Selena Gomez Talks Relationship With Justin Bieber | On Air with Ryan Seacrest

and look who's here, Selena Gomez, who's already crying, no, okay, so I want to get right to this because we've been talking about you being here and it's a, it's a, it's a really important day, um and I think This is a. It's important to have a conversation that let me play the beginning of the music video. This dialogue that you are going to hear. This conversation you're going to hear is Selena alone and we'll talk a little bit about it, but listen, that's really it. powerfully frighteningly vulnerable hmm, did you go into a room alone and turn on a microphone?

Yeah, they recorded the microphone under the table when I was recording the video and I had recorded it over a year ago, so that's the state I was in. I entered that place emotionally and I walked into the room alone and I looked at the real mirror in the music video and I had a conversation about what, to myself, what, every question that I had in my mind at that moment, what Wow, this feeling I it changes everything and you can't help it and I think it just happened and we chose some of the clips and it worked perfectly, it was where I was in it and she, obviously it's about you.

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with Justin there is no secret there was you and you are nervous about letting everyone in and letting everyone hear what exactly is going on in your mind and in your heart why everyone wants to form their own opinions anyway well that's what I wonder, right?

I feel like you needed to explain yourself because it has spread a lot in the media. I think the biggest problem I had this year even with him and on his side is identity. I think I am literally. He was 21 years old this year. I turned 22 I was trying to figure out what I was doing and it was the first time I was constantly getting beat up for doing that when I didn't know I just wanted to say this this is what I want I don't do it this is where I am in my professional life things they changed and in my personal life, things changed my heart, everything and people just thought it was okay, this is what we thought and yeah, I made some decisions that weren't good either and so did he. and that's why I feel like we went through all that just to get better and he heard it and he watched the video and it's something that I feel like girls need to hear and it's something that I'm willing to share.

People, what did Justin say to you after watching the video and after hearing the song for the first time? He thought she was beautiful. I think it was very difficult at first. Did she cry like I did the first time he saw her? Nick, here it is. a little jealous of the video guy first well you should be yeah no honestly music is an expression and for me to be able to kiss you if you will be that voice for these girls there are so many people who feel this this is by the way. It's not just girls who feel this, it's my whole heart, it's like the brain tells you that everything you should do is reality and then this other organ takes over and makes you do things like what are we? what is the answer to that?

What are we, who are we supposed to listen to our brain or our heart? I think we'll always have that option, no matter how old you are, it's like you're going to do something and you're going to say this could be right, this could be wrong, but I'm going to try it and see what happens and hope for the best, so you said you recorded the video a year ago, okay, tell me what happened that year. Did you think about releasing the song immediately and delaying it? The video was supposed to come out three times and by coincidence or changes it just didn't happen and like changes in your life, my life, your life, your real life, and it's also a step for me to know that okay, this is what am.

I'm about to say it and I need to say it when I'm ready and I think after this year it's the perfect way to end the year. It's the perfect way to end a chapter in a way. This is what I will say. every person that is joy to me for every decision that I have made for every Pete, every person, every heart that is being judged for something they have done and now I just want to release it and I want to move on and I want to work on things and have all the focus then beyond what I love and having fun and new music and a new chapter in my life.

I'm excited the chapter is over. If you like it, this is the closing of the book. I think in a lot. In many ways I'm at peace now, you know, I think there's a struggle to figure out if it's right, if it's wrong, I don't know what the future holds and that's exactly what I say in the so, do you think you have what? Do you think you have learned? I know you've thought a lot, yes, and I know you spend time getting to know who you are. What do you think you have learned? When you wake up in the morning, you say, okay, a year.

I didn't think this or know this ago, what is it like to love myself first and not just in a

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in my daily life? I give myself so much. I let people pull me in all directions and I want everyone to be happy and eventually I mean I would be in my bathroom sobbing right before I went on stage and then I would just go on stage and want to be there for those people that I never I took a moment to just go away, go away and be myself and figure it out. I kept trying and I think the most important thing I learned is that it's okay.

I'll stop when I need to stop. I'm going to feel when I need to feel and I don't care what comes with it or what people want to say, it's normal, I'm supposed to move on and I just wanted that's all I want to do, you want to please everyone, yeah, of course, when and we heard that a few minutes ago. the conversation that you had, which is extremely brave, because that's the right way, is like a brave conversation to say how much more there was to what you said, because we only listened for a few seconds.

I spent a good five minutes. really yeah, yeah, those deleted scenes that I'll never hear well, yeah, that's gone because they're gone, maybe it seems like it was therapeutic, the whole idea was very therapeutic, it was what I was seeing, all I saw was blank and black. I saw it was one thing and I moved on, they kept playing like that because I know everyone is curious and we're going to hear the song again shortly. Selena Gomez is with us, she is always called, the heart wants what she wants, she is so simple, she is so smart and Very true, how is your relationship now with Justin?

I support him, I think I always will. I get angry when he is angry. I am happy when he is happy. Do you think you're close? mm-hmm. I don't believe it. I don't want anything bad to happen to her, it hurts mm-hmm but that's all I would have thought that you would fall in love so deeply she's so young Selena Gomez mujahahahaha what are you going to do with the rest of the moment I don't know well, I mean , he harmonizes next, she's got this, so would you ever get married? Yes, Texas, yes, you have to do it.

I could sneeze, you're innocent, a raincoat, the show, Iran, animals, Alaskan poles and babies, um, do you have like Ryan put time limits on himself? No, don't you dare, oh yeah.