The True Cost Of The Royal Family On Diana's Life | In Diana's Memory | Real Royalty

On her wedding day, Diana's grace and beauty captivated the world. The 20-year-old bride was everyone's dream: a fairytale princess. 700 million people watched it on her wedding day and continued watching it. She became the most photographed woman and easily the most recognized. in the world she had no experience of

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her future was in the hands of her husband Carlos the man destined to become king thirteen years later the dream had shattered Diana is on the run escaping the curious eyes of the press trying to forget her past and picking up the pieces to start a new independent

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everything had started so well scenes of the happy newly engaged couple hiding the truth during their engagement charles was having an affair with his old friend and confidant camilla parker-bowles shortly before the wedding a A blonde woman was seen leaving the

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train in the dead of night, naturally everyone assumed it was Diana when they saw there was a blonde on the train and discovered her, naturally they assumed it was Diana, not even a bit, it was Camilla.

Parker Bowles must have alerted her even at 19, she must have

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ized that something was quite wrong and she must have suspected that men don't carry out their courtships, not even a prince, with these married women always poking over their shoulder. forever watching every step he took giving him advice, the specter of another woman in her husband's life would haunt Diana for the rest of their marriage, but at the end of their honeymoon in Scotland, the truth was hidden from the cameras, an art that Diana would learn. using these romantic scenes to perfection hid the reality of the situation after his marriage to the young and beautiful Diana Charles continued seeing Camilla at the time he left Balmoral at the end of his two month honeymoon he went hunting to wiltshire and to hunt in that pack the same day it was camilla parker-bowles the hunt was camilla's territory meaning she could have charles to herself she had assessed

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a long time ago i mean they called camilla parker the mouse and they told charles to marry her because she was stupid she was an uneducated and quite naive girl from a divided home she would do what she was told she was very young she would have to be molded of course she would they told her that she didn't understand what there was a bit of a spark in

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diana used that spark to perfection she brought a natural style and glamor to the

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that not even camilla could have imagined she used her femininity and sex appeal to capture the public's attention for the entire time charles had a relationship with diana Diana was so worried about her own life and her own problems and everything else that she was unable to think about the problems that faced Charles, who as a future king had immense pressures.

Carlos and Camila met at the polo in 1971, their attraction was mutual and continued beyond her marriage to guards officer Andrew Parker-Bowles, she was able to satisfy him in a way that no other woman had done, she was able to be his mother a way no other woman could even do, may I say? the queen the queen was not the mother of prince charles and prince charles needed someone he could support he could rest his head on her shoulder and Camilla did all these things for him she was both a mother and a lover in a wonderful relationship the queen he had a sympathetic ear for Diana's problems, but his distance and position did not provide the married couple with a natural shoulder to cry on.

She would think that the queen was involved in the marital difficulties simply as she would be a mother and mother. my mother-in-law is just there to offer advice and suggest things and try to make life a little easier. I would be very surprised if she actively interfered. Prince Philip dealt with

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matters in a more informal and down-to-earth manner, dismissing human frailty as a weakness of character. He is often accused of being indifferent as a father. He is a man of uncertain temperament. It is not like this? and while the queen tries to spread oil on the waters and try to divide it between the warring couples and everything else I suspect she just stamped her foot and told them to pull themselves together, which maybe wouldn't have been as helpful as it could have been In the circumstances where the Queen's marriage to Prince Philip has lasted more than 40 years since the beginning, she pulled the leash.

Now in her 70s, she has always found real life quite boring and tedious. Charles doesn't have to look too far back to find an example of royal decorum. Obviously men tend to imitate their fathers to a great extent. He is a guy who looks quite flashy and stern. but when a lady walks into the room those eyes, even in the 70's, those eyes shine and the witch gets turned on, he is a great womanizer. Princess Elizabeth was 21 years old when she married Prince Philip of Greece. They met when she was 17 and, according to historians she fell in love with him immediately after Charles's birth, it became evident that Philip preferred life away from court circles.

He returned to his old bachelor haunts in the city. The queen was kept in the picture by her ally and her sister Margaret. It is known that she suffered a lot. serious depressions that were well helped by not revealing themselves to the public. um the palace had to announce in the mid 50s that there was no breakup in the royal couple if you think about the kind of coverage they had in the 50s which was really very, very surprising. It is unusual to take such a step. It was rumored when Prince Philip was taking Britannia voyages around the world that something was very wrong.

One trip in particular took place early in 59. He returned in April, which is fortunate because Prince Andrew was born the following February, so that tended to make people think the marriage was on a much more solid footing afterwards. that real marriages need common ground and understanding. Diana found polo quite boring and often left Charles alone to enjoy his favorite sport. This was Charles's territory. There were also other attractions. Camilla Parker-Bowls came to see it. She and Charles have many interests in common in hunting, architecture, painting and art, but it is the strong animal attraction of polo that unites them particularly.

Charles excels at polo and for once is allowed to show off in public. His father played when he was young and Charles inherited his love for the game. It fosters a definite sexual tension and a secret language develops between spectator and player. It is the sport of kings and aristocratic aphrodisiac. It is the only thing that upper-class English women really get nervous about more than anything else. They see these men sweating on horses that they themselves are sweating pushing these animals and doing violent exercise at the moment when these guys get off, they are flushed with excitement, the women throw themselves at them, this is it.

The aphrodisiac of the upper-class woman The royal family's love affair with polo does not end with Camilla in her younger days in the army Her husband Andrew, an accomplished horseman, had an affair with Princess Anne She found it too difficult to resist his charm well, they were young lovers everyone knows that, um, I don't think she ever bothered to hide it and he just became one of her support circles, he's someone who takes her to ask or to the races, etc., i don't think there's anything to it now it was through her passion for horses that anne eventually met and fell passionately in love with a young cavalry officer, captain mark phillips, but their marriage was destined to end in divorce, Married to

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, it clashed with her successful career as a show jumper. he was threatening princess anne's high profile and was never really accepted by prince philip the royal family mart phillips was actually a much nicer man than the british public had ever been able to meet and a spouse with a spark of will You will be crushed if you get married, you should not try to surpass your partner in the public world.

Anne eventually married a second time, but not before rumors circulated within court circles of another love affair, this time with her personal bodyguard, who some claim is her father. second daughter zara of all the rumors circulating around the british court i think that is the one most likely to be

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, i heard that a long time ago it was known that a bodyguard who worked for princess anne made claims and the claims were not printed in britain, but they are known about the united states, for example, they have been discussed in the media there, i think probably because the tsar is still a child, the feeling in britain is very unfair to start accumulating this now, but i still feel a very dark shadow over anne to the outside world anne seems distant and often antisocial her relationship with diana is great they don't see each other much i think they are perfectly formal their greetings when they see each other but i just don't think they blend together very well , it's not like that, they just don't come together at the beginning.

Prince Andrew's marriage to Sarah Ferguson seemed happy as the queen's second child. She was relieved when he married Sarah after her many affairs with less suitable companions. She felt that he had met his match, but their marriage was also destined to end in separation as Andrew, a naval officer, was often at sea and during his long absences his lonely wife turned to other men for support. . Their breakup was finally sealed after photos appeared in the tabloids. of sarah frolicking on holiday with her lover in the south of france for the queen it was the final blow she must really feel very sick at heart that now the younger members of the family and their scandals are paraded on the cover of the tabloids i'm serious It must be destructive because she has worked very hard to make the royal family what it is today, but hard work is not enough on her part, the queen has to face the fact that no matter how perfect her public role is, it is not He has been able to give his children guidance.

They were necessary for stable marriages, reflecting her own privileged background and her sense of duty. She lacked natural maternal feelings. I don't think she ever had a great maternal instinct. I think she was a normal, natural part of the upper class that the upper class has. They never wanted to see much of her children. They were always happy to have the kids brought in at 5:30. They were always delighted to hear the nanny at the door at six o'clock and then they could return. her own lives and I think the queen was actually a typical example of that person concerned with affairs of state and her passion for horses.

The queen has been too lenient with her children when duty called them, they always took second place, the people who know her extremely well. over a long period of years, those who love her dearly will grumble and say that if she had gone to as much trouble raising her children as she did raising and breeding her racehorses, things would have been better surrounded by servants and sycophants one of the great disadvantages of real life is that it is very unreal they are less a family than a club they became independent at very young ages they were expected to support themselves the queen is the head of the family, so to speak, and Prince Philip were pretty tough, don't complain, don't complain about difficult commitments, um, move on, they weren't really a family in the warmest possible sense, although they could laugh and joke together. but the deeper things somehow there wasn't some kind of framework in which those things could be discussed and I think that's a tremendous weakness, there's no doubt that the popularity of some of the young royals went up ahead, ignoring the advice they grew up with. the feeling that they could do nothing wrong, the temptation to become arrogant is tremendous and they fell into that temptation, there is no doubt about it.

I mean, there were circumstances where someone like Prince Andrew, for example, left a car near St. James. palace um the police say who owns that car no one knew they were about to carry out a controlled explosion on the car fortunately it was discovered to be theirs in time so he arrives at the palace later and says those stupid police officers the coaches who were there in On that particular occasion they wish, in retrospect, they had said it's not them the police or the fools, you're the fool sir, but no one said that. Andrew never misses an opportunity to express himself, especially when passersby get in his Hello, into this royal family came Diana, a beautiful English rose, daughter of an earl more aristocratic than the German ancestors of the house of Windsor, a shy, sensitive girl, with a loving and understanding nature, good looks and a sense of style and glamor that characterizes her.

Aside from the rest of the royal family, as the wife of the heir to the British throne, the Princess of Wales is expected to do her duty and toe the line. Diana was only 20 years old when she married Charles, her ancestor Edward, Prince of Wales, more than a century earlier. She had taken as his wife a young and beautiful Danish princess Alexandra, butLike his descendant, Prince Charles Edward, eyes quickly moved away from his beautiful wife, he needed a woman who would keep her intellect alive as well as being pretty, and although Alexandra was a joy to look into the public's eyes in private, she never shone king edward vii continued to have lovers while alexandra embraced motherhood the similarities between the plight of princess alexandra and princess diana do not end there king edward's lovers included actress lily langtry and daisy countess of warwick but it was with the famous society beauty Alice Keppel with whom Edward had a passionate love affair that lasted 12 years Alice Keppel is the great-grandmother of Charles' lover Camilla Parker-Bowles Camilla Parker-Bowles is the great-granddaughter of Alice Keppel, which you know that Alexandra I probably find it surprising that this woman was still causing problems more than 100 years later for the same family four generations of royals gather for the Queen Mother's 94th birthday in London six of her great-grandchildren are products of broken marriages Princess Diana is missing and Prince Andrew's wife Sarah no longer welcome Queen Mother is a poignant reminder of the shape of

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she will leave behind, she understands the pressure of royal marriages and, in return for Diana's hard work, wants a settlement right for her and has been talking to Charles trying to dissuade him from divorce saying that Diana should be granted a position of honor and respectability as the mother of a future king and that to denigrate her is to help destroy the happy monarchy when her grandson married diana the queen mother recognized many of her own strengths in the character of her new bride both were strangers to royal life when they married her for the affection of the people diana was a natural successor to the queen mother at first everyone compared them and They said that they were two commoners who had the same type of charm and They are both distant, both were destined to be queens of England and would have a similar effect in charming and enchanting the world.

Diana brought to the royal image a unique and personal blend of style, dignity and glamor within the strict confines of royalty. that was his power base the moment he stepped off his plane, his image would hit television screens and front pages around the world, ultimately this attention was going to prove his downfall, attract the attention of other members of the royal family created jealousy and intolerance, but there were compensations during a visit to link the princess arrived at a dinner wearing for the first time in public a set of exquisite sapphire and diamond jewelry matching a gift from the sultan of Oman we saw appear the princess wearing a magnificent sapphire and diamond necklace and we asked a member of her tour group, who foolishly told us that it was a gift from the Sultan of Oman and the jewelers quickly told us that they estimated the value to be around half a million of pounds and we were amazed because none of this had been It was revealed earlier that the princess really did well.

I remember that in Kuwait she was given a chest with gold jewelry. You know, all kinds of gel rings, bracelets, necklaces, everything included, and that gold in the Middle East is 22 karat, the best, the purest gold. has received a queen's ransom in jewelery there is Queen Mary's tiara from the Windsor family originally worn by Queen Mary the Spencer family tiara was a gift from Diana's father her clothing reflects the customs of the country she visits had to be much more modest in her dress, you know, ankle-length skirts, covered arms, covered shoulders, um, which meant that her designers had to produce a whole range of clothes that she could wear for just a week and then they adapted them, the I wore them on other occasions and I remember that Diana had a white dress, I think it was designed by the Emanuels with a fan shape here in the neckline, it was very modest, it was found here with long sleeves, well, in London, she would.

She didn't wear things like that with long sleeves no matter how much she had daring necklines or backless dresses. Diana continued to attract people's attention. Hats were a key part of her style. She had almost a hundred of hers and they helped her get back into fashion. Fashion experts publicly praised her saying that she should be on the cover of Vogue magazine because her sense of style and good taste contributed greatly to boosting the British fashion industry. Her hair went up and down, but this got her into trouble with the royal family when they accused her of upstaging the queen.

She may have been on the front page all over the world. She may be in Time magazine. She may be in Newsweek. She may be in every magazine you've ever seen, but the royal family didn't pay any attention to her at all and got tired of her. She wanted to be able to show that she had some power within the royal family and she learned how to upstage members of the royal family in 1984 at the state opening of parliament. Princess Diana arrived with the Queen at the Palace of Westminster at an annual event. It is one of the most important constitutional occasions of the royal year on this occasion there were gasps from the crowd when she got out of the carriage she had changed her hairstyle she tied her hair back now no one had seen her naked neck before a neck is not very exciting except when Diana exposes it and on this occasion she did it was carried everywhere the queen was beside herself with anger Princess Margaret took her aside and told her that she should never again upstage the queen because the Diana incident was a stark reminder of the forces at work within the royal family.

