Napoleon Hill - 10 Rules of Self Discipline YOU MUST SEE

I'm going to give you ten

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. These are my own routes, some of them are very homey, but they will be very useful and not morality is to stay calm when other people get heated. I know you. I may agree with that, but I

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assure you that you will always measure up. We all have a tendency to get hot when the other gets hot. Stay angry. Think about when the other person starts saying angry things. I was at the house of the president of a large electric power company one afternoon when a storm came and he called one of his hitmen to come out to attend to an emergency that occurred as a result of that storm.

It was Sunday night the man left. he had been gone about two hours and when he came back he appeared on the front porch of this man's house and called him from the porch and I never heard a man get such a reprimand in my entire life as this president of the electric company. power comes together so that you are blank as you think because you are the friends of the company. my command is as good as you blank the bank, but Oh, the interest is fantastic. I only heard one side of the conversation because there was only one side, one man did all the talking and the other listened and so this had been going on for three whole minutes, the other man was out of breath and had nothing left to say. say, I was angry, you see, because I called him on this stormy night I heard the president close that there was no came back and he just smiled said why the man was a little hot were that's all he said a little hot was what I expected At one point you hear fists start flying around, but you will see that there was a man who had reached great heights of financial achievement and had done so through

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, self-discipline in all aspects, and he proposed to a long worker who had been Temporarily unbalanced by his anger unbalances him and makes him stoop to that level, he simply did not intend for that to be done and you will notice it when you get into a minimal argument and you will persecute yourself if you are not careful, but If you simply remain silent while the other companions his head explodes, he finally reaches the point where he has no more words to speak.

So if you want to say a few words, that's a very good place to do it. very good in two words you say are not the kind of words you have been hearing in other words you can say something nice in return it is much better for the other guy and much better for you it shows that you are the bigger of the two people now anyone can get angry and blow their mind because what someone does is say and that happens all the time, but the truly great man, the man who is in charge of himself, does not allow anyone to bring him down. at that level of street fighting or arguing and harsh words unless he wants to do it and if he's really a big man he doesn't want to do it number two remember there are three sides to all arguments we normally think there are two higher sides but It's not all three, since your side has the other side and then there is the right side, which is usually in the middle of the two points of view, remember that when you argue with the other, don't. assume he's always to blame maybe you're partly to blame too maybe neither of you is totally to blame most likely every argument I've ever heard both sides were partly to blame in one way or another , I've never heard them in years of an argument where one party is entirely to blame, although I suspect there are sometimes arguments like that.

Number three, never give directives to a subordinate when you are angry, if the matter is urgent, then calm down quickly. Number four, treat all people as closely as possible. possible like there were rich relatives who you hoped to be remembered in their will now that's good that's a sweetheart if you do that treat all the people as if they were rich relatives who you hoped would hear something out there there and you can do that. You know if you had a rich relative who had a million dollars and left it to you, you suspected he was going to do it, it wouldn't make much difference what he said, he would never write you off. balance you would never answer him, of course, right?

It would be pretty foolish if you did that to stay silent for a million dollars seems like a very easy price to pay number five look for the seed of an equivalent benefit in every unpleasant circumstance you encounter no matter what the unpleasant circumstances are that make it so difficult to discipline yourself. so that you look for that scene of an equivalent and start searching in connection with a circumstance, don't wait a week or two, do all the work yourself, start right where you are to lessen the blow, it will lessen the hearing of the wound, whatever Whatever, if you start looking for that seed of an equivalent benefit and the number six, learn the almost forgotten Art of asking questions and then listening to the answer instead of being scolded by the other guy.

It gives you enormous satisfaction when you're angry, make the other guy pay, right? I know the temptation is very great. do that, I know we've been there plenty of times, don't do it, be bigger than that, listen to what the other guy has to say and then when someone makes a statement but you're not sure, learn to ask this. a question is one of the most important questions in life, it will serve more purposes than any other short question I can think of when someone makes a statement that you are not sure or doubt about or others your ESCA question asks forward How do you know and then expect a response?

He seems to squirm. Many times there is no answer. People make wild statements that come up again and instead of getting into an argument and turning it into an incident and getting nervous in an argument. the others do it with their own fat by putting it on the bow, but that question, how do you know that I once had a virtuous man in my class? Who was he? I just don't know exactly how to describe myself. He was there. A fanatic. say on the subject of religion and that I was sure I knew exactly what was going to happen to me after Dad said sir when there were no uncertain terms not in class but in private conversation, he raved and ranted for quite a while about it . and when he was done I told him how do you know Parson and that really raised the bar that's how I feel about that's my faith I said well now having a belief and faith is one thing, but having evidence is another here, how do you know what is going to happen to me a fraud ah I don't know and I doubt you know how do you know well he never gave me a satisfactory answer there are many questions that arise in life in relation to And if you ask that, how You know, you will discover that the other person will be unbalanced and you don't need to turn what he says into an incident.

You don't need to get angry about what he says. 7 Never say or do anything that could influence another person without first asking yourself this question: will it benefit them or hurt them? and if it will hurt him, don't do it, don't say or do anything that could hurt another person under any circumstances no matter how much he deserves exercise self-discipline don't do that because if you listen to another man you're going to hurt yourself 10 times more at least because that pain will come back to you I don't care who you are or what circumstances you are working in they live if you hurt another person you will be hurt ten times more and if the pain doesn't come right away the internal stone rate which is compounded into common compound interest and will be a hundred times better if you wait long enough because everything you do to another person or to yourself there is no way to escape from it, that is as much a law as the law of gravitation that everyone understands that you know that if you walk over this building , no matter what you think, your belief will happen that if you pass over this building and violate the law of gravitation, you hit the ground below and die. a few seconds and this law that gives you back what you send is there for the bull like in Balazs extra the law of gravitation or any other law of nature number eight learn the difference between friendly analysis and hostile criticism then, next from which you wish to live according to your relationships with others, now friendly analysis is a thing and is welcomed by the most sensible people.

I am not opposed to friendly analysis of anything I do, although it is very unfavorable if it is a friendly analysis. I like it. because I can get better at it, but if it's hostile criticism, very obviously hostile criticism, and other analysis, well, then I resent it. I wouldn't be human if I didn't, how do I know if it's friendly analysis or hostile criticism? How would you do it? about telling a lot of ways you can tell, you can tell by your relationship with the person doing it, whether they're friendly or hostile to begin with, if it's an enemy, obviously I rule it out right away because you almost know it's going to be hostile. a criticism I can say also see the tone of voice in which he does it well the way he does it because a man who engages in unfriendly criticism usually uses some epithets along with it that clearly indicate that he is biased if he has one same -discipline you are not going to be influenced by that type of person and number 9 remember that a good leader in any vocation is one who can receive orders as cheerfully as a number 10 gives them.

Last but not least remember that tolerance in Las Human relationships are as important as tolerance in the functioning of mechanics.