. Our teenagers will have to learn to live with

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other and, most importantly, with the Gibson

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, the hardest thing will be to be told what. to do and to be told what to do by people I don't even know hello, welcome, nice to meet you, you're 72 years old, hello, how are you?, how are you?, hello kyle, how are you?, nice to meet you.

Nice to meet you Jonathan, hello. I'm Christian, this is our family. Hi, that's our mother-in-law, Carolyn. Well, welcome, are you ready to have a good time? The girls have kindly given up their rooms for Jess and her cars. I hope you like Hannah Montana. This is Tinkerbell. room, but jess doesn't find anything pretty about what she discovers next, so i always have a secret. I'm sorry, but you won't be able to smoke and that's another of our rules. You will not be able to say bad words, oh God. God, anyway, I know it's a surprise, but that's one of the rules we're going to enforce this week, oh, okay, so we can't swear, we can't smoke, we can't swear, yeah, no cursing, curses, oh, carl. and jess, that's just the beginning, so essentially they're pretty simple rules, you know, we don't allow alcohol or the consumption of alcoholic beverages, no drugs, no cigarettes or tobacco of any kind, no pornography or pornographic material, neither television nor films. no dirty talk, no bad language, including taking God's name in vain, no badmouthing or disrespect, dressing modestly, that would be like not wearing low-cut shirts, no belly, not wearing short shorts or skirts, having Dating is acceptable, but don't be alone, except in family rooms, so don't. have sex until user 18 until they get married married, yes, okay, yes, we talked to Christian about keeping his purity until he gets married and is part of me.

This is a photo of my girlfriend Desiree. We've been together for a year and eight. months when we go on dates we have to at least bring a friend with us a purity ring and a commitment is where you promise to remain a virgin until you get married and wear it the ring is to show that you have made that commitment and uh his girlfriend made too that promise and she has a little ring that says purity and things like that oh wow, actually on her ring finger okay yeah so like at home I have no rules I do what I want. drugs um, I drink alcohol, I smell like cigarettes, I swear a lot, I'm sure, so your rules are going to be very, very difficult for me, sure, always in life you have options if you are going to do the right thing or the wrong thing, and This week it will be in our house with our rules, the right thing to do would be to obey the rules and that will help you choose whether you have the consequences or the rewards.

Now, for the first election, Jess and Kyle have been asked to hand over everything they brought. those who break the new rules this is the only thing that's not even bad, mostly I'm going to get mad about it, I don't know, I have some cigarettes so I already took some out. I have these here. I'm still going to smoke, I don't care what you say, thanks guys, I was so glad Jess mentioned all that stuff from the beginning so we know what we're dealing with here, what you're dealing with is a teenager. Who isn't used to being told what to do?

I want to find an undercover place and it only takes jess five minutes to try to break the rules again. I can still say it's better. I'm not going to follow your rules because you I can't just kick a habit, it doesn't work that way, so for the third time, dear Jesus, thank you for this day, pray that you will help us get our Australian teenagers a good night's sleep. It's the first night we live under strict parents. rules and it is quite a culture shock around the

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in the name of Jesus we pray before eating and before going to sleep.

No, I haven't heard of people doing it in resby. Kyle, 16, already is. looking for a way out, they are so strict and so annoying, see they have screwdriver holes, who knows what they can't move, oh man, they better do something fun, if not, I will be so angry, it's screwed, broken. little time to wake up the kids 7 30 any normal Sunday morning jess and carl would be sleeping a good night party jessica but not today jessica at church at home attendance is mandatory rise and shine give god the glory good morning get up and shine jocelyn what are you dressing for church?

Yes, does everyone use things like that? So far there aren't many complaints, but that could be because Kyle has something to do with the rewards/consequences parenting style. I found it if we do things. Yes, we do fun things and then yes. you do fun things, I have more opportunities to meet American girls and that is one of my goals here. Look, yeah, you have to do it right if teenagers do what they're told, they're promised an unsupervised trip, I think they'll do it. We'll really enjoy our service today and people after that we'll take him and drop him off at the bowling alley with some of the teenagers from church and some of Christian's friends, so it should be good.

Amen, you can sit down. Aren't you glad that today we serve an incredible God? Amen, I want to challenge you, are you completely committed to God? If not, maybe that's why you walk around with doubts and discouragement and maybe you don't have that winning attitude that

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ed out to be awakening the church. The easy part, when we look at Samson, we think, man, how did he get this winning attitude? He was dedicated to God from the womb. It suggests that persisting in the service is proving too difficult. I don't care if I get in trouble, I'm just there.

