GIRL CHAT VAULT: Is This Punishment Cruel or Creative?

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one. Well, actress and singer Raven Symone has found herself in hot water for reposting a photo on Instagram featuring artists like Ti jay-z and Diddy at Rock Nation's pre-Grammy brunch. Now the post said in part to quote a group of so-called successful black men who become rich and famous by perpetuating the worst black stereotypes, such as the drug-dealing pimp and the murder of other blacks. men and disrespecting black women, I know making remarks as a hater. Greetings, now raven finally decided to delete the post saying quote comments are not something I want my underage followers to see.

I'm not going to delete because I don't believe in what I said well, after tea I saw that post, he decided to make his own by posting a photo with the Oscar Wilde quote every saint has a past every sinner has a future crow in his title quote I say that It's not older than Yours, ma'am, the air must run out, hail up there on that high horse, you said no, ladies, what do you think about Raven's pulse? She sounded angry to me, so she must be coming from somewhere. I don't know if she was angry, but When I just look at the opinion itself that I'm going to give you before I get into

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, let me give you a little more information about this, okay, this original post was made by discourse, who was the leader of the hip -hop.

The '90s hip-hop group Arrested Development put the post up and when he posted it, Malcolm Jamal Warner reposted it for Raven, so I just want to get that out there, but he also put that post up and put it up. that appointment, he also had another one. part and this is the part I want to read, have any of us who have grown up with these brothers evolved but I don't necessarily hear the same evolution in the music?, he continued in words, still in words, bees are still bees and hoes. and throwing bricks and doing tricks is still the way to get that dough until you make enough to live like them and if you think these black men got rich off what they sold us in hip-hop, imagine how much money the man made white.

Out of them, that was the entire post, so I just want to give you that background. It's great to finish. I have one, yeah sure, it's not one-sided, but I also want to say that Trey Songz on the IT post came out. he's, you know, he said, he commented, he commented on Raven, but he also said in the YouTube speech, so I just want to let you know clearly, so now with that saying, now we can talk about this and the problem, like this I know people are going to be there. Well, you know her, but we clearly never had conversations like this in our cheetah girl days, right, but I'll say this, that's the truth, okay, yeah, but people say she knows her.

I think when I see a photo like In This I see the goodness and mercy of God and I think when I say that I feel like each of us has things that we're not proud of. We have all made mistakes in our lives. We have all had a different upbringing. I don't know what someone's past was, you don't know why they did what they did, but what I do see in that photo is that they have evolved as they said and when we say they have evolved and I don't agree with that, we don't. Listen to it in the music, I completely disagree.

After I went to prison, I had to make a whole album that didn't have bad words in it and it was a great album, so obviously his artistry and his creativity are important. We listen to what Jay-Z is rapping and I'm sorry, that's profound when he talks about being good to his wife, being a good father to his daughter. I'm changing who he is as a person and maybe changing the mindset of him that he used to have when you see this. The song killed Jay-Z. It's about changing who that person was back then and becoming someone new so every day we wake up with mercy from God and I think I believe in new beginnings for every person, not a single chance that it won't be the god of the. first chance a second chance a third the fourth, the fifth, the sixth or the seventh and unless you've never done something you're not proud of, I think you can say a statement like this, but if you can't, then just I think it's very critical and I think if you look at any room of anyone, not just Blackman, but Latinos who have done badly, there are white people who don't do well every day and who have a bad past, it's not a question either. of race. my opinion, good music in the past from a lot of these rappers I grew up with.

I listened to men and women, by the way, it wasn't just men making music back then, but also women, that we were making music about their reality. they were seeing what they were experiencing, what they were compromising on, it's just their reality and I think it's important to be that when you grow up, to stay true to yourself and own your truths, so you have to have an outlet where you can talk about your true a little. people do it through rap some people do it with a spoken word some do it through movies writing books we do it on this show we talk about things we're not proud of or things we grew up and had to go through to get to where we are like that when I look at that picture and the words that hurt, you know, looking at some of the people I grew up with, the so-called successful ones, I look at the men now, at our fathers, at our husbands, at our business moguls who have paved the way for other rappers, you said I can be like you and that's me, success is when you can help someone heal and truly achieve a dream they need.

There are little kids who can look at this photo and instead of seeing something negative, they might say man, I had a choice to go the wrong way, but if they can do it, I can do it too and I think that's an option for them too. and you can say, "Okay, maybe the songs don't say, so maybe the songs don't." If you don't wake up in the morning, you don't know how that song can affect someone else, maybe the song that made it motivate someone to get up in the morning and go to work, that can be the song that gets you to the gym with that.

You say, yes, I can do this. You don't know what role they play in other people's lives. Well, if I'm honest, my mom and my grandmother, as you know, are very religious. I didn't grow up listening. rap because of some of the bad words and some of the things that were said in the songs, but as an adult I made the decision to listen to some of the lyrics and yes, they are talking about what they have experienced in their lives. life and I have the wisdom and knowledge to know well what they did in the future and what they are doing now and that is what I choose to focus on what you are doing with your color and the thing is that I can think of two things by looking at two people in that photo Shawn Carter jay-z actually has the Shawn Carter Foundation which helps children continue their education.