Later, on an official tour of Australia, she was again accused of upstaging another member of the royal family, this time it was her husband during a visit to Charles's old music school, whom she invited. his teacher to play some notes on the cello obviously embarrassed he had forgotten how to play he made his pathetic attempts with a cello to try to appease the audience he didn't want to do it in the first place but he was forced to do it and couldn't wait to walk across that room towards the piano to sit down and start playing the chords.

Her performance was highly appreciated, particularly by the professor. Embarrassed, Diana hurried out once again. She had stolen the spotlight from her while she. she overshadowed him, she was going to resent his presence at her side and she couldn't get over that, so she could never consider her as a wife, a companion and a soulmate; he was just so upset by the fact that she was more popular. than away from home, the endless round of public duties and official engagements took on a different flair in Australia, the warm and welcoming crowd provided Diana a platform to showcase her own distinctive and infectious brand of royalty, reflected positively in Charles and did he would be more relaxed if he had been able to fulfill his dream and settle in Australia his marriage to Diana could have taken a very different course the relaxed atmosphere on a construction site in Canberra summed up their relationship, leaving only the unique balance of dignity and Diana's laid-back charm gave her an advantage over her husband, this newfound self-confidence put her on a collision course with Charles, something he did not anticipate when he married her.

I think he probably thought that this was an inexperienced young woman who would learn to fit in and toe the line as the years went by and I think he discovered that she was less flexible as time went on, she didn't have the taste that he had, she wanted to please her own taste, naturally she became a person who was going to fight back, this was the confident and reassuring public face of royalty on display, the younger members of the royal family played their roles, but underneath from the façade of show business, their marriage was a sham.

Diana tried to get Charles back, there was enormous pride at stake while she had been rejected by her husband and the royal system the marriage was over but no one was willing to admit it Charles could stay married to Diana for the rest of his life he had Camilla to except by her side and with her support he was sure that he could withstand most of life's blows images like these broadcast around the world and in millions of homes with the images of a married couple Charles wanted the world to think that he enjoyed Diana she had achieved what she had set out to do: become a princess of wales who had clothed two children in pursuit of her husband's dynastic ambitions she had become a global icon and a very important person in her own right she lacked love but most of The other things were in place On a visit to India it was increasingly obvious that the couple was spending less time together Diana claimed that the pressure of royal duties kept them apart Outwardly she remained calm and continued with her duties under intense pressure her compensation was the world's attention keeping her firmly in the spotlight that made her the number one cover girl in the world I think she made us all adore her, she brought the monarchy closer to the people and helped her raise awareness for many organizations deserving charities, such as the aid charities she is involved with and um the british leprosy trust.

Now very few people are interested in leprosy because it is a third world. problem and people thought that she left with the ark, but it is still very virulent in many countries and she did a lot for it and if she had not been a glamorous and beautiful woman, there is no way that people would do it. She would have used her photo and promoted the fact that she was doing this job. If she had been playing with glasses and you know, plats or something or a bad perm, no one would have followed her around the world with her marital problems, it being strictly speaking a private matter.

They embarked on an official visit to Indonesia, although there were times when the heat of the moment was even too much for Diana's natural coldness. The opportunity to take revenge on the representatives of the sniping press was not bad. Diana aimed at her feet and scored a target. Monotonous world tours exposed her public life to the utmost scrutiny, but clues to her marital difficulties were kept well hidden from her hosts and the cameras, although Diana would occasionally be caught in another world preoccupied with her own thoughts far from home, Charles would I would keep in constant contact. on the phone with camilla always in need of her comfortable cushion diana's style always captivated her audience wherever she went dressed to honor local customs during a visit to the gulf states she put an enormous amount of thought and consideration into how she should be courteous to her hosts and dressed appropriately for the occasion Diana's personal appearance on royal tours contributed greatly to promoting Britain's image abroad.

Sadly she will be missed now that she has disappeared from public life, as royal visits go almost entirely unnoticed boosted by all the attention Diana secured. There was no shortage of smiles everywhere, no one wanted to believe that the royal marriage of the century was in danger, but when the cracks began to appear, Diana became defensive and one of my colleagues told the princess when we are. in Spain with them in the spring of 1987, what's all this about their separate lives? And she said, Oh, she said it was all nonsense and she thought those stories were so far-fetched.

The next story she read in a newspaper would be that she had a black lover and we were all joking about it and she actually convinced us that there was nothing to them and that it was inconceivable to us that this couple would ever break up, we thought it wouldn't happen. would allow them that for the good of the nation and their duty, they would stick together no matter what and we knew that all marriages have difficult times and we thought they would fix things and we thought well, she seemed so devoted to him and, of course Of course, it was, so she was. fighting desperately to save his marriage during a family holiday in Spain while guests of King Juan Carlos and his family Carlos seemed distant and worried these arranged images of a happy family life told a different story Charles left this holiday early and returned to Balmoral to be with camilla i think she tried every trick in the book, everything a normal woman wants to do to interest a man and get him back, unfortunately he just didn't respond.

He is a kind of man who is looking for a soul mate, an intellectual. soulmate especially and although she shared his love of opera and they had two children together, it was too late, he was already too involved with Camilla and she made him understand that she needed the pressure was starting to get to Diana. She suffered from bulimia nervosa, the disease of thinner people, and her friends were worried about her weight loss. She only felt comfortable with her friends and acquaintances. This was a low period in her life. She needed help and turned to many friends. looking for support and understanding for one of those people. was her bodyguard and close friend of hers barry manike who later died tragically in a car accident diana was heartbroken manicki had died in a car accidentquite tragically and suddenly and Diana was given the news just as she was leaving to go to this official engagement where she had to smile and look happy and, of course, she was very upset.

Now there were stories later that her friendship had been too close with this bodyguard, but I never believed it because at that time Dina was still very much in love with her. His husband was trying to get him back, but more than that, there were many stories about Barry Manicke's relationships with other women. Another close friend is art expert and gallery owner Oliver Hall, a married man with three children. Recorded telephone conversations reveal Diana's close relationship with James. Gilby, a successful second-hand car saleswoman, has had strange relationships with her but what she has never been able to do is throw herself wholeheartedly into a love story, which is what the world wants her to have.

They wanted to see her having a really great love story. with a wonderful man who looks really great and is going to carry her in his arms and this just hasn't happened for her and her life is a disaster alone with her kids on a winter vacation in the caribbean diana is now officially separated from charles, She is a single mother who shares custody of the two young princes and is determined to give them the kind of childhood Charles did not enjoy as a child and a better understanding of normal family values. Vacations are precious times for her and she takes advantage of every opportunity she can to have them. her children to herself winter holidays at the sea followed by winter sports in the snow charles has the children in the summer in balmoral in scotland followed by a holiday in the mediterranean with friends to compensate for the evil of his parentsin marriage, the young princes enjoy an endless round of good times, it just goes on and on and I think that's too much for any child.

I think it destroys their sense of proportion and any kind of values ​​they may have because normal kids don't understand it. I think they are getting too much too soon. Dialer is determined that her children are prepared for the outside world in a way unknown to previous royal generations, but in doing so there is a danger that she will raise them as rich children. I'm not so worried about them being raised as children of rich men. I think inevitably that's the way the royal family will probably be raised, a lot of what worries me a lot more is the effect their parents' disagreements will have.

Regarding them, Diana sees her children as her emotional anchor. Spending more time with them was her main reason for retiring from public life on the school sports scene. She is always there to support you. Memories of her own disturbed childhood and her parents' divorce have made her more determined than ever to soften the blow of her own marital problems on her children; she lavishes them with affection, cuddles and love, even Charles agrees that emotionally she is a generous mother, I think he agrees that she is a very good mother and that she is very devoted to them and I am sure that he likes the way that they have grown up with beautiful manners and that they are quite normal children.

I think he appreciates the fact that she takes them to common places. Ordinary children. Girls who line up to buy hamburgers and go to the movies, etc. because it's something he understands is important to give his children a well-adjusted life in the future when they're older and to experience what ordinary members of the British public experience, so I think he thinks Diana is interesting to children. in the more frivolous aspects of life that are likely to be important to a future king, but that he will give them the basis for serious things and will be a supporter of the education they receive at school, encourage them to adopt the intellectual inclination that he himself enjoy in Carlos' absence.

The role of surrogate father is played by a personal bodyguard. A small price that real children have to pay. They are really affected by it. I think, especially William, he has seen his mother's unhappiness and loves his father too much. blame him, so he is very confused about the rights and wrongs of the whole situation, your highnesses, thank you very much for being with us today in Cardiff to launch this new marketing initiative. I would invite Prince William, Your Highness, to reveal Cardiff Marketing's new motto. Preparing William for his royal duties is a task he must endure in the context of his own parents' separation and the tradition of the monarchy.

His mother is aware of the problems facing her young son thrown into her marriage at age 20 Diana had an intensive course in William has a little more time to learn the technique of the royal walk. William seems to suffer a lot every time he faces the media and he is a very sensitive boy, perhaps because he is the oldest and takes everything more seriously than his brother because he is the one who will have to deal with it more in life. Go ahead and we find out that William will lower his head and walk away from the cameras, etc. and um in 1994 when we were skiing with the princess at Lek Williams she seemed to brighten up and be very different and I congratulated her on this and I told her William is a changed boy and she said yes I sorted it out she said I talked to her and now okay, unfortunately that didn't last long and I realized. who was later once again trying to get away from the cameras, was very evident at the Queen Mother's 94th birthday party when William hung behind the crowd and his father turned around and called him over. and the queen mother heard him and said, come on, William and dragged him to the front, where Paul William didn't like it at all, but he put on a brave smile, but he didn't look at the cameras.

Harry was looking around at everyone to see who was there, except William. he kept looking at his grandmother all the time and did not look at the cameras in 1990 everything seemed like happy families in the palace the royal family appeared together for the ceremony commemorating the 50th anniversary of the battle of britain everything was normal for royalty mothers with her restless children and marching bands, but this was the beginning of a new decade, the beginning of a traumatic period for the wild family as storm clouds gathered, Diana spent more and more time away from Charles as she stayed in London, he preferred to be at Highgrove, the family home in Gloucestershire and close to Camilla Parker Bowles, but it was Christmas time and the entire royal family was guests of the Queen at Sandringham, it was a windy affair, Diana returned alone from church to face the rest of Christmas. with a family from whom she felt increasingly isolated she doesn't like sandringham she doesn't particularly like mixing with the rest of the family I think because there are all kinds of waves and feelings there I mean it can't be very easy publicly royal marriages They seemed to remain intact behind the palace walls The warring factions had to solve their own problems Diana's alleged five-year relationship with James Hewitt revealed in her book The Princess in Love suggests that she responded to Charles's infidelity with Camilla by having a love story with the young guard officer vision has been on the job for many years certainly the queen and especially the queen mother were willing to accept the farce that this was a happy marriage as long as no one broke the rules, the rules eventually they were broken, we found out that charles was having his affair with camilla, we found out that diana had fallen in love first with james hewitt, then with james gilby, and then with others subsequently, and the whole thing unraveled very badly, and what it does show is that the royal family of this current generation has less control over its destiny than any other generation in the last 10 centuries.

Control of their destiny depends on the people's desire to have a real family. The world's media did not want to believe that the beautiful princess. she was about to abandon her prince charming. Newspapers and magazines praised Diana selling millions of copies saying how wonderful she looked. No one wanted to believe that the fairytale marriage was over. The truth of the matter is that the British press was so in love with her. this wonderful fairy tale the prince and the princess the two young princes living happily they didn't want to break the flow they didn't want to break this dream and no one ever looked at it and for years and years people made scathing comments about charles and camilla parker bowles and the press British they just turned their heads so they didn't want to have anything to do with it they didn't want to know when the story of the breakup of Diana and Charles's marriage exploded in 1992 it was with cruel irony that the family home won the castle burst into flames the fire was a symbol Following unrest within the institution of the monarchy itself, in March it was announced that the Duke and Duchess of York were separating in April.

The 18-year marriage of Princess Anne and Mark Phillips ended in a quick four-minute divorce in June. Princess Diana broke down in tears days after the publication of a book revealed the truth of her unhappy marriage to Prince Charles in August. Intimate photographs of the Duchess of York frolicking were published. topless on vacation in France with her lover and financial advisor in November on a state visit to Korea Diana and Charles' relationship was so bad that they could barely look at each other leaked recordings emerged confirming Charles' long relationship with his lover Camilla Parker- Bowles In December, an announcement by the Prime Minister to Parliament confirmed that the Prince and Princess of Wales were finally separating.

The Queen attended a banquet in London and summed up her feelings as a monarch wife and mother whose family at home has suffered damage. immeasurable 1992 is not a year that I will remember with absolute pleasure in the words of one of my most sympathetic correspondence: it has turned out to be an ano horribilis, a horrible year for them that I think really affected their authority quite a bit if hollywood had really tried. They had spent a year trying to come up with a script. They couldn't have included such crazy things in it. The royal family is slowly recovering.

The institution of monarchy will not die overnight because of a few broken marriages. He survived the constitutional crisis. 60 years ago, when King Edward VIII abdicated to marry an American divorcee, Wallace Simpson, whether Charles will ever marry Camilla after his divorce from Diana is an open question either way, his future is in the hands of women. around him, I think that if he wanted to succeed on the throne there is no doubt that he could marry Kumar, that is totally out of the question, I think that if he and I believe that he wants to succeed on the throne because he feels, with all his qualifications , the things he would rather not do, I think he feels a strong sense of duty.

