The SECRET To SUCCESS In Life And Business

You may be setting a goal and you're hesitant to set that goal because you think I just don't know how I'm going to make that happen. How will it be possible? Forget it, no. Don't worry about how the reasons come first, the answers come second, be a leader, take charge of your

life

, we are what we believe, you know it, so if you have to change your beliefs, if you have some beliefs that They don't work for you. in your

life

, get rid of them as soon as possible, you have unlimited potential and you can take advantage of it.

Hello everyone, I'm Tatiana and today you're in for a treat because I'm going to share with you the formula for

success

,

success

broken down. so that you can create success in your life, so I recommend that you watch this video from beginning to end, take the time to do it and take notes. A lot of what I'm going to share with you has been influenced by Tony Robbins, so if you enjoy this content, make sure you go and check it out, learn from his content, attend his seminars. I'm going to share more about it and how you can learn from it at the end of this video, but we have to get started. because we have a lot to cover, so the number one principle of success is clarity.

The bottom line is that if you don't know what you want, you will never get it. Clarity is power. You must be clear about what you want to achieve. tell me Tatiana I want to be successful no it doesn't work that way that's too broad success as a term is simply too broad you need to be clear about what success means to you what that looks like can you measure it for us? We have this powerful system in our brain called the ras reticular activating system for short and basically its purpose is to allow us to focus on what's important because there's a lot going on in the world and our senses can go crazy and become overwhelmed.

With everything that's going on, you know, feeling the bottom of the chair smells the things that I may be looking at right now and that allows us to focus on five to seven things at a time, at least that's what we humans focus on. on five to seven things at a time and we focus on what's important to us and we have the ability to program the ras system and the way we do that is by clarifying what's important to us so I'll give you an example. You may have had this experience where you are in the market to buy a new car and you finally make a decision about making the model the color of the car and then suddenly once you have made that decision you go out and You see that car everywhere like everyone is driving that car.

You notice it more in my case, for example, Stefan and I had decided to buy a dog, we haven't bought it yet, but we want to get an Australian Shepherd and before I did it. that decision I never noticed that breed I didn't even notice it on the streets as soon as we made that decision every day when I went for a walk I saw three to four or five Australian Shepherds now is it possible that all of them Suddenly everyone You're buying Australian Shepherds, yes, but chances are they were always there, those cars were always on the streets, those dogs were always there, I just never noticed them because I didn't make it important, so once I was clear What I wanted my reticular activating system to start noticing it and in many ways I think that's how the law of attraction works, it's not like you say you want something and it suddenly lands in your lap, no, that's when you clear it up. on what you want, your reticular activating system now has direction, it knows what to focus on, it will be doing a job, your subconscious will be working anyway, but if you can tell it what you want it to look for, it will do it.

You will work around the clock to make this happen for you and the opportunities are everywhere. You know that there are a lot of opportunities, but we just don't notice them and when we are clear about what it is, our goals are, what we want. We want to achieve it, suddenly we notice opportunities and begin to see things that happen to us in our lives. Chance sees things come true and it's because we have clarity, so setting goals for yourself is a great way to do it because it forces you. to sit down, take the time to clarify what it is that you want from life, you know what, define what it is that you want in each area of ​​your life, set goals for yourself, be very specific with your goals, now it is important that be specific if you say tatiana I want to make more money that's your goal I'll tell you hey here's a dollar now get out of here you know you have to be specific how much more money you want to make because whatever you ask for because you know that's what you're going to get. um, very specific now when you're setting goals.

