Princess Sarah's Exit From The Royal Family | The Fergie Story | Real Royalty with Foxy Games

Sarah, Duchess of York, never quite fit into

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mode - even the Fergie nickname persisted, reflecting her determination to remain herself. Her flying lessons, frequent skiing holidays, her appearance and the design of the new home the Queen gave her all sparked comments and controversies that arose. It all started so well with a strong character that she was one of the most influential women until she became the Duchess of York, but as an adventurous contemporary woman with an independent outlook, her attitude and ideas did not fit easily with the rigid protocol of

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life. His clothing reflected his lack of judgment due to his familiarity with the press.

He raised his eyebrows. He seemed extravagant with money and mismanaged his own affairs as a member of the royal

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. The artificial restrictions and strict scheduling of public life went against his For a time, Fergie was a breath of fresh air, but when news broke that her marriage was on the rocks, it was amid reports that she and Andrew were being overheard. Often shouting at each other behind the stifling walls of Buckingham Palace, it soon became clear that their Fergie relationship had been crushed between a hostile press and a role system that had failed to satisfy her need for companionship while her husband was at sea had damaged his own reputation and it reflected poorly on the royal

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, but what do royals do?

When the wife wants out, is the British monarchy itself threatened in this democratic era? The royals have had to widen the circle of potential marriage partners to include commoners, but the duke and duchess are yet another example of an experiment that failed. So where does a royal family come from? From here, Sarah Ferguson seemed like perfect fodder for a royal consort, someone who embraced her new status with determination and enthusiasm, but somehow fell out of favor with the media and the royal establishment. Where did it all go wrong? The British royal family is a closely linked family.

A tight-knit group with its own unique lifestyle, its members are very distrustful of outsiders, but like the former Duchess of York, now Queen Mother Sarah Ferguson, entry into the ranks was welcome to them, Prince Andrew could not having chosen a better wife, they admired his no-nonsense attitude. and strong personality, the Queen immediately began referring to her as my daughter and the Queen Mother summed her up by saying that she is so English, so free from all those airs and graces we can't stand, with an ancestry rooted in the land and services to your family hi

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. It was also impeccable, the Queen had known the Fergusons for three decades and had seen this cheerful redhead grow up.

Sarah's enduring interest in horse polo and other country activities made her particularly fond of the Queen and from the beginning she was often seen together at equestrian events. Horse riding of any kind is a central interest for the entire royal family, but when the press gets in the way, the Queen is not amused - the relationship between these two women has always been very relaxed. They are both outdoor doggy type women and the Queen. She also likes people with personality and she finds Sarah and her partner amusing. They get along much better. In fact, the Queen gets on well with Diana, whom she finds more difficult and more restrained when he is with her.

Fergie quickly became known as her mother's action

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. He had taught her to ride almost as soon as she learned to walk and on a special day of fun at Ascot she made an impressive public display of her own equestrian skills, but she was perhaps best known as the flying duchess determined to learn everything she could about horse riding. her husband's life. job as a charlatan naval helicopter pilot she earned what she was nicknamed by a traffic controller she was the first

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lady to get a pilot's license and then took less time than her husband to earn her helicopter wings as she explained Now I know exactly what she's talking about about when he returns home after a day of flying, but his most controversial activity was skiing.

She was first put on skis when she was 4 years old and she remained an obsession, but the Prince and Princess of Wales were also keen skiers; she rivals Carlos in skill and speed and they both enjoyed competing on the slopes because Fergie's skiing was a vital outlet for her energy and her love of speed; She certainly got over Diana despite this joint vacation. Fergie's skiing exploits were highlighted and she soon added to the sporty image of herself as the Jet Set's elite pastime. fuel for the media's growing criticism of her leisure activities, she was portrayed as a parasite who shirked her public responsibilities in favor of personal indulgence because to them they are a kind of so-called glamorous sports and she once told me if only it were, if there were any.

It was tennis, no one would care, but because I want to go skiing, people feel it's glamorous and maybe not something a doctor should do all the time, but when other members of the royal family do it and they're not criticized. It seems like everything she does is open to criticism, but her commitment to public duties seemed

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enough. As a naval wife, she could have gotten away with only an occasional public appearance, but she took on a busy schedule and threw herself into the crowd with boisterous, eager enthusiasm. To make contact with her, her initial career in public relations stood her in good stead, unlike Diana, she needed little preparation before she was confident enough to do it on her own, but this maturity of hers created problems in itself. .