I think he wants to be a good king. I think he wants to fulfill the role he has in life. I would love to think that they could get married because I think they would be wonderful. husband a wife queen camilla well I don't know what the British public will wear I'm not even sure the world will wear the world would probably laugh what they want is the emotion the style um the style the panache diana's joadavir diana will be an act difficult to follow the perfect princess but not the perfect wife for her adoring public she was the image of the fairy tale princess for her indifferent husband it was a disappointment the marriage diana brought out the worst in charles but for some whim of fate she she could still take her place next to him on his throne it is conceivable that they could both attend a coronation from different houses sit in the same abbey and be crowned he crowned king she crowned consort although they do not speak they barely speak to each other they do not live under the same roof they can hardly be supported it is technically possible the queen were to die tomorrow he would access the throne king charles ii would catch him she would be the de facto queen diana whatever the outcome of diana look after her children if her husband is denied the throne because of his relationship with camilla young william could become king sooner than he thinks, i think she feels that it will make william a better king than his father because it will bring him closer to the public and that he will not be a distant man in a ivory tower living this kind of academic life that Charles might prefer and I think she sees that the secret to the success of the monarchy is not to be too elitist since her separation from Charles Diana has retired from public life the world of royal duties is losing its main performer diana's ability to keep the royals in tune with the changing attitudes of society will be missed it is sad because she achieved so much for the nation and the monarchy that she filled an incredible void in the ranks of the royal family that we didn't realize she was there until she arrived, she was our golden girl and I think what she did also helped glamorize the world's last great monarchy and made it internationally recognized. she greatly helped the status of britain because everyone was interested in our princess on a visit to india in 1992 the farce of diana's marriage to charles was almost over at age 31 diana faced a future deprived of marital love with the that he dreamed of since his unhappy childhoodOfficially, her relationship with Charles remained happy but gradually changed to one of mutual indifference.

Diana increasingly acquired a sense of destiny. Charles's flame flickered and died in a clumsy attempt to publicly demonstrate his affection for her. The prince attempted to kiss his wife. , she rejected his advances, the dam seemed ready to burst, sarah, duchess of york, now accepts that she simply was not cut out to join the royal family, she admitted in a newspaper interview that she had ruined her life, we all make serious mistakes and We learn from them, he stated for Sarah, it has been a difficult time, but she always put on a happy face and carried out her royal duties with dignity.

When she married Andrew, she took on the role of duchess with enthusiasm and hoped to support her husband. The high expectations of her marriage to Andrew perhaps a little too high, I think she really hoped it would be something other than perhaps Diana's shy image contrasted starkly with Sarah's outgoing mana, a professional woman, an expert skier, Sarah had a In her publishing career, she was confident in her own identity and seemed much more prepared than Diana for the dangers of a royal marriage under intense media scrutiny, but here was Gerald Sarah, he was a breath of fresh air, you know , who loved to joke. and having the odd glass of champagne was very frowned upon, but I mean, it was just fun, it was just a laugh, it was relaxation, it was an ally, they could, they could, they could have a good gossip about how awful the situation was when Sarah first appeared on the royal scene, ski holidays meant happier times for Diana, but her influence was not always appreciated by Charles, who was irritated by her youthful behavior in front of the press; a little immature he really wasn't, it wasn't a good thing sarah ferguson brought a breath of fresh air to the stuffy royal circles they made an attractive couple he was a handsome naval officer she his exuberant partner together sarah and andrew we project a united front we are a good team anyway yeah, I think that's a saving grace, it's the fact that over the last nine months we've found that we work very well together, good friends, good team, the queen was relieved when Andrew married Sarah.

She was happy to see her son engaged to her after her many adventures with less suitable companions. She felt that Andrew had met her match in Sarah, a good omen for a strong relationship at the wedding ceremony. she promised to love and honor him, but not obey him. The mood of vitality and genuine happiness seemed to rub off on each other creating an unusually festive royal occasion. The queen never seemed happier or more relaxed. Sadly, it was the last time the royal family would present such a genuinely united front. Sarah was not a purebred English rose in the mold.

From her friend and royal princess Diana In the early days the family gatherings at the polo brought the two girls closer so that once Diana could stay in the background and let her sister-in-law do the honors, Sarah was agreed upon for the awards ceremony when it came rain or shine a royal consort must fulfill her duties on this occasion it's all in the family brother-in-law charles is on the winning team and the young prince william is there to provide his support another close friend of the royal family was the father from sarah the elder ronald ferguson, who was prince charles' polo director for almost 20 years, diana and sarah met for the first time at a polo match and together they brought new and valuable blood to a royal house of essentially german origin, Now British royalty can no doubt claim a more British ancestry, but how would these two lively young women fit into the traditions of the monarchy and the atmosphere of the royal palaces?

If you go to Buckingham Palace, I mean if I've ever been there, it's very quiet and everyone is tiptoeing around and it's like being in a hospital. you know, and I'm sure all of a sudden these two women would show up and probably laugh at something and everyone would turn around almost like they were in a library and go shh and I'm sure they found that. so restrictive that they couldn't really be themselves there while the duchess of york sarah embraced her royal duties with enthusiasm a year after their wedding they visited canada sarah's passion for life in general her bravado was much admired and the relaxed manners of the young couple won the The hearts of Canadians are obviously still very much in love.

Sarah and Andrew were a huge success. They were very physically attracted to each other and the whole time we were with them in that tool we used to feel like we needed a bucket of cold water to throw. about them, they were so tactile, obviously in love and that's very contagious, they communicated this wonderful feeling of happiness to everyone around them and it was a pleasure to work with them and that's why it was a tragedy when they broke up because we had seen how happy they were, We hadn't seen this obvious affection between Charles and Diana for only a very short time, but with Andrew and Sarah it was clear that they were made for each other and were very happy together and worked very well together as a couple. team and um, it just brought joy to Canadians and everyone who saw them for Diana looking good is important fashion is a way to express yourself in public she enjoys the opportunity to dress up and perform for her audience she doesn't smoke rarely drinks the alcohol she exercises regularly and swims in a cold pool every morning on official occasions she pushes food around her plate she rarely eats meat and sticks to small portions of fish and salads she does everything she can to maintain her appearance, but Diana had this extraordinary relationship with the camera. the same kind of thing that maolin munro or maybe jackie kennedy had now there is a very good example because here there are many parallels between jackie kennedy as the wife of the president and princess diana as the wife of the heir to the throne of england who was later learned to present herself and became the royal family's greatest asset in terms of its visual style and its fashion and its wonderful appearance, and also a problem because it sort of showed something that looked quite fussy. side of the royal family, a good performer, Diana never forgets where the cameras are pointed, don't you think we see in Diana the essence of her character, something that goes very deep, which is a really desperate desire to please, she wants to make others? feel comfortable wants all the things that a broken home and a difficult childhood didn't give you wants to feel that other people feel comfortable in your presence diana reflects how you feel about the clothes you wear when you feel good about yourself when you are in the house public arena she wears short elegant suits very short skirts these days and when she feels bad she covers up her whole body looks more hunched she wears big sweaters long skirts and there are times when she really feels sad when she tends to wear something long and fallen blue like that suit just after revelations about the breakup of her marriage, Diana creates a mystique so powerful that her public is still unwilling to hear any criticism of her fashion, fashion writers hail her sense of style for the way she can wear those dinner suits that this one wore with what's called a Trump lawyer, it's kind of a fake vest in the front, fake vest and it was very smart and clean and very elegant and yet at the same time it's kind of funny, It's a shot. in menswear it's also a joke about those stuffed shirts that british men, and at least her husband, have to wear on official occasions, it's a tremendously fun outfit, looking her best on a visit to hong kong, diana was wearing a dress cream strapless catherine walker with a short dress. matching jacket with a high collar topped with the dazzling tiara of queen mary anna does not like to wear tiaras and she particularly does not like the one the queen gave her which is very pretty but heavy and she wears the spencer tiara much more with the intertwining of diamonds which is very pretty, but of course also on official occasions like at the Malaysian state banquet when she wore that green Victor Edelstein dress, a very thin dress that matched Queen Mary's emeralds, she wears the queen's personal dress .

The gift that is the request of the royal family has a small image of the queen surrounded by diamonds and that is a very special display of affection and it is one of those things that shows other members of the royal family what the queen looks like. half. I am one of them separated from Charles alone at the D-Day ceremonies. Her legs were majestically displayed. Have you noticed with Diana how her skirt, her hemline, and her heels have gone up now that she feels more independent and better about herself? Those Jimmy Shoe shoes. She was wearing a young British designer who makes very expensive shoes, they

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£250, you know, almost $500 a pair, but they give Diana the right kind of look, a bit sexy, don't they?

And something that makes her seem like an independent young woman. a trip to australia the press was quick to take advantage of all the tanned bodies on display often in their desire to please diana she is accused of becoming a chameleon psychologists claim that her self-esteem is so low that she feels she exists only when she takes for the colorful of her surroundings, she blends in easily: she is a princess in Kensington, a Sloan Ranger in Knightsbridge and a very ordinary girl when she chats with Australian lifeguards, she never misses exposing her sexuality when the occasion arises and she knew the effect that She had with men, she was very aware of it and used it to great advantage, they were all putty in her hands and I remember looking at him once and thinking what he was saying with that look and deciding that what he was saying was you.

I know I'm beautiful, I think I'm beautiful, but remember I was taken during her unhappy marriage to Charles. Diana suffered from the weight loss disease, bulimia nervosa, but since those dark days she has regained her confidence and her food preferences are common knowledge. She is known to prefer pasta with creamy sauces like carbonara. She likes potatoes and bacon sandwiches with white bread and cheese. Despite this, she maintains her slim figure. Now for a silhouette. A narrow silhouette. You have to be thin. So, of course, she had to work hard to lose weight. so she was swimming at Buckingham Palace in that pool that she did very religiously she swam a lot in the gym now she has a personal trainer who visits her all the time diana also goes to a lot of beauty therapies aromatherapy massages she spends a lot of time a lot of money if you like to look at it in financial terms in the infrastructure, that's what I would call it, we're not talking about the makeup here, although she has been wearing more and more makeup, but we're not talking about cosmetics, we're talking about the foundations here, ballet continues to be his great passion.

She grew too old to pursue her own dancing ambition, but now she channels her enthusiasm into supporting professionals in private. She continued to use dance as part of an exercise routine for many years. and although swimming now maintains its high level of fitness, watching rehearsals remains a favorite occupation on formal visits. Diana should not be caught off guard, her skirt should not fly and the correct length of her dress is very important, she wowed her hosts on an official visit. in Japan wearing a new evening dress created by the Japanese designer Yuki with a diamond and sapphire headband in Hungary she wore an outfit by Catherine Walker and a hat by Phillip Summerville she dazzled the Indonesians in Washington with a tight evening dress by Hachi she surprised to spectators in Paris, she wore a new Victor Edelstein dress, the bodice and small bolero jacket encrusted with sparkling beads.

The hats were also Diana's favorites, most of them coming from Philip Somerville, who produces the most flattering hats in London, now officially out of the Diana, the royal family, feels bitter that they did not appreciate what she had done to improve her image. I think she would be quite justified in feeling bitter that there was a gap in the royal ranks before she appeared as a glamorous young woman, someone who wasn't as aloof and dowdy as the rest of them, someone once said that a columnist for a newspaper once said that royal members of the royal family, especially women, have the uncanny ability to make expensive designer clothes worth thousands of dollars look like they came from British stores.

You know, the retail chain and um Diana was the exception, she was like an Afghan dog among all the corgis, elegantly tall, she had everything that the public expected of a woman in that position and that the rest did not. They don't have to be a dumpy, scruffy lot and then along came this beautiful girl who gave them the sheen of glamor they were missing and now that she has retired once again there is a void in the royal ranks and it is not going to be filled with the same. manner. path until William got a wife or a fiancé royal status for Sarah meant royal duties, she performed them in her personal and relaxed way, her independence and modern ideas were at odds with the formality and protocol of the British monarchy, living in agolden cage it was not. his idea of ​​being royal, his dress sense attracted much public attention as a naval officer, Andrew was at sea for almost nine months a year, their time together was invaluable and the stolen kisses showed their youthful love, they delighted in each other with the other. company, but times like this were rare for most of the time, they were forced to live apart and Sarah found it difficult to endure the stress of being alone with a natural zest for life, she needed the buzz of excitement when Andrew was away. nearby, he found life.

Within the royal confines, bored enough to relieve the tedium, she obtained her pilot's license. Flying was a way of life for Andrew and she wanted to know more about her husband's work. Not to be outdone, she also decided to fly helicopters and now I know exactly what. he's talking about when he goes out on the saucer so that's what he wanted to achieve so when he comes back at night he tells her what he's been doing and I know what he's been doing with Andrew away so Sarah often I was alone on duty, oh. that's a nice name called to present trophies at polo matches sarah often got caught up in the company of attractive men before becoming part of the royal family she had a four year love affair with the millionaire formula one racing businessman paddy mcnally sarah enjoyed the attention of the company of men and in andrew's absence turned to her father for support in putting him in the spotlight ronald ferguson was prince charles' polo director a ceremonial stick marked the end of his many years as vice-president of the Guard Polo Club after the press revealed details of his visits to a massage parlor in London's West End, the club committee had rejected him and the message was clear: it was an emotional farewell under a cloud of scandal.

Sarah was there to support him in a brave show of solidarity with for both of them it was a matter of stiff upper lips with an absent husband the media quickly focused on Sarah's performance as a single mother Sarah was carrying out her public duties in a style that the cameras had unfairly come to expect she was lampooned determined to To be herself, she chose to support good causes, but in her own way her lack of regard for the cold, stifling performance left her open to criticism from royal officials and I have not prepared a speech, but I'm very happy to be here. today I want to say that he is simply wonderful and not very well known I think you have done a fantastic job there was fierce criticism that his speeches and general behavior were too unconventional and familiar the press often made derogatory comments about his way of dressing but he was determined to survive the icy disapproval of Buckingham Palace and her confidence in handling the situation and dismissing the establishment was demonstrated by her liberated and relaxed fashion of bare legs, short skirts and smiles all around and a new shorter hairstyle, assertive body language of a new woman, it is certainly

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that in the 1920s, when people said shocking, shocking, those women who cut their hair, they knew something about women, that women were asserting their independence, when did Diana start doing public about the problems in your marriage when you cut your hair?

