Jealous or When HE LOOKS at OTHER WOMEN | Feminine Energy Expert Adrienne Everheart

Hello everyone, I am very happy to be with you today. I haven't done a live stream in a long time. I'm Adrienne Everheart, your dating and relationship coach for 'cimmanon Energy. I have been bombarded with so many questions about whether an

other

. woman and he is in your presence or if you feel really

jealous

and insecure in a relationship, how to deal with that and how to handle it, and I think a lot of people deal with

jealous

y in a relationship in one way or an

other

and the man or makes us feel guilty about it, it will make us feel wronged or bad for realizing if he is looking at other

women

or if he likes other

women

or talks about other women and we don't really know what to do with these feelings because we feel a little ashamed and aggrieved for feeling jealous. and I just want to emphasize that jealousy is a totally normal feeling in these situations, there is nothing wrong with you and today I will give you some advice on what to do if your man accuses you of being jealous if you really feel jealous and especially if he is looking at you. other women so real quick I want to welcome you all to my channel at some point you will hear me cough.

I'm recovering from a cold, so be prepared. You are here and I want to say hello to everyone. I am very happy to be with you today. I miss you all on the live stream so let's get right to it, those of you who are new to my channel are new to

feminine

energy

. I want to give you just a brief summary of what it is and what it is not. Feminine

energy

is not about being submissive or allowing your masculine energy side to be strong and powerful and create amazing things in this world. It's not about that. about always agreeing with the man,

feminine

energy is just a natural energy source that you have within you.

All sexes have it, both masculine and feminine, and in a relationship with a man, a man feels good and has a lot of masculine energy and testosterone. you need to be in your masculine energy and he can get there if you are in your feminine energy and for you to be in your feminine energy and have a healthy flow of estrogen and lots of good feel good hormones, there are some things you can actually do with your life, your body, mind, spirit and soul, that it can really improve, that this happens naturally, you know, men, you know, it seems like it's very normal for men to replace themselves hormonally or if they need more testosterone or whatever . and there are actually proven scientific ways that men can increase their testosterone naturally and I think one of them comes from how a man feels in the relationship now, it's feminine energy that focuses on how the man feels in the relationship, not the focus.

It's how you feel in the relationship and what we are doing with them in an interview is we are taking your masculine energy away from the man so that he can be the man and you can be the girl and you will soon discover your relationship will work much better

when

you are in your feminine energy in the relationship and allow it to activate its masculine energy. Now I could say a lot more about this, but I'm not really here to talk about that. I'm here to talk about jealousy, but I like to do a little summary and if you want to learn more about feminine masculine energy, you can check out my book 500 Ways to Talk to a Man or I have a program called FEMM Tools which means feminine energy. mentality method so again hello everyone very happy to have you here so let's talk about

when

a man

looks

at other women.

I'm going to give you the quickest way to combat this because men are a little out of control and they see a beautiful woman. and they can hardly resist it, however, some men are a little better trained, they know how to look with their eyes very quickly and without you realizing it, and then some guys turn their whole head and look and make a noise or sound I have heard everything now this has never happened to me. I am very happy to say that I am totally distant or if the men I have been with because of my energy because of a boundary that comes with I come to my territory, they know that if they are going to look at other women, I will not stay.

I had a boyfriend for a short period of time who every time a hot girl came on TV, he was like, "Oh, that's her." so sexy oh she is so sexy and finally I said I can't handle this I can't do this he told me why what's wrong with you you don't need to be jealous she's on TV I don't have a chance with her it doesn't matter I'm hearing about it and I'm here in the room with you. I feel horrible. I feel like I'm not the most important thing. The guy was like you don't need to feel like that.

You're beautiful, you're with me, she's so sexy, her tits are so big, mm-hmm, you see how they try to do it her way, he wants to do it her way, you want to talk about women like it's with boys. and you're the woman there, so here's a super quick way to deal with us when the guy is talking about another woman or looking for another woman. I just want you to say I can't do this. I feel too jealous and I get. Get up and leave because when you get up and leave and go to the other room, if you're at the mall and he's looking at a girl at the mall, all you have to do is say, Let go of my hand and just leave. . somewhere else I'll see you later I can't do this and this is the reason you're looking at other women so when you walk away from a man something happens to him instantly and he wants to chase you and have you back. and turning your back on someone is a very, very powerful tool now.

