Should a Kid Hit Back If They Get Hit?

creating this Instagram post on the brand Jasmine and it says to stop telling your kids if someone hits you, hit them

back

, that's what the post says, stop telling your kids if someone hits you, that you hit them

back

. Some users disagree and some think there are ways you

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handle it so kids can handle it now. I'm putting the question on the table. Should you tell your kids or do I want to know what Tan tells his kids? I'm thinking that both of my kids are in school right now. Listen. I don't approve of violence, but I do approve of my children defending themselves, yes, there is a general rule in the house, okay, if a child hits my son or my daughter, I tell them to go tell the teacher, yes, now if the teacher Don't do anything about it because sometimes that happens, sometimes

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don't see you, you see it, yes, I say Aaden, you have to handle it, you will never understand it, you will get in trouble for starting a fight correctly, never you will enter problems to finish yes, I'm not even a parent yet, but I'm sorry if my son comes home and tells me that

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told the teacher and the teacher didn't do anything about it teacher, I'm going to come see you, yes, because now you're I am not aware of my son's safety, yes, not at home.

Do you think we're in a time where we're now protecting children a lot and yeah, because I know I know for myself that there are certain things that I went through as a child that I just needed to go through, yeah, so I think a lot in this generation, in this era, it feels like we're kind of like what you have to do, I mean, I'm not going to call it, I'm I'm not going to call it bullying, but they bullied me like they were. They bothered me with my sister. We all go through these things that like to be tough and give you goosebumps and also like honing your clapping and protection skills.

I think we also have to teach kids to learn to discover certain things in their own time and I think there's a very protective space that we're in, we were kind of feeding. all because we don't want anything to happen yes, yes, they have to develop an immune system and they have to develop an independent system. Yes, would you tell yourself to take it back? I don't have children, but I have two cats. and I agree with you and sometimes I am stories that you have shared. I kind of align with you in that I grew up skinny and I was skinny and I was always so Chester that 15, there we go, so people just like it. mess with you and then you know it's the only Asian family in this area and what I told you the story already was that a girl came to attack me at my house and I hid, I hid when she came to your house, yeah, okay, this girl came to my house with the whole clan shaking boldly she kicking my lawn knocking on my door my mom came so wait why are you hiding what's up what's up you know and I'm like mom like Shh like why is she going to go but my Mom said why are you scared, you know, and I said: I didn't know why I was scared.

I just like it, no, but I know, I know why you work there. I don't know, so my mom legit put me in three hoodies that we had. this little bull in chicken fat because we save our fat to give flavor to the other, yes, so she put the chicken fat and rubbed it all over my face, she told me how to punch him in the neck, make a little button on his head. Stomach and legitimacy made me fight in my first fight. I know I learned to defend myself. There is not always a teacher. There isn't, so I think my lesson might be my thing.

If I were a mom, I wouldn't encourage my son to fight, but. I would very much encourage my children to stand up for themselves no matter what the juice is in that situation, it's the characteristics that are not present yes, I had to go through a hundred, you know, it happened a lot to my mom today when I I was a big girl at school in Preschool. I look like one of the substitute teachers, so I'll never get here, but I'd have to help the other kids. Wow, it continues to this day. Yes, I'm going to a fight.

I'm going to call, that's why I choose my friends. Wisely, yeah, 'cause I know I got good friends, these are some good girls here, oh yeah, can you imagine if we fought the way we'd like to if we did? Oh no, I guess so, believe it or not, you guys, I actually could. We fight in our house every time we actually live together, I swear I was the first one to have that knife in my hand and that was like, come on, TIA.