I'm really getting tired of living, I don't want to sit in church and listen to him talk about I don't know, I don't even know what he was talking about, I couldn't stop flying, Jess got away with it. sneak cigarette once before, but her luck is about to run out. I want to tell you that I would really prefer that you not walk around without talking to us. And that's not all that worries Kathleen. I just need to ask you if I've been smoking right now yes you did yes ok first of all can I have your cigarettes please everyone?

Yeah, oh my gosh, I'm trying to give you a chance to be honest, you know what I mean, I have my life anyway. How long have you been using chalk? Do you have anything else with you? How about the rest of your bag? Have something? No, no, I don't have any more secrets, could you not lie to me anymore? Am I serious? because we're just straight people we're the only reason I lie the only reason I love these good cigarettes um there's nothing else to lie about because you want it so bad yeah don't smoke them I'm really disappointed in jess for lying like that but in It's not really surprising so I need to go talk to Jonathan and we're going to talk about what the consequences are going to be for Jess because for us this is something very, very important, it's surprising that they let me go bowling because I just got in trouble and I cheated on them and lied, so yeah, I don't know what the consequences will be.

Well, jess is about to find out first of all. I feel like we need. to learn the consequences of not being honest with people and sometimes that consequence can be losing your freedom and things like that too, so at least for a while we can see how things are going. I'm going to be with you pretty much wherever you go, but there's another thing, we're going to take off the Internet for a couple of days, at least, and we'll see where we are after that, whether it'll be longer or not and we'll have fun with the kids, it's because that you really don't like bowling.

You don't like to throw much. She definitely, um, you can tell she's pretty disturbed by this, but she definitely has to learn that there are consequences. Kathleen is on her queue 24/7. That is the consequence. She's just an idiot. I have to slide, make it slide right now. Kyle isn't much happier. The reason I went to church was because I thought it would be a good place to go, so I thought I could pick up girls and the only two. The girls who are here have boyfriends and they are all like Christians and curious. It's a bummer because I thought she came to the American bowling because it's not a big deal here, but all I see are old ladies in the house. rules, you suffer the consequences, that's where they ran, okay, 16 year old Jess is having her purse searched, her clothes are being searched, and her entire room is

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ed upside down after she was arrested for smoking and lying.

Is there something here? Yes, can I check your coat pockets? Jess, you have to wait, you're sweet, like I told you before, one of the most important things is not to lie to each other and this showed me that you didn't do it last time and I really appreciate that you have the only reason to do it. I lied so I could smoke, so I have yes, we understand that yes, I no longer have anything to lie about because I don't have cigarettes, well, well, and we would ask that you please don't find any wayto get it. anyone this week, okay, do we trust her?

How much does it weigh? I could trust her as much as I can. I'm glad to be with you. I think we're going to have fun and I think we'll be. It will be a blessing to do it for other people you know who can't do it for themselves three days into their week-long stay and the teenagers are about to try something the kids do every other weekend charity work I really don't care like, I don't like to work and not get paid for it today I'm not giving Kyle another option, okay guys, here we are, they have the food pantry over here and this is where they used to sort out used clothes for the poor oh It has rear brakes I don't like this one No why do you ride a bike? oh boy one come on come on come on kyle is volunteering his time to this women's shelter whether he likes it or not hey kyle we're trying to defrost your freezer so you can be more efficient it's really cold and i'm going to go into a freezer, so tell me what to do, just get all the Ice up there, yeah that would be great, why can't I stack clothes, which are much warmer?

The need is here. I don't need help stacking clothes. Now I see that he is not as mature as I thought. the ball down, come on, let's go, let's go, how about I entertain you with some black tricks? No just spray, no bike tricks. One of the coworkers said, man, I'm about to put it in his mouth, so I think it's a bit. Kinda smart mouth, oh man, smell this, just smell it, come on, I know it's for good people, but mind you, it's a bit gross, but a couple of hours in Kyle decides there's a silver lining to all this charity work , there are other teenagers here, seriously, you don't.

I don't know how boring it is there and Kyle thinks these teenagers could be his ticket to freedom. I'm trying to get a ride tonight or tomorrow. How are they? They are not even allowed to go out. But. Not really, I'll actually talk to them. I'm trying to get them to take me off, so I don't know. I'll talk to him to see if they can come pick me up one night, right when Jonathan's things go to bed. I just think he's a loser, he just wants to have sex with a girl while he's here. I don't think he has a chance with any of them.

They already told me he's not very attractive anyway, so yeah, good luck to him when our

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get home Jess finds out that Kyle gathered more than just new friends at the women's shelter, they changed my pocket, tell him that , if you say you got it from me, you're dead, okay, you're dead and you have to be nice to me. Now what do you say? It's true, smoking a cigarette would mean breaking the rules and trusting again. This time Jess is thinking twice and it's Kyle who's about to get into trouble. Hi, I heard you didn't say anything very nice to Jessica. patient jess that's what he said it didn't hurt at all but you know i know he doesn't like cleaning toilets and saying bad words makes you clean toilets so i left it on she was raving about the maybach well because you said We'll have to make you do the bathroom ritual when you use it, it would be nice to clean the bathrooms, that's Gibson's punishment for swearing and if Kyle has to do that then he'll make sure Jess has no choice. about whether or not to smoke that cigarette when jess finds out, the whole house will find out.