I don't want you to overuse this. I don't want you to use it to manipulate or you know, use it to really hurt him in some way. It's a limit for you. I just can't do this, I need to walk away and you calmly let him know why you can't. A man doesn't like it when a woman walks away and he will try to fix it and that's where you want him to be. in the masculine energy of him fixing the situation, whatever it is now, if you come to him and say, hey, we need to talk about this, let's sit down, let's talk about how you like to look at other women.

I have a real problem with that, it will go to the zone. because now suddenly you are using all this language and all these words and men don't have the language ability, we do, remember we are different, men and women are different, it would be wonderful if they could handle the language that we can. but they can't and they won't, so my next step is to just have something really short and sweet that you say to him and that is that you are free to do whatever you want. I do not want. control yourself because that's the truth you can't control it you can't control who he

looks

at and who he doesn't look at and you don't want to control him you want an animal in a cage you want a dog on a leash No, so you tell him you're free to do whatever you want, you're free You can treat me however you want, look at any other woman you want, yet when you do, I feel this small, I feel invisible and my heart breaks and I feel repulsive, that's all you have to say, so that number one, you're just releasing them, you're human, I'm not here to control you, so you can't say you're just trying. to control me you're trying to be the boss to me you're trying to be the boss no I'm not you're free to do whatever you want but when you do I feel whatever you feel and that's all you have to do. say you don't need to explain it defend it the more you explain and defend the further you get from your point and the man loses you in the minutiae of the words you don't want to be his feminine energy is being in your body being in your body knowing what it feels like to speak what you feel very easy to do okay now another thing I want you to practice is if a man calls you jealous yes I am I am jealous now what is there to talk about now let's go ahead and accept it accept it you are jealous you are insecure I am uh huh I am I will be the first to admit it agreeing with him when you can agree with a man just throws them off their core because that's who they are The point of discussion what they are arguing is that there is something wrong with you because they want to do whatever they want and again , guys aren't bad or evil for doing this, they're men, this is how they operate, just accept it, but he won't be as happy if you leave now you won't be very happy if you stay and keep putting up with this and keep trying to have conversations and going to therapy and all these things to fix it she has to recognize how you feel like a goddess on a pedestal, now some people don't like the goddess on a pedestal because they think it means you are an idol and you need to be worshiped and all those other things that they put on it, but really it's about a mentality of who you are as a valuable woman you see it when you are a goddess on a pedestal and you are very high and you see your man looking at other women oh, I realized that hmm, how does it feel good?

I feel like I'm suddenly not very important to heaven. Well, I'll let you know and then you'll keep doing it. I'll walk away and if he keeps doing it after that maybe I'll walk away forever because I like to feel good like a goddess on a pedestal, see that's how it feels a lot of people talk about how men can go their own way, well no They can go their own way if they are not with a woman, you have the maximum yes or no and no. Don't forget that this is your power, your maximum yes or no, use it for good, not evil.

The sexist can work together with masculine and feminine energy. Please give me a thumbs up on this video if what I'm saying clicks for all of you. I would love to know that I am reaching you with what I am saying now. The last thing I want to talk about is what we just did. We just discussed how it's really powerful to say well, yes, I'm jealous or yes, I'm sorry. I feel insecure, how do I feel, yeah, well, when you're with your guy and maybe you're not ready to go through all these steps now, maybe you're out of practice and you're not really ready to say these things yet, so it's kind of I want you to start. by just noticing how you feel and using a tool called a riffing tool and a riffing tool is a way that you can connect with your body because part of a side effect of being in your masculine energy is that you're up here in your head. and you're thinking and you're figuring out and you're planning to plot to solve and the feminine energy is just what's happening in your body your body sensations is a sensation you're having in your body your sensations is noticing what's happening Let's move on with you, okay , so if you can imagine your guy is with you and maybe he's four or five feet in front of you and you see him turn around and look at another girl and what do you feel, what do you start to feel and I.

I'd love to see in the comments sections and we'll practice riffs on what you feel in your body when looking at another man. I'm waiting for some comments to appear, so someone wrote in, he said he feels sad, jealous, insecure, upset, angry, so let's start with jealousy. I didn't know you feel jealous. How does it feel in your body? How do you know you are feeling anger? Because you know all that, you're just going with the flow and then he looks at the other woman and you. you start to feel a different sensation in your body so this is where the magic happens this is where you can go from having a perfectly normal happy experience to suddenly having a new sensation and how do you know what you're having? that sensation, what do you feel in your body?