I want you to avoid the tyranny of how you may be setting a goal for yourself and you're hesitating to set that goal because you're like I just don't know how I'm going to make that happen. How is it going to be possible? Forget it, don't worry about how the reasons come first. The answers come later. Set your goals for yourself and you can figure out how to achieve them, I guarantee it, so clarity is power, that's number one, number two, become your own leader. People tell me all the time, Tatiana, I need a mentor or a coach to be successful and I'm thinking about taking a step forward. become your own leader stop being that weak person who needs someone else to help him succeed you don't realize that you have something called potential and you have harvested it it is inside of you and it is waiting to be unleashed it is waiting to be ordered out and you have it with all these powers, you are a powerful, strong and capable person and you have the ability to achieve anything you want to achieve in your life, but you must take the role of a leader and become the leader of your life, do not trust. about other people, don't wait for other people, honestly, you're going to have to wait your whole life if you're waiting for someone to just come up to you and say, I'm going to train you, I'm going to help you.

I'm going to guide you to your success, now forget that it just doesn't happen, okay, so step up, be a leader, take charge of your life now Tony Robbins has something called the three commands of leadership, it would be helpful if you you would do. Accept them now that you are the number one leader in your life, see things as if they are no worse than they are, which is why we have this tendency every time we set a goal, something we have never achieved before and because we have done it. . We don't make it, it's a little scary because we don't know if we can make it or not, we don't know what the result will be if we try, so we start thinking about the worst case scenario, right?

We think about all the things that could possibly go wrong and we don't really see things as they are, we make them worse than they are and then what we do is looking at things, seeing the worst case scenario, we are preparing ourselves, we are doing Our subconscious mind is doing this so that we don't even have to try, because if we don't try, we don't run the risk of failing and ultimately we want to avoid failure unconsciously, so you need to make sure you are noticing it. If this happens, you're noticing that you know, let me make sure I see things as they are and not make them worse than they are now.

Number two is to see it better than it is good, so don't see it worse. It's actually seeing you better than you are, so it's realizing where you are today and creating a compelling vision for yourself in the future, what you could be, what you could achieve, what you could create, what you could do. could become, to see things better than they are. so it gives you enthusiasm, it gives you a vision, it gives you something to work towards, so instead of thinking about the worst case scenario, maybe you're thinking about the best case scenario and that will push you forward.

Now, number three is to do it the way you want. Look at it well, so have this vision for yourself, that's what you want to work on and this comes down to strategy, action and momentum, taking action to achieve it and creating that vision, so those are the three mandates of the leadership. Now this brings us to the number. three the power of belief now I cannot emphasize how important the power of belief is in your life and in achieving success. This is why the rich get richer and the poor get poorer. This is when you start to gain momentum and the emotion of the object remains. in motion, so Tony Robbins has something called the success cycle and I'm going to put an image for you so on the top left you see something called potential, on the top right you'll see something called action.

At the bottom right you will see the words results and at the bottom left you will see the word belief or certainty. So how much potential does a human being have? The answer is unlimited, you have unlimited potential. It's actually fascinating because we don't even know how much potential we humans have. There are things that were once considered impossible that later became possible because humans have achieved them. World records are being broken regularly, so science cannot fully define how much potential we have. It really is just amazing, so humans have unlimited potential, okay, but our results in life reflect the potential we don't have.

Many times we don't have good results in life, right, those are five words trying to achieve more success that we are not happy with. our results now mean that if we take more action we will see better results, not necessarily, so it really starts with your belief, your belief is where everything begins, where the cycle begins, so if I don't have a lot of faith in something how much potential am I going to have? to unlock? Well, I'm going to tap into a little bit of potential and if I tap into a little bit of potential, how much action am I going to take?

Not much and I do take a little action. my results are going to be poor, not very good results and if I have bad results, what is that going to do to my belief? Well, it will reinforce the belief that hey, this doesn't work, let's not even try it right, so if you have this belief. where it's like you set a goal and you're a little hesitant, you don't have full conviction that if you do x, y and z you will achieve those results, then you're not going to tap into your full potential and if you don't tap into your full potential, you end up having this horrible cycle that just won't help you achieve success so I'll give you an example: I want to lose 10 pounds, that's my goal and I know it and I've done it. belief that if I do intermittent fasting in the morning, if I do fasted cardio, if I eat a big salad every day, if I stop drinking soda, if I do all of these things, then I know for sure that, of course, I'm going to lose 10 pounds in the next In two months, of course, I will lose 10 pounds if I do all of these things, as long as I stay consistent and keep gaining momentum.

