Family of 6 s too much to handle! | The Fager Family | FULL EPISODE | Supernanny USA

here's making sure to keep the kids busy, I think. It taught him something because some of them had never been on a plane before, put it, here we go, okay, so we are the body system, let's hit it this way, real friends. When we got to the airport I had the older kids form up. couples with the younger kids so everyone was accounted for and no one left, but doing the body lift system is fantastic. I like the buddy system, so annoying that it gets lost in anything because Ben and Zach usually like to leave and stuff, it's great, the Sega

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arrived at the airport without incident and for the first time this

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got on a plane listen to me , all of you and Zachary we're going to take leave in a minute remember keep your seat belt on, okay, the golden rule for taking children on a plane is to be prepared, organized and bring lots of activities.

General tips for you when you are on the plane, make sure they do their activities. and they are playing with those who keep the children busy now if they do anything that is hit or kick the other person in front the usual tone of voice someone else is sitting there if it gets out of control where they really are yelled get up from your seat lean in the kids say down have fun but too loud the figures were prepared and organized and that flight was smoother than they ever imagined I bought a vacation for the whole family at the Marco Island Marriott Resort and Spa meet them together first tell the children what you expect from them listen, we are not going to run away, stay together Stay together, come on, let's go abroad.

I had never been to a hotel before so I always reminded them to call Buddy so they could get a good photo of their parents, this is a big resort, we need to stay together so they don't get lost, okay guys come back to stand in line when I first saw that room. I'm like, wow, okay, start unpacking your clothes. toys there and then they put them in the toy bag when they want, they put salt on the children, they lay out their clothes, everything is ready and then you can start ordering dinner remember that even if we are on vacation there are still the cornerstones of a routine You need to be known when you're on vacation Ben, did you put away all your clothes?

Good Guy. Stacy and Joe are going to have to work very hard together to make sure their six children toe the line the first morning we arrive. When I went down to the beach I was nervous, so remember that this is a time for the kids to have fun and for you to relax and have fun with them. I wanted to show mom and dad that the easiest way to keep kids from running away is to keep them busy and I was involved in an activity, so I sat in the lawn chair and let my kids play and just watched and watched them. and I would relax, just drink water.

That did a fantastic job of keeping the kids interested and also gave mom a break, but mom's break didn't last long hmm Benjamin ran into the water and mom had to go get him Benjamin warning Benjamin I gave you a warning and didn't you listen oh oh um no we don't throw sand at other people when you put him on his naughty spot can you explain to him without glasses so you can look him in the eyes okay why is it there okay the discipline has to be constant either Whether you do it on the beach or at home.

Benjamin, you're in the 90s but they're going to widen without asking I gave you a warning and you didn't stop now you're going to sit here let's walk away Benjamin knew that moment in the business and he stayed there for four minutes so what do you have to tell mommy ? Stacy did a fantastic job with a naughty spot and if he keeps this up things will be easier this afternoon. She had an activity for them and it's about teamwork and bringing them together as a family, we have to use all of these pieces as a family. to build the boat, do you think we can do it, yeah, I bet you can, when I first heard we were going to build a boat together, I thought it was cool, I thought it was going to be fun, but I didn't realize it was we would do We would have to do it ourselves I thought there would be plans there ok what a build it was a lot of fun because our family had never built anything together before well I could hold the flag yeah the kids have really good ideas and that's something Joe really is showing us. is that we need to involve the children and listen to their ideas and help us, yes, you can write it anywhere, my love, let's see what cents come here.

Put it in the first Benzac, they were very naughty. Ben just hit Zach as hard as he could. With Ben's blow ore, Zachary dad took the kids aside, not Benjamin and Zachary. I want you to give each other a hug and tell each other you're sorry, yes, but how do you resolve that? What have you learned from that? period, okay, Benjamin, inside, come here, please, don't hit each other, okay, because that's unacceptable. Behavior is naughty. Behavior you said it was an accident, if it was an accident you should say you're sorry Ben so look at Zachary.

I learned something. If it is an accident, go ahead and apologize, just make it clear that it is not acceptable for us to hit each other once we resolve our incident. We went back to building the boat. Are you happy with that? Yes, I'm proud of Sarah for naming the boat Andrew, is that really you? I know she did her part to make it happen and I even liked that the twins chose their own ideas and Chelsea with the waves that were amazing a little deeper than that. What was great for me is that this family was very proud of the boat they had built and together as a family we had a lot of fun.

I needed to let them have some quality family time alone so I took it as a perfect opportunity to say goodbye to them so I could go away and let these guys continue with their tips and technique and see how they do this and guys I'm leaving, I'm leaving. I'm coming, you're fine, together, let's have fun, I'll see when I get back, don't forget the techniques, have fun, enjoy the afternoon in our Balinese Spa. Are they naked? I'm glad to see you have time to get a babysitter and spend time alone. It's time for you to have fun together.

It's great to see them enjoying the day. I don't know what sport to practice. use I don't either just look outside well put it on and throw it in that bag well a family trip to the beach for Ben and Zack's shoes under all the beds right now we only have one we need three this is my there a phone underneath disorganization equals stress it's that simple put those away the cubes aren't what we're looking for we're looking for your shoes look under the couch here's one look they're on the towels you guys are coming out now that's crazy It took me an hour just to get out the door .