Okay, I feel small, I feel bad, how do you know you feel small? How do you know that you feel bad? What is the feeling? Okay, so this is a great exercise and reconnecting with your body, so let's see. If anyone has been able to answer how do they know they feel the word you are saying you feel like someone says my stomach is sinking my heart beats fast because I don't like confrontation that is very good so princess princess said my heart beats fast because I hate confrontation I want for you to say the following I love the part of me that my heart beats so fast I love the part of me that hates confrontation and go ahead and allow yourself to embrace those parts of you because otherwise we have this negative feeling that you don't want to avoid we want to avoid confrontation Whatever we feel, we lock ourselves in, we zip up and we don't like that part of ourselves and we can't heal and we can't get over Ladies, a man can't love all the parts of you unless you do, you have to. start with these disgusting, disgusting parts of you, jealous, angry, my stomach is sinking, I feel bad, I feel like I just want to throw up or maybe they want to do something to you hurt yourself you abused your body you know not to be a good friend not to be a good listener whatever it is embrace those parts of you instead of running away from them okay then this is my last little task for you someone said my shoulders are still tense that's a Well yeah notice it like I have an instant feeling in my shoulders getting tense, Wendy, look at that other girl, no matter what.

I love the part of me that feels tense in my shoulders and then you take a breath and now what's the next feeling that comes. You go up and keep traveling through that past loving one feeling after the next feeling until the next feeling and you will reach another place and that is the magic of this journey, don't rush, just go there with yourself, love it with a feeling in a moment takestake a breath and then let it go what's the next feeling that comes up these are the layers of your feelings these are the layers of them and they're all so precious I always like to think of it as a train that's moving fast and you want to slow down. that train and see what is thatValuable charge is the charge that is happening inside you when you love all the parts of yourself the man will too so just a quick summary when a man looks at other women you always have the right to walk away, walk away, leave the room, leave it.

I know why I let him know why calmly honey you're talking about girls again I can't stand it get up and walk away turn your back on him go the other way very powerful tip 2 is to have a little conversation with him I have no control over you you know that you are free to look at whoever you want, however when you do, I feel like you tell him how you feel, you don't want to blame him or make him feel horrible for how you feel, tell him that you feel ownership, it's okay. The next one is yours, if he accuses you of being jealous or insecure, just accept it, yes, jealous, yes, I am insecure, I am, there is nothing wrong with that and then the last one is to experiment, you know, find what you feel, that bodily sensation. what you feel to connect with your feminine energy notice how you know you are feeling that love that part of you take it one sensation one feeling at a time it will begin to change your life you will begin to connect with yourself in a way that um, you know, for me It was as if he had been a zombie before.

I had simply been walking through life thinking my way and not feeling anything and now I feel a lot more and men fall in love with what a woman feels. Their bodies don't fall in love with us because we are powerful, quick-thinking business women, they fall in love with us because we have this wonderful wealth within us of emotions and feelings and we can share that world with them, they remember too much of anything. it can be abuse so it's not like you want to share every feeling you have with him because remember a man can't process language the way you can so there's a lot more to learn and teach you here and you can always refer to my book. it's called 500 ways to talk to a man it's on my website ever heard calm coaching i have dating programs cut a movie female energy mindset method dating sim i have a woman for relationships i have a manifestation program called manifesto new man and my girlfriend Helene Hart and I have a great program on ways to retain and attract a man and if you're in a situation where you want to get your guide back and you're having trouble figuring out how to do it, how to get it. him back either an X or there is simply distance my best selling program is two ABC to get it back.

I have women on Instagram in my Facebook group every day writing to me with success stories about this program and I know this program works because it worked for me it worked for all my clients, I tried it and it will work for you too. I'm absolutely sure that if I don't attract that guy, he'll summon the man that's meant to be us, which I can do. I promise you'll be much better than that guy. Okay everyone, take a moment to like and like this video. I saw some amazing thumbs up in the comments section and please just give me a couple of likes to like the video, subscribe if you're not ready, share me with a front and as soon as I finish this chat, if I didn't reply your question, just write in the comments below.

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