Who do you think wants to come into my room and go through my bags? You gave me a cigarette and I was going to come back and throw it away. in your face and now it's gone well, what happened, what will I tell you this time, I don't like him, I don't want to be around him, let's do something with all this stuff between you two and you can bet there will be punishments involved, just They are halfway through their stay and our Australian teenagers have turned on each other. We can't let all this conflict continue now that Kathleen has ordered them to sit down and solve the problem, I know that.

We had a really crazy night last night Jess, did you have things you want to see? I'm sorry for making you feel disrespected. You don't do things you're going to regret, but do I regret it? Why are you apologizing? Don't regret it because it's the right thing to do, okay, wait a second, but if not, don't put your eye on your headphones, don't put your headphones on because you don't want to listen because you can. I won't handle it well jess I'm going to throw these pencils jeff you're kyle you honestly said you care give me an ipod for a second in my house if a kid comes and does that to another kid there's a problem because Yeah, but he's just being a crybaby, but we can't go down that path.

You can't change Kyle, but you can change yourself and the way we're going to have to do it is consequences. I'm sorry I put those bad spirits in my house but being a parent isn't easy but I think the key with kids is to put in the time and love and be willing to discipline but with that time and love both Jess and Kyle are starting to accept. their new rules and the consequences that come with them now I respect Jonathan a little more because they actually sat down with us and tried to figure it out like normally my name would be like yeah just shut up get over it the teachers would be like oh don't do this this is bad you shouldn't do that but they actually sat down and talked to us it's a good start but they're not the only people who would like a little respect from these teenagers hi tessa we have a surprise for you oh it's a letter from your Mom, oh mom, I think I'm going to cry, right, Jess?

I can't believe you went to the United States and left your hair straightener on. I wanted to write to you because there are so many things I need to say and so many words left unsaid with our busy lives busy lives I haven't been able to stop crying since you left there are tears of sadness joy and pride I am sad because of the

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s we have and your words

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of anger and tears of pride because no matter what you do, where you are or who you are with, I am proud that you are my daughter, a true blessing, whether you realize it or not, I accept your love and your existence every day, wow , it's really nice, I see myself very often. in you making many of the mistakes that I made in my adolescence, honey, you don't know how many times I stay awake at night watching you sleep and you look like such an innocent angel it breaks my heart to see you on the verge of destroying your life maybe this time apart will be good for both of us and maybe we can see this as a new beginning I love you with all my heart you are my

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my life my dress be happy all my love mom is lovely I think the way I talk to her to my mom, that's the big problem, it's a big problem, I think I've been very ugly to her, um, I don't realize that at the time I do it.

I think when she comes back, she can have a fresh start, hope

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y, I think this is just the first step to growing a little more. The week-long stay in Indiana with the family is almost over for Jess and Kyle, but Jonathan is going to give him one last chance to get the message of charity. We want our kids to simply be encouraging, and we want them to think about others as much as they think about each other. themselves ten trees like this today jess and kyle along with the other kids will be feeding the homeless so we have to be quick because they only have 20 minutes here they come now so they get pretty mad when they don't get their food so I'm a little nervous, but yeah, I hope everything goes well, enjoy your food, have a good time. day enjoy your lunch enjoy stay ma'am here you go have a good time you have a bunch of homeless men behind you like underwear alright they can't see my underwear or well you know you don't want them to see your underwear baby yeah , have a good one, I also have a Michigan jersey, thank you, so yeah, I think Jess has a real heart for four people, so it was really able to start to come out in this situation as she was talking to the different guys.

Moving on, bye, I don't think it's natural for 16 year olds to be really generous and loving. At 16 myself I worried about myself. I wanted to know what everyone could give me, not what I could give them, so I know it's just it's just difficult, you need someone to help teach you and change that for you one more try look, you're in charge good girl, they all seem good people, I know what they are, good people have problems, yeah, I've had a good A rough start in life, but these kids I'm nowhere near these kids, so your mom was doing drugs, yeah, she was Grandma and Dad has always been around the corner so I've always been able to go there, that's great, yeah, sorry.

Your man went there, although yes, I think it was to make money because she was getting into drugs too much. Are you mad at her? No, that's good, I'm a little disappointed in her, but that's all. You know she can help you. to be a better father, I plan to be, it made me feel great to be helping people who were less fortunate than me, if we had one of these places at home it would definitely help after seeing this today. I feel like it's hard to change a little bit when it comes to charity work, where a couple of days ago he was saying, "I just work for myself, you know what I mean, so I think it's starting to change a little bit." he's starting to see the need that, hey, if we all work together, maybe we can help some of those who are suffering.

