By Age 40 You Should Be Old Enough To Learn These Life Lessons

people will disappoint you so never put all your trust in anyone hard work doesn't always guarantee success but laziness almost certainly guarantees failure you will never truly be happy if you constantly seek validation from others whatever you start moving towards adopt a relaxed attitude stop controlling yourself the search for perfection is useless aspire to Progress instead your self-esteem is non-negotiable never settle for anything or anyone who diminishes it be careful what you tolerate you are teaching people how to treat you correctly that you will never be 100% sure of a decision, but always make a decision because it is better to go back and fix it than never make it

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to say no without feeling guilty, protect your time and your priorities, chasing happiness will lead you to misery until You realize that happiness is the In some ways maybe you are not healing because you are trying to be who you were before that person no longer exists because there is a new you trying to be born, breathe

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into that person, there will always be someone who can't see your value. don't let it be you you don't

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if you think you're right all the time no one owes you anything you have to work for what you want in life there are things we don't want to happen but we have to do it Accept things we don't want to know but that we have to learn and people that we cannot live without but that we have to let go.

What you want requires consistency and discipline. Your whole life can change in an instant, so instead of passively accepting what you have. granted be grateful for it and do all the good you can with it the worst types of enemies are those who claim to be your friends the actions of men are the best interpreters of their thoughts never decide what you can or cannot do based on your lowest level Points in life only leave for tomorrow what you are willing to die without having done the more difficult your life becomes the faster you will achieve your goals excuses will not solve your problems take responsibility for your actions accept that you will make mistakes and you will learn from them instead of dwelling on them make friends with those who expand your thinking not only your circle avoid making decisions when you are angry and avoid making promises when you are happy you will never understand the damage you did to someone until the same is done with Be careful who you let into your life.

People will come and take your change, then leave and blame you for everything. Maturity is when you have the power to destroy someone who wronged you, but just breathe, walk away and let life take you. take care of them you are the only person you can control be humble

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to know that you can lose everything but be confident

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to know that you can get it all back remember that every time you try you are making progress spend a lot of time on yourself get better you don't have time to criticize to others, intelligent people stop overthinking once they understand that the best decisions require more instinct than pure intellect everything begins and ends in your mind what you give power to has power over you work to master your mind excuses are always there and easy to do, finding a way is what takes courage, being smart enough to realize that life doesn't wait for you to be well, don't let someone treat you badly just because you love them, every time you lie , you are creating. problems you will have to deal with in the future do the right thing now whoever believes in themselves doesn't need to convince others learn to miss someone without loving them back if life wasn't hard you would never grow up sometimes you just have to do it accept that some people can only be in your heart, not in your life, the only way to feel better about yourself is to do things that are worthwhile, feel good, sacrifice long-term joy for short-term pleasure, is the most easy to repent, don't be afraid to do it. set boundaries in your relationships if they walk away it means you are better off without them life becomes easier when you learn to accept the excuses you never received the first step to getting somewhere is deciding that you are not going to stay where you are slow success build character quick success build ego if you don't separate yourself from your distractions your distractions will separate you from your goals by doing what everyone else is doing, you guarantee average results Don't get lost by tolerating too much of the people you want to keep Focus your attention in creating the life you want instead of distracting yourself from your current life when your motives are sincere it is not you who loses anyone but it is others who lose you when you know yourself you stop fearing missing things that are not for you You the easiest way to destroy your self-confidence is to constantly break the promises you make to yourself stop fooling your future with your past you grow as much as the amount of truth you are willing to accept about yourself without running away all failures are temporary when you keep trying when you blame someone else for your problems you are giving them power over you you are allowing them to define and dictate your happiness and well-being blindly trusting often leads to betrayal of the only person who needs to understand if your life it gets better once you stop assuming you will always have more time later be proactive every day

