What a toxic friend looks like

Okay, someone in the last video said they appreciate how quickly you get a fit hole to sit in a room and talk nice, we don't do things halfway here, where you have different circles, you have your family, you have your boy

friend

, your girl

friend

. you have your inner circle of friends and a next layer and so on, and in one of these circles you can have a

toxic

friend there, there are a lot of

toxic

people who are very charismatic and very cool, and that's how they infiltrate your circle. You will never meet a toxic person for the first time.

Hear him say. Another sign to keep in mind is that they are never the villain. They are always the victim. The toxic friend I had in my circle. Call him Eric, he still has some friends convinced that he's not toxic. I started to get a little suspicious. Oh, the second time we hang out, you know, your friend brings Rando to your squad and they're like, "Hey, this is Eric." everyone, the second time Eric came over he said something that alerted me, oh man you guys are amazing, thank you for being so nice because all my other friends just cut me off.

Instant flag, everyone in his group of friends got together and decided to just cut it off. You all shut down at the same time, yes, warning, warning, because one of two things is happening, either everyone is the problem or you are the problem, and one thing I know about toxic people is that they are manipulative, they will do something wrong and They try to convince you that you are wrong and another thing you should keep in mind is that they are very selfish, they always want you to do things for them or in some cases they only hit you when they need something, but you can count on one hand the number of times they have gone out of their way to do something for you.

One of the team's friends was moving to a new building. They texted in a group chat. Hey guys, I'm moving to Hollywood on Sunday, can anyone help? I texted them back saying I have family for you and then they said, Hi Eric, I'm actually moving into your building. Can you help me with port five? Now I'll be in Long Beach all day with my girlfriend while we move boxes. up and down the elevator the doors open and guess who it is yes, Eric not with his girlfriend he's not in Long Beach like one now some of my circles I have circles of friends made up only of girls I'm dating some of these girls Eric sees my Instagram Story, you need to introduce me to so-and-so.

I love his videos. Ask them if they're all free to hang out tomorrow. I'm not entirely aware of its toxic levels yet. I'm still investigating it. Iona does a little bit, we all get along, he says, you know, let's start a group chat about a week later, the girls text me. Hello, we are at your condo. Can we appear on my Instagram story again? He sees that we are all hanging out and he feels some way about it Wow, thanks for the invite, is he joking or being real and saying no, no I'm not? Okay, five minutes later, Eric left the chat and then something happens.

All the girls that were there. stop

what

they're doing and everyone starts texting him individually like, oh my god, don't stop. I realized this and said everyone stop

what

you're doing guys, this is exactly what this man wants to be with you. Once he acts like this because he wants to be the center of attention, think about whether this is how he acts after hanging out with you. Once you feed on this now and he'll have you all wrapped around his pinky forever. so they were like, hey, you're probably right and everyone stopped texting him, but I thought it was cool when I was having meetings with the team, it's movie night and you know what it's like when you're with a group of friends and you're trying. . to pick a movie, that person has seen it and these two people haven't seen it and you finally found a good movie that no one has seen and that everyone can agree on so let me tell you okay Eric you choose Eric choose that horror movie the boy is talking about. that possessed doll 15 minutes into the movie Eric says: this movie sucks ilex just give me your keys I'm leaving um no if you want to leave call an uber we're not even going to talk about how this man chose the movie and it's We're leaving now, like this that now we have to pause the movie because all this explodes and he is getting angry because she does not give him the keys to her car, so he calls a supermarket, he is angry, he leaves and Alexis starts to feel bad and while she goes to Send him a text message.

I ask that everyone stop meeting with the emergency team right now. This is the first time I've expressed any concern about Eric to any of our friends, so I'm a little worried about looking like the bad guy here. so I tore up all my notes and shared them with the group. Turns out everyone has stories too. Well now I have information that this guy is really a little toxic, that's strike three for me bro, okay you're out, paalam, some of your toxic friends are. They are so ingrained that they are almost unavoidable, so you have to keep seeing them and the only way to avoid being around them is to not show up.

The squad hangs up. However, I said my part so the squad can't say they aren't aware. I have spoken if the future is blocked. I'm starting to notice that Eric is doing this thing where he tries to get the group to cancel certain people who have wronged him. You know Omar is shady. Omar made me dirty. Be careful. Oh, Marge, keep your distance. Because of Shady, I then noticed that people on our team were starting to avoid this person. I mean, I said my piece. I expressed my concern. I have spoken so quickly. It's Eric's birthday and we're all together.

I bring my friend and tell her happy birthday. give him a gift me and my friend stay on this side of the room he stays on that side of the room I'm not being antisocial but I'm not being a social butterfly somehow a debate starts he says he never said anything my girl friend says, "Oh, you actually said this on Twitter, let me find the tweet real quick as she starts scrolling through Eric, you could see him realizing that he went through all this huffing and puffing and it's sinking in that he was shown to be wrong in front". of everyone in this room on their birthday so this guy blows up I don't care what you find I never said you don't understand what I'm saying loud body Rob blah blah blah he snapped say what you want to say do what you want Do me Check your tone when you approach my friends.

I am very protective. I feel my inner bully jump out. It caught me. He sits him back down, but at this point I get involved. Eric, you said it. I've seen her tweets. Speaking of which, I heard you tell this story calmly, but at that moment, friend, it ended, Stevie is right, I've already spoken, I want to challenge you all to do something when someone is eliminated, keep them in a position where you can help them, but they can't hurt you or take advantage of you, they limit their access to you. I'll tell you right now, it's not easy, there are a million lessons to learn from a million people around us, it's important not just for you to enter. and you go out of your life and you don't learn anything quickly until a few weeks ago, so remember Omar, that guy Eric told us to distance ourselves from.

I was browsing Instagram and I saw a t-shirt and I thought of him so I called him like Hey man, I need your shirt size and I need your address. I want to send you a random care package. I just want to do something good for him. Suze, are you serious right now? You have no idea how much this means to me right now, brother. I'm going through a lot of things and not in vain, I'm going to be honest with you. Eric told me and a few other people that you were shady and that we should stay away from you, but brother, you're clearly a real one, oh, said that low-key sauna, I think he's the shady one.

I have said my article. I have expressed my concerns. I have spoken.