The Duchess of York, who came to the royal family when she was already quite mature. 2526 had been around the world, you know, she didn't hitchhike, but she traveled a lot like many young men and women do, and to suddenly enter this great institution, this machine that swallows people up and decides what they will do, must having been very It was very difficult to adapt, especially because instead of having some kind of friendly introduction, she was dropped right in and started doing a lot of official work almost immediately after the honeymoon, at the age of 26, she wanted to contribute her own ideas to work as such.

Deviating from the norm, she chose to support Tracy Edwards and her all-female crew for the Whitbread round the world race in 1989 with a yacht maiden. She admired her courage and determination, and such defiance appealed to her own sense of adventure, but one of the most unexpected and frustrating aspects of her new royal status was her sudden lack of personal money. She was used to earning a living and spending her own money. If you want to go out to lunch with your friends, you need £50 or something where it's going to come from, well, the men on the Windsor ferry don't understand that because they don't go out to lunch like that, I mean, the Prince of Wales never goes out to lunch restaurants that I know of.

Prince Andrew lives on a naval base most of the time he works in naval establishments he doesn't go out very often and occasionally he takes his wife out to dinner somewhere at a nice restaurant but that would be the bill that might be sent or a cop pays with an American Express card or something, they just don't deal with money so they can't understand why a woman would want to have some ready, the irony is that despite this cash flow problem behind the scenes Fergie was gaining a reputation for extravagance again, it was her skiing that gave rise to these accusations of being a spendthrift, not very wise with her money, but not much to be wise with.

I mean, she's made money. from her writings, which she has every right to do, in fact, when she came into the family, when she first got engaged to Andrew Prince Phillip, she said it's good to have someone in this family who makes a living and then it seemed be everything. what she did was good to begin with seemed to go against her before Fergie became part of the royal family she had had a four-year love affair with a millionaire businessman from the world of Formula One racing Patti McNally was still a lasting influence Patti McNally was a kind of father figure to her and he was kind of a man, he always made fun of her, made fun of her for getting fat, made fun of her for eating chocolate, made fun of her about her hair, made fun of her. of her for everything and she loved him a lot actually and I'm sure our marriage wouldn't work between them.

I mean, he was 20 years older than her, but he was kind of a rock to her, even though he greatly undermined her confidence by always having a knife or you. I know someone else, someone younger and prettier so he doesn't feel confident but he was there for her and is still there for her as a friend and I respect the way he has never said a word to anyone about their relationship with her, so there has to be something. Good on him, Fergie's mother Susan filed for divorce to marry Argentine polo player Hector BER earlier. Four years later, Ronnie Ferguson also remarried and started a new, much younger family.

Fergie loved both of her stepfathers, even though they were newcomers to the royal family. Her own relationships were usually relegated to the background, and she was determined that none of hers should be left out of it. It was helped by the fact that her father, Maj Ferguson, was already Prince Charles' Polo manager and the increased press exposure soon made him an internationally known media personality. The flip side is that in September 1988, stepmother Susan and Fergie were in Smith's garden to lend public support to the elder Ferguson's controversial departure. It was a brave show of solidarity for an agitated press.

A ceremonial stick marked the end of her many years as vice president of the guards. Polo Club after tabloids revealed details of his visits to a massage parlor in London's West End, it was an emotional farewell under a cloud of scandal: the club committee had expelled him and the message was clear to the father of a 57-year-old royal duchess. It was a humiliating rejection even though Thresh distanced himself Fergie was there to support them both It was a case of stiff upper lip Fergie felt very responsible for what had happened and was by his side throughout the entire ordeal, I think that's one of the qualities that I admire about her is her loyalty to her father and sister when they've had unpleasant publicity and I think she feels that if it weren't for me they wouldn't be the focus of all this attention who would be going. about controlling her father or her sister if they weren't related to the Duchess of York, so she feels that it's somehow her fault that they had these problems and she would like to help them as much as she can. . and that's why she remains very, very loyal and dedicated to both of them, but it was her relationship with Andrew that interested the press the most.

The Prince had first been attracted to her lack of reverence towards him and had enjoyed his no-nonsense attitude towards life to begin with. They seemed perfectly matched, as Fergie once said that he is my main right-hand man, he is the one who accompanies me during his arrival behind closed doors for the friends wedding and Swiss ski guide Bruno Sprecher brought the world's press to a celebration private on a less happy occasion this same man had saved Prince Charles's life during the avalanche that killed Major Hue Lin Zi, but the Yorks still behaved like newlyweds and the physical warmth of their own marriage was there to Let everyone see how in love they both were.

