GIRL CHAT: When Your Friend Won’t Tell You What’s Wrong

Well ladies, it's Friday and it's been a long week, so how about we have a little celebration? Yes, that's right, we don't just do it on Fridays at the real place, we do it on Friday. Yeah, oh, you know, I just need a drink, so go ahead, Marcel. with the drinks thank you okay today where you're at work and you're probably in front of

your

computer working but you know you're already looking towards that happy hour dream that's where I'm at right now yeah we are. channeling our inner double-oh-seven with these martini laughs I wouldn't miss Burton if you want to learn how to have a good time no I don't want that's fine, now speaking of parts, don't you hate it

when

one of

your

girl

friend

's things is to have a pity party or a meeting

when

you ask

what

's

wrong

you immediately find, uh, never mind, they interrupt you and say it's no big deal, right? and you say

what

no, I'd say thank you, I don't want to hear about that anyway, okay, according to Shari Ebert of Psychology Today, when someone says don't mind, it's actually considered an insult because the speaker is basically saying that you are not important enough to

tell

the whole story. and somehow it makes you feel that way too, so we're talking about people who just like to make it seem like a big deal and then they just stop you in your tracks and

tell

you it doesn't matter, but don't you think that sometimes it does? do? that to get attention, you know why they love you, they want to beg you, please tell me, please, the humor is pointing out to your

friend

what she does to you, that she does that to you all the time, look, then, everyone has that Dude who does it, man, see you around. don't do that I will yeah I was just joking when I said I wouldn't care because I'm actually very nosy and if someone starts saying something and then says it doesn't matter I hate it not because I actually care but like I'm nosy, I just want to know why you would say I hate it, make sure it's avinasi, oh yeah, um, just forget it, it doesn't matter, you'll say no, tell me, tell me, yeah, that's all I want.

What to tell me but I have to be honest although I hate it when people do it to me I do it all the time I'm going to explain most of the time I'll say oh it doesn't matter but it's because I've already handled it about what I was going to ask you, I don't want to ask you about something that lets you know you're genuine, I don't use IgG, it doesn't matter, that's why I read this and I'm telling you, you're being so sensitive because most people will be like let's say I hit you for something and I'm like, hey. , make sure you call me and then you kick me and say, oh hey, what happened.

I could write like, oh, it doesn't matter,

girl

, and you'll be like what I want, Ben, I already figured it out, yeah, but I want to know then, so you better tell me or I'll be mad, but I got it, yeah, oh, I got soaked and traumatized in high school because I was around. We're talking about a lot of mean girls and girls, girls, I may not be women, but girls would do that on purpose to make you feel left out, you know, if we're girls and you approach them, you're What are they talking about and they say no? will they understand?

Oh yeah, that happens a lot on our show now because we get into talking circles and someone might show up because we have a lot of people on set. I always make sure to open the conversation to that other person like Tamar and I talking about our periods, come on girl if you want to be a part of this you know what I mean or something like Lane saying oh no it was nothing. Like I know I want them to feel that way, I don't want them to be a part of this, but oh no, it was something about I don't know, even if it's something they don't need to know, yeah, it's a different way of doing it that doesn't make them. feel like you've never been in a minute, this drink is too strong, babies, it doesn't matter.

I see, I know it really gets to Adam when I say "it doesn't matter." I use my "don't care." like whatever, that's when I really want to talk to Adam about something important and he's all dismissive about it, so I'm like, I'm like Adam, I really have something important to tell you, he's like, wait, wait, just wait, wait. , wait, I'm talking. my friend then I'll tell him it doesn't matter, yes I do it if I've asked for something and it hasn't been done, yeah then I say it doesn't matter, and somehow it suddenly gets done because he's just worried that I Come on boy, that's a good one, oh that's a white story, look at the wife, where she'll leave everything she's doing.

I'll say, yes I will, yes I say pay for the tram. I have to get it out. Mine, don't you know? because he knows I'm trying to get back at him, so he gets back at me, maybe he doesn't really get into it, oh yeah, no, no, or you use it when you're fine, sometimes we women get This pass, we got too involved. our feelings and you want a little more attention so you just give a little sign that you know what's

wrong

genius it doesn't matter oh you know I mean you every time I think about having sex and then you'll be like never before .

It doesn't matter because they're Cain, it doesn't matter, you can't wait, well, people have sex and that's just not good and they say it doesn't matter, oh God, you know what things bother you now is the time when many of you are getting crazy invitations for halloween parties. A Quora dot-com user recently posed this interesting question and said: is it okay to not wear a costume to a Halloween party? Now the user goes on to explain that costumes can be expensive and although he appreciates the effort of the host who attended. Planning a party and getting the food Paying all that money You don't want to spend all your money in just one night, so ladies it's always okay to show up to a Halloween party without a costume.

