Is There Always One Person Who Loves More?

Take it away, eh, okay, someone on Quora recently asked the question: do you think that in a relationship there is

always

one

person

who is

more

in love than the other? Oh yes, that's exactly it, there were an overwhelming number of people who said yes, as our audience did. I'm curious ladies, do you think that in a relationship there is

always

one

person

who is

more

in love than the other and obviously for us who are in relationships up here, I had to think about this as if you have Saying who is more in love with the other becomes uncomfortable now, doesn't it change like at different times?

You know, yeah, it's like a seesaw like that, whatever space I'm in right now, I might be more in love with someone else inside of you. true but you know that could change where I'm in a different space and you're like a man yeah but I've constantly dated narcissists who are only in love with themselves what trait do you think attracts you and has an impact on how to leave you? You're empathetic, right? Yes, that's what people who don't know what an empath is talk about, someone who thought there was a therapist who said that if you want to study turtles, you should go to the Galapagos Islands. you want to study narcissists, you go to Los Angeles and they actually say that to do anything in entertainment most of the time there's a little bit of narcissism in the impact because I was curious, well, for me as empaths, I feel like we're The mood stays and we like to feel other people's energies and because we're emotionally sensitive we always try to help and usually narcissists like to take advantage of that because it's all about them and we're like Oh , everything is alright?

No, you have a yes and our The table is anchored by three cancers, yes, connected to your emotions, yes, yes, and we are at a stalemate and weekly, so you are a giver, you know, and then they receive, yes, But I fancy the idea of ​​loving in a relationship, you know? I wouldn't want to be with someone who doesn't like us because every time I hear that phrase, dogs make me think of the idea that they're just doting on me, you know, and I'm like, yes and no. I don't want to be able to love them back, so when people say that so resoundingly, it's one of those moments where I want, I wish we could go out into the audience and ask because I'm curious, I'm also wondering how many of you, if you , women, applaud you for having a relationship where someone

loves

you more or you can at least quantify it, how many of your moms actually told you that you need to fall in love with someone who

loves

you more than you love? them, yes, okay, yes, in your culture, yes, in my culture it is said a lot that the man you should bond with is someone who you know you can stay away from so that he doesn't take over your heart hmm and a lot of people.

I've believed that that's really what's going to make them stay, yeah, you mean that's what's going to make a man become a man? I've heard the same thing that will make a man love you more because you don't want him to chase you, yeah, right and they say. Men are predators, so they are the predators in relationships, they like change, yes, and if there is a woman who always says "I love you but I love myself more", that is considered very attractive to a certain man, yes, but He The problem is when it comes to the availability that love can have, yes, if you can really sit there and quantify how much love that person is giving you and hold back, you will never experience exactly what many girls follow you. oh yeah, yeah, well no, actually it was going to be you, Jeannie, that's because you and I, even you, Adrien talk about different love languages, yeah, and sometimes, just because you love differently, people can perceive that one person loves another a little more, how is it quantified? that I love you more than you love me, how can you decide that meanings be kept if most people really, if you are more susceptible to walking away, don't love them as much as the other person who will be desperate to keep them? no matter what, maybe you even accept infidelity if they love you that much, that usually, of course not.

I also believe that all relationships are different, that's why I tell people to be careful, wait for who I am. The problem is that everyone thinks that relationships are just standard and not all. Relationship is different, every person you meet is different, that's the reason when you meet someone you really get to know who they are so you can fall in love with them and you don't have to play these psychological games when you just said about what. your therapist who brings you back to square one on if you want to go find a narcissist, you go to LA if you are that type of person in a relationship or if you really want that person to love you more haha, you could be that narcissist.

Because there are only narcissists who want that type of relationship.