When did sarah ferguson start saying i want to be independent? I'm tired of these courtiers and this palace protocol. She cut off that wonderful red hair that is Fergie's crowning glory. Unfortunately, Sarah's cautious attitude was to be her downfall in a fashionable block of flats in London's Chelsea. Her passionate nature and zest for life were suddenly exposed to the world when a window cleaner discovered holiday photographs in which Princess Beatrice and Texas oil millionaire Steve Wyatt appeared. Sarah's accusations of infidelity confirmed rumors that her marriage to Andrew was in danger. Rocks in the eyes of the establishment.

The lonely royal mother had failed to progress from commoner to royalty under the pressure of a crumbling marriage and in the full glare of advertising andrew and sarah tried to continue with their daily lives andrew carried out his duties as a naval officer while sarah took their three-year-old daughter beatrice to and from school and after weeks of speculation, the announcement of the separation from York. The details emerged after the Queen's solicitor and a team of lawyers discussed exactly how it would be arranged, including over custody of the children questions were asked about why the marriage had collapsed, I think the main reason is because they were so separated, I mean, I think that must be a very important factor, I mean the fact that they obviously both had close friendships.

I think those people outside the marriage contributed to it, but at first I think it was the fact that he was a sailor, he spent a lot of time abroad and I felt very sorry for Fergie and you know when she used to go with us, she went to Australian? and there was a big outcry about the amount of vacations she had and so on, and yet all the poor girl did was go see her husband, you know? And I think that was one of the main problems there were too many absences forces within Buckingham Palace closed ranks stories leaked that Sarah's extravagant and irresponsible lifestyle had caused the marriage to break up reports that the queen was unhappy confirmed when the press claimed that the knives were out for fergie without andrew sarah had no real protection when he was away she was very vulnerable to, shall we say, machiavellian courtiers who didn't like the way she behaved and decided they had I didn't like the methods they used, I think if they had been more subtle, if they had been more understanding, more diplomatic, the situation could have been avoided, but they were determined because she would do things her way and was a very independent person. free-spirited girl who was not going to take kindly to the sexism and condescending attitudes of the palace and therefore the end result was a disaster now sarah was suffering the consequences of a job she could not fulfill buckingham palace closed its doors to her the truth was in her loneliness and the pressures of being royal when she tried to explain to the duke when he returned home the problems she had he just wanted to relax he didn't want to hear about problems he just wanted to have a good time during the short period. who was at home and used to say well look darling you know I don't have those problems I can't understand it you know they don't like it they're not like that with me right?

I'm sure this is true, you know he wasn't understanding and in the end she decided life was better on the outside. Andrew responded with a round of public engagement that was apparently unaffected by the scandal. Plans were already underway for Sarah to move away from her family. She marries the young princesses to rented accommodation at the end of the street. When she is asked, she refuses to answer questions about the breakdown of her marriage. everything had started so well the royal marriage is off to a good start with spontaneous signs of affection and happiness heirs to the throne and a promised future built on mutual support and public partnership all the products of the queen's grandchildren have broken up marriages but are they oppose the power and ceremony of British royalty the dreams faded Diana still officially lives with Charles but in an unhappy marriage she took note of the palace's treatment of her sister - sister-in-law I think Diana was shocked by what happened to Sarah and decided it wouldn't happen to her when she heard that famous line "The knives are out for Fergie." I think she realized that when you leave, that's bound to happen. anyone who violates convention and tries to confront the Windsors and she was determined not to repeat Sarah's mistakes.

Diana's strength and character helped her get through the next few months, the stresses of her own marital breakdown and the truth of her relationship with Charles. was about to explode on the british public the book diana its true story went on sale the romantic image of a loving royal couple was destroyed charles was exposed as an indifferent and adulterous husband these revelations were the beginning of charles downfall and threatened the very institution of the british monarchy the royal wives of windsor were to blame some people may say they were dragging the royal family down others thought they provided a much needed levity and greater reality to a very stuffy old institution i mean, If it's the worst You can be accused of pressuring someone with an umbrella.

I don't think it's that bad. There were girls who had fun with the things they did. They didn't expect that most of the time they would become public. And you know, let's be real. They weren't robbing banks or shooting people and I think a lot was made of very little on the surface, it was the same old thing, estranged husbands put on a real face to attend a family wedding when a crisis occurs in a real marriage. the palace machine puts its full weight behind the royal blood now with no gloves charles had been advised to leave diana immediately and seek a divorce just for one day at least the marital difficulties within the royal family were put aside as They had the strength to enjoy a royal wedding that could be successful.

Sarah had been the only guest missing, but in another marriage ceremony her eldest daughter, Princess Beatrice, was the maid of honor, the queen's granddaughter, a new generation. of royalty enjoyed the protagonism that her mother normally took, Diana meanwhile continued with her. public engagements alone except for the company of her children who enjoyed the experience of meeting movie stars on opening nights this was the image of the new royalty at work single mothers teaching their children the ins and outs the public interest in royal marriages broken stood tall photographed alone taking the children to school press attention once again focused on sarah after revelations of her association with texan oil millionaire steve wyatt public interest now focused on another texan johnny bryan her front as Sarah's financial advisor was left open after photographs emerged of the nearly naked couple frolicking on holiday together in the south of France.

It was a royal exposé without a president and the press had a field day. Sarah's alleged lover, Johnny Bryan, failed to obtain a court order to stop the publication of the revealing photographs and the media attack eventually continued. Johnny Brian and Sarah. they managed to win a court battle in france against the intrusion of their privacy by a french freelance photographer at the time the photographs appeared in the press sarah was on holiday with her children with the queen at balmoral well i know the duchess was so upset that they had to call the doctor twice, the local doctor in Balmoral, to come and treat her.

She was absolutely distraught, which is quite understandable, and it was a bombshell for the queen, for the whole royal family, it was one more devastating blow in a very, very bad year. Sarah insisted. that johnny bryan was simply her financial advisor as the queen's guest at balmoral, the conflicted duchess found the situation difficult to explain, worst of all, of course, to sarah because she was there in the enemy camp when this news broke and how could Ella possibly explain it because the evidence was too overwhelming, so I think that was probably the worst moment of her life.

Diana's unhappy marriage meant she spent more time away from the royals. Sarah needed understanding from a stranger so she turned to her sister-in-law for support, Diana, she was understanding and she was, you know, visiting her and trying to support her, but I think the Duchess was beyond any kind of support. or sympathy, I was just totally devastated to continue protesting against his Johnny Bryan's innocence became the center of massive public interest and there are no further comments to make, other than the comments I made last night. The newspapers claim that the photographs were published to eliminate the hypocrisy surrounding the couple's relationship.

The French freelance photographer who took them. He made half a million pounds from worldwide sales once he knew Fergie was there. I don't know personally if he knew who she was there with or how he found out she was there, but as you can imagine, there is a chain of command, a chain of reservations. of flights from villas is the police protection service, there are infinite ways in which information can get out. I think royal families always needed a black sheep for many years it was Princess Margaret, then it was Princess Anne recently it's been Fergie and of course the mirror post. of those photographs while she was the queen's guest at Balmoral and was banished that same day was the lowest point of Fergie's relationship with the British public and with royal life and since then she has beenA former royal, the mirror, of course, made an enormous amount of money and generated enormous circulation printing those photographs, so although it was an ongoing tabloid circulation war saga, it was also an irresistible story That everyone found out immediately, the real publicity machine was put into motion.

Defensive Prince Andrew claimed the photographs were staged. Stories were concocted that Sarah was having a nervous breakdown. Even the queen doubted that Sarah would ever be able to take up official duties again when the story broke. Sarah Andrew and the children were the queen's holiday guests at Balmoral Castle the newspaper headlines exploded like a bomb at the royal breakfast table the Duchess of York left Balmoral in disgrace Sarah had to face the reality that the royal family no longer considered her a member with her children she boarded a flight to London and virtual exile, the official line was that Sarah had always intended to leave Balmoral at which point normal royal life resumed in Scotland as if nothing untoward had happened.

As the royal family, including Prince Andrew, attended the morning service at the local church, it was like any other Sunday. With crowds turning out to watch when Sarah arrived at Heathrow, she didn't give much thought to future plans except perhaps visiting her mother in Argentina. Her main concern was to head to the sanctuary of her home as quickly as possible after her traumatic departure from the royal family. and her return to Sarah's beleaguered nursing home. She needed help in the hope that somewhere there was someone she could truly trust, she turned to therapy. Now I would say to anyone that, you know, if they've been through problems, it's good to just talk to someone who you know you can trust and in my particular position you don't know who you're going to trust at all you're suspicious of everyone because you trust I trust trusting and still trusting too much and then you being betrayed and disappointed and then all that begins.

I think the most important thing if someone goes through this kind of thing is for the good of the children and for the good of yourself is that you have a great friendship you will always have a great friendship, it doesn't have to be animosity and um, andrew and I really have a deep friendship and that's a good thing. After Sarah's dramatic departure from Scotland, the royal family continued their summer vacation for the moment when at least peace and tranquility returned to the Scottish island, the The palace announced that no significant events were expected in the coming days, but the family holiday was about to be disrupted once again, the privacy of the Scottish estate once again invaded by press transcripts surfacing.

In the newspapers of a wiretapped telephone conversation supposedly between the Princess of Wales affectionately known as Squidgy and her friend James Gilby, the recording revealed a princess in confusion, deeply worried, lonely and vulnerable, pathetically grateful for the attention of her male confidant during the intimate exchange that she comments on. Her unhappy marriage, her distance from her in-laws and her tortuous and complicated lifestyle make my life a real torture. I decided that she was alone and friendless in the wild family. Diana turned to the queen mother for support. Her affection despite Diana's recorded protest that she had done it Up until this point, royal family officials discarded the tapes as inconclusive.

The Sun newspaper reported that the Mi5 secret service was behind the recordings. News reports claim that the government's official eavesdropping station was responsible in the interest of national security. The Mi5 monitors the royal telephone conversations to gain knowledge about his movements and acquaintances. A more sinister view is that Charles needed evidence of his wife's infidelity. It was in Charles's interest and perhaps in the interest of the palace of no one but the She complained to the Queen's private secretary, Sir Robert Fellows, that her apartments were bugged and needed to be cleaned and, in fact, they were.

What was not cleaned up was what was happening on the line from his apartments to the outside world and most experts agree that it was between let's say his telephone and the general switchboard which um that a microphone was placed which is worrying is not that the bullseye was necessarily microphoned because that was the excuse it could have been national interest but the final recording was scrubbed very clean You would need a sophisticated device called a digital adapter filter, this sort of thing would

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around £35,000 and would normally only it would be available to the security services or to the military, so it was used, it was cleaned and, after cleaning it, it was spliced ​​there are there are joints in the um audible joints in milliseconds in the conversation and then it was broadcast we transmitted using a mobile phone To disguise their sources in this way the perpetrators ensured that the recorded conversation was accidentally picked up by radio amateurs.

Upon contacting the press, this telephone evidence confirmed that Diana was unhappy in her marriage to Charles and needed the support and love of a male companion exposed by the tapes and now released by the press. There is no doubt that James Gilby helped Diana overcome her loneliness crisis. Depressed and spied on, Diana spent many years waiting to be heard by a man with a sympathetic and understanding ear. She was a very lonely and vulnerable woman who needed a shoulder to cry on and he provided it. I think she needed some kind of buffer between her and the haters, that's what she thought, I think the people around her at the time needed someone other than one of them to turn to for advice and as a sort of sounding board and he was the perfect answer, someone she could trust she could trust and unfortunately their relationship became public Diana's critics claimed that the tapes confirmed her tendency towards paranoia yes she has a tendency I think she is quite justified I think that anyone in that position should feel surrounded by murderers day and night because once those tapes surfaced and she found out about them long before the public, she was worried that, rightly, they were bothering her, that they were spying on her and that whatever paranoia I felt, I think I was absolutely right.

Diana is deeply concerned that her own children are the products of a broken home. Diana had seen her own parents separate from her when she was a child and she knew the pain this could cause young children. She has directed much of her public work toward promoting her family values. Her main concern has been the importance of physical contact (tactile in nature). She has expressed her belief in the benefits of it, especially for children. Hugging has no harmful side effects. If we all do our part to make our children feel valued, the result will be tremendous.

There are potential huggers in every home. She is always the focus of hugs and kisses. Diana herself represents a new, more acceptable type of royalty. No other member of the British world family can make such immediate contact with the public. Her admiration is genuine and her acts of spontaneous affection this enormous popularity will be her main weapon in her fight for a fair agreement with Charles as an indication of the way forward as an independent princess with international status Diana visited Zimbabwe using her high profile to focus media attention on one's hidden problems of the small countries of Africa. public position benefiting the sick and needy of the world from an international charity platform an independent sarah found a role for herself drawing attention to the plight of children the world had forgotten no, no, you want to be returned to Your mom, you have beautiful eyes.

You have lovely eyes letters to Germany and to get German sponsors and films from Poland and um and um how old is she she is exactly the same age as Beatrice at the head of the children in crisis charity Sarah is leaving her past behind and with her? own kind of enthusiasm, although with less exposure she is helping raise money to support her charitable activities, she is still working a lot with these charities and is still trying to get a profile for them, although it is much more difficult for her now, but I continue working for them and I think with Diana too I'm sure, although it's not obvious at the moment, I'm sure she's still doing the same thing and I think you know charities really miss having that public image with the serious side of the work of charity.

The glamor of the fundraiser comes on the first night. This is where Diana's talent as a performer becomes evident. She plays the role of a fairy tale princess with apparent ease. Her glamorous image has fueled the media's obsession with her in An official visit to Egypt, her morning bath was invaded by a group of photographers hungry for sensations who were spying from a balcony of a skyscraper. Both she and her detective knew they were being watched, but she decided to ignore them and resigned herself once again to being forced back to center stage by her relentless audience. a victim of her own success with the media branded as the villain of the piece the reason she gave for reducing her public commitments and her prominent royal position when I started my public life 12 years ago I understood that the media might be interested in what I did but I was not aware of how overwhelming that attention would be or to what extent it would affect both my public duties and my personal life in a way that has been difficult to bear.

