GIRL CHAT: Covering Tattoos Controversy!

This is for Bane, very seriously. You might consider today to be one of the most unlucky days of the year, but in reality we were reserved in Yes, in the name of Jesus. Let's treat today like any other Friday to Friday, I mean. you're going to convert, yes I am, oh but that's great because you know how I like to handle Friday the 13th, oh you like to drink my favorite, the Thirsty Lake, it's a spring favorite, it's a strawberry basil margarita , you learn to do this. cocktail or a mocktail for you, head for the real calm now, how do I say ladies, get even more ready to drink.

Okay, this is delicious, I know, it's really good mmm, a bunch of people who like to believe in superstitions, we're brides, everyone I know this now, some brides like to control every aspect of their big day, but How much control is too much? A recent Madame Noir article asked if it is okay for a bride to ask her bridesmaids to cover her

tattoos

. Hmm, the debate arose after a

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friend. She was upset because her bridesmaid got a big, horrible new tattoo right before the wedding, so BIG bridesmaids sometimes do a lot to make the bride happy, but they should cover up her

tattoos

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She too, is that right? What do you think? Yes, oh, the audience is mine. First ask our newlywed because yes, you know no, you would have a lot of bridesmaids. Yes, she would avoid it completely. I thought I'm going to choose someone. I know she won't seem crazy and I love her so much. and those are my bridesmaids. I thought everyone can attend and I only had my sister as my maid of honor and she did the same for me. I was her only bridesmaid, so I avoided that kind of situation, but if I had bridesmaids, I'm trying to think, Jeannie, if you've been my bridesmaid, say I gave you a tattoo, I covered you up, because you think that if I asked you, you wouldn't care, you would cover it yourself, okay, this is true, I would, but I think Adrienne before long said that if you loved me with my stamps then you should love me now you ask a lady of honor that yes at your wedding you want to know that you want all of you to be accepted my only question is why? she did it right before the wedding so I'd like to know the story behind it because there's always a story, okay yeah, behind a tattoo like that a family member passed away who wanted to get it like her uncle or something like that I don't know, yeah.

Dude you find out what someone's uncle is at your wedding that's I'm sorry I think look I think if there's nothing I'm fine I'll never ask but that's why I chose not to have bridesmaids because I don't want to ask you. do things that are going to be offensive and I probably want something offensive today. I wish that would never do that if you did, let's say you have a big one. Yo, Rose, could you have me cover it today? Yes, because that's not it. What I would like your wedding photos to be, but that's my point is that I feel like if your real friend and the bride are your friends and the bride came and said, "Hey, you know, there's a certain look that I want, it's a certain look when you do it.

Girlfriends would cover it up I'll pay a makeup artist to cover it up professionally I'll leave it to you that's what she is one day give it to her someday I think about them like what if I don't want that accessory look I'm talking about you know, look oh man, your sissy, oh boy, our wedding, yeah, but what I'm saying is I really like to cover them up when I wear a lot for you, but I wouldn't let it. I finish what I'm wearing, Hilary, I don't want to be accessorized too much, so I have a lot of bugs here.

I got a lot of tattoos here, so I don't need big earrings. I had a little. a lot, but I think when you accept your friends you love them as they are and you don't want them to feel uncomfortable or insecure about tree art. Well I agree. I have a commitment, okay? So would you be offended? on Adrienne I touched up the tattoos in the photo or would you rather she just said hey look, I don't want you, I don't want you at the wedding, this is a great right, very good, because friends who are good friends, Kay, tune in to each other Yeah. friends, go ahead and delete it yourself, yes, but in public, like with your friends, yes, I don't want Adrienne to be like daddy Lindo, yes, puppy country, oh this is my friend Jeanie and sorry about her tattoo .

I look at it every time she would. I want to feel like Jeanie, yes, and she made that decision in 1997, we love her anyway, yes, so that's all I'm saying, I think it's the framework, but it's not your day as a bride, just don't choose to those

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s to be in your production. I know the bridal party chose a different girl in this situation, she did it right before the wedding, so you know what you do. Yes, of course, if I ask Jeannie to be my maid of honor, I want her to come to my wedding as Oliver, yes.

I'm trying to tell everyone, here's another thing that makes me very sensitive about tattoos because people shouldn't be judged by the ink they have, people aren't certain types of people because of the eight they have, oh, You're almost Fein, I don't. Don't do that in the hole, no, you're feeding one day, it's Monday and it's a look, and if it's a certain look, the blonde at the time of the tattoo, what if she had a cute little heart just on the cute little heart or that? If Jesus was there or what's there maybe I said look, we're saying what's the look we're not trying, that's careful what it is what dress it depends on and you know how hair peels off sometimes going to weddings everyone has the same hairstyle or everyone has the same type of dress that's all I'm talking about I don't think I think we get too involved in the thing of we don't love you we don't accept you no It's not like I accept you.