I want to be with them. It's almost embarrassing at times, they were tactile and just couldn't be left alone and it was something that made you feel very warm and happy just by looking at them and I don't think that kind of thing goes away. In a hurry, this personal happiness also manifested itself in their public duties. To begin with, they carried out many official engagements together as if they were professionals, but with their own informality they formed a good team. Fergie seemed determined to get on with her new life and that is rumored to have included creating a new sunbathing house in Hill Park, five miles away from Windsor Castle, which cost almost five million pounds. .

It was the Queen's wedding gift and took four years to complete, adding staff quarters and a nursery wing, as well as a swimming pool, tennis court and stables. The 50-room mansion looks more like a Texas ranch than a traditional English manor house and was dubbed Palace Dallas and South York by the press. Sarah's first pregnancy was difficult, she expanded from a size 12 to a size 16 and she felt continually sick. Andrew, who was at sea, also had no husband at her side to comfort her and had to fend for herself, but with the arrival of the queen's fifth grandchild, Beatrice Elizabeth Mary, the discomfort and long wait were worth it. .

She was born at 8:18 on the eighth day. month of the 88th year of the century, the timing of the new

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es according to Chinese astrology heralded great good luck, my daughter is beautiful, but I am biased, was the verdict of the proud father, while her mother immediately nicknamed this new baby redheadbeet, even the press celebrated this latter

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. edition, but Fergie as a mother soon came under attack Andrew had to leave on a six-month naval tour of duty to Australia immediately after the baptism Fergie soon flew to join him leaving behind her six-week-old baby. I think she really let herself fall, right? on him and she was having doubts for a while, especially after she had Beatrice and went to Australia and left the baby for six weeks, people thought that was awful, now the truth behind that

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is that that's what which the Duke of York asked him. what to do and she felt like a good wife and the fact that he had been away from home for most of that year she felt like he was asking her to give him total, undivided attention, you know, tender loving care. , etc., he had been at home.

It was a very very short period that year and she thought the baby wouldn't miss me but she was basically putting on a brave face and I'm sure she didn't really want to leave the baby but he wanted that to be the main thing. and then that's what she did at home her public duties she continued her visits that were distinguished from those elsewhere by a relaxed chat even in the most formal setting she mastered the fine art of small talk with complete strangers determined to be professional she hid a shyness Behind in an extremely safe manner, often ignoring protocol, she relied heavily on her instincts to guide her, always trying to cover as many people as possible.

Her transparent enthusiasm often put off those expecting a more reserved royal family, but she refused to be any more as she herself said: I'm not going to change, why should I? But she seemed to get distracted easily if things bored her, even during a long and tedious speech, a ladybug at her feet should have been ignored, but she couldn't seem to leave it alone. and keeping her attention on the job at hand was a revealing episode if there was a charm school to mold royal duchesses this was a student who had failed to adapt to the straitjacket of royal fortune Fergie's youthful exuberance What persisted was a directness at odds with the carefully structured and often monotonous nature of royal duties; such unroyal behavior had been excusable at first, but his learning curves seemed to have disappeared; he would change when it came to patience and standing still on parade. , but when a little action was needed. required that he be in his element, audience participation was what he was good at, and if some balloons had to be released, he would fight the wind and wield the scissors enthusiastically to make them fly.

The press was becoming increasingly critical of his excitable Su behavior and lack of decorum created an air of disrespect at ground level until an awkward situation occurred when she was taken past Worman Scrubs Prison and had to acknowledge the inmates' ironic and frank comments before embarking on an official visit to a hospital. Being real certainly does. They involve undergoing a strange variety of public appearances - sometimes it's really like a children's party - crowds of overexcited spectators - sports personalities - clowns - cartoon characters - the role demands considerable versatility as well as polished acting skills when in her form Fergie seemed more than a match up to the challenge but more often than not she never seemed to find the right tone the right level of participation, sometimes her enthusiasm led her to choose the wrong event, leading to ridicule and even scorn, much more popular abroad , where her feisty, independent ways were admired at home, she was considered overmatched.