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be a step forward the first to apologize is the bravest the first to forgive is the strongest the first to forget is the happiest not just one thing will solve all your problems no goal no achievement no relationship no one will ever fix you show respect even to people who don't deserve it not as a reflection of their character but as a reflection of yours whatever you do winning isn't anything but you always win if you're satisfied that you have performed at your best, you could set your own standards, find your why, your why is the basis of your goals and provides meaning to your actions, it is the deep personal reason that drives your ambitions. taking responsibility for all your problems relieves more suffering than you think be who you are and say what you feel because those who care don't care and those who care don't care when you talk you just repeat what you already know if you listen you can learn something, never date a person you wouldn't be friends with, the more difficult

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you can learn indirectly rather than through your own experience, the better healing also means looking honestly at the role you play in your own suffering. challenge yourself is the only path to growth ignoring red flags because you want to see the good in people will cost you later peace does not mean being in a place where there is no noise, problems or hard work it means being in the middle of those things and still keep calm in your heart avoid people who use their pain as an excuse to hurt you don't let people know too much about you most people don't care and some secretly want you to fail when you react you lose power perfectionism is a disease procrastination is a disease action is the cure go where you are appreciated not just tolerated fix your body before fixing anything else having a weak body is a reflection of your broken mind is a reflection of your lack of willpower, discipline and your urine, bad life choices some disconnections will bless your life true success does not depend on seeking validation from others, it comes from taking advantage of opportunities, showing what you are capable of and achieving your goals through despite the challenges when you find someone smarter than you working with them. don't be intimidated by them never expect to get what you give not everyone has a heart like you your mental state determines your life experience prioritize your mental health as you would your physical health exercise your mind with new challenges and positive conversations about life It's difficult because we don't appreciate the things that come easily Don't let loneliness lead you to make temporary decisions with long-term consequences Once you're headed in the right direction in life You stop being offended and angry all the time because you have You have much better What to do with your time Your growth depends on your willingness to keep learning even when it's boring Keeping your personal life private and not telling everyone everything Even when you have a lot to say It's top-notch self-care Find a relationship where you're natural You make yourself happy to the other person one of the most dangerous things you can do is compare your life with that of another person it is not a race it is your journey do not give up after the first failure failure is not the end it is just a detour on the road to success just because you can't see the goal behind a challenging moment doesn't mean there isn't one where you believe your mind finds a way to accept the long-term game, patience is the ultimate competitive advantage in The Game. of life your future needs you your past not being true to yourself can lead you to loneliness but it's worth it jealousy will knock you down don't be surprised it's normal it's scary when things change but it's even scarier when they don't the truth is that everyone is going to hurt you you just have to find the ones worth suffering for on a day when you don't encounter any problems you can be sure you are traveling the wrong path the magic you are looking for because it is at work what you are avoiding you must carefully discipline yourself you must keep the promises you make to yourself and reward yourself so that you can trust and motivate yourself Our lives are defined by opportunities even the ones we lose when you build in silence no one knows where to attack the pain only abandons you when you teaches something some

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must be learned twice being calm and collected in a stressful situation is extremely important this does not mean you

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repress your emotions just don't let them get the best out of you the more you spend clinging to the past the less likely your future will be more brilliant the only failure is not trying the only rejection is not asking the only mistake is not risking anything if you can't say no then your yes doesn't mean anything.

People want you to succeed, but often no more than they want to succeed themselves. Stop overestimating others and underestimating yourself. You give power to someone you blame for your problems. Life has a way of working out even when it seems impossible. You should never do it. sacrifice what you could be for who you are you don't have to prove anything to anyone, not even yourself luck comes to those who work hard good things don't come to those who wait don't make one person the center of your entire life happiness no Don't make them the reason why you are happy because once that person walks away from your life you are left with nothing when you feel like giving up.

Remember why you lasted so long in the first place. Never put relationships before your goals. you can lose them both you can fall in love more than once you don't need to worry much when someone you love leaves you most of the time it's for the better you will have to make very practical decisions about what you want from life and what you are willing to give up and if If you don't do them, then life will do them for you. Changes happen when we go against everything we are used to doing. Failure shows us the way by showing us what is not the way it is.