Well, if I have complete faith that if I do x, y and z, I will achieve it. my goal then, how much potential am I going to use? I'm going to take advantage of my full potential and if I take advantage of my full potential, how much action am I going to take? I'm going to take massive action and if I take massive action what will my results be? I'm going to have great results and if I have a great result how is that going to affect my belief? Well, if I have great results it's going to reinforce that belief that if I do x and y and z I'm obligated. to lose weight and the next time I want to lose weight I have a proven track record that if I do x y and z I will lose weight, so I have more beliefs, that reinforces my belief, so it all starts with your belief.

If you don't believe you can do it, if you don't believe you can do it, you won't make it and that's why I do my best on this channel to encourage your guys because I know a lot of times you may not have made it. You believe in yourself and maybe you don't have family or friends to support you, so if I can be your online friend to share with you that yes, you believe that you have something called human potential that is so powerful that you are capable of achieving. Whatever you want to achieve, I want to help you with that, but you have to create that belief for yourself.

I'll give you another example. I love the examples. Roger Bannister in 1952 was the first man to run a mile. less than four minutes, so before him no one had been able to achieve this goal and what he did to achieve it is that every day he visualized himself running and running the mile in four minutes, running that mile in less than four minutes, he visualized himself. he successfully executed it himself in less than four minutes and visualized it enough to start developing the belief that he could do it well and that's how he ended up doing it, that's the power of visualization, this is another principle, I'm not going to go add it to this list or we're going to be too long, but visualization is very powerful.

Basketball players will tell you that to visualize shooting at the hoop you don't have to physically do it, they've even done studies where if you visualize it you have the same improvement as someone who is actually practicing which is just amazing so he visualized it to achieve it now. What's crazy is that 46 days later, the next man did the four-minute mile before anyone else had done it. once did it and 46 later the next guy did it and then a lot of people did it now high school kids run the four minute mile in four minutes which is amazing so why before RogerBannister no one had achieved this goal? and after him many people achieved it well because he achieved the goal, now everyone else in the world suddenly believed that this was possible, all the people in the world realize that if this man can do it and is a human, we can do it too. everyone benefited from his original belief in himself even though he had no reference from someone before him who achieved the school he visualized, he created a belief within himself because we all have that power and now he was able to achieve his goal . everyone else after him, another example, I love elephants, my favorite animals, the little baby elephants when they are in the zoo and they have been trained, since they were babies, they are chained to the ground with one leg, one leg has a chain around and it's chained to the ground and they do this because they know that once those little baby elephants realize that they can't move anywhere because that chain holds them to that place, they start giving up from the beginning, They try to break free, but they start to give up, they realize that they don't have the strength, they don't have the power to break free from that chain train and then what happens is that once they grow to full size, they still hold on. that belief, so they grow to full size. and these creatures weigh 8,000 pounds, you know, some of them weigh 13,000 pounds, they certainly have the potential, they certainly have the physical strength, the power to break free from that dirty chain, but they don't do it because they believe they are incapable of breaking free. of that chain, that shows that you know how we are what we believe, so if you have to change your beliefs, if you have some beliefs that do not serve you in your life, get rid of them. of them as soon as possible, you have unlimited potential and you can harness that number four: take massive action, persist until you get the right results, so if you set a goal and you're trying something and it's not working, don't just give in. change your approach try something else if it doesn't work change your approach try something else if it doesn't work change your approach you keep changing your approach until you get results and many people end up giving up on their dreams they end up giving up on their goals because they think it's just going to happen. like that and they don't realize that you will have to keep trying until you succeed.