The top that the press had definitely singled her out as the Royal to put the knife on Andrew was not around to help, so we are worthy advisors to help a commoner through this PR minefield. There is no job description for people entering the royal family there is no job description for a princess, there was no job description for Mark Phillips when he entered the royal family or for Antony Armstrong-Jones when he entered and we all know what happened with those marriages and I think with the duchess. of York, if someone had said well don't you think you could do this, you could do that, you could scale things back and I think the only person who could have done it would have been the Princess Royal because she was born royal.

She had never been anything but royal and knew exactly how to carry herself at all times, but sometimes she managed to turn her enthusiasm into good results, all the bad publicity her love of skiing had received ignored her valuable support of Winter's combined services. . Sports Association and her particular interest in its disabled skiing programme, was a major factor in the charity's fundraising and, despite being pregnant with Eugenie and unable to ski herself, she made the trip to the mountain to watch the races, but first made an unscheduled stop to sign a cast. Such frequent acts of impulse created havoc with the carefully scheduled official schedules, causing irritation and resentment among royal staff accustomed to a more orderly way of doing things, but a Despite all its mistakes and upheavals, such spontaneity revealed a warm heart, the Association organizes many events and here in Meserve, in the French Alps, the full range of races, including slalom for disabled skiers, were held in the final installment of awards.

Fergie's role as president became more formal, including for her amusement the provision of an exotic li-colored throne, as usual, her relaxed manners and humor crossed the stage of the presentation ceremony. . She was never at a loss for words. She always rose to the occasion when an impromptu speech was required, but her main charitable interest was far from the glamorous atmosphere of the ski resort. Slopes' motor neurone disease was little publicized before Fergie took up the still-incurable cause. The disease leads to total disability and is often fatal. On a visit to a group of people with the disease in Australia, her sincerity and determination to be their voice were very obvious.

You've got to stay strong one day when I get up and give a speech I usually bring it up when you're feeling isolated, so we're going to get there, we've got to keep going, but that job got little press coverage. both because of media bias and also because of the unlimited genetic nature of the causes involved. I feel like she hasn't gotten much of the credit she deserves for her charity work because, unlike the Princess of Wales, she isn't involved with cute babies who look cute and snuggly. and loving, maybe they are dying of AIDS, but it doesn't look like it when you see them in the photos.

The Duchess is involved with paralyzed people, people who suffer from motor neuron diseases. I mean, the Motor Neurone Disease Association is probably her biggest charity and These people don't make pretty pictures, but she still does a wonderful job with them. I remember in Australia we went to visit a clinic where there are a lot of people in wheelchairs and one of the men who was there was in such an advanced stage that he could no longer speak and he felt very frustrated and couldn't talk to her when she came to sit with him, then he started to cry and she took his hand and told him: don't worry, I will be your voice and me.

I will make the world listen to us. I will keep yelling and telling them until they know they are listening and until we find a cure. It was a magnificent thing and there was a TV crew there practically crying and everyone is so moved. everyone in the room was very moved and a lot of newspaper photographers and now they said oh, we can't use that, that's too disturbing for the breakfast tables of Britain, they wouldn't use the photographs, they said, oh no, if the man doesn't look very good and you are not nice and that is why she has that problem repeatedly the press always seemed much more interested in making unfair comparisons between Fergie and the appearance of the Princess of Wales she was portrayed as a ridiculous contrast to the tall and elegant Diana a plump, playful figure who liked bright colors and over-the-top outfits that seemed totally inappropriate, he simply didn't fit the stereotypical dress code of a royal family judged by his displays of restraint and good taste in his previous life, the clothes never had been a priority and haute couture had always bored her, such an individual mode of dress could have worked in the same way that the Queen Mother's single star became part of her public success, but Fergie's vitality chided her: she simply seemed too theatrical and, as always, faced a hostile press, her entire appearance became a constant target for ridicule, she also faced stiff competition in Diana, but the image-conscious Princess of Wales knew exactly where to go for good advice.

I mean, Princess Diana had the people at Vogue to help her, and so did I. saying that there are no real lessons and that maybe someone should have recruited probably not the same people but other people also versed in fashion to help the Duchess of York, not that she doesn't have a good eye or sense of style. it's just that different things are photographed differently different things are suitable for different things there are problems when you get out of a car and the world press is waiting to take the photograph there are problems when you have to look stylish for hours at a time so it shouldn't wrinkle.