I'm asking you to be my wedding. What was important to her. Yes. Well, not bad. It's important to me. What if you know how to do it? What if you know how some people feel insecure about certain birthmarks? They have What if it was a birthmark? What if there's a birthmark there? Oh, she unsynced you now, would you have seen the essay on the table with her mom's opportunity that just passed me? Thanks, she even had a table for everyone. the people who died at my wedding and we had their photos there so people can do it, so that would work in that situation.

Okay, your parents are in on this, but I mean at least you own what you're saying. which is what you want a certain look, so I do it a lot, that certain look can offend certain people, they don't charge for their looks, but I think that's a burden, one day it's the bride, it's supposed to be the day of the bride, it is not ours. One day, if my friend came to me and said, can you lose 10 pounds? But I'm going to try to find out and that's what she's asking me to do. Is the same.

If that's what she said, I'll try to do it. what I told you to be like when you're going to look is when a certain notion of all these conversations for this exact reason that's why I avoided all these conversations I'm not going to lie I have certain friends that did want to be a part of my bridal party and when I thought in appearance and all that, I found it difficult to choose a certain style of dress that would look good on everyone, yeah, you know, there were so many things that I literally was like we just stated here that how that probably wouldn't be right, I think it depends Look, but that's when I think you had a lot of ideas.

I was surprised, I forgot, but it was very illustrated in the image, yes. I think there were eight or nine, but what I did was choose a dress where each girl and I asked them I said: would you feel? because they were all different shapes, different colors, different, you know, sizes and I asked them, I said, are you comfortable with this? dress, do you feel comfortable because this shoulder is outside? So I kind of presented them with some options and then they had to choose what made them feel comfortable and I wanted to make sure that they looked and and for the photos, I know that well. day so I got them their own hair and makeup team if I wanted them to look yes but I agree it's your day you can have whatever you want there you should feel comfortable asking.

I also understand that when you have a group of friends who they are and what they represent there is more than any photographer any meaning of the dress any look can convey who they are if you really want to work there and who they are I didn't lose the ten pounds so I was sitting between the audience. I never say that woman has surpassed that person's names for me. Molly, okay, that's a lot of waiting, plus, a little too far, the birthmark covers your birthmark, this is a lot, come on, there are extremes. to move for your wedding I lost 23 exactly okay complete he's not someone else's do it to be at his wedding no I wouldn't, yeah I wouldn't make the best difference between a bride and a bride, yeah, so you know, I hate confrontation No, I don't want to ask anyone to get those things, so it was just my side pushing.

I looked at it like it was her day, that's what she wanted. She wasn't going to do it, so I guess that's it. very fresh, may be expensive, but should pick up speed according to New York Post investigation. Research shows that a loan spree can improve your mood after a breakup. That's right. Nursing your broken heart by investing in a vacation or a new wardrobe can help. Get over your ex though the trick is not to overdo it because then you'll be separated and broke yeah you don't want to do that so ladies is retail therapy a good way to mend a broken heart or not yeah Oh my God. yes, I agree on this too, oh no, oh my gosh, there is nothing like marking the new chapter of your life with a cool outerwear item, be it lingerie, a jacket, a pair of sexy jeans that make your butt look amazing, clothes in your closet. it's representing the different parts of your life and I like to look at something and say I still have it there you look good you feel good so the reason why I don't do it I think it can help in the process of a breakup, I know For me , you guys know I don't buy a lot of designer clothes, believe it or not, yeah, but when I went through a breakup, I did.

I used a big fancy smancia, but this is something I was going to San Francisco to call. new year for the new me and I packed all my new clothes I came back I left my luggage in my car guess what? They didn't come in and steal all my clothes, so I saw it as a little lesson and then I was forced to deal with it. I don't necessarily believe in buying something. I think I'm breaking up. I like to do things like spend money on a good trip. I'm really going somewhere. You know, it's therapy, but you spend money on it, but. it's a different kind of way, not necessarily my clothes, for fear of what I might consider spending money on therapy, oh, okay, you know something.

I need to talk to someone instead of buying new clothes okay this needs real help therapy physical therapy should always help but the problem is Sometimes every day there is nothing that makes you feel instantly put together well and new, like seeing yourself and believing that you are looking in the mirror. You will be fine? Dave, you'll be fine. Why does it have to be like this? Why does that value have to be set? Something you bought, this turtleneck, got me high. I know myself too. Why would you put that on something you bought? I feel like you guys know I hate shopping like I would.

Shopping for me is torture, so we all buy what I want to torture. myself, although I am already heartbroken, now I believe in something like wearing lingerie that you already have in your giveaway, choose me and draw, draw Adrian, what after you got married, when you bought your Gucci loafers, oh yes, huyn is war, your combination. Gucci loafers, yeah, well, we felt really cute and pretty at that moment, yeah, my heart felt satisfied, okay?