I’m 63 and I Still Regret Not Learning These Lessons in My 30s

I remember sitting alone thinking I had hit rock bottom, but during that difficult time I met people who shared

lessons

with me that helped me get through it. These

lessons

may be just what you need right now. People are neither for nor against you. They are for themselves, what is coming is better than what is gone, sometimes you just have to walk away, let people go and let relationships end. Your true friends become evident when you are at your lowest point, the only way out is through you being stronger than yourself. Think that you have overcome all the bad days of your life and that you are undefeated.

No one is going to take care of you like you will once you face your fear. Nothing is as difficult as you think. Miracles grow from difficulties. Believe that you can and you will achieve it. Halfway, not everyone you meet has true intentions. The days you don't want to do anything are the days you need to do more. The only thing you can control is how you feel and how you think. Stop trying to change others. people because it almost never works difficulties often prepare ordinary people for an extraordinary destiny the future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams sometimes we can only find our true direction when we let the wind of change carry us never sacrifice your growth for anyone pain is inevitable suffering is optional you are braver than you believe stronger than you seem and smarter than you think trust yourself you have survived a lot and you will survive whatever comes you never know how strong What you are until you are strong is your only option change is not a threat it is an invitation to live either we become miserable or we become strong the amount of work is the same keep your expectations only for yourself life is not always fair People who lie and cheat can often come out on top, but no matter how bad a situation may seem, you just have to keep fighting, hoping and wishing, don't make things change, make different decisions and work hard.

Honesty is a very expensive gift, don't expect it from cheap people. People when patience runs out you realize that you haven't waited long you have to love yourself before you can love others when something happens and causes us pain the pain is there to teach us a lesson it is not for us to feel pain For the love of pain, good judgment comes from experience and experience comes from bad judgment. Don't let memories of your past limit the potential of your future. There are no limits to what you can achieve on your journey through life, except in your mind, we must meet the goals. challenge instead of wishing it wasn't before us Letting go is not something that happens just once, it's something you have to do every day over and over again difficult paths always lead to beautiful destinations There comes a time in your life when that you have to choose to turn the page write another book or just close it when you come out of the storm you will not be the same person who walked in Courage is the most important of all virtues because without courage no other virtue can be practiced consistently most of people will cheat on you if you give them even half a chance you don't drown when you fall into the water you drown when you stay there life is inherently risky there is only one big risk that you should avoid at all costs and that is The risk of not doing nothing.

Each next level of your life will demand something different. Take the first step with faith. You don't have to see the entire staircase. Just take the first step. Don't let anyone make you feel like you don't. You don't deserve what you want. The main danger in life is that you can take too many precautions. The most important thing in life is to learn to overcome the bad days. Build better days. Let self-improvement keep you so busy that you don't have time to criticize. Other people tend to complicate their lives as if living were not already complicated enough.

A hard lesson in life that one has to learn is that not everyone wishes you the best. There is no happiness or unhappiness in this world, there is only the comparison of one. Tell him. to the other that only a man who has felt the maximum despair is capable of feeling the maximum happiness. Difficult times are sometimes blessings in disguise, we have to suffer, but in the end it makes us stronger, better and wiser, rehearsing situations in your head is a waste. Over time, the situation will always be different than anything your imagination can come up with.

People will come in and out of your life and those you least expect will become past memories of a temporary time you once thought was permanent. One of my greatest lessons in life is we heal at the speed of our forgiveness a little enough foolishness to enjoy life and a little wisdom to avoid the mistakes that will make difficult times not create Heroes it is during difficult times when the hero within us is revealed happiness is not the absence of problems it is the ability to deal with them the great brave act that we all must do is to have the courage to step out of our history and past so that we can live our dreams nothing in your life It will change unless you change You think you know someone but most of all you know what you want to know It took a long time but I have learned that you can't take anything from life without giving something back in return, instead of worrying about what you can't . control shift your energy towards what you can create maturity is when you stop complaining and making excuses and start making changes you can't understand everything right away sometimes you need to wait some good purchases set you free the only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be if you have a strong purpose in life you don't need to be pressured your passion will take you there life changes for the better when we realize that we don't have to know everything and we don't have to pretend that we are the reason why someone smile be the reason someone feels loved and believes in the goodness of people it is never too late to reinvent yourself actions rooted in perseverance sometimes bear bitter fruit sometimes you have to let parts of yourself go or you will never be happy .

Obstacles don't have to stop you if you hit a wall, don't turn around and give up, figure out how to climb it, go through it or avoid it, you won't always be able to get what you want, but if you try sometimes you get what you need the first time. step to get somewhere is deciding that you are not going to stay where you are the hardest thing to learn in life is which bridge to cross and which bridge to burn all you have to do is pay attention, the lessons always come when you are ready, face Your emotions give you more strength and happiness in the long term than closing them or ignoring them, if you firmly believe in something, stand up and fight for it, keep your thoughts well when you are alone and your words when you are accompanied, the problem is if you do not pass your life yourself other people go through it for you be grateful for what you already have while you pursue your goals if there is only one lesson that life teaches us it is that wishing does not achieve it So sometimes you are not going to fit in no matter how hard you try and it is better just be alone.

Every trip has its last day. Don't rush when one door closes, another opens, but often we look for a long time and with such

regret

. closed door that we don't see the one that has been opened for us always trust what your instinct tells you even when everyone else tries to convince you otherwise don't take people for granted you never know when they might leave you never know how much they mean to you until They leave, you never back down from a real challenge, they give you the best lessons in life, you are the only person who can simultaneously be your best friend and your worst enemy, and you can choose which is more often, you can't. control the behavior of others but you can always choose how to respond don't cry because it's over smile because it happened sometimes you have to lose everything you have to discover who you really are people only improve with experience if they are willing to learn and understand the lessons that are given to them in the bad moments of their lives.

Difficult times teach us that our resilience is stronger than we ever imagined. You have to speak for yourself, no one else will. You won't always be. able to help someone change for the better if you keep trying there will come a day when you decide you can't do it anymore and they clearly don't want to change your life it's the result of the decisions you make there is no plan just the consequences of the choices i know cautious about good deeds kindness has limits and some can exploit your generosity you can become a victim of your struggles or emerge from them as the hero of your life the most precious thing in the world is time with those with whom in love we tend to forget that happiness does not come as a result of obtaining something we do not have, but rather from recognizing and appreciating what we have.

Your future is your past, which you understand, you have to help yourself, no one else can help you. You have to do it yourself. Once you realize this, you will feel more in control of your life.