It is normal to feel bad after making the right decision, no. No matter how kind and friendly you are, some people won't like you no matter what you do, don't waste time on them afterwards, it often means that bad times are never actually a blessing because they wake you up. to the good things you never paid attention to never try to gain someone's sympathy people who care about you will be there for you when you need them you don't need to show them that you are their best friend you can't make someone love you by giving them more than what they no longer appreciate.

Most of the time you have to swallow the pain and learn to grow on your own. Money does not guarantee happiness, but poverty can bring significant challenges. Hiding from your problems will do it. Not making them disappear, facing them is the only way to grow regrets that can last a lifetime if you do not learn to forgive yourself and others. The time you spend comparing yourself to others is time you spend on useless thoughts. People will often take advantage of your kindness if you let them know that problems are rarely as bad as we think or rather they are precisely as bad as we think your obsession with finding happiness is what prevents you from achieving it treat yourself like someone you are responsible for. help if you are 20 years old many relationships will fail and they do not work but they function as learning exercises so do not stress so much it is just practice until you are married your friends and family do not always know what is best for you the biggest sin is thinking that You are weak Don Don't let anyone treat you badly just because you love them, knowing when to mind your own business and when to speak up is a life lesson that takes time, but once you know when to react or back down, life flows much more smoothly. .

Sometimes there are possibilities and although it may be scary and out of your comfort zone, you will never know what could have been unless you try. The great secret in lifeis that there is no big secret, whatever your goal, you can achieve it if you are willing to work if you do not make yourself indispensable you will soon be unemployed never leave yourself completely dependent on anyone you will always be able to support yourself financially mentally and physically a wise man can learn more from your enemies than a fool from your friends we walk away from our dreams afraid of failing or worse yet afraid of succeeding you can't expect everyone to be good to you and at the same time you can't be good to everyone it's during the worst times of your life when You will be able to see the true colors of the people who say they care about you.

If you never heal from what hurt you, you will bleed on people who didn't cut it, which you never expect and never put too much into. Trust no one, don't stay with bad friends just because you've known them for a long time. Our wounds are often the openings to the best and most beautiful part of us. Usually people only want to hear the good, not the bad, so if you have problems, it will be difficult to find people to trust. Numbing the pain for a while will make it worse when you finally feel it. When push comes to shove, you can do one of two things.

Define the moment or let the moment define you. stay away from narcissists they don't follow any rules they will suck the life out of you slowly you need to learn to select your thoughts the same way you select your clothes every day this is a power you can cultivate if you want to control things in your life so badly work in the mind, that is the only thing you should try to control, no matter how much good you do to people, they will only remember your mistakes in every situation, life asks us a question and our actions are the answer, our job is simply to answer well say no to your desire to be perfect otherwise you won't be able to improve any further the regret of putting those who don't put you first makes your life painful you must determine where you are going in your life because you can't get there unless you However you move in that direction, random wandering will not move you forward, but will disappoint and frustrate you and make you anxious and unhappy and you will find it difficult to get along with dreams without goals, they are just dreams at the moment you sit down. like you're hanging by a thread, let it go, you shouldn't hold on to something that makes you feel that way in the first place, the truth is that bad things don't affect us as deeply as we hope.

It is also true for good things, we adapt very quickly to never overlook contempt when someone looks down on you and talks to you as if you are beneath them, they will probably hurt you, whether relationally socially or physically, eliminate that person in your life, even a happy person. life cannot exist without a measure of darkness and the word happy would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness you cannot be happy with another person if you are not happy with yourself do not be afraid of life believe that life is worth living and your beliefs will help create the fact that holding a grudge will never hurt the people you hate only yourself there is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve fear of failure you don't realize the true value of a moment until it becomes a memory emotion that is suffering stops being suffering as soon as we form a clear and accurate image of it people's actions tell the truth about them, not their words, true growth is when you begin to control and correct yourself Instead of blaming others, you take back your power by being responsible for your life.

If you can't understand why someone is doing something, look at the consequences of their actions, whatever they may be, and then infer motivations from them. of its consequences, the biggest risk is not taking any risks in a world that is changing. Very quickly, the only strategy that guarantees failure is not taking risks. Tomorrow never comes because it is always today.