I don't think any marriage that is as unhappy as Wales can survive the kind of press intrusion it didn't have at all. I think it would have been extraordinary if he had survived because once the press gets even a little hint that something is wrong, they go for it and they really do it. For that reason, and of course, it's probably the best story we've had in the last 50 years. They are often accused of suffocating their children. William and Harry are incredibly fond of their mother. Her children were her main comfort during the years of her marriage. crisis now has to endure the loneliness of her new situation as an officially separated wife diana has replaced the queen as the nation's main maternal figure by announcing the importance her children will have in her future life my first priority will continue to be our children william and harry , who deserve all the love, care and attention I can give them, as well as an appreciation for the tradition into which they were born, she is very anxious to avoid any publicity, which is perhaps understandable, but the way she is doing.

Maybe not the smartest way, so she is the first victim, the charities, naturally, are the second victim. The royal family also suffers because she was a great asset and wherever she went, she attracted a lot of public and she was the young and very modern face of the royal family, which was very, very useful, a great asset to all of them a year after Her official separation from Charles Diana, she joined the royal family for the Christmas Day service at Sandringham Church and again took center stage soon after, however she abruptly left to spend the rest of the day alone.

Christmas so far, the magnetism of royalty has helped make royal engagements a powerful means of promoting their causes. Whether Diana's future detachment from the royal family will affect her drawing power remains to be seen. Diana leaves an unfillable void in the royal lineup. Sadly, there is no longer a real role for her in the royal family, whatever small role she still has, she will be seen simply as the mother of the next king, but a Prince William may no longer even have the title of princess of Wales, it is very doubtful. They can invent some new title for her, like Duchess of Kensington, for example, to give her a title that tells the public that she is no longer the wife of the ear of the throne and that she is no longer Princess of Wales, she is no longer the third .

The lady of the land since her marriage to Charles Diana has received little guidance from inside the palace. She has had to find her own way in an attempt to escape an unhappy marriage. It exposed a side of royalty that has caused immeasurable damage to the institution of the monarchy. Diana is accused of being disloyal to her husband and the queen, it certainly backfired on her and the family and I don't think she appreciated it. What would be the public's reaction to those revelations or would it quickly become clear that she was behind all the leaks, the experiment to bring commoners to the house of Windsor failed and the world can no longer set an example of happy family life.

The two young wives are gone and all that remains is the shell of respectability and tradition. She had set out to challenge time-honored customs, but her effect on the entire image of the British monarchy has been dramatic. Together they have opened a new line of questioning about ainstitution that must adapt to the times if it is to survive in the 21st century as mothers of the Queen's grandchildren, they still have an important role to play in the lives of the next royal generation. Diana's ancestral home is also in Northamptonshire. She is the daughter of one of the oldest and noblest families in Britain.

Diana's father was a shareholder of the king. george vi before inheriting the title of earl spencer the family lived on the royal estate in sandringham where diana grew up with her two sisters and her younger brother charles when she was only seven years old her parents separated and after a bitter divorce diana was left behind. Taking care of her father Diana was a very little girl Her older sisters were at boarding school Charles was still in daycare because he was even younger and she very much became her father's great companion and, in fact, his hostess, I mean when he organized hunting sessions she used to help he organized the filming lunches and stuff and she really helped him run the house and the family and he was very close with her father and he absolutely adored her when Diana was 17 years.

Her father remarried creating considerable problems for her youngest daughter when he married Rayne Spencer. I think she felt a great sense of isolation and loneliness because she never got along with her stepmother; in fact, all the children resented the fact that they had not been allowed to see their father when he was desperately ill with a stroke and a A friend who was at Lord Spencer's wedding to reign remembers that he drove away and He saw Diana standing all alone, looking very miserable, leaning on a saddle. She had lost her mother, now she had lost her father.

The traumas of home life were compensated at the boarding school, no. Diana, particularly academic, then recalled her time away from home. My years in West Heath were very happy indeed. Once I made a lot of friends who I see often and, despite what Miss Raj and my other teachers may have thought at the time, I actually did. I learned something, but you would never have known it from my level results for young Diana's marriage and babies were the career of an aristocratic girl after West Heath her future took a predictable turn working as an unqualified nursery school teacher she wanted to teach the children said why don't you see, so first I started often in the afternoons and then I took over the mornings and worked whole days, but I only worked three days a week in kindergarten and the other two I took care of a American baby in November 1980.

Diana's name was linked to Prince Charles in the press. She soon caught the scent, her caution in front of the cameras was a skill she quickly acquired when she was asked about her relationship with Charles, but there was none and yesterday she told reporters that she could Arrive soon. Could she comment on this? now an official announcement soon followed and the television cameras were allowed to momentarily lift the veil of secrecy you led us into when you first met. Yes, certainly, it was in 1977. Charles came to stay with his friend at my sister's house to film.

I'm something like that. ruining phil well, I remember thinking I was a very happy, fun, attractive 16 year old girl, and I mean very fun, bouncy, full of life and everything, and um, I don't know what you thought of me, pretty amazing , nobody cared. about the age difference of 13 years so openly in love that the couple brought joy to a nation that was going through difficult times shy die was released to the world her first public appearance raised eyebrows at a reception at goldsmith's hall in london she went to the emanuals and chose a very daring dress, very low-cut and strapless, more of a party dress than a normal dress suitable for her for a concert.

She was a very voluptuous girl in those days. This was long before bulimia came along and, of course, when Prince Charles came along. She got out of her car with Diana behind him, looked at the photographers and said: you won't believe what's coming after her and they all got excited when they saw her because she took sensational photographs and of course she had to bend down a lot to get out of it. the car and I know there were a lot of questions in newsrooms and television studios later that night about whether the footage was suitable for broadcast because the dress was so low-cut that many people thought we were going to see too much of the next Princess of Wales was a very, very glamorous look of a beautiful girl concerns about the wedding were beginning to show at a polo match diana left the field crying later revelations claimed that diana had serious doubts about the marriage her unhappiness was caused by charles' illness continued friendship with an old girlfriend camilla parker-bowles charles was in love with camilla years before meeting diana that love later became a deep and close friendship he did not abandon that friendship it was in camilla's house where he did most of his courtship of Diana Camilla was very involved in his relationship with Diana in the early days, so there is no doubt that he was certainly seeing her during that period after the engagement announcement.

Charles went on a five-week official tour of Australia. Reports later suggested that he had been stretchered before his departure, which made Diana cry when she saw him off at the airport, well, you see, there was a big problem at the time because the Prince of Wales had had several girlfriends who, As nice as they were, they considered themselves to be quite inadequate and had had previous boyfriends etc, and in my opinion, the two grandmothers got together lady by month and the queen mother who dated charles and thought here is the sweetest girl wonderful who comes from the right kind of background and she would be ideal, I think the problem was that they rarely had anything at all in common and he, having been the Prince of Wales, the dominant party and everything else, found himself trapped and then gradually overtaken For this complete superstar, the wedding was the biggest media event the world had ever seen.

Diana's anxiety extended to her father's health. I think it was a terrible experience for Donna and I think it was a terrible experience for Lord Spencer, but he had a very, very bad one. stroke from which it was thought that she would not recover, she practically had to carry him to the altar and to all her problems was added this magnificent wedding dress designed by the Emanuels that was fantastically crushed in the carriage which was a problem that no one had foreseen and I want I mean, everyone was running around in a panic because this dress was completely crumpled like a piece of tissue paper, it looked like it had never been put together and that must have been really horrible for her in a way on this special day.

With all these other pressures, but I think she overcame them. Diana cut a radiant and confident figure in her stunning wedding dress. She endeared herself to the world when she mixed up her husband's names while she was taking her vows. I Diana Francis Hello Diana Francis, take the Charles Philip arthur george take the bennett charles baltha george to my husband to not have a home in heaven from this day forward this day forward to get better in illness and in health in sickness and in health to love and to cherish love and to cherish until death is gone Diana and Charles went on their honeymoon Britain spent the day celebrating the first stopover in Gibraltar on a plane with the prince Charles to checkpoints en route for a trip around the Mediterranean aboard the royal yacht Britannia but the tension of the last few months had taken its toll on Diana.

The run-up to the wedding had been a traumatic experience for the new Princess of Wales. Observers noticed how thin and tired she looked when she arrived at Gibraltar airport. She looked like she was so pale and and she was so thin that she seemed so fragile and nervous that she was like a bag of nerves, you know, like for all the last few days she was really very exhausted and the whole time she was searching around following Charles on his steps and she wasn't entirely sure if they were alone like they always would be, that was the plan, but Charles's association with Camilla extended to the honeymoon.

Later reports suggested he telephoned her from the royal yacht. Future problems were still a long time away. In the distance, when the couple returned to Balmoral with loving smiles and bright eyes, the fairy tale continued and as they walked through the heather, they held hands, laughed and were very, there was a lot of body language between the two of them. them and he kept kissing her hand and she kept blushing and giggling and it was really very natural, it wasn't at all at that moment, it was a very spontaneous kind of natural thing between the two of them, it was a very nice scene when they came down and then They disappeared not into the sunset but with their heads holding hands and it was a romantic shot when they disappeared the romantic scenes at Balmoral soon gave way to concern for Diana's health behind the smiles there were other murmured concerns: Diana was very emotionally unstable As we now know in retrospect, when she married Prince Charles and I think Prince Charles really wanted to play Professor Hickens and he really wanted to help her, I mean, on their honeymoon, she was deeply distraught, very unhappy. so he actually got a psychiatrist to go to Balmoral, this is, you know, like four weeks into his honeymoon and that's not the action of someone who doesn't care, it's someone who is desperately thinking, you know what I have to help with this.

Members of her mother's family have told me that her own mother was a very, very strong woman, in fact, someone once described her as hysterical. Now, Diana certainly doesn't have the stubbornness of the Spencers, but she certainly is extremely high-strung and the kind of pressures that were put on her, and although Prince Charles did his best to support her, he wasn't the kind of soft daddy. that she missed and I think she missed that kind of tranquility and, therefore, I think she was unhappy and lonely and depressed and terribly isolated in her ivory tray. Diana's problems were temporarily overcome with the euphoria of motherhood a year later.

Getting married Prince William was born when a month-long official overseas tour was planned. Diana insisted that baby William accompany them to Australia and the New Zealand public's interest in the young couple was intense. Does Prince William have a favorite toy? Um Jamie, he loves his koala bear. He has but he has nothing in particular. He just likes something with a little plastic whale or he throws things. Um? I have a plastic whale that throws things over the balls. Thanks Jamie. I hope that answers your question. Charles was pleased to show off his dancing prowess to his Australian hosts.

I am exhausted from the royal itinerary in the relentless heat. Diana and Charles were harassed. by crowds wherever they appeared, there were crowds everywhere who wanted to shake her hand and in one city of Brisbane in Queensland, crowds came to her, almost a million people came to see her and it was so terrifying that she had to retreat. She went to the town hall to get a glass of water and she was collapsed. I think she was very hot. There were too many people packed into a very small street and the police feared there would be a serious incident.

It had been a terrifying experience for someone who was not so used to such things, I mean, it was quite terrifying for the rest of us, who had done it many times before Diana claimed that her first trip abroad had been a baptism of fire. It has been a remarkable success, Charles was proud of his new wife, ladies and gentlemen, the last time I was here was two years ago, in 1981, shortly before we got married and at that time everyone was saying good luck and I hope everything turns out well . How lucky you are to be engaged to such a lovely lady and my goodness, I was lucky enough to marry her and we had many, many master's degrees.

It's amazing what women do when you're backstage. I think he was very proud of her in the early days. and I think that really came through in Australia in '83, I mean the way he put his arm around her and pushed her forward to meet people and he looked so proud of her and he used to look used to peeking now and again when they were sitting at a podium and he turned and looked at her and there was a little sort of exchange between the two of them and I think he was very proud of her, but things started to turn sour on an official visit. to Canada later that year, Diana was quoted as saying that one minute I was a nobody and the next minute I was the Princess of Wales, mother, media toy, member of this family, it was too much for one person to handle. , Charles seemed unable to understand the turmoil.

In Diana's life, she suffered from the eating disorder bulimia nervosa and consumed chocolate bars to keep herself going. I think everyone noticed that she was Belson, like I mean, she was pathetically thin and I mean, I was always pretty close to the actual party. at state banquets and so on and you just see her pushingher food around her plate, I mean, I never saw her eat anything and at the time we thought she was just trying so hard to please her hosts, which was actually nerves. that prevented her from eating properly, but I mean everyone knew she was too thin, there was anxiety about her, at one point Diana passed out on her and they had to help her get away from her.

Charles was reportedly unsympathetic and, after regaining his composure, they quickly left. Some of the people very close to her later told me that they thought she had staged that faint because she was extremely tired and very bored from staggering through one boring display after another with her husband and as a way to simply escape her. He collapsed. very clearly out of sight of the TV and the cameraman, so it was a very timely breakdown. Diana gave the Canadian people a fun glimpse into royal life on a collision course with Charles, six months pregnant with her second child.

Diana seemed the perfect example of Wyford and her motherhood, just a hint of personal unhappiness. Later reports claimed that Charles was dismissive of Prince Harry's birth, disappointed that his second child was not a girl and looked too much like a red-haired Spencer with many photographs. of them together they captured the fullness of marital love although there were signs that charles was once again dating camilla parker bowles late night phone calls unexplained absences ironically their marriage seemed to be happy on a vacation in spain with king juan carlos and his family diana and Carlos seemed relaxed, away from the spotlight and the pressures of royal duty, this was Diana's kind of party and she greatly admired the King of Spain's attitude towards his royal duties.

