The Science of Awkwardness

Home at the end. You know more about what is going on in your life. It's easy to live that way. There is not enough time or mental space to consider another person's life complex. But they are. Realizing this has a specific time frame. A term I give to the Obsessive Surrogacy Dictionary, which is one of my favorite resources and now one of my favorite YouTube channels. Summarizes deep concepts in a small set of sentences. Surely, naming something doesn't show that you know it or how you feel about it. However, names give us control over things, so we can manipulate them, suppress them, or give them away to others, making us feel more deeply. than the concepts they describe.

Now, their term for admitting that you're just an extra part of other people's lives and that you're not there for most of it is "making it up." This is its definition. “To repair is to realize that every random person you pass by has a life as vibrant and complex as you, full of their own ambitions, friends, routines, worries, and inherited craziness,” an epic story that continues invisibly through around you. like an anthill deep in the earth”, which has passages... For thousands of other souls “that you will never know exist, that can appear all at once 'while you take a sip of coffee in the background', or as the glow of a car passing on the highway, "or like a bright window at dusk." Admitting this makes his embarrassing behavior seem insignificant.

But it also makes you look very young. It's a very small needle in a giant haystack, but you still have a great idea. Your flaws have completely disappeared, as has your uniqueness. But the view from up here... well, it's incomparable. As always, thanks for following us.