It was like putting something like that on the back of a hat. It was probably meant to be very sweet to the people of Los Angeles, but of course, it was immediately attacked by the kind of style mavens here. Being very classless, I think the Duchess of York is very lively and optimistic and thinks that life should have its fun, witty, fun side and I think that the establishment and the fashion establishment once took fashion terribly seriously and Maybe they didn't agree with her. ideas the popular press didn't seem to agree with any of her ideas, they swarmed around her ready to catch any moment of carelessness no matter what she did or how she looked the story was always negative in some ways the press may have been It was quite difficult when it came to Sarah because I think the Duchess of York appeared, she was very different from the Princess of Wales.

I think the press was so terrible at knowing that every time she was in the house she must have felt like she saw me the same way. No wrong size, they criticize her fashion sense there Chris has it all. I think it's very difficult to have an image when you're not sure maybe what your own image is and maybe you're not obsessed with it like some people in the spotlight are. Her pregnancy proved particularly difficult at a time when choosing clothes for public view became an even bigger nightmare and often looking the same both times, expanding to alarming proportions with enormous weight gain, even after found this extra weight difficult to shift and the tabloids.

She ridiculed her mercilessly. Such an unforgiving personal comment was difficult for anyone to bear and she took it badly. She had figure problems. Highly publicized figure flaws and that sort of thing makes any woman feel terribly embarrassed and upset and I don't think anyone realizes how upset she used to be. get and how she used to sit at home and cry about the cruel things that were written in the papers and people thought she was a funny figure and since she wasn't that close to the throne they thought they could more or less say whatever they wanted. like her in the press, I mean, you wouldn't say those things about Diana, not just because she's thin and beautiful, but because she's right up there with, you know, the next queen of England and a bit of a sacred cow and the editors.

She's very cautious around Diana, but Fergie, well, she knows she'll never be Queen. She's very low in the young pecking order, so I think they decided that once they could get away with it, they continued doing it and she didn't have the influence of it. or the influence to stop it, it's very difficult to stop things, so all this giveaway, Fergie, you know, fun-loving Fergie, everyone else, you know the pig duchess, etc., all these names became in gospel. Andrew, of course, was not present. much to offer advice or support against this attack by the press; his naval commitments often took him away, leaving his wife alone to face the music, but would this carefree and self-centered Prince really have in?

I still have problems anyway, what kind of man is he? but charming, very naive and very immature compared to the other men that Sara has met in her life, but I think you know that he has guts and I think that if you sat down and knew that there are other people in the besides him, in the world you know that your life is going to be much happier.I think he has to face his father, which is difficult, and he has to communicate with his mother. I mean, life hasn't been a bed of roses for him, he's been very sheltered and that hasn't really prepared him for the rigors of everyday life.

I'm not talking about his life in the Navy, I'm talking about him being emotionally immature. I think most people, when they meet Prince Andrew for the first time, think he's a very physical man who he is, he seems to run up to you if you walk into a room where he's introduced to you, you know you normally give a neck Americans are quite aggressive when you first meet them, they seem like they are trying to dominate you and he does this, he also shouts, he seems to bark quite a bit like he does. does his father, while Charles and Edward speak very quietly and a little withdrawn quite reticent I guess they are very reserved he is not reserved at all he is very exuberant very cheerful andrew has also been called arrogant too aware of his own position often He lacks patience, especially when people get in his way.

From his point of view, marriage seemed to broaden his perspectives, but as a friend said, imagine what it's like to be married to a man who has never eaten a Big Mac, been gone. to a pub or have gone shopping in a supermarket. The Windsor boys are not generous with their money. because they haven't had to live like you or me they haven't had to go out to a pub or a supermarket to buy a round of drinks they don't know the price of food or they certainly don't know the price of clothes, so you don't know the price of women's clothing, although I'm sure Prince Charles has a pretty good idea by now because he must have seen enough banknotes, but they're not famous for their generosity and I don't think that's really inherent Scottish meanness.

I think it's really that they just have no idea how much things cost as a prince's wife. Sara suddenly had to look good now in the public eye. She was expected to maintain a smart and well-groomed appearance for every occasion. that inevitably costs a considerable amount of money Diana could withdraw her allowance from the Duchy of Cornwall Fergie did not have such a fund at the end of the marriage her overdraft was more than six figures in the early days the two sisters in film noir became close friends they were both commoners and both had married men who were products of the same very unusual childhood.