You have to make it something essential. It's not just something you want. It is something that you must do in your life and if it is essential then you will do whatever is necessary if you can't find a way to do the right path, that's what Tony says, so it's very important to realize that there is no such thing as failure, except when you don't learn from your experience. If I told you that you have a child and your child is learning to ride a bike for the first time, he's never been on a bike before, okay?

Do you expect them to? suddenly miraculously being able to ride a bike no, you expect them to fall and get up and try again and that's why you buy them knee pads, elbow pads and wrist guards, right? You anticipate that they are going to fall, but you realize that it only takes them one step closer, one step closer to success, one step closer to learning to ride a bike, it's part of the process, falling is part of the process and Finally, if they continue. To keep trying, keep persisting, eventually you'll get there and pretty soon riding a bike will be a piece of cake.

They will never fall again because it is in your body. They understand it. They know how to do it. It's instinctive. You have to realize that that is part of the journey. You know that if you have a big goal in life, it won't be a piece of cake and that's why it's so rewarding. If it were that easy to achieve your goals, it wouldn't be so rewarding. right, so it's the struggle it's the growth it's the continuity it's the perseverance that makes the whole journey rewarding it's who you become in the end now if I were to ask you why you weren't successful in a previous school you had, can you tell me that It is lack of money, lack of time, lack of connections and all those things are resources, the right time as a resource, money, people, resources, all those things are resources, but failure is never a lack of resources, it is a lack . of ingenuity this is what Tony shares is never a lack of resources it is a lack of ingenuity because I can guarantee that I can point to someone somewhere in the world who would have fewer resources than you if you were if time was your thing I can find someone With less time than you, if money was your thing, I can find someone with less money than you who managed to succeed in that goal and managed to succeed not because of resources or the lack of them but because of the ingenuity that discovered how to achieve this. happen, I have people emailing me all the time saying they don't have enough money, they need this, they need that, but really, if you want something, you'll figure out how to make it happen, you know if it's necessary.

Think about money if someone is holding a gun to your head and telling you that you need to get 500 today or you know they're going to take you, you know they're going to take your wife or whatever, you're going to figure out how to get five hundred. dollars because it is essential. Well, when you want something bad enough, when you make it a must-have, you'll figure out how to achieve it now. The last thing I will mention when taking massive measures is power. proximity if you mean open a restaurant my recommendation is to go and work in a restaurant if you have to be a busboy be a busboy if you have to be a waiter be a waiter just walk into the restaurant and get the experience of working in that environment will be extremely powerful for you and will allow you to maybe make some connections with the manager, the general manager and the owner, and you can learn from them and say "hi like me." I'm interested in opening my own restaurant and building a relationship with people, so proximity is power, whatever it is, you have your goal, if you can find a way to get in there, if you can find a way to maybe work For someone you know, yes. you may have to trade your time for money, but do it in a way that you can learn from that person, learn from being in the environment, it will be extremely beneficial, you will learn more from being in the environment than you will learn in five years of reading a textbook on how to open restaurants, okay, that's how I really built my

business

, it was like an immersion, just taking action and learning as you go, and that's what I would recommend to you guys, number five is brings success to what you do now this was inspired by the late wayne Dyer and I think it's really beautiful success is not something you go and get it's something you bring you can bring success to anything you're doing if you're ordering food at a grocery store You can be successful at that, okay, you can be that person who wakes up and hates their job and goes to the store and you're in a bad mood and you're in a bad mood and you're not doing a good job or you can decide you know which one.

It's the opportunity that I have in front of me This is what I have available right now I'm going to bring success to this I'm choosing to bring success to whatever I'm doing. I'm going to go to the supermarket. I'm going to be the best baker who ever lived. I'm going to double bag. I'm going to put this cashier in the bag. This ATM. This ATM. I'll put a smile on my face. I'm going to talk to the clients. I'm going to make the most of this job. I think this is just a spiritual principle. It's simply realizing that success is not. something that you go and learn, you know it's something that you create, you incorporate it into what you're doing and the beauty of it is that you can do this.