Juan Carlos is actually quite informal compared to our monarchy when he zooms around on a motorcycle and journalists have drinks with him in bars and he buys them a beer, it's very different and I think Diana liked this, I mean Charles may have found it a little difficult to deal with the informality , but it was quite relaxing for Diana. and the boys being in that type of atmosphere the biggest test for Diana was the royal couple's first visit to the United States public interest was enormous and the trip included being guests of honor at a brilliant White House ball for Washington was The social event of the decade, the cream of American arts and public life came to greet Diana, who was received by President Reagan, Their Royal Highnesses Sir Oliver and Lady Wright, Ambassador and Mrs.

Price, Ladies and gentlemen, nancy and i are deeply honored to welcome the prince and princess of wales. to the white house let me add our congratulations, the president was so impressed with diana's presence that he almost forgot her name and he also expressed our great happiness at having been able to have this adventure with princess david, princess diane here on her first trip to United States that we should be able to share on that first trip after Diana danced with John Travolta leaving her husband to explain to him what the experience had been like Well, I'm not a glove puppet so I can't answer that's why I'm I'm afraid, but I think I hope that you enjoyed it.

Wouldn't they need you? If she didn't like dancing with John Travolta, right? And why was the press so fascinated with her every move? I won't care, here's my wife. During a visit to Britain's Treasury Houses exhibition, Charles's disapproving tone went unnoticed by his American hosts, although they did note that Diana seemed distracted and ill, was exhausted, had not eaten, and was distressed by the attitude. her husband's indifference towards her bulimia nervosa. I'm not sure many people really understand bulimia, and I think it's particularly difficult for people who have to live with people who suffer from it.

I think Charles found it very difficult, I mean, his moods were up and down. One minute she was satisfied with life and optimistic and happy and the next minute she was throwing things all over the place, the problem is that if you live with someone who day after day is like that, who constantly eats and then disappears into the bathroom to vomit . I just know that it must be very difficult to be understanding, patient, reassuring and always there with the compassion that is needed day after day after day. Psychiatrists have told me that it is very difficult for husbands to understand when a wife is bulimic because they are simply repulsed by the smell, the mess, it is horrible, no one can understand why someone would want to do this to themselves, so he She disliked him a lot, she disliked him physically and I think it was the main reason they stopped sleeping together bulimia has its roots in an unhappy childhood, doubts and uncertainty in adolescence years later Diana was able to speak on behalf of her peers who suffered from bulimia, the disease they developed became their shameful friend by focusing their energies on controlling their bodies, they had found a refuge from having to face the most painful problems at the center of their lives, a way to cope, although destructive and useless, a way of coping with a situation they found unbearable in 1986.

Dai mania took hold in Japan. When the royal couple visited the country in May, its large population had watched the royal wedding on television and was now in the grip of quite extraordinary enthusiasm, but the Japanese were blissfully unaware of Diana's plight. I think to the Japanese she seemed like the kind of European goddess of folklore because she was wonderfully tall, beautifully blonde, beautifully dressed, she was the absolute ideal European beauty of her and the shape of her. she behaved and her gentleness and so on I think they would have also been very attracted to her and she was absolutely incredible, you know, the inscrutable oriental cracked and they absolutely adored her and I remember going to Buddhist temples with her and the monks were all like falling. about themselves taking pictures, I mean anything but dignified, you know, chatting, there were supposed to be vows of silence, but even they couldn't resist saying she's beautiful.

Diana brought movie star glamor to the role of the Princess of Wales by using clothes to express her personality and boost her self-confidence. Diana enjoyed dressing the part. She did two things in Japan: one, she wore a red dress, a white silk dress with big red circles and she looked like the rising sun on the Japanese flag. The second thing she did later in the week was wear a dress designed by a Japanese designer and up until that point we had only seen her in British designer clothes so it was her way of congratulating them, there is no doubt that Diana set British fashion. on the map i certainly mean the designers who dressed her belleville sassoon victor edelstein katherine walker were really made thanks to her patronage and people from all over the world started buying her clothes and of course the emanuels who designed her wedding dress were They instantly transformed into sensational designers. between them, on joint tours around the world, they created a climate of goodwill towards Britain, whose brighter and better future they appear to represent.

Diana was a role model, a heroine in Venice and elsewhere she was a superstar who became the most powerful image of global popular culture. Like any other celebrity, she fed and lived off the emotions of her audience, she wore their affection like armor, she used it to defend herself from Charles' indifferent attitude towards her and to win the hearts of her adoring audience, she was reduced to a person. second class. real citizen, that was the adulation, I mean, it was clear that no one was even remotely interested in him, you know, I mean, he was just the bouquet bearer, you know they would walk on a promenade and you know everyone would look over his shoulder while I was trying to talk to them to try to see if she was going to cross and come down their side, you know, they didn't want it at all, you know, and he was like hello, how are you?

You and they said: could you give him this book? He hates Diana, please, you know, poor man, I mean, it was very humiliating for him, you know, and there were big boos when he came to their side of the street because they wanted Donna, but she couldn't. He didn't split in two, in fact, she made this comment. You know, he said she was sorry to disappoint you, but she couldn't be on both sides of the aisle at the same time. It was a magical but dangerous quality that set Diana apart from most other royals. but she was different from them in another way: her vulnerability made it easy for the emotionally wounded to identify her with a quality that Charles did not possess.

Diana was aware of how much her husband resented her popularity and the fact that she overshadowed him and so she was doing everything she could to prevent the problem, but in the end she saw that it was useless and simply abandoned public adoration, it was in reality what kept Diana going, she lived for it, it was like a drug to her, she was overwhelmed by When she first woke up, she realized it when she first became engaged to Charles. At first she found it very difficult to cope with, but once she got over it, she discovered that it was tremendous.

Her marriage made her a beauty and star. Perhaps it was because she was so young and naive that she participated in the fairy tale wedding that everyone expected and believed would be a success. A framed photo of the prince hanging in her school bedroom, her destiny. was to marry Prince Charles but in order not to remain in the Victorian era, her proud father Earl Spencer recalled that one of her great strengths had been to endure her public exposure. She is very kind and does not worry about her publicity. She does not worry as you have. Seen by the way he deals with the press, he is taking everything in stride, I think it would always be like that.

She's very practical, she's down to earth, very practical, a very good housewife and, by the way, when she was a baby she was an excellent one. physical specimen she had won any prize for baby she was going to be what the Spencer family, as I have said, was one of the oldest families in Britain, they were all very distinguished, they all rose to the top while many people speculated about who It was the lady. Diana Spencer is a suitable match for the Prince of Wales. He teased that he thought he was a suitable match for her, given that you know the Windsor family hasn't been in this country as long as Spencer's long summer vacation in Scotland showed the royal family.

In a new light, Diana became more cautious and less confident in her dealings with them in public. The couple put on a happy face as rumors about her private life grew. Darker images of happier, more promising days will live on in the nation's family album in The Darker. On the other hand, she had very little in common with the royal family, I think before the Princess of Wales had a very difficult time because the Duke of Edinburgh and the Princess Royal do not tolerate people who they consider stupid and are very stubborn and down to earth and so on, and I think she was considered a little light, a little feather-headed, the queen I think was absolutely delighted with her because I think she fulfilled exactly what she wanted in the sense that she was a Nice girl, the public loved her and she had produced two no snails for the Prince of Wales and I'm sure the queen felt it would make him happy.

Carlos preferred the solitude of the Scottish countryside and painting. He is a very urban creature. Although she grew up in the country, she loves society, she loves sidewalks, shops, restaurants and being on the phone or meeting her friends, so his life really was a million miles from hers. . Diana and Charles spent more and more time. Aside from being an unhappy royal wife to an unhappy royal husband, it was her decision to separate their lives and appear together only in public and on family occasions. The press caught wind of their estrangement and in 1987 she published articles questioning the myth that Wales' marriage was a happy one, but the fabrication didn't stop there.

Palace officials assured newspapers and the world that the stories were not true. The family home in Highgrove in Gloucestershire was not surrounded by journalists nor was the nearby home of Charles's close friend Camilla Parker-Boles, from whom Charles fled when the pressure became too great. I think if you are in a very unhappy relationship you always find someone else's shoulder to cry on, it could be someone of the same sex, there was probably no one to talk to, so he goes to lean on a friend's shoulder and that friend turned out to be a woman and i think camilla probably saved charles sanity i think we should be grateful to her everything started to go wrong after prince harry was born maybe she was like any young wife she had had a young family very quickly they hadn't had time meeting after their wedding before she got pregnant was too diana she was exposed to too much stress in too short a time too much to cope with being transformed from a nobody to a global sensation overnight and got married pregnant everything within nine months wassimply too much for any woman, there seemed to be no way out for Diana absorbed by the myth and magic of the monarchy.

The lie had to be maintained, although the marriage was a farce, it should not appear that way to the outside world. Diana spent the holidays alone with her children, his mother and sisters and attended his son's school sports day expanded his public role supported the family unit and spoke on the issue of family values ​​at a controversial conference in Brighton. I doubt there is any standard formula for a successful family. After all, the family is the most human and therefore the most imperfect of institutions. Instead, I could only point out those mothers and fathers. and children in solitary confinement or in comfortable conformity who simply do the best they can with what they have.

Charles broke his arm playing polo and Diana publicly appeared at his side when he left the hospital. How are you, sir? But as soon as the press was out of sight, they separated and Charles returned to his home in Highgrove and was close to Camilla, his surrogate mother. Well, many people who know Charles quite well say that Camilla played that role. She played the role of a kind of nanny mother. Prince Charles had a babysitter every day. time of day I loved him very much and some research shows that as long as you have an adult figure who is always there and loves you very much, it doesn't really matter if it's your mother, your father or an official babysitter. visit to the taj mahal in india diana sat alone in front of the temple dedicated to eternal love charles came here before marrying diana and sat in the same place and then vowed to return to his wife in egypt diana was again alone while charles was in a private trip to turkey diana the royal ambassador at large flew the flag of great britain in pakistan reached a new level of self-confidence she was beautiful now with the best will in the world the royal family is not beautiful she was clearly beautiful she also contributed a Great style.

The royal family has never been known for being the best dressed women in Britain. If they have other priorities, she brought glamor to the royal family that they had long been missing. The queen always inspired affection. but she was never perceived as beautiful and that is what Diana brought, she brought the glamour, the mystery of majesty, that elusive thing, she was the fairy tale princess, in April 1992, Diana's beloved father died unexpectedly. , a grieving Princess of Wales and other members of her family joined in. by Charles at an emotional funeral a simple bouquet of lilies and sweet peas summed up Diana's pain at the loss of her beloved father in a matter of months Andrew Morton's book appeared the entire farce of the royal marriage came to light the press was Amused as revelations confirmed Diana's bulimia and her unhappy marriage to Charles Camilla was exposed as Charles' lover for many years and Diana's own friend James Gilby and many others were credited with telling Andrew Morton the truth. , in addition to these tapped telephone conversations being leaked to the press the tension was too much for diana you very sincerely reflect the philosophy of tender loving care that is and always will be the hallmark of this hospice in a hospice in Liverpool the words of the president the They made her cry Her nerves were strained to breaking point When she went to Liverpool I mean, she remembers she was bulimic and all that I mean her marriage had broken down Andrew Morton's book had come out Everyone knew every detail of her private life she was completely stressed out I mean I think we were very lucky that she didn't end up in a hospital honestly and I think of course when someone shows you a little bit of kindness and you're on the edge it's very very normal to burst into tears recovering Composure, Diana.

Appearing with Charles at the Royal Garter Ceremony Public revelations about her marriage had left their mark and in royal circles Diana was suspected of cooperating with Andrew Morton as an act of desperation. I think diana felt there was no other way to tell her. world about his tragic personal life, he felt that only public exposure could put an end to his private ordeal and he was right because he certainly achieved that goal, but perhaps the way he did it was not the smartest, it was certainly detrimental to his children and certainly caused the royal family to consider her a traitor among them and from that day I believe her fate was sealed before the revelations.

Plans had been made for Charles and Anna to make an official visit to Korea. Diana agreed with the queen to accompany her. husband, the press welcomed it as an opportunity for them to show some reconciliation in case the body language said it all. There was a horrible moment when we entered the prime minister's residence and the prime minister gave a wonderful speech saying that you are beautiful. "Couple and we are all delighted to welcome you. It was so obvious that those words were exactly wrong. It was a classic textbook case of a warring couple who did not speak to each other once in our presence.

They did not even look at each other if they could avoid it, I mean, I don't remember seeing them look at each other in London. Diana and Charles attended the royal variety show together. This was the last time they were seen in public before Prime Minister John the Major made an announcement to the camera. The Commons announces from Buckingham Palace that with regret the Prince and Princess of Wales have decided to separate. Their Royal Highnesses have no plans to divorce and their constitutional positions are not affected. This decision has certainly been made and they agree with both of them. continue to participate fully in raising her children, the strain of thinking that they lived happily in a glorious land of tiaras, titles and happy endings was, in fact, too much for Diana, she had fought for an independent life as a career princess and exposed the fairy tale as fiction, I think if the two of them had paid more attention to each other and cared more about each other and the situation, I think Diana could have been a good wife for him, which I think It happened and where it went so wrong was because she was very young, stardom made her head spin and she had great difficulty coping with it.

Meanwhile, he had great difficulty coping with a nose that was left very out of place because the spotlight was stolen from him using the spotlight. Diana gave a speech about eating disorders. I'm supposed to have my head in the bathroom for most of the day, It was clear that she had completely recovered from her bulimia and was finally free of her embarrassing friend. I'm supposed to be dragged in a minute with men in white coats, so, if that's okay with you, I thought I'd postpone my nervous breakdown for a more appropriate time. . Diana physically turned him off, but he was also tired of someone who demanded so much of him.

He was a very selfish man who led a life in which he did exactly what he wanted. When a wife and children arrived, he was not willing. make the sacrifices give them the attention they deserved and that was what he argued with Diana and she constantly reminded him that it is a remarkable feat for a young woman to graduate from an unqualified kindergarten teacher to a unique player on the world stage, she believed that her husband had rejected her love refusing to suffer in silence she broke with royal tradition and fought back she tried but failed to modernize the monarchy she brought a magic they were missing there were no glamorous young women in their ranks when Diana arrived they desperately needed her and they didn't know it at all At that moment the world immediately welcomed her with her freshness, her naivety, her wonderful figure, long legs and beautiful blonde, good looks, blue eyes and her willingness to enjoy all that part of the role.