I think there is a lot to support the theory that these boys will never ever be able to have what is considered a normal relationship with their wives, not what most people consider a normal relationship, where it could be that because of their relationship They were raised by nannies, they have a nanny mentality and are always looking for another nanny because they didn't have a mother in the true sense of the word, this is not to blame the Queen in any way, it is simply because she had to be the boss of state, enact her Queen and head of the Commonwealth throughout her children's lives and I believe it has affected the relationship the children have had with her with the rest of the family and with the relationships they have established outside of the Queen herself Prince Philip, who married for the first time, had also been at sea for long periods and sympathized with his daughter-in-law's difficulties in trying to build a home life with an absent husband.

It was a great farewell on Portsmouth docks. The Queen carried her. 1 year old granddaughter for her first cruise on the Royal Yacht Britannia Andrew was on leave from her own ship for the first time, so it was a chance for them to be together as a family. The Queen admired Fergie for bringing her most rebellious son to maturity. The Queen was very devoted to Sarah, but first she was fond of her because she had taken that playboy, Prince Andrew, who we have now forgotten that he was him, was Randy Andy, once now he seems like a sober and boring family man who You meet in the suburbs and she changed him Sarah Ferguson changed him from being a troublesome Prince to a nice settled family man, so the Queen would love her for that, she liked him for who he is, which is a very lovely person, but I mean, I hear all the time that the Queen comes over to sunbathe in her pod for afternoon tea and play with the kids and she loves it, for starters, they seemed like the perfect couple, in love with each other and shamelessly tactile in public, their family life seemed relaxed and open despite the constant attention of the press, Beatrice.

He soon had to face the spotlight as well, but he had obviously inherited his mother's sociable character and was a natural for any photo shoot on Mothering Sunday 1990. Andrew became the father of a second daughter and the first visitor in the exclusive Portland hospital in London was via trous came to see her new seven-pound, one-ounce sister Eugenie another early visitor was Diana the sisters-in-law had now managed to produce the perfect balance of boys and girls royal cousins ​​for a dynasty that seemed to be going smooth sailing Fergie soon emerged as a radiant mother with a new baby York's happiness seemed complete but their marriage had provided strength and stability to Fergie this was something she had longed for since her own parents separated when she was still I was a schoolgirl, the future seemed very rosy, but history was about to repeat itself.

Not many months later, cracks began to appear in the fairy tale facade. Andrew's duties still took him away for long periods of time from being a naval flight officer. Family matters have to take a backseat, he stayed at home, loneliness. Being a naval wife was beginning to take its toll on her, a situation that was only exacerbated by his increasing isolation within the royal family. He was struggling with the growing problems of trying to build a successful public role while rumors abounded that he was finding support and even romance. In other places she needed help and there was no one around there's no charm school for princesses or dutch girls he says there's no one to stand up and a guru to advise them I mean Fergie didn't have anyone so she desperately needed someone I think that yes her father's advice which sometimes wasn't the best advice and her mother was away and she had the advice of her friends who didn't really know that there was no one who would really help her, no one who she respected enough to listen to it and I think this is probably one of the problems with people who marry into this family: no one tells them what to do and what they can and can't do because you can't, your previous life just doesn't come into play.

When you marry into that family you simply can't do any of the things you did before. Perhaps that had been his first mistake. His refusal to give up his skiing holiday ruffled feathers both inside and outside the palace. Horse riding was another. interest she persisted in, but at least this pursuit fit more easily with the Royal Family's own obsession with horses, but she can hardly be accused of not taking an interest in her husband's activities. She took on the challenge of learning to fly specifically to get closer to him, as she put it. Flying is her life and I want to be part of her life, not many wise people would have taken their devotion to such extremes, as if she were a chameleon, she was willing to take on the interest of another person for the sake of a more understanding relationship, the effort was there and yet the marriage failed, perhaps it was because she was not the typical Windsor woman, the fact that she can go to places like abroad and give speeches in French in German, something that the other winds of women cannot do, it's so different in a million different ways, more like an ordinary career woman today and actually they're like women from a hundred years ago and I think that basically sums up the problem, there's no way Fergie felt that the system would defeat her, but I think in the end it won and I think you can't marry someone from that family and retain a lot of individuality, which is very sad because that's what we all like;

The pressures of an unhappy marriage were clearly beginning to show in a personality as exuberant as her. She seemed unusually withdrawn and depressed. I think she needed time to think. Plus, she was very stressed. I mean, even the last time I saw her, which was last year, at the end of last year, she was so stressed that she couldn't believe it. she was very thin and pale and just didn't know what was going on and then she had this terrible confusion and the announcement and the separation and then the absolutely horrible intrusion of the press and she just had to get away from us.

