GIRL CHAT: Is It Ever Ok To Keep Secrets From Your Man?

Who's ready for some

girl

talk? Here we go first according to reddit.com. Some people believe that you don't necessarily have to share

ever

y detail of

your

life with

your

partner when they ask readers to admit something they've been doing.

keep

ing from your partner here are some examples of what they said I have a separate bank account full of money oh well I have a gambling addiction and I've been stalking my ex on social media it happens to be this oh my god

girl

s , TRUE? It's okay to

keep

any secret from your man. I say no, yes, for the real things.

Sorry, yes, those are important things like, for example, you have a gambling problem. I should know about these things, yes, and then that sneaky and beaten like

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ything. having another full bank account, that's not asking, stalking your ex on social media. I'm sorry if I found out my man was. That's crazy, do you think Israel knows everything you're trolling on the internet, yeah, and I'm I'm going to tell you why because I'm too honest for my own good. I know everyone on my own. I don't want you to know what I'm telling him. I have to know.

It just comes out. Yes me too. I know, but look what. That means tam, it means my ex texted me today. I didn't respond, so those are things. I would say exactly the same. I quit, but you're not young enough. A boring life. No, no, let me tell you, how are you? Addressing one, let me tell you, okay, would you tell your man? All the other people you've gone to yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, that's it. There are some things I keep to myself. There are some things that are just me and the Lord. I agree with you, I don't need to tell Freddie everything because first of all, my man isn't nosy, he doesn't ask, he doesn't want to ask you about all the exes I've been with because he doesn't want to know. and he doesn't want to imagine it, so he's mature enough not to think about it.

You know what I am saying? The thought of if I ever had my man walk into a place and there was someone else there that I knew. I had been with I never want any other man to have an advantage over me. I heard wait a minute. You know something and you know it's like he went somewhere and it was with someone. I want to know. I want to get into that. room and look at that other woman and say, yeah, honey, I know you know, but if there's nothing on her test about me, it's that girl who thinks she knows something, she's thinking about it and to me, I love you, you have the ring right now. you, you've never been in a real way, you know you've been with someone else and you know clearly that her partner has no idea about her and she walks around happy, I don't know anything about what's going on, no, you'll never make it.

I'm the stupid one, no, what matters to me is this. I hear about how many kids you have if you were so obvious that you should tell the person you don't have sex. Am I so weird if I didn't? Your sex life before being with someone is your business. I don't think it should be blamed on you in any way. I don't care what you did before me. Okay, curious people, so I just asked you. You really want to know everything. The only thing I want to know is not each one of them, but I want to know who was special to him.

He's fine, I know every line. I just can not. I can't explain why maybe it's just the girl in me because sometimes we are nosy. I'm just curious and he made me feel better so if I see her in public I like him I know who you are it's not like I have a short photo to do it yes I want I want to see a photo have you made him write down? I know what you and he scroll through Facebook to show you his past, no, oh God, I'm telling myself, oh God, in fact, I've flipped through Adams' old albums and I would say who is that, with who you were, who, oh, she's pretty and then. he would tell me the truth, my husband, I mean, he doesn't hide anything, that's what makes me really feel, yeah, I feel like you're just keeping something to yourself about it, yeah, if that person didn't matter, why what would you feel strange? sharing it, actually I'm okay with that because I only share things with Freddie if it's important, but to be honest, today is today that we got married and from that day on we move forward together, so nothing matters except that day when the boys learn Who is he and why?

Wayne now knows that he had a relationship with this other woman and what they went through. Am I ever going to call him out on that now in a conversation at all, but he helps me know who he is and makes me feel closer. share all my certain parts of a woman that will ask me which one I love that fine line of things to know who he is, but there are other parts of a woman that you need to be careful with, ladies, I'm really reaching out to you, and there are parts of where you're going to ask things just for your nosy side to know things that will keep you well, so I also like that you have your eyes open on your feelings like this and that will be dangerous. area, yes, but I'll be honest, if you keep your eyes open like that, maybe she can expect you to solve whatever's inside her.

No, I want to sleep well and move forward in my future, yes, but it could be something deeper in there like white like okay, let's say there is something in a past relationship that bothers you, you actually have to look at yourself and say : Why does this bother me if he is with me in my future? Why should that little thing bother me? Yes, but it is. You're really taking the time to investigate that within yourself, are you sitting there thinking who is that heifer that you had a really good time with? I mean, very, very true, so no, this is very, very revealing because honestly, I'm just being nosy, it really is to know.