Are you going on this scavenger hunt today? Yes, a treasure hunt. Kids will love this. How old are you? 27. Count them one two, Joe. I love that enthusiasm. Okay, what do you have? doing why aren't you a part of this it's okay I can do whatever it takes forever because there are 50 million of us I don't know every time I've done a scavenger hunt it's so fast I've never done it as a family Are you looking for your positive attitude? They've been acting like this since we started. If you want to continue making great progress with your family, you must be one hundred percent motivated.

We have more work to do. Alright? we take a look, sure yes, we can enjoy the afternoon in our Balinese spa, he never will, it's like a honeymoon we never had, yes, this is great and look humans, give your partner back, you just They laugh, they can have a good time. quality time together as a couple and forget about the children. I didn't even make a phone call or anything. Letting go is such an important part of being able to relax and I make sure you do that at home too. I'm glad you do it. We had a great time, they gave us one more shoe to find.

Okay, they're on the towels. What was happening there? Good job. You didn't have a plane to catch. You would have missed it. What you're not going to do is get it. get out the door if you're not organized so you have to be ahead of the curve to be able to get out the door smoothly and that's what I didn't see happen here it takes forever because there's 50 million of us I don't know we it took an hour to start oh, sour cat face, you're there and then you wonder while the kids are sitting in the chairs saying, I don't want to do this energy. completely flat levels I have to be excited I was I was very excited well, if that's excitement I would like to see you happy so mom, you must recognize that on a holiday everyone does something they love to do, not everyone evolves around you there are things that need to be modified today because you need to be able to bring this home now too, but I'm so proud of you two for how far you've come, I mean, absolutely extraordinary.

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more positive than I really expected, there were some serious things that she brought up, so are we ready to be able to modify the rest of these? Some work done after watching the DVD footage, the first thing I needed to help this family was to sort out the chaos and get them out of the house, so I'm giving them the out of the door technique so they can use it here and at home . The first step we are going to do is to organize the organization, which is to have all the shoes in one place, all the beach clothes in one place, okay, we need to prepare in advance and that is the end result, you need to set up things. and we want the kids to be able to do that all the beach toys here with the big purple bags oh well done look at this good job the shoes are great guys the shoes are great guys come here okay Stacy and Joe so we've lined up their shoes, we have lined up the beach where the kids know where to go when you are about to move on to the next stage and this is the next stage, once everything was in place it was time to get this family moving and you The boys have 10 minutes from now on to do it, let's put on our swimsuits. 10 minutes in all their beach gear was going to be a challenge, but they could do it here and then when they got home it would be a piece of cake, no.

Ready, still, put your shoes on, buddy, here, put them on, dad, the older kids are doing their thing. JoJo really helped us get our act together a lot. You've got two minutes in front, one minute, one minute, give me the boogie board please, we're ready. you got Jacob Joe yeah so we're ready can I tell you how long it took everyone last time to get out of this room? It took them 60 minutes. Should I tell you how long it took you now because you were organized? It took them nine minutes and 21 seconds I'm just telling the truth when he said it took 60 minutes to get together, that's not right, I mean we don't like to see that, come on champs, let's go to the beach, that's fine, and it's just for show you that when they are.

They are focused and organized and prepared in advance, they can easily get a family of eight out before I left. I wanted to talk to Joe about giving Sarah and Andrew a journal so they could write down their feelings about the situation with their birth mother. I thought maybe we could explain to the kids what these books represent. Well, I have no doubt that it is good for children to write down their feelings so that they can talk about them, so that's how it should be. The positive thing about these books is that one is yours, that one is yours and the reason I give it to you is for you, whenever you start to have feelings towards your mother, just write them down because we don't know what's going to happen, guys, but you are.

I know that someday you know that maybe if you can talk to her again you can show her these books or you can keep them for yourself. I encourage you to share them with me. You can do it and this is just an opportunity for you guys to write. your feelings I like writing in the journal because it made me feel excited to leave my feelings in a journal. I don't really talk about my mom

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in front of other people. I love you guys that made me feel good when Sarah was reading her diary and she added a little bit about divorce and things that she had never talked about before so um and Joe said that was a big step for her that took a lot of girl gray to write that on that road and I'm really proud of you, so proud of you, this holiday gives the Fager family a new positive outlook on life and we will definitely keep you smiling at those memories.

It has been an absolute pleasure to be able to take you on vacation and give you the vacation you have dreamed of. I have done very well. I'm very proud of you. I would like to thank Joel for realizing that I need to spend more time with my family. I guess I could just say thank you Joel for giving me back to my family we do it thank you we had a lot of fun I'm going to miss JoJo a lot keep drawing how many people this day for the rest of our lives I wanted to give you this, this is the flag and I want it take care, take care of him my love I felt a little special when JoJo handed me the ship's flag another kiss together Stacy stay positive okay, there are no words to describe how grateful I am for choosing us and helping us.

Can I hug you. I can leave thefamily of figures knowing that they have a positive outlook on life and that together as a family they will continue to prosper. I think our family is more united. I think we are more of a unit. Hello I love you. Much less stressed now because of the techniques Joe taught her, here's the warning: Sorry, Mom, Jacob fell. I have never spent so much time with my family before. Sarah and Andrew, because of their mom, can talk. about it more openly, she helped us a lot. I wish I could stay here for the rest of my life.

One of the most important things I've realized is how important every moment is, just the sheer amount of time I spend with my family. I have learned that when I get home from work, if I can take a little time and spend some quality time with my kids, that will benefit all of us, not only did I feel like a vacation was impossible, but I also don't leave the house now I can go anywhere with the six. Oh, have you shown me how to hug my children and how I like their lives and their laughter and everything I've been missing?