I think that's what Jesus is. I know there is no excuse there is no excuse a garbage bag is a costume you make some holes in it put your head in I always go with the you know a white sheet you could be a ghost yes or like a bag of cash cat ears for the ones you can get that 99 cents at the 99 cent store, get some knowledge, put on some mustaches with your eyeliner and your bang, you would love it, take a piece of charcoal and rub it all over your face and call yourself A gold digger himself, no, that's what it's going to look like, don't do that, don't do that, that doesn't look good, don't do that in Compton.

Yeah, okay, yeah, you guys know I love throwing parties and I don't do some costume parties or just parties like that. the code is like the dress code, what do you do when people show up? I'm not a whore, so disrespectful. I know this may sound like I'm being dramatic, but I think it's so disrespectful when that person shows up, they don't walk. the vibe of the party other people who didn't want to wear the costumes who made the effort then look at that person and go towards you she doesn't have a costume oh my god I just wear it the entire time she's wearing she didn't wear it when I I took mine off and you just start making a mess, if you don't have a costume that you don't want to put effort into at the event, okay, okay, certain people at this table you know.

I invite you to go trick-or-treating and they make me put on a costume and then I didn't have a costume or they made me put on the ears and I put the tail in front of her if you saw both and she said You can't like it, you have the ding-dong, but you know What Lonnie I said, do it for the kids, yeah, and you did it for the king, what I'm saying so much, what I'm saying is you provided little things, you know? So my solution is that if people don't know them because maybe they don't have money, yes, I'm not sure I have had them.

I'm just saying help them, so help them get some ears or you know, wait a minute. Don't keep Adrian as hostess with most of the hostesses so you will provide the house with the snacks, the DJs, the hors d'oeuvres, the drinks I started and now we have to give you some cat ears to join in okay I want say, in that way, yes. I really wanted her to come so I made a way for her to come and I worked that day and I work two extra days because I did my radio show and I thought I was really tired and I feel like you already know all that but it really didn't help that you came this anus.

Make sure you have a lot of fun. You here. I am down. Yes, this Tam Tam is very funny. Our guides want to do something, but I don't know what. to do what the theme is this year um, I don't know yet you don't know, I don't know yet, but just some of us are not doing it as a family, we just want to wear what we want to wear, yeah, maybe. Riya and I will be paired. I don't know, that was on sale, that would be nice, but I liked her Stay Puft last year, you know, weird.

It's usually okay, yeah, that was his Stay Puft and Aiden was a ghost, yeah, he was a ghost. Yeah, that's the thing, they weren't in the theme season, is the season right around the corner? Guys, it's almost time for what cuffing season. Okay, sure, you guys don't know what wife season. I don't know, it's time. of the year when people who normally enjoy being single seek boos to keep themselves nice and warm during the cold months. Oh, you know, though, a recent Hello Giggles article suggests that maybe it's a good idea to skip cuffing season this year.

I know, for example, they said I don't want to be involved, for example, they said if you're looking for something long-term, you don't want to fall in love with someone who's relationship material or maybe you just like keeping up with someone. yourself and you don't need someone to have drinks with. Single women should be taking cuffing season tests right now or it's a waste of time. Well, first of all, I don't call it cuffing season. I call it your turn, big girl season. right now you would be looking for thickness, cool down, you need someone to hold you, you know what?

Just because you say it's cuffing season, that doesn't mean it can't turn into a relationship that is true, okay, sigh, great long-term relationships. I started from cuffing day until the only thing is I think you have to know if you're really capable of letting your feelings into that cuffing hug, doing everything together in vacation mode and you can back out, yeah, because some people do. do. It can't be turned into anything else, but what if you make it cuffing season? The other thinks it's okay, coffee, look, so when January comes we're done and in January you're not there, but because sometimes it's that complicated I feel like it's not going anywhere.

I'd rather just curl up with my blanket, have a glass of wine and watch Sex in the City, yeah, but it might be go somewhere there, borrow some chocolate, no, girl, it's okay, it's the month of winter, yes it's cold, it's also the Christmas season so you want to. being with someone on New Year's Eve, I get it, it's almost like it makes you feel a little used. That's what I'm saying. I used to like you like it, you're not used. I agree with you. There are so many single brides who don't. I don't know if they are able to let me go because my girl, my single friends are hopeful and I am a good hugger.

I pride myself on my love and my art is too good. You have to understand it. No, we don't do it well, neither for mine nor for anyone else. They removed their apps which you can find on Google, guys if you type wives app you get irritated and literally have questions like current relationship status, single dating, fake single in relationship, marriage, divorce , it's complicated, the availability of wives, days, nights, after nights and weekends, so Google this little break we're about to take.