I don't think so, they are notorious. I wanted to know who Adam was attracted to before me. I didn't want to know, he's not nosy. I just wanted to know if I was his type. Yeah, and I learned that Adam doesn't really have a type. exactly and the point is that he is with you now, why do you sit here and torture yourselves? If you like, if she was with Halle Berry, then you'd be like, "Oh my God," and by the way, the person, honestly, yeah, whiskey, you think I am. I'm like you. I asked Freddie.

I asked him who he had slept with before. I wanted to know who was the best. I wanted to know if, oh, you're the best again. You feel like you're the boss, so I'm not. Don't ask me anything that he doesn't ask you, they are different and you give it to someone, you give it to the person you love differently depending on your feelings towards them so you know as a married woman and whoever you are dating in that moment. through the three of you you know that to that person you are connected with at that moment you are giving the best that you know how and what you feel because that is what you have at this moment and that cannot be compared to someone again the past air you know what really that's all we're saying I'm like at the end of the day I understand that maybe you want to know maybe you want to know that's your business but I feel like I know your husband and there's no one that can compare to you, Ladies, really, let's talk about something different.

Here are some couples moving in together who should discuss whether we're ready to move in together. Oh, how are we going to split and handle the cost of this new housing deal now according to Mike Dot? -com About 30% of couples separate after living together for three years and 14% never make it past the first year of living together. Some things you may want to consider before moving are: Do you know how you will divide the ring? pays for food and what we do with the apartment and the things we get together if we separate right now that's true now I want to say something because I'm a numbers person, they say 30% yes, you don't make it after you know, three years because that means that 70% makes a big difference in the name.

I always want you to like them, but ladies, do you think couples should wait? How long do you think couples should wait before moving in together and for financial rules to be established? before I move in with your man, Yatta experts, I'll let you talk - no, no, I'm going to take a backseat with you Loni because I want to know what you ladies think, because when I was dating Freddie we didn't. move in either oh well this is what I don't know where you are, but I'm sorry because when we moved in together, there were a lot of things that you guys did and I wasn't ready, remember you've never lived. with a man before, but I haven't, I don't, it's not about another man, I haven't lived with Freddie before, so I was trying to be the good girl, I was trying to keep my kitty and it's like a little pocket and I was trying to be good and I just didn't know it, you know I didn't get married, I didn't want it, you know, I didn't want to be tempted, so we met you, keeping your kitten in your pocket with your husband at home no, I have not located anywhere else, yes, everything was variety.

I'm Erika, I live together and you go to bed, it's very easy, okay, I'm going to be real, be real, yes, it was very difficult because boys do things. that I was not used to, yes, meetings, so your data is challenging, but I would not regret my decision, so I regret it. I want to know today. I would tell a couple what I was doing. I would say live together. I look, but first. I want to know why you regret it because people are different when they live together when they live together and how that yes what that man is like when he left it all out how I am when I left it all out you don't say you just understand, you're seeing all those things now when you live with your women, just, just, take out your pasties, take out your bra, just let all that stuff out before you guys have sleepovers, like to be honest, Jeannie, we're leaving. overs but it's nothing like living together I don't care what you say you can sleep over together you can Netflix and chill but it's nothing like living with the first thing I have to ask you, okay this would be really real yeah what was it?

He did that, so it wasn't just him, it was me too, how do you see? Honestly, it's getting used to the pace of living with another person, and sometimes the pace isn't what you expected. I'm talking about that, Lonnie, I'm sorry for you too, no. I'm just saying that I feel like when you get married that first year you're kind of discovering each other. Yes, for me, honestly, this was the most important thing. I loved sleeping alone. I held my God. Thank you. Know? What I'm talking about, yeah, don't let your leg get cushioned and not only that, our getting up times were different, you know?

I didn't have a regular job when we first got married, so I used to sleep in and he would get up at like 5:00 a.m. m. and I mean, damn, I'm awake now, yeah, little things like that would bother me, honestly, no matter how long they were together or how long they were together. living together once you get married that's when you really know who that person is that's what I thought yeah it doesn't matter it's like something happens and everything comes to light and here's something else statistically guys I read about this Statistically, it's so strange.

It's interesting and me and I try to figure it out, they say listen to me, they say that people who live together before they get married actually have a higher divorce rate, yet people who live together and have been engaged are the same, It's not that interesting. I feel like because maybe they've been living together for a while and then when they get married they're like, "forget about this, I lived with him before." I don't want to go through that right. Does that mean people who are engaged? have been living together or the people who have waited say: you know what I invested in this again and I'm going to do everything I can to make this work and that's what I've realized, that's what I miss, right?

You don't know my opinion, but it's really interesting.