I'll leave here today knowing that I've done something to help someone and other people, so yeah, nice warm feeling inside. Waiting at home this time there's a letter to Kyle from his grandparents, really, yeah, it's not that great, I have to read it, yeah, you have to read it, I just love you, we'd like to see a real change in your attitude. towards the nun and towards me, especially none, I know that man shouts a lot, but why, as I said before, does Nen do so much for you and ask for very little in return, such as walking the dog, cleaning his room or the garden and that's all?

For some reason it seems that it bothers you to be asked and I don't understand the way you talk to us, when you talk to us it is usually aggressive, which I think is quite unnecessary. I will talk to my grandmother and ask her if she will change. the way she acts around you i think she feels like you are a little boy instead of a young man let's try when you get back you have a little more patience, better communications and sit down and talk to us more maybe we should sit down. on a Sunday morning with a cup of tea and just talking to each other we are not ogres you know, a hug for them and even for me would be appreciated, appreciated and will make us feel good, be proud and we will act proud and remember you.

I have manners see you soon lullaby pop because of his mother's drug problems kyle moved in with his grandparents when he was a little boy I wonder every morning when I wake up and things like what it would be like if my mother never touched a drug where would she be? What would she be doing? I appreciate what they did for me when I was three years old. I think that took a big responsibility on me and my brother knowing that mom, her daughter and her son went different paths knowing that they didn't want me and my shoulders to come out like that, so it was a big deal for them.

I think it makes me happy that they accepted me and were willing to do it, but now that I'm older than them. I'm still trying to treat myself like a little child, which is not another reason we

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. I wish it was different like every day, but it's not going to change like that, so okay guys, I want to talk to you real quick, you're our teenagers. Last night during the week they had a lot of punishments but tonight they finally earned a reward. Have fun but be respectful and we'll see you around 9 45. Jess and Kyle are allowed to go out without their parents.

All the people. About a week ago it was very difficult for me to imagine being able to let the children out unsupervised, but the children have done a very good job earning our trust. We're so excited because we feel like we can trust that they're just going to go and have a lot of fun oh, I'm so happy I came here. There are so many attractive cheerleaders. This is a brilliant night to spend the last night. It's crazy, it's fun. You know, I can't wait to get home, but I'm still doing it. most of it after seven days living under strict parents with strict rules.

Jess, 16, is preparing to return to her home in Australia. The main thing I learned was about my mother and that's what I would take with me. I don't have to be so cruel and nasty, not her, she really doesn't deserve it, um, yeah, I just realize how much I miss her and how easy I really have it, there are so many good things ahead. your life I just don't want to see any other crap destroy it so really think about that when you're making your decisions and we've touched our lives this week and our kids, we love you baby.

I miss you too, we think you're an amazing young man and we really want to encourage you when you come back to think about some of the ways we talk about treating people, even if we don't feel like it and even sometimes, people are doing the wrong thing. You know, you really have to try to put yourself in their shoes and realize that they care about you and love you. He was so trusting. I know it made me feel special because someone really trusted me. don't do anything badI really don't understand why people don't trust me that much bye um we'll definitely keep in touch thank you thank you hey you're welcome I'll be back calm down that's how it was It's hard to get used to it, but it's also very good to live like someone else would live.

One thing I have to say is just a loving and respectful family that has to raise their children very well. Yes, I will return. On the sunny coast of Queensland, Carl's grandparents are hoping to see some change in the young man who walks through their door. He, yeah, we haven't missed all the noise, the loud music and everything else, but we have. missed I hope he learned something. I hope he appreciates what he has here. If you've been really strict, you might think wow. I'm in a good position here and maybe I should try now and pop it a little bit better than I've done in the past.

I would like to have a better relationship because I respect them a lot, taking me and my brothers, I feel like they will still be there no matter what, but now it's up to me what I want my future to be like, like welcome home, hello, good morning, gimme Your hug. This is the first time Carl has hugged his grandparents in years. Did you like the family? I got in trouble for saying bad words. What did you say? What did they say? A clean bathroom. I think she may be a little more subdued. I think she could be a lot happier with herself because she's been in one more situation. structured environment away from many of the negative aspects that affect Jessie's daily life.

I just wish she would get here. I don't want to wait any longer. I love you. Did you have a good time? It was crazy. You use your best manners. They really opened my eyes to everything you know and don't know. You can handle situations without yelling and screaming and stuff. Do you think I have learned a lot and will take it with me and with you? I know I will never forget this experience, all the people I have met.