In fact, we loved her so much that we wanted Charles to marry her and the rest. As they say, it's history, he agreed, we all thought she was so perfect and I think the stories at the time we wrote said she had it all. the qualities for a queen and she did it, she was simply ideal for the role, but she was not ideal for Carlos and that was the tragedy: her marriage turned her into a beauty and a heroine in a revolutionary movement that went from victim to protagonist of its official commitments. Now they are rare when she appears in public her elegance and sense of style are still spectacular drawing attention away from Charles this is her way of hitting back at her husband the man who betrayed her a poisonous war is still being waged between them her suspicions persist that Charles has escaped the marriage morally unscathed despite admitting adultery, anyone would be crazy to say that Charles wasn't happy to get out of what was a very, very unhappy relationship for both of them and I think saying he's happy is probably a pretty good way. cruel to say, I think he is delighted that the farce of his marriage has finally come to an end, for she, Diana, is buoyed by public sympathy, but there is hostility towards her from Charles's friends. and her family when the queen invited Camilla to play polo in Windsor Great Park, royal unity was maintained even though all fingers pointed at Camilla, as the other woman in Charles's life retreated to lick her Injuries are not the character of the Prince of Wales, it is not in his nature to hide from the limelight.

Charles has never known life without it. For a man under pressure, polo is a vital outlet for his frustration. Everything has always revolved around Charles. with every practical need taken care of his path continually paved as the young man found the right woman a major concern when you marry in my position, you marry someone who may one day become queen and you have to choose someone very carefully, I think I could play this particular role because people like you would perhaps expect a lot from someone like that and it has to be someone very special the fairy tale princess miraculously appeared the wedding was watched by 700 million people around the world the young princess He captured people's hearts by his youthful attitude and his good looks that seemed to be tailor-made for work.

The romance had begun when she was just 17. They met in a plowed field and Charles was immediately captivated by Charles' shy and shy good looks. of reveille; He doubted for years about his choice of girlfriend and had even courted Camilla Parker Bowles in his The fact that her youth was Catholic excluded her from the race, so the arrival of the innocent and immaculate Diana seemed like a gift from heaven in her engagement interview, Diana had no doubt that she was marrying for love, while Charles doubted the true meaning of the word and I guess in love, of course, whatever in love means, Diana was in love with Charles and in love with the Charles idea, but in a very immature way I mean, of course, how could anything else be immature?

She was 19 years old and 13 years old. He thought that the age difference was not important, it was probably his sense of duty after all, his motto is "I serve" and he felt that he should get married, he felt that he had been having an affair with this innocent young girl and that and that really the pressure. She was on fire and everyone wanted her to get married and I think everyone got carried away with the euphoria after her wedding. Charles brought his new wife to meet the Welsh. The weather was awful but the reception was warm.

Thousands of people filled the room. streets to have the opportunity to see her first Princess of Wales in more than 70 years. It was three days of continuous walks, performances and speeches. A traumatic experience for the young Diana. It was very cold. It was pouring rain. The Princess of Wales was pregnant and did not feeling not at all well but being very brave about it in fact she was getting sick every five seconds and everyone was looking for the nearest lou and we got off the royal train and I was right behind her and she was so scared it was vibrating like a tuning . at the fork, I mean, you could see the absolute terror of it, but she was honest, Spencer's grip was coming to the fore and we walked down this long, shadowy station platform and beyond we could see these huge crowds and It was like she took a deep breath. and she dove into freezing water, she just ran forward and stuck her hands into the crowd and they were absolutely overwhelmed and then an hour later she was a changed girl, she had broken the ice, she had done it, she had felt the warmth of the crowd decided for the first time to make a memorable impact on the people of Wales.

A hesitant and nervous 21-year-old princess impressed them by giving her first public speech. I am extremely grateful to you, Mr. Mayor, to the city council and to the city of Wales. Cardiff for granting me the freedom of the city, I realize it is a great honor and I am very grateful. The images after the birth of Prince William radiated happiness and true love, perhaps when they first got married they had some problems like many people. Yes, but I think when she had William, they had a period where they were very, very happy and I'm sure he was in love with her and I think I remember talkingwith him at that time and he preceded everything with my wife.

He didn't want to talk about anything except Diana and he obviously adored her and the boy at her old roommate's wedding. Diana appeared with her new husband. Charles. For starters, Diana had considerable influence over her husband. She softened him up and presented him to her. circle of friends, all in an attempt to make him feel relaxed in the company of people more his age. I think Diana tried and to some extent succeeded in updating Charles a bit. I mean, it certainly seemed to change her lifestyle. clothes and she had some impact, I think I remember his hairstyle, but not much, I mean, he is basically a very, very conservative man, he was born at 45 years old.

So I think she had an uphill struggle, old habits that Charles found. It's hard to throw away years of real education. Prince Charles was basically raised by nannies and the Queen Mother and it's interesting that the two role models he has had have been the Queen Mother and his own mother, the Queen. The queen mother is both. a symbol before she is a mother, so he is very. I think a Jungian psychologist would have fun watching this man who can only fulfill himself as an individual when his mother dies. Charles's relationship with his mother, the queen, had never been natural.

Since he was a baby, his royal duties had kept them apart. Charles, a sensitive and shy boy, was sent to Gordenstein, a harsh and rugged boarding school in Scotland, where his father had been when he was a child. The harsh environment, cold showers and morning baths were part of the daily routine. There were doubts that this was the right kind of school for the sensitive Charles. In my opinion, he had already been a victim once you know, as a victim of his childhood and a victim of the fact that his parents hadn't really been available to him most of the time, so by sending him to a school where he was expected to almost make it on his own with a very, very strong and powerful director in many ways, as his father would, he would have thought it was not the right thing to do.

To him, Charles could never be called weak in his adolescence. He chose to practice polo determined to demonstrate his strength, his physical condition and his courage in this robust and dangerous sport. The tradition of the royal family is steeped in horse riding. Charles's growing obsession with polo revealed a deep need to impress. His father has tried in many ways, I suppose, to emulate his father. um his father is a very masculine man, he swims, he rides, he plays polo and of course I think the fact that Prince Charles took up this sport of polo was in some way. trying to emulate his father and trying to please his father and admiring him and respecting him and the only time I heard that Prince Charles really stood up to his father was at Buckingham Palace many years ago when Charles was about to be 21 or 22 and they were having a fight and suddenly, uh, this was told to me by a former private secretary to the queen, they heard Prince Charles say to Prince Philip, just remember who you're talking to, you're talking to a future.

King of England when Charles was 18 years old, the queen introduced her son to the people of Wales at Carnarvon Castle from an early age. Charles was prepared for his royal duties. I think Carlos was greatly handicapped by his upbringing. He didn't have the tactile kind of relationship. with his parents like most children do, so he didn't really know how to behave with other people, he didn't see his parents as having a very tactile relationship, everything was hugely formal and awkward and there were a lot of long absences, so he He didn't really have a role model, Charles found a sympathetic ear in his great-uncle, Lord Louis Mountbatten, this charismatic older figure once the last Viceroy of India decided to step in and nurture this hesitant teenager and groom him in the art of statesman, it was a very special relationship that Mountbatten was the kind of vulnular figure who was a background figure on many occasions, but they took his advice on things to do with royal relationships in 1979.

Lord Matt Batten was suddenly and tragically murdered by a IRA bomb while on holiday in Ireland. Charles had lent a lot of money. He asked her for advice if he had lived, she would undoubtedly have helped him fix his relationship with Diana. If Manhattan had been alive now with full control of his faculties, we would have seen a very different development than what we have seen. I think Mountbatten probably would have done it. He desperately tried to charm Diana and was able to do so. He could charm the birds from the tree. He really he could.

He would have done it. He would have used some form of emotional blackmail to get her on her side and explain that her duty was the most important thing. think about the unhappiness in your private life, your public duty is very important and i think you probably would have stayed together if lord mountbatten had been alive from the beginning, charles and diana's relationship seemed perfectly harmonious, diana settled into the routine of the royal duties that accompany it. her husband on visits abroad surprised people with her beauty the public perception was that of a happy young woman who had adapted to the pressure of royal life with extraordinary ease and grace during an official visit to Italy the varnish that barely covered Her problems began slowly.

Diana suffered from the eating disorder bulimia nervosa. Despite her elegant charm, her weight loss and sudden change of mood were causing concern among her friends. Now, could you translate externally? Diana seemed in control, but beneath her glamorous facade was a woman in confusion. How kind and wonderful the Italians have been to us, they have made us feel at home and it is the most beautiful place. She confided to her friends that in the presence of her husband he made her feel intellectually insecure and that the inferior English have been there for years. and years, but we do know from what members of her staff have revealed that Diana could be very difficult to live with and, in fact, when she suffered from bulimia, one of the symptoms of that illness was the wild and irrational behavior that she would scream and ranting and raving and throwing things and of course Prince Charles was not prepared to deal with this.

He had never been raised where people showed his emotions in public like this. Here, in one of the most romantic cities in the world, Charles's concerns were too discreet for someone of Diana's generation. She wasn't immune to the beauty of Venice, but her basic divergence of interests was becoming more noticeable. Charles recorded her impressions of Venice from the royal yacht Britannia. By nature, Charles has a more serious mentality and is a deep thinker. It was the beginning of a great love affair with Italy. His beauty and antiquity appealed to his fascination with history and his passion for painting.

She later chose Italy to host the first exclusive public exhibition of her own watercolors at Raphael's house in Urbino, craving the attention of her husband. Diana attracted the love and affection of her adoring public. Her husband's status gave her the platform on the Diana has always taken exceptional care of her appearance and does everything possible to stand out above her husband. At first he seemed quite pleased when people loved his wife and everyone adored her, but he quickly began to get tired of this. . I noticed it in Australia from the beginning, every time they walked down the street together, there were crowds on both sides of the street I passed.

From one side she went to the other and when on her side of the street the entire audience said we will not die and Paul Prince Charles ended up saying I'm sorry, there's only me in a moment in England when he went to On a Silverstone race track , a little boy approached him and asked: where are Diana and the prince? At that moment he got very angry about all this and said: I'm sorry, she's not here, it's just me, so why don't you go and ask for your Money back Charles's man of action image was affected by the public adoration of Diana.

He was used to having all eyes on him when he was single. A morning swim in Australia helped boost the image of a man under pressure to succeed with the opposite sex. His celebrity status made him the most exposed royal ambassador overall. His girlfriends were harassed by the press and became the center of wild speculation and rumors. Instead he settled for a shy young English aristocrat desperately in need of love and attention. and leaving behind her polo-loving friend Camilla, who by this stage was married to Andrew Parker-Bowles. Outwardly the marriage seemed happy but Camilla's cloud remained, although reports claim that the breakdown of their marriage dates back to the birth of Harry.

I don't think Harry's birth per se was a cause of the beginning of the end, but I think it was around that period, um, and I think it had a lot to do with Charles starting the real midlife crisis. age, he felt that all his contemporaries were reaching the peak of their lives. careers or they were certainly on the way to that and here he was not yet fulfilling any well-defined role, still a kind of king-in-waiting that I could see lasting for another 20 or 30 years as guests of the Diana Spanish royal family. and charles enjoyed a relaxing summer holiday in mallorca.

Scenes like these, full of love and tenderness, were a far cry from Charles' global childhood and the summer holidays he spent in the Scottish highlands in an atmosphere that differentiates him from his children, whom he is closest to. they. than his own father was and closer than his own father to his father, he tries to be a good father, he is genuinely affectionate with his two children, but in terms of what you and I might understand what a good father is. Father, it's impossible for him to be like that because he can't give them enough time.

They really have to make an appointment to see him like anyone else. Highgrove is Charles's home until their separation. Diana lived here on weekends. This was her husband's territory. 700- one acre retreat in gloucestershire here in peace and quiet charles can indulge his passion for gardening niagara is particularly important to charles because it is his own home, it is his first home where he can do what he loves and i think some of the things in this house that somehow make up for what he couldn't have growing up. He really likes gardening and one can imagine the seeds he plants in the ground and the flowers and plants that grow. of the earth are in a way children for him who are growing up he takes care of them he can be a mother to them as he would have liked to be a mother to his own parents his love for nature and his genuine concern for the environment has given rise to claims that Charles is too concerned with saving the planet from itself.

His controversial views have made him unpopular in professional circles. I wouldn't be so tactless as to share with you my opinions on the architectural design of this remarkable building, but what is it? proposed seems monstrous to me the face of a much louder and more elegant friend, ladies and gentlemen, you have to give so much to the luftwaffe when they demolished our buildings, they did not replace them with anything more offensive than rubble, we did that for the global environment and become in the true administrators of all life on earth, not just the human part. Meanwhile, Diana was worried about her appearance; it was her way of expressing herself, boosting her self-confidence and helping her cope with pressure. about the breakup of her marriage and restoring her self-esteem she spent summer sunday afternoons watching charles play polo it was boring but her husband caught her and scolded her for using the hood of her aston martin as a seat during the awards ceremony and There was a lot that a glamorous lady acting easy and friendly made her the center of attention, but there were times when she rebelled and wore something that was not quite in line with the atmosphere of the royal polo, her style and taste have always been been at odds with Charles's.

He was a confirmed bachelor, he had a very comfortable bachelor existence, I mean, he was surrounded by all kinds of furniture that he liked and he had a regular routine where he saw his friends that day and that day he played polo, he hunted in this day his life was quite complete. I don't think that when he married Diana he realized that he was actually going to have to fit her into that image, that he was going to have to take into account her tastes, you know that maybe. His tartan furniture wasn't going to appeal to a 19-year-old girl who spent her life with her nose in fashion magazines.

