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Why we aren't married...

Why we aren't married...
hi guys and welcome back to my channel so today I wanted to talk about something super excited that I actually got for Christmas and I've been meaning to make this video but I haven't had the chance to get around to it until today let me rewind a little bit I had told Cisco I didn't want anything for Christmas because literally guys if I want something I can just go out and buy it if I want like makeup or perfume or basically anything stickers planners you name it like I can just go
why we aren t married
out and purchase that myself so I was just like let's just not do gifts if we do gifts let's just do them for leilani for the little ones our family my mom and dad your brother and his family and people that are gonna come to our house it's basically what I said let's have gifts for other people and not so much for ourselves I have been so blessed to have so much more than a human being needs feel so happy and fulfilled and I just don't need anymore to let this go that I was
like I just don't worry about me I'll be okay I will show you he obviously got me other things would you how show you but we we didn't do a gifts for last year and I know you guys wanted me to do like a what I got for Christmas and stuff but I don't have really anything to show you other than like a few little things but he actually gave me a ring for Christmas and it was so unexpected and I wanted to make a dedicated video for it because a lot of you were asking like why are you
why don't you have a ring like why are you why are you not gay why are you not

married

why do you have why do you have a kid but you're not

married

yet people would always ask so I figured I would just make a video and kind of address it on here so that if people are like watching my older videos and they're just curious they can come on over and just watch the video so I totally get that it's a tradition or that's the traditional way to do things like get engaged you get

married

you have a house or whatever the case may be there's like a certain order you need to follow and I don't think that should be the case I I mean obviously I'm not saying that this is the way to go about living your life or this is the only way this is the correct way but this is who I am and this is what I believe to be true and that is to really get to know who you're gonna be with like really get to know them you cannot know somebody by just being with them like a year
I've been with Cisco for over ten years so it's not like I don't know him it's not like he doesn't know me I know him really well I know how to make him mad really quickly and he knows how to make me mad very quickly we both know each other so well you would know so much about each other we know our phobias or were scared of we have grown I mean it's I've known him since my first job ever and we have grown together we are like learning together we have leilani already
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and she's two years old and I get it some people don't like the fact that we didn't do it a certain way I totally understand but we are not perfect and I'm okay with that I'm okay with not being perfect I'm okay with not knowing what is going to happen I'm okay with that as long as our relationship is healthy I don't think a ring or a document measures love I really don't it does not measure the love that I have for Cisco it doesn't measure the love that
he has for me it's all materialistic and it's not that I'm ungrateful I'm so thankful for it but I just wanted to to just say that because I know a lot of people were asking I have my ring now and I'm I'm so happy with it it means a lot to me because he chose it himself I didn't want to be like oh and needs to look a certain way or it needs to be a certain way like no I want you to choose it I want it to be special and I say you know I told them if you ever do end up
getting me ring and choose it for me and I'm happy with it you know and I don't want to cry cuz it come on like I'm gonna get emotional but you guys I hope that I am getting my message across and I don't think that a ring or a document like should define your relationship with your significant other your partner or whoever you're with um it's more than that it's so much more so much bigger than that I am grateful I am truly grateful and I've told them this so many
times it means so much and the way he did it was so cute too because he was giving like print gifts to everyone and I was like not expecting anything because I had to don't get me anything for Christmas I opened mine and mine was like puzzles like Dollar Tree puzzles but he said it's so hard to figure to figure me out and he gave me puzzles as like a little print gift and then in the bag along with the puzzles and stuff was the ring so he was so adorable and so cute you can believe
because you know I'm so petite small my ring finger is a three and a half like I had to get it resized because I'm so small three and a half like the standard ring is like seven I think like a seven maasai seven and I'm a three and a half like I'm a kid size so anyway I wanted to share that with you and I know it wasn't like the traditional way that people like do things like I first had Leilani and then I got engaged and I want you guys to all know that that's okay like
why we aren t married
there's nothing wrong with that as long as you really get to know that other person as long as you are happy both of you it can't be one-sided as long as you're both happy it doesn't matter there's no time frame like you shouldn't rush things and that's the best advice I can give to any of you out there be patient I didn't expect it at all I think it all is meant to work out a certain way I would love to know your thoughts in the comments I know some people are
very like strict about how things should happen but I think from my experience when you try to like force things or like almost control things to happen a certain way they don't end up working out as well as you would like and it just isn't a good ending at least I have found so anyway I'm gonna stop rambling I wanted to share this piece of news with because it's so exciting it's such a blessing and yeah it's my little ring it's so cute and he did such a good job like
it's got little diamonds all throughout like the sides and I loved it so much he did such a good job and I wouldn't I wouldn't have it any other way so there's that I wanted to show you a few other things that he got me for Christmas even though he wasn't supposed to and it's these highlighting pallets I've been really into highlighting it's been like my new thing so this is by VB it's called glow and it's got these colors here and then he also got me this
one which is by beauty treats s1 is call it out of this world Universal highlighter booklet six ultra pigmented shades and it even has a little picture where like to highlight if you're like a beginner or you don't even know what you're doing like me I just have fun with it and this one's really pretty too and the colors or the shades are pretty big so he got me those little pellets for Christmas little shoes and they just look so comfortable so excited and they have a little bow
on them you're so cute I've been wanting some cute shoes like these and these are so nicely made so I also got these little shoes from him and so excited to start wearing them you have a cute little bow on them and they're quite quite lovely I know you guys wanted to see like I usually have a pretty large amount of stuff I got for Christmas but it's just like honestly I can't ask for more like you know I wanted to give more than like Ribeira seeming like I just received so
much already as it is like I wanted to give to my people but anyway make sure you're subscribed if you haven't already I do have a Dollar Tree haul coming up next I'll probably film this right after this video so I will see you guys there bye