I think she would have done it. It broke out when rumors of problems within the marriage began to leak, the hounds scented the blood and went in for the kill, as always personal problems were suddenly considered public property, there was nowhere to hide, it's just the media , basically, I think you know they've really destroyed Sarah's life. happiness in some way and when the press attacked her from outside, the palace started to see that she was very unpopular, then maybe she started to be attacked inside from the family or the palace and that was the end. For her, she couldn't stand being attacked from all sides and she just wanted to leave, but the show must always last for generations.

The ceremony and the mystique of

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have been carefully maintained. The myth is perpetuated that the roars are a world apart, something eliminated and unattainable. All the pomp and circumstance are only part of representing the stability and continuity of giving the public what they want. A cleverly orchestrated management system creates this façade. Most of what the world can know about the turbulent events is funneled to through an extremely reticent press office in keeping with modern trends, isn't it time the presentation of royal family affairs became more open? Its dangers are that members of the royal family will be seen as media fodder, a rented royalty, if you will. and the public will see the press office as a public relations office, something they are very anxious to avoid;

They don't want to be seen as part of the public relations business, so right now they essentially have to handle what is their primary role is to deal with the public duties of members of the royal family, but increasingly Of course, in recent years they have also been asked to handle the private family affairs and marital status of three of the Queen's children. I mean, because, as you know, there's constant attention and constant speculation about the status of the Prince of Wales and Princess of Wales's marriage. The prying eyes on the personal life of her family are a phenomenon that the Queen finds difficult to understand, like many of her subjects, the British monarch tends to be restrained when it comes to asking about the difficulties of others.

Keeping up appearances, no matter what, is a vital part of the royal family. As a mother, the queen finds it difficult to deal with family problems. to almost any length to avoid confrontation, she just doesn't like confrontation with family matters at all, anyway she leaves most of that kind of stuff to Prince Philip, who doesn't avoid it, doesn't care at all. confrontation is absolute, but the Queen will avoid it. and it's very likely that if someone came up to her and said, look, don't you think it's time to talk to Diana or Sara about the state of her marriage?

Kogi had taken a walk in the garden and she would walk away and leave him at that and she believed she would have disappeared when she returned, she did, he just wouldn't get involved in any of her private relationship disputes. family at all, but with York breaking up so soon after Princess Anne, the Queen now faces a possible threat to the future of the monarchy itself. The Prince and Princess of Wales are still together, but what if royalty finally proves to be a role you're meant to play? Being born and raised for the difficulty is that in previous generations they would have gotten married, they would have arranged marriages, they would have married into the European royal houses and their brides would have known what to expect, they would have known the way. and if there had been private disagreements between them, these would have been kept strictly private and certainly would not have been broadcast in public, nor would it have occurred to them to make announcements to the press or go to the media in general and I think this is the difficulty What they are now having to look for more their partners are marrying commoners and it does not seem to work for the year 2000 Fergie along with the Princess of Wales may have been one of the main influences in leading the royal family In the 21st century, Fergie He seemed to have all the right attributes, but it turned out that he possessed a stubbornly independent spirit that was too much for the Windsors and the royal system.

They don't want women like that in the family. They are too. Independent and free will for the palace. The palace wantssomeone who is willing to be content with just doing charitable works. It can be very rewarding, very satisfying, but where is the talent that she has? If you only do charity work, you know she wants it. to find her own avenues to express herself I don't think Sarah Ferguson was the right kind of woman, although she seemed to us that she was because she was too independent to be vibrant and too vivacious, I mean, if she had been more subservient . and the little woman at home there wouldn't have been so many problems because she wouldn't have expected as much from marriage, I think, but obviously these children are not attracted to this little woman at home, so here's the dilemma.

There yes, they really don't know enough women of the right type, but what is the right type of woman. It is very difficult. I think to be a prince of royal blood and find the right woman, it all started with high expectations outside. This Haunted Circle is new territory. What will happen to the first female former royal? What does the future hold for Fergie? Everything she does will be monitored by the flesh, she will always be mocked if she gets close to anyone. I think it will be very difficult for her to form another relationship, she is the mother of the Queen's friends children, so I think it will be very difficult.