Attractive Men Avoid Saying This to Women

In today's video, we'll look at common mistakes men make when talking to

women

they're attracted to and what you can do to stop being boring and immediately become more

attractive

. We'll do it by breaking down some Craig Ferguson clips. that you can have reactions like

this

when you're flirting you're so cute I forgot how much I loved you I love it you see it all comes back to you let's keep talking about sex while Craig has clear advantages like Being a famous TV host, much of what he does anyone can do. The first habit you need to learn if you want to be more

attractive

is to stop thinking about the conversation as simply an exchange of information and instead focus on having fun and creating emotional peaks.

There are two easy ways to do

this

: The first is by answering their questions with fun, funny answers before giving your actual answer. Here's a quick example from Craig so you can see how stupidly easy it is to do. Do you know what a wombat is? a wombat, a one time bet, yes it's a ladybug, especially when you meet someone for the first time, the first few minutes of conversation can be predictable, what do you do, where are you from? Things like that, most men give simple, boring answers, so you can differentiate yourself by making her laugh, for example, see how Craig handles the predictable.

Where you come from? I'm from Scotland. Sweater. Here is one more example. Notice how this time Craig starts to give a real answer, but then thinks better of it and changes. to a joke but charlotte knows it and since you found it I liked it well I got off the plane and there it was but then if you make someone laugh by

saying

something playful and unexpected you will instantly like them more it really is as simple as giving a funny answer, obviously false , before you give him the real deal, a good tip when flirting is to answer someone's first small talk question in a playful manner and at least 25 of the small talk questions after that, this is not always necessary to build attraction, But it's especially useful if you're not sure how to answer those basic questions of where are you from what do you do in an interesting way?

You can also turn boring small talk into a fun and flirty conversation by jokingly replying to their answers Are you a lawyer? So no, I'm a paralegal well, that's the same as a lawyer except you jump out of planes, right, what kind of doctor is your sister? internal medicine internal medicine so all your work is done on the inside most men don't respond jokingly so when they talk to someone they are attracted to, in fact, most men make a second common mistake here: being incredibly enthusiastic With everything she says, listen to the clips below to see some examples of this, have you ever been here? an exciting full-time mechanical engineering student oh that's awesome I was a dancer and danced in college more for fun yeah yeah I was a writer for a magazine that guy seems super nice but unfortunately responding positively often doesn't It's enough. to generate attraction, that does not mean that showing enthusiasm is bad;

In fact, in our first Craig video we covered how he often interacts in a positive and high-energy way, but when you react to everything she says with an overly positive response, it can be a turn off, you run the risk of becoming predictable. and, depending on the way you speak, you can come across as disingenuous or desperate. What sets Craig apart and what can set you apart is something called push-pull, where you mix that strong positivity with some playful teasing that makes you both laugh, for example, look. how craig jumps between compliments and makes fun of alice eve in different parts of their conversations i'm getting weird i think as a result of being an actor it's weird i was just a girl before you've never been just a girl, have you ever? been in germany i'm buying this deal the car from a german person who doesn't rate you as having visited you can even do this in the same sentence jumping quickly between teasing and compliments again immediately i love your dress by the way it's very you can see through of pieces it's a small tablecloth thing why do you keep doing that to me? you're scaring me I'm putting spells on you yes, you already did that, you did that when you did the knee, that's right Look at me backing away like that yes, yes, crawling away, no, no distance hurts me, no, it's listening, it has to be, this doesn't It means you have to be quick to chase every compliment with the provocation, just keep that in mind so you don't go crazy.

Too One-Dimensional If you're not sure exactly how to tease someone while flirting, you can steal an easy style of teasing from Craig. Say cliché phrases that are normally only said by

women

to men. This type of spontaneous role-playing can do them both. laugh and jokingly rephrase that she's the one flirting with you, so show me what you've got, no you can't put me on the spot like that, say, show me what you've got, you have to get a little closer to invite me to dinner, not just come in running and must my hair stand up Jeff I like your snake cup thank you very much Yes, it's amazing, isn't it?

Do you like it? Hey, now have dinner first. I just wanted to see it. Do you want to see my fruit basket? I just wanted to hear you say that fruit basket, I mean, don't run straight to the fruit basket, there has to be a conversation first, if all you do is follow the advice that is already in this video, you will have more women to meet you. They will find it attractive, but there is one more. What Craig does in a conversation to create chemistry. This is optional, but it's a big part of what makes Craig attractive.

Creating an environment where women feel safe being flirtatious and sexual is a great example of this. Watch the following clip with MMA fighter Gina Carano, she has only been. talking to craig for five minutes and you can see that even she is surprised by what he is willing to say honestly it's real it's like you can't really hide it you know something in the cage it's just real you know two people who go a Yeah, it's like sex and I'm just kidding, hey, whatever way you do the job, Gina is clearly embarrassed by the joke, but she was willing to go there because Craig goes first and Craig is great at introducing sex in conversation without seeming creepy One reason he doesn't seem creepy is his obvious comfort with the subject.

Notice in the next two clips how his tone and body language convey that for him talking about sex is no big deal, it's those weird kisses. a girl because you're straight, yeah, I'm not really like I have to kiss a guy because I'm straight, I'd be like oh, this is kind of like, yeah, awesome, no, I mean the zebra or the zebra situation, Check it. out oh yeah, yeah, no, no, no, no, no, don't be close to peeling, do you like this? I'm really not, that's a good transition. I'm just

saying

something very important here: how uncritical Craig is.

Shame women for their sexuality or kinks now because introducing sex into the conversation risks coming off as creepy, you need to calibrate it with the other person you're setting up with and how the conversation has gone so far, a great way to test the topic is with a playful misinterpretation, you jokingly misinterpret that they are the ones who started talking about sex for a quick example of this. Listen to Craig talk about Scotland with Michelle Monaghan. It's so beautiful there, yes it is, yes, yes, every time I think about it, it's true and we. If only I knew, oh my gosh, well, I was there during the summer too, so it goes on all night.

You can even jokingly misinterpret that someone was being sexual by simply pausing and giving them a funny look. Do you identify with the people below? Don't you have your servants? or upstairs that are terribly ruined uh, I don't see it but I've been both upstairs and downstairs. I'm going to answer the question now, are you creamed? One thing you will notice. Craig rarely makes a joke about them. having sex together your playful misinterpretations simply introduce the topic of sex lightly and at the same time make her laugh, then she can decide to just laugh and move on to a new topic or double down on the joke and take it further, it's the day of Valentine's Day, so you can squirt anything.

Do you want, no, you can, no, you can, berry cream, no, anything goes, no, no, no, I'll have to order that, no, no, don't order it, it's very, very painful, but I might like it a little of pain, well, we are, we are. out of time so fast yeah, no, actually, I mean, no, we're not fast, we're not fast, it's okay, don't be embarrassed, I was excited again, this doesn't mean you have to do this, it's just a habit that Craig has that works. Ultimately, this video is a set of options for you as you learn to be more attractive in the Craig conversation model in the way that seems most fun to you until you have developed the habit of dropping your filter, having fun, and finding people that you really enjoy flirting with. with and being around Now that being said, there's a lot going on in this video and developing new habits can be difficult, it can be hard to remember to put all of this into practice, especially if you're talking to someone who makes you nervous, that's why Arm our Charisma University program, is a 30-day step-by-step program that tells you exactly what to do every day to take what you are learning and turn it into a thoughtless habit so that at the end of the program you radiate confidence and charisma, naturally, without even thinking So instead of telling you about the show myself, here are some things that past members have said.

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