One of The Most Eye Opening Speeches Ever | Tony Robbins

what makes a difference in people's quality of life what makes some people leaders and others followers what makes

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fulfill it and other people only a small percentage kick ass take names that can throw any obstacle at them they find a way to overcome what the difference is so I became obsessed with wanting to know why people's lives are so different and my first response to growing up poor without great role models was well some People are just lucky to have grown up in a family. where

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yone loves each other and stays together, you know, some people are lucky to grow up in a family and everyone is educated and therefore they work hard to educate their children, or some people are lucky to grow up in a family with a lot of money , so they have resources to travel, learn, expand and do whatever they want and as much as I would like to believe that story that some people are lucky to have a better family when you pay attention and are even a little honest with yourself that story.

It doesn't hold up, does it? Because when you look around you, what happens to people who are truly given everything and don't have to work for it, what happens to the person who is born and receives total love and support from their family. complete financial abundance, they don't have to worry about it at all, they received an excellent education. What happens to

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of them? Not all, but most of those people don't develop any muscle. They are not hungry because everything was given to them. them so that they don't have any hunger that can give them Drive, which if you ask me, Tony, what is the most important key to success above anything else, it is not talent, it is not ability, it is hunger, if you are hungry enough on you for an answer.

You will find the answer if you have enough hunger within you that says I have to take things to the next level I have to achieve I have to make a difference I have to expand You will find the answer People's intelligence will expand if they are hungry enough, but if you have everything and you're not hungry, you won't have much and then you meet these people who life seems to have trampled. You know, the kind of people I'm talking about, life has kicked them around. they in the face have experienced tremendous injustice nothing has been fair to them they have been abused mentally emotionally sexually spiritually whatever and very often those are the same people who inspire most of us and who reach levels with which Most people never dream. and who touches the society then how many came here to make some progress?

An advance means a new quality of life. So let me give you three keys to a breakthrough. Any one of these three can give you a breakthrough, but if you do all three, We're going to have an extraordinary breakthrough, so let's start with something so simplistic that none of us would be emotionally attached to it and we all know it's true and that's it, let's take a symbol in society, literally: 60% of Americans are overweight. Now I want to ask. Your question is that because the strategies needed to lose weight are so complex that they are completely overwhelming, no, however, if you have the wrong strategy, you are guaranteed to fail, even if you are motivated, driven and excited, it is fair to say yes.

You have the wrong strategy, it's not going to work, so let me give you three things and reverse the order of importance. Well, reverse the order. The least important thing first if you want to move forward. One of the things that will allow you to move forward is a strategy. A new strategy could change everything. Does a new way of doing something make sense if you come up with the right strategy it could save you a decade it could save you 5 years what is a strategy it is a specific way of doing something that if you do it that way you will get the result every time think about a strategy like a recipe if you know someone's recipe and it took them 25 years to figure out how to make the perfect chocolate cake and you're not a baker but you have their strategy, you have their recipe, how often can you?

You get the same quality of chocolate cake if you follow their recipe If you follow their strategy How often it will work How many times each time That's the beauty of a strategy, you can give someone the perfect strategy and they still can't do it. I can even know it's the right strategy and still not follow it. That is why the problem in our society is not a lack of strategies. So is it a strategy problem? You think not? Do not misunderstand. I think strategy is invaluable, but strategy without it The next two are basically useless in my experience, you know what to do but you don't do what you know, but right strategy versus wrong strategy is critical.

Why don't you take note of this really important thing? If I have to do it. do the right thing at the right time i will give you an example my country buy a house right thing to do in my country 2007 wrong time if you bought a house in the United States in 2007 right now you are upside down anywhere from 30 to 70% 70 in places like Las Vegas they have dropped 70% I have a friend whose house just sold for 3 million dollars for 10 million dollars, that's why my friends, I am a Seasons student, that's why you have to understand and become one . incredibly bright and aware of what's really going on, so when someone tells you that the strategy you're following is really that right now because they're going to show you a strategy that worked, the question is: is it working now?