I've donated four million dollars in scholarship funds Khalid DJ Khaled oh my gosh, he's probably come across as one of the most positive people. you can follow Instagram and he's actually donated twenty-five thousand dollars to the victims of Hurricane Harvey like TI, so that's what I choose. To see exactly what you said Adrienne, we have to think about how people have evolved and evolved. changed and what are they doing with that change. I just want to say that hip-hop started because they took the music out of disappointing neighborhoods, there were no music programs, so the thing is that hip-hop started because kids don't really have something that they didn't learn, they study it internally, it they increased so they used it as an outlet so when you heard them rap they were rapping about their environment the product of their environment and they were able to make money off of it which I Your problem is why do we as black people when we see something that could be positive, we put each other down, you don't see Jews doing it, you don't see Asians doing it, we have to stop that, okay?

Yeah, I understand if you have a problem with that, maybe you know I'm only speaking for myself, maybe he was upset because he hasn't had a hit since the '90s. Okay, but don't put pressure on Jay-Z. them because you haven't had any success, why don't you try joining jay-z and maybe help him if you want to make a change? Be the face of change to see them wielding guns and everything. I was proud of them from where they came from. they all come from we need more positivity so that bothers me as we have to stop as people always make puppets.

You have to listen to what you guys said in Shana Joy said that everyone has the right to their own opinion and she is right. That's what she's saying, everyone started their music career like that and yes, everyone has evolved much better and better, thank goodness Mrs. Edwards said: I see both sides, yes, they made money off lives based on lies and misrepresentations of our communities, but they have matured and are truly a driving force of inspiration and giving back. Sometimes you have to forgive and you know what you don't want. Listen to his rap, there are a lot of rappers that are very clean raps and have a conscience and stuff like that, so we can't say we can't just point to them.

Rap and hip-hop are here to stay, whether you like it. well, from controversial parenting to controversial parenting, a very angry mother thought of a very

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way to punish her son after a suspect suspended him from school for fighting, grabbed his PlayStation controller and crushed him with the softener of meat right in front of us. The video below was posted on Twitter by a HIDA cig user, look at the hum of that sound. Everyone knows that some people find it incredibly funny, which is why the post has been retweeted more than 20,000 times and many users praised the mother's creativity, however, others felt that she was just being hurtful.

She herself is also hurting the moms here because new controllers can be expensive now, eh, but don't worry, the mom actually created a GoFundMe page to help her son. A new controller recently defeated the purpose, so what he needs is this

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mom. oh, she's creative with this GoFundMe page, right? I'm saying that's the only thing that's creative, just the controller that you broke, break the controller, put it in your panty drawer and say, don't touch it, I'm not a mom. and I know that being suspended from school is crazy like that, it's like a greasy aureus, it's a very serious matter and obviously she saw that there was a focus on her son that she needed to remove.

My only problem really wasn't getting off. the controller or hit him because my mom could have done something crazy like that, she ran him over with the back of the car and it was no longer played but here's the problem when she recorded it and put the camera in her son's face and if Read it , she graphically says: help me, as if he was suffering and she made fun of it. That's when I thought that when you discipline your children you have to draw a very fine and very bold line between where you have crossed and where you are now being punished.

I don't know the situation completely. I don't know how many times this girl has been expelled. You know, she may be completely over it and she's done with it. However, it's okay. I think there are two errors. do the right thing, I really do and I think it's up to us as parents to teach our kids better, so hitting the controller with a meat hammer isn't teaching him anything, which I think he would have done well. think about the best way up, okay, I would have said, okay, okay, you would love this place, patient, and you didn't hear what I'm going to say, so you know what you've lost your privileges 100% because you don't you did it.

You don't listen to me and you got expelled, so what I want you to do I'm not going to throw away. I'm not going to knock it because those things are expensive. I want you to go to the house of the children you hit. up and I want you to give it to them as an apology, showing them that you know you have some kind of values ​​and at the same time letting them know, uh-huh, that you don't treat people like that and you never will. play with it no more for this whole year until you act right, yes that to me is abuse, that is child abuse, you mean it, you know you were doing that, recording it and putting egg in that child's face, I mean, and this is. our t lonnie speaks, I don't think that's true, you saw kids and then you posted it for a couple of lights, stop doing that to your son, get off, we deleted the post, if he's been on the internet, he'll live. there forever so he will be a grown man and that video will still be there so I agree with Lonnie that you discipline your children however you choose, you don't have to film it and put it on you, you guys are so much fun, lovely SMW.

He said absolutely not with my voicefrom Adrienne but I'll play the game in my living room as loud as possible so you can hear how fun they are she's the mother of that screen he knows it's dmg too xoxo he said if you pay for it. I guess it sounds like a waste of money to me. My mother used to take my game console or phone to work with her so I couldn't use it. She was a single mother and worked three jobs, so it wouldn't last more than a week before I saw her and my things again hahaha, here she asked us to put them, you know I'm sick of all of you and these pages of GoFundMe that these use.

I lost my funding, this little kid, the next remote I just saw, cool, what's up? the meeting is fine I know and then I said we should have run. I didn't read what God, what her things were, yeah, you know, everything, go, fund me, excuse me, yeah, she's fine, she wants $5,000 for a $55 controller, so that's abuse, yeah. I will have to say that I love how much I learned here, like I know you want to be a mom. I asked Mom Tami to teach me things, Aunt Loni, because Cousin Jeanne still wants to back off because of that.