You know many of you may be watching this video because you hate your jobs because you don't want to continue working at your job and you want to achieve financial freedom to get out of it, but I am here to tell you that your job is a blessing, your job is an opportunity if you can bring success to your work. We will not go unnoticed, many times we just continue with our days and say that we want to achieve success, but we are waiting for the perfect opportunity, we are waiting for the perfect

business

to work on. go out in that business and be successful with that business instead of saying that, listen, I have this job right now, it's not something I love, it's not something I want to do for the rest of my life, but let me make the most of it, let me contribute. success in what I am doing and if you achieve success in that job, you do the best you can, it does not go unnoticed, management will notice and you will be promoted and success breeds success, people will want to be around you because of the effort you put in . because you are giving it your all because not only are you treating your job as a means to an end and it doesn't mean that you have to be in that job for the rest of your life, but it will open other doors for you, but when you tell the verse of the uniform, listen, this is what you have given me right now, it is not my first choice, but this is what you have given me, I am going to show you that I can achieve success with this thing that I can bring. success in what I'm doing I can achieve success in raising my children I can achieve success in emptying the dishwasher I can achieve success in working as a janitor once you show the universe that you can do that then the universe will say hmm wow manage that's very good let me give you something bigger let me give you something bigger right, if you have a child and you go to mcdonald's and/or mcdonald's is a bad example, you go to an ice cream shop and your child orders, you get your child, an ice cream, you will give them two balls now if they leave the ice cream shop and lick the ice cream and the ice cream falls and the ice cream falls to the ground and you go back to the store to buy another ice. cream, are you going to buy them three scoops of ice cream and say, mommy, look, there are three, can I get all three scoops?

You're going to say, hell no, you can't even handle two scoops, why am I going to give you three? ? Show me first that I can handle both scoops and then I will give you three the same start in life. It's okay, you have opportunities around you. Don't think you have nothing. There is always something you can bring success to. Does not have. to be great we tend to do big things we need to have something big there is no empty dishwasher like I said I don't like cleaning the kitchen I don't like cleaning the bathrooms I don't like doing those things but I bring success I make it enjoyable I do the best I can because I know it's going to help me create more success in my life so remember I'm going to share with you a parable that Wayne Dyer shared and I think it's just really cool, it's an old parable and it goes like this: There's an old cat walking through a alley and the old cat meets this baby kitten and these baby cats run in circles chasing their tail, you know how running baby kittens do. and they chase each other's tails forever and ever and it's pretty entertaining and the old cat says what the hell are you doing and the baby cat says well, I went to cat philosophy school and I learned cat philosophy and I learned that two things are happiness the most important thing to cats and that happiness can be found in the tail, that's why I have a theory that if I chase my tail long enough I can finally catch it and I can lock away eternal happiness forever and the old cat He says interesting, well.

I never had the pleasure of going to cat philosophy school but I have been running through these alleys and in fact I have learned the same as you that the most important thing for cats is happiness and that happiness is found in the tail. but what's different between you and me is that I learned that as long as I mind my own business and move forward with confidence to work on what's important to me and move towards my dreams, happiness will follow wherever I go, so believe. It's a really beautiful parable that illustrates that you don't have to chase happiness, you don't have to chase success, just move forward with confidence in your dreams, with what's important to you and that will continue and it really shows that, like everything. what you have is within you you have it within you you have that potential you just have to get it out of yourself and be clear about what you want okay, let's move on to the last one because we are getting along well here in this video I have much more to say I would love to share but again, you know that you can learn from people much wiser than me.