You want someone who has done it and is doing it. It's just that people go to psychiatrists all the time they are taking antidepressants for their depression and they wonder why they don't get better. I mean, we're weird this way. I'm telling you if you're going to have a strategy. better get someone who is doing it someone is getting results now strategy is not vitally important although I am aware it is still a huge advantage with the right strategy yes or no so what is the second thing? The second element affects whether or not you are going to use the strategy, the story you tell yourself makes sense because if your story is "I have a lot of bones" or "I have tried everything", if you tried everything, you would have the right answer, But when people say I tried everything, what does that do?

It makes your brain see, I've tried everything, there's no reason to try anymore, it's not my fault, I just have big bones, I just have a low metabolism, right, it's just that I've always been like that. In some ways and by the way, people's stories are often true but not effective. It may be true that you have a low metabolism. It may be true that you're a big bone, but that's not why you're fat, it's because you are. Nothing to change your metabolism makes sense or I'm not in a relationship with a great man or a great woman because all the good ones are gone, isn't that a common story that people tell themselves and what makes the story?

Kill your hunger. kills your drive gives you a reason not to face the discomfort we have all experienced in a society that has trained us since we were this tall now most of you when you are 21 saw 2 million commercials and had to instantly get out of the pain instantly get out of pain you know what the problem is getting out of pain takes away the purpose of Drive how many of you know someone who is on antidepressants right now and is still depressed? That's because they have the same story even though they change their biochemistry the same story takes them to that lousy place if your story is I don't have the resources that story is going to kill your future if your story is I can get any resource I want if I find a way to add enough value to other people's lives, then they can get the resources.

How many of you in this room ski or snowboard and then ski or snowboard? If you play the sport and you come to a really mean hill, there are edges where if you don't stop, you go to the limit and you die, and what happens is when you're new and you start skating out of control, most people get They throw themselves to the ground and try to hold on to hell for dear life. and those are the people who will never master skiing or snowboarding because they let their fear of the edge push them down. The person who says I'm going to go deeper I'm going to work even harder I'm going to carve is scary as hell but I'm going to stick with it, they learn to carve, people having to ski or snowboard is something they love for the rest of their lives.

Your lives, your story is everything, my friends, and by the way, I am not lecturing you. I am sharing it with you because I have learned through my own stupidity that that is the only reason I can share this, but you change that story, you will change your life, let go of the story that limits you, it may even be true, you may have to ADD You may have been abused as a child, that may be true, but that story is not the reason you don't have good relationships or great businesses now. You don't have great relationships or great businesses now because you are too afraid of trying and failing.

Keep telling that story instead of acting. The third key, the most important key, is that they need the right state or Australians call the State. So what you have to understand is that your vision determines how you think and feel well. How many of you in this room can do it? Do you remember a time when you were very angry with someone? Have you ever noticed when you're really angry at someone? You suddenly remember everything that person has done because when you get into that state of anger it makes you take over the parts of your brain that relate to a story that supports that state look at the beginning of a relationship when you love someone what will you do for them? person when you love someone what will you do if they say would you take out the trash, you're going to take out the trash but then 7 weeks 7 months or 7 years or 70 years somewhere within that range something clicks differently in you and they say could you take out The trash? accustomed to so much passion where did it go I will give you a clue write this if you do what you did at the beginning of the relationship at the end of the relationship there will be no end how long have you two been together in a year, in 20 years there will be no Concerns for you two, it's so simple, that's the difference in status, isn't it? because when they go to a different state they come up with a different story about their partner and then they use different strategies which are not very good if you are in a great state great story great strategies you tend to maximize this is useful so tell me which of the three here you think is the one that can ruin things the fastest and can ruin things the most which of these three Tell me the story is the one that will sustain the problem the one that can change everything the fastest is the state the useful strategy don't get me wrong I live for them I mean, I can tell you some strategies in business.

I have taken companies. I buy them for almost nothing and exchange them. I make millions of dollars just by using a couple of small strategies. Simple trading strategies where you don't know the strategy. Ignorance is not happiness. ignorance is poverty ignorance is pain and the way I got those strategies is: I will fly anywhere, do anything, spend any amount of money because I knew the value of the strategy, but all of that would have been useless if I hadn't applied. He made me apply, it was the right story and the right state. If you want to change your story, the first thing you should do is change your status.