Men deeply respect women who apply these 4 rules

I may be wrong, but you'll probably appreciate that people treat you with

respect

, that they don't try to walk all over you all the time, not as a place where dis

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ful behavior can hurt more and that's now in our love life, the funny thing. The thing is in our love life we ​​sometimes cause disrespectful behavior, we really do and I'll explain why in a minute our love life is also often the hardest place to command respect and we can try but we can do it the wrong way. , especially. because we have feelings for the other person when we have a lot of feelings for someone we can become too kind to them not only kind but also too kind we try to please them we fight for their attention we try to please them more We invest much more in the relationship than they do, we forget of prioritizing ourselves and our own needs, etc., and when we do these things we lose self-respect and as a result our attractiveness disappears completely, so let's talk about getting the respect you deserve. from a guy even when you're full of butterflies and when you've fallen hard for him my name is hiet I'm an author I also use the pen name brian knox because it's easier to remember and you wouldn't believe how I've received many emails over the years of

women

who weren't treated with respect by the man they had fallen in love with while they had no idea what to do about it and tried things like getting angry or threatening to leave him, but then of course. stay anyway and other things that are as useful as trying to melt a block of ice by putting it in the freezer if you want to command respect, whether when you're dating a man or when you're in a relationship with a man. men is that you can't make a cat bark like a dog, which means I see some

women

trying to turn a man into someone.

He is not a man at all. That's disrespectful in general it can't be turned into a respectful one for example, that's why I always say. try to see how he treats other people because if a guy is disrespectful to other people then he probably isn't a good romantic match, he can be very attractive to some women, often women who like bad boys, but I promise you that He will face them big time. endless emotional rollercoaster for the entire relationship and the only one who will have fun now will be him generally if you want a man you like to respect you in a relationship or while dating him, rule number two is to link the attention he gives to how he treats you not your feelings for him let's say a woman has a date planned with a man at 7 p.m. m. and she arrives on time but he is not there 7 30 p. m. he still he's not there now this is obviously very disrespectful but no Because he was born late, in a minute, what is he supposed to do here?

You can send him a text message asking him his estimated time of arrival. Hey, are you on your way? She could also send him an angry text, but those are all bad. options that won't command respect and plus she's still paying attention to him, he could leave without sending her anything, which is the right thing to do here and again, not because he's late, can you see what the real problem is here? People don't arrive late without knowing it beforehand. So this guy I was on a romantic date with knew long before 7 p.m. m. that he wasn't going to arrive at 7:10.

He was probably still playing video games or trying to find his keys among the old pizza boxes on his table. with still some pizza he should have called her or texted her he is not treating her well and the relationship hasn't even started yet so he doesn't get her attention and she is gone now if he is a good guy and I really couldn't tell him because, for example, I was handing out homemade soup to homeless people, which is usually one of the reasons men are late for a date, or maybe I was playing volleyball on the beach without having a phone nearby and actually forgot the time. then he'll make up for it, which is exactly what maverick did, for example, in the first top gun movie.

I don't know if you ever saw top gun the first one, but in that movie maverick arrives late to the woman's house who has a date because of a volleyball game and she's home but she doesn't open the door, of course not, he's late, that's a big red flag, so Maverick has to go around her house to see if she's still there and he has to put her up. an extra effort he gets less attention from her always remember when your attention is not cheap when people have to be respectful to get it from you then those who like you will fight for your attention and make it up to you if they have made a mistake don't give him a second chance to someone who is not trying to earn that chance rule number three staying calm under pressure it is harder for people to respect us if we get angry easily or if we become submissive easily and too much Well, both are bad, so let's talk first to be submissive.

Many women, for example, know that if they pressure a man into a relationship, if they act needy, he will probably run away immediately while he brushes them off and ignores them, or if he is a nice guy, he might start. with the speech "it's not you, it's me", but he will keep running, so some women think that they have found a solution to solve this problem and even avoid it. If they want to be in a relationship with a guy, they become submissive, overcompensate, and become overly nice. I know you shouldn't pressure a guy to wait on the sidelines, let me know when you're ready for a relationship and again if you're not I'm happy with this friends with benefits thing or just keep dating without pressure.

I'll wait, I wouldn't want to scare you, but then of course eventually there comes the point where they can't hide it anymore, where they snap, push you, possibly get a little angry or send you a strange text or email. and then they wonder why he started ignoring them, let me tell you first that if you tell a guy that you are interested in a relationship with him and you tell him any way you want and he can't handle that, then he is not the guy for you if a guy runs away when you tell him you are interested in a relationship with him then there is nothing you could have said or done differently to change his mind, being submissive and nice and waiting for him only delays the inevitable, he starts ignoring you, but in the second The problem is being submissive, if you want to be treated with respect in a relationship then you can never be submissive, so that starts on the first date.

Now you don't have to become a dictator who makes all the decisions, of course, but you do need to. You know very well what your ultimate goal is that you want to reach, maybe it is to have a relationship, a real relationship, we will make it clear to him as soon as possible and if he then does or says things that show that he is not going to achieve it. there you lower your attention and interest and not because you are playing but because a guy who can't take you where you want is not the right guy for you by definition if you want a relationship, but he keeps saying things like well, let's take it, he's slow, you know, a relationship, I just got out of one and so on, goodbye, take the exit, you're on the wrong road, you're not going anywhere fast and if he's the right man for you, then this is the time he'll get his Get your act together and you will start to prove that he is the right person for you, so stay calm under pressure and keep your eyes fixed on your destiny.

If he is hitchhiking and someone stops but then tells him that he is going in the wrong direction, then it is not a good idea. The idea is to get in that car, of course, and don't get angry or upset. I'm sure you've seen this before: a man or woman who immediately gets very angry or upset when someone does or says something he doesn't know about. well, that kills the mood a bit, they're not fun to be around, so people in general have a hard time respecting reactive people who get angry easily or have to walk on eggshells around them to Don't get mad, so you know what?

You want to say what you want in a kind way and then leave behind the men who prove day after day that they can't get you there and if you do, the men right for you will see your strength, your power, your resolve and they will do it. respect yourself for that, always remember your core values ​​and your boundaries should always be more important than receiving more attention from a man. Turns out you have a lot of feelings about rule number four, stick with it and do it soon. Sometimes, you might have a date. with someone and they do something you don't like but you ignore it you may think well it's not that bad I won't say anything I don't want to seem high maintenance first the so called high maintenance or difficult people will do it Attracts many more lovers than doormats or people who allow others to walk all over them, but the second problem is that if you don't stand your ground soon, you wait and do it later, for example, when a relationship has finally started, then your partner.

It'll be like whoa, what's going on, you're overreacting and you know what, in all honesty, from their perspective, that's what it really feels like, of course, because you never said anything before and now all of a sudden, bam, where is it coming from? that, but yes during appointments! stage you stand your ground and say well this is my limit this behavior here is not okay this is the line in the sand without yelling or getting angry it's just a firm statement then you both learn a very important lesson that will serve you well for the rest of that relationship because Bad men won't care and will happily walk over your boundaries many times, that's when you take the exit, goodbye, but good men will respect your boundaries and respect you for the way you showed them as best you could.

Look, it's all about self-respect and some good questions to ask yourself frequently to increase your self-respect: Am I doing this to please him? Am I overcompensating? Am I trying to make up for his lack of effort? Am I doing this because I'm afraid of losing it and then changing course when necessary and that's it, as always if you want more you can go to brianknox.com or amazon where you can find all my books by writing my pen name brian knox in the search. box I want to thank you for staying until the end of this video.

I love it when you do that and I'll see you in another video.