I'm really learning a lot from Tony Wayne Dyer, a lot of these great people. The last one is what Tony calls the science of success and the art of achievement, so success is a science, it's something you can measure, it's something you can calculate, you can find the right formula, but achievement is a art and I wanted to end on this note because you know, if you are like me and many other people, if we are trying to be successful, sometimes we fool ourselves into thinking that success will bring us happiness, joy, fulfillment, all these things that if I earn this amount . of money if I get this house if you know how to achieve this then xyz then I will be happy and it is very common that when you achieve those goals you really realize that it is a bit exaggerated, yes, of course, at the moment it is exciting, you buy a new car and there is an emotion , it smells like that new car smell, but that doesn't last, you know, you move into a house with a beautiful view, you appreciate the view. for a few weeks and you start to get bored, you start to get used to it, you take it for granted, it's called the law of familiarity, so nothing external will ever bring you happiness and I just want to make sure thatyou understand.

Of course, strive for success, be the best you can be, unleash your potential, be a gift to the world, to other people, go for it, but understand that the art of achievement is an art, it is not a process. step by step, you have to solve it. strive for yourself and that's really where satisfaction lies, it's not about achieving more, it's not about checking off your list of goals, it's just about satisfaction and being happy with yourself, being content, your relationship with God. , with other people, your spirituality, is the love you feel. have for yourself, it's so many things and focus your time and energy on success but equally focus on your satisfaction, trust me like I'm speaking from experience here and that's really where I am in my life right now.

I just focused a lot on success from the beginning and it's great that it served me well, but now I realize that you know the principles of success are not always the principles of fulfillment, so everything that I shared with you today in this video will help you. You are successful, but that will not always help you achieve fulfillment, so there are many things that you will learn on this journey that will help you achieve success, but you have to be careful and have this pedometer where you can understand, you know how much it is costing me this and having a balance, find out what your balance is, robin williams is a great example of this, he is a man who inspired people, he had reached millions of people, he made so many people laugh and cry and he is just an amazing person and he achieved a lot in his life, in his personal life, in his professional life, he's really a high achiever, so he checked all the boxes, but he was very focused on the achievements and, meanwhile, the guy who is always smiling at the camera, you know about drug and alcohol addiction and who knows what other kinds of mental health challenges, but you probably weren't focusing on that as much as you were focusing on success because success breeds success, that was the cycle of success, so You have to remember that when you succeed, it starts to become easier to succeed in other things that you do, you start to get the right momentum and actually, you know that at first success can be a battle, but once you get the momentum going impulse, it becomes easy and when something becomes easy it is easier for us to focus on it, on our work, on our professional careers, instead of on the things that really need attention and hard work, our relationship with our spouse, our relationship with our children, our mental health challenges our addictions. to drugs, alcohol and who knows what else, those things are much harder to work on and they are also not publicly rewarded in the same way that success is, so just a reminder to you on this journey because I care about you and you don't want to. be that person who is very successful but is miserably depressed or not in good health or you just know that money doesn't solve a lot of those challenges in life, so take care of yourself throughout this journey, that's how this video concludes.

I don't know how long it lasted, but I hope it was worth it. I think it was. If you enjoyed it, leave me a comment below. Let me know what was something I said that impacted you the most. Something that was more powerful. maybe share with me a goal of yours you know I can hold you accountable share with me a goal of yours that you're committed to achieving and tell me how you're going to do that um I think sometimes it's really valuable to publicly declare your goals because if you just achieve them, you know in your Keep in mind that you are not responsible to anyone but yourself and we will usually be disappointed, so publicly declare your goals and give me a thumbs up, share this video if it touches you, share it with someone you know who could help them and, again, this content has been hugely inspired by Tony Robbins.

I recently attended their Upw event, I unleashed the power within their online event, so now with Covet, everything is online and I did that. It was from the comfort of my living room and it was fantastic. I played my best. I encourage you to attend. It's an incredible offer. They know what they are paying for. Only life-changing value. So Tony is an incredible human being. He has given so much to the world so generously and he won't be around forever so the way I see it, going and attending his events will see you benefit from his teachings because he is truly special and has a lot to share, Wayne Dyer.

Also, he already passed and some of what I was teaching in principle number five comes from Wayne, so I definitely want to give credit where credit is due, so thanks again for watching guys, I love you and have a fantastic week, bye.