You know, she wanted a change and I think it was very difficult for him to understand that Diana never fit easily into the horse polo set. As a child she fell off a horse and was never liked as the sport of Kings Polo has given Charles a much needed outlet for his energy with little public contact day to day, these were rare times they were seen together, also in polo. She provided Charles with an excuse to meet up with old acquaintances, well, polo provided him for many years with Prince Charles's male friends, who may not be the most comfortable male company.sophisticated and intelligent that you can choose and, obviously, polo has its groupies, uh, female groupies, and there were rumors. for several years and there were occasional sightings alleged sightings of the prince with girls from that environment let's say there is no doubt that it did encourage him to see women as if they were occasional as part of the advantages of his role and to see other The men, uh, aristocratic men Rich people who treated these women like playthings made him think that was part of what life was like during an annual ski vacation in Switzerland.

Charles narrowly escaped death in an avalanche. His close friend, Major Hugh Lindsey, was killed and another friend, Charles, was seriously injured. He blamed himself for the tragedy, losing a close friend in an accident was a traumatic and unforgettable experience for him. He is extremely compassionate, he is a genuine friend to people he has known for a long time and I know people he knows, men and women, who have known him for many years and if they ask him for help or even if they don't ask for it but he finds out that they are in trouble, he will do everything he can to help them if he can, so he is very compassionate about that.

That way, he's not arrogant to people in that way, but if people ever forget who he is for a moment, he'll bring down the royal curtain with chilling finality, uh, because Prince Charles never forgets for a moment. who he is, he doesn't let anyone. Long before the secret of Diana's unhappy marriage became public, many behind-the-scenes attempts were made to maintain Charles' good name at the princess's expense. Stories later emerged from behind the palace walls about Diana's removal from the royal family. When a crisis occurs in royal circles, the palace machine throws its weight behind the blood oil.

The queen was understanding and encouraged Diana to continue. forward despite Charles' immovable and selfish ways. I think Charles is very much a strict protocol for his role, I mean, I know one. occasion where the table was set a little badly and I mean, he just demanded that everything be reset and put back and he sends very cryptic little memos to his staff about how things should be done and he likes his toothbrush and in a certain place and if he's not there it irritates him, I mean, but that's how he was raised, he's a stickler for royal protocol, Charles' macho action image, the man was broken after a polo accident knocked him out. suddenly left an invalid for several years. months with a badly fractured arm was another blow to his pride when he came out of a second operation the severity of the injury was obvious he did not hide the pain from him how are you sir?

Naturally, for the peace and quiet she went to his house in Highgrove. that charles went to convalesce and into the arms of camilla parker-bowles she was a very understanding shoulder to cry on i think she was a friend a soulmate someone he could relax with someone who understood his problems she was interested in him someone he didn't I didn't have I didn't have to make any effort to act in front of it. I mean, we all have people like that in our lives. He is surrounded by staff, peers and private secretaries and it seems to me that he has very few opportunities to relax. that way and i think that's what camilla provided someone he could really let loose with as a man in crisis.

Charles's own upbringing highlighted once again the lack of affection he received as a child from his mother, the queen, she was 26 years old. she years and she suddenly the burden of being monarch was imposed on her what are you supposed to do? say sorry, I can't do this, I have to go to the bathroom. Charles, she really tried to be with him, but remember we're judging. And this is a point really where I am very convinced that we are judging the queen, raising her children by the standards of the '90s and this was back in the 1950s, in the '50s, Charles was born in 1948 and he was very different then for everyone.

Diana's childhood was cut short when her own mother left the family home when Diana was only 8 years old. Her bulimia dates back to her turbulent childhood. She was left in the care of her father, Earl Spencer, who was filled with pride when her daughter became engaged to Prince Charles. What are you doing on the sidewalk outside the palace? I thought you'd be inside. I'm photographing the photographers, yes, what a wonderful day for you. Beautiful days, many days, we are all very happy. Last night I saw you looking absolutely radiant raining very happy. I've never seen her look better.

I have photographed all the events of her life. I'm photographing this one too afterwards. Diana's father married Rayne. His second wife when he married Reign Spencer. I think he felt a great sense of isolation and loneliness because he never got along with her stepmother and I think in a way that she posed problems when she married the Prince of Wales because he was practically single when he married her. her there. There was a big age difference, they had very little in common and what she wanted was a kind of love, affection and affection, and I think he found it very difficult to give it to her.

Diana tried to find some satisfaction in caring for those whose circumstances were much worse. that her own diana is one of life's victims concerned with the sick and disabled, the helpless, the homeless and the unloved, all of whom she identifies with what I have discovered both in my own experience and in my visits to organizations that support couples and children in The difficulty is that there are certain common ingredients essential for families of all sizes and types. Of course, there must be love, but love in its most practical forms. Mutual commitment. Share together. Self-discipline and some self-sacrifice in a charity function for those suffering help.

Diana pleases everyone by looking glamorous in a way that as a child she hoped would please her mother and later her husband, she soon realized that the person from whom she expected the reward of obedience and duty was too involved with her own needs. Recognizing Yours as a Bulimia Victim Diana didn't admit she had a problem, she always seemed happy and spent her life trying to help others, but there was rage beneath the cheerful smile and an anger that bulimia sufferers are afraid to express. , it may be pointless apportionment of blame, but it is difficult to resist the conclusion that Charles's unique life is that of an heir to the throne surrounded by adulation.

Indifference made him incapable of treating anyone as an equal, much less in the loving and caring way necessary to build a marriage. What always baffled me was how Charles could be so indifferent towards this beautiful, glamorous, gorgeous creature next to him, it's only when you realize that throughout their marriage she had bulimia and was therefore quite distant. , she was fussy, she was difficult, that's when you understand that, I think the whole past, her behavior during those last few years fits into an official visit to Canada, the mystique of royalty remained here, the focus was on the family that young princes carefully trained to know. people do exactly what is expected of royalty despite the breakdown of their own marriage.

Diana is determined to give her children a happier childhood than the one she had to compensate for her own unhappy experiences. They accuse her of being an excessive mother. Diana has many other problems to deal with. She is a little overprotective of her children, I don't think any woman blames her mother, although perhaps we unfairly say that her mother left her when she was very little, but for all intents and purposes it seems to us as if she had abandoned her. Mother, but in reality the people closest to her are her children and I think if she smothers them and overmothers them a little, my God, I don't blame her, I think any woman would do the same thing relaxing with her two children on a ski holiday. and away from public adoration of her, Diana remains the center of people's attention.

This is her life and it is unlikely that she will ever escape the public gaze. Charles has the comfort of his own family to give him the security he needs. Diana was. Now alone, her ski vacation ended abruptly when her beloved father died unexpectedly, unhappy because she was not at her father's bedside when he died. She returned home alone at the funeral. Her message to him was simple. I miss you so much, dear dad, but. i will love you forever at her funeral a few months later the family appeared together a rare occasion created out of family grief in egypt the solitary princess fulfilled her duties to perfection both for the photographers and as a representative of the queen the shaidai image has now disappeared having an audience with the president of Egypt and charles was alone in turkey in the past he had been photographed on vacation here with camilla parker-bowles on this occasion he was alone escaping the gaze of a curious press and trying to do something painting hidden behind a improvised screen at home the clouds were forming with the imminent publication of the book Diana her true story confirming to the world for the first time the farce of her marriage to Diana betrayal was in the air once Diana realized she had been betrayed by her husband, she was extremely angry and humiliated and what a wife she wouldn't be, I don't think her cooperation with the book, or her tacit approval of the book, if there was such a thing, was a deliberate attempt to get Returning to Prince Charles, but I think when she became aware of the publicity surrounding the revelations that she was unhappy with the effect this was going to have on Prince Charles, I don't think it was a deliberate attempt on her part to seek revenge, but once it happened , I think maybe she wasn't unhappy that it had happened, worried about Diana's health and mental state, her friends had supposedly gathered around her to expose the lies of the royal marriage.

Her friend James Gilby was among those who had helped Diana during some of her painful years, as well as Carolyn Bartholomew, who had been her best friend since her school days. She wasn't unhappy to see that story told. I think even she was shocked and surprised by the level of detail that went into the story. Morton's book and some of her friendships with some of the friends who spoke to Morton have not been the same since, so I don't think she herself instigated publishing the boy's story, but she was very happy to have it brought to light.

The smear campaign took on a more sinister dimension with the publication of an intimate, illegally recorded telephone conversation between Charles and Camilla Parker-Boles. The Prince and Mrs Parker-Boles met regularly, but it appears from these tapes that on this occasion they had been forced to leave. without seeing each other I can't start the week without you I fill your backpack if you do it in person then I'm fine at Buckingham Palace and the royal family refused to comment on the authenticity of the tapes apparently indifferent to the credibility of their publication It was again questioned. His reaction to the release of the Camilla Gate tapes was complete horror.

It was a quiet weekend in Sandringham. She knew it was going to happen. Even this time she knew this was going to be incredibly damaging and opened up the whole question. Who was this Mrs. Camilla Parker Bowles? What was the nature of his relationship with her? All questions that journalists have rightly raised over the past few years and that he himself has now been forced to answer. No denials were made, which confirms beyond everything. doubt of charles's adultery with camilla he was relieved that the story was now public knowledge charles certainly knew of the existence of the camilla gate tape for a long time before it was published and it was a veritable sword of damocles hanging over his head and when he finally fell, it was a crushing blow that he is still recovering from and I think will be for several years yet.

So who organized the illegal recordings of the newspapers pointed an accusatory finger at gchq, the government's secret service listening agency, the security services and, indeed, the queen herself were desperate to discover what the intentions of charles and charles ran around spending his nights away from his bodyguards and, as we now know, spent much of the night on the phone with his lover camilla parker-bowles, an experienced hand could install microphone equipment with ease, It is not difficult to earn £500 for a microphone and another thousand pounds for a receiver; It's pretty basic equipment and almost anyone can go to a store and buy this type of thing.

Now the newspapers claim that the recording of Diana's intimate telephone conversations with her friend James Gilby was the work of Charles and Camilla was exposed by Diana's friends to get revenge on Charles just when the publication of the squidgy tapes was entirely in Charles' interest. The publication of Camilla's tapes were in Diana's hands at last everything she had been telling him It was shown that her friends were the real Charles, far from being the loving husband and caring father, in fact, from an earlier stage marriage than had never been revealed, he had been a loverby Camilla Parker Bowles as questions were asked about the timing of Diana's divorce. she took the children on vacation as the primary concern is the well-being of young princes william and harry the complexities and reality of divorce had to be carefully examined by both parties the separation agreement states that diana could lead a separate life within of the royal framework, joining Prince Charles on formal state occasions, they would share custody of the children at any convenient opportunity.

Diana takes her children to have them to herself and keep them under her protective wing. I can't help but feel that there are these two little boys who grow up very quickly and are very loving and very adorable and you can't help but feel that she would look at them in some way to maybe make up for what she missed in her marriage and this wouldn't be It's a good thing that Charles sometimes disregards his children's needs because he feels like their parents were his. It is very difficult for him to give others something that he never had.

It could well be that Charles is subconsciously considering the possibility of what was right for him. would probably be fine with them, and in fact it seems to be going in that direction, you see, because his parents were inevitably separated from him due to his involvement in the affairs of state, while Charles continues to demand respect and approval, his ex-wife keep going. to attract crowds wherever she goes overshadowing her husband throughout her married life, she has been forced to take refuge in a lonely corner where her only solace comes from her adoring public until now. . I guess she has found love in the approval of the general population because people love her, she does a lot of good work, she is terribly charitable, she cares a lot about the well-being of others and she looks very attractive and this is something that gains approval and is sure to feel loved by the people of the country within a The year of their official separation Diana felt secure enough to appear publicly with the royal family at Sandringham on Christmas morning.

Her children wanted her to be part of the Christmas celebrations. Soon after she left to spend the rest of the holiday alone and perhaps reminisce about the last 13 years, from the moment she and Charles were interviewed about their engagement, there was no doubt in Diana's mind that she was marrying Charles for love, of course, whatever love means, Vince Charles often talked about what he wanted out of marriage, he wanted a companion. he wanted someone who fulfilled a role someone who fulfilled duties as far as he was concerned love affection uh he came a lot with very secondary considerations he wanted a partner to fulfill a function charles publicly admitted on the television show that he had been unfaithful to his wife After of their marriage, in Diana's mind, he is lying because she knows he was unfaithful to her long before the marriage fell apart.

I think that is the only extraordinary omission from her confession in the summer of '94: that she has not apologized to the British people for disappointing them. fairytale marriage in which they had invested so much no apology to his wife for his behavior and no expression of regret no, I'm sorry for what I did just a slightly floury confession of adultery as if it were his prerogative and nothing more and a cheerful determination To proceed as if nothing had happened, Charles could, if he wished, remain formally married to Diana if they divorced, he could even marry his Catholic lover Camilla if she were free.

I think it is extremely difficult for the prince of wales to produce camilla parker bowles, who would be a divorced catholic as the new princess of wales and future queen. I suspect he still believes he can do that. Personally I think he is wrong. I don't think he can marry camilla and become king. There are too. many constitutional, religious and other complications along the way, but he believes that Diana may have reduced her royal duties and effectively withdrawn from public life. His natural ability to capture the warmth of royalty will be sadly missed. Smart money will eventually divorce Charles. staying divorced with possibly female companions like camilla parker-bowles at her side, that's one scenario, another would be that they would stay separated for at least a decade, about a decade, diana hasn't decided what she wants to do. certainly in no hurry, I have no doubt that Charles' mistreatment of her not only the adultery he has now admitted to, but also treating her like a second-class citizen under the salt, as the entire family did when, in In his own immortal words, having done so much for that former family was really the wrong way to treat the star member of the royal family and is indicative of the way the so-called born royals can never accept those who marry them. as on an equal footing. regardless of public success the magic is gone the marriage of the prince and princess of wales is over the royal family now faces the task of adapting to the challenges of the 21st century oh diana she is now alone escaping the limelight leaving her Wow, the windsors They have failed and the world can no longer set an example of happy family life.