Love Scams

Hello friends, this is my first official YouTube video. The last one was just, welcome nonsense. It was originally Aunt Diane, but when you type Diane in the YouTube search, things show up. What is the problem inside Diane? Apparently years ago a lady was driving with a group of kids and I guess they all died in an accident and they were saying she did it on purpose or something for now and I'm welcome until I can think of a better name and I appreciate your suggestions too, um, my topic is that. It's really been on my mind because I see it a lot and on Instagram I see it a lot, catfish men or women, people using other people's photos to try to woo someone for romance and then, oh, I need to borrow some money.

I'm stuck, they will say they are Americans and they are on an oil rig or they are in the military or they are doing construction work abroad and they have a lot of money but to get the money I need to pay this small fee and can you send it to them or they'll even get really nervous and say, could you send me an Amazon gift card or an iTunes gift card? Then there are these guys on YouTube and they're really funny. They're called trilogy media and they're two guys who really beat the scammers at their own game.

It's pretty funny now that I've gotten some ideas from them, but I also came up with some fun ideas when a guy asked me what he did for a living. and he's asking me questions, really handsome guy, first of all, I'm not the ugliest thing in the world, but I'm realistic enough to know that a model who looks like she's 30 and a guy who's 30 isn't going after some old hag. , especially if he's so handsome he could probably get a lot of women where he is anyway this guy was from the states but he was uh it's mostly Nigerians who do these

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but now they're happening in Eastern Europe and other countries from Asia, so this man said, I said, don't tell me you're in Nigeria, you're in Africa, right, no, I'm not in Africa, he says, and I didn't even feel like writing proper English, okay, I got suspicious immediately, but I wanted to do it.

Have some fun, you know he was suspicious, so I said, okay, you're on an oil rig, right, he's like no, no, so I said, okay, what are you doing? Oh, I'm on a construction project, I said, okay, I knew that. eventually we would guess it and um, he said so what are you doing? I told him, well my job is cybersecurity to catch people who scam other people and I can track where they are five minutes later he's gone. I never came back um part of the other story some of the other things you can do that would be really fun would be if someone said I'm in so-and-so right now like saying I'm in um I don't know, let's think about an Eastern European country or something like that, I'm in Bulgaria so what city are you in and he'll name a capital city and you say it?

Listen, I'll be there in 15 minutes to find you, they'll be gone in no time, I mean there's a lot of fun things you could do to them to get them back and pretend you're playing along. I was reading online. Someone, um, you see, someone said, "Okay, I'm sending you money right now through Western." union and the guy waited and waited and waited and kept coming back this person had no intention of sending the money it was very funny I was laughing when I read it um another thing I see, what's so sad is that older women widows widowers and even some young people have had thousands of dollars stolen from them, some of them with their life savings and it's pretty disgusting and someone said why did they do it and the person who made the article or the youtube video said because they think everyone in The West is a rich boy, if they knew that, if they saw the bank accounts of half the people in this country, they wouldn't think that, but that's what they think you know, and another thing that's really disgusting is that a woman even committed suicide. about that, I mean, that was said, another person said that he didn't have the money, so the scammer said: well, then go get a loan or put a second mortgage on your house.

I'm like, oh my God, and the person did it. I mean it's so sad that someone pointed out that you know this woman is only a three and the man is a ten, how could she think he would like her? And I thought that was kind of mean, but when I apply it to myself, I'm like yeah, why would they come after me? There's probably a lot of eye candy where he is, you know how to get there, so you know you figure it out right away, but then you feel sorry for these women if they're just widowed or divorced or whatever. they can be terribly alone, you know, they're empty nesters, their kids are grown up and they've moved away, I mean, it's heartbreaking when they do that, you know, and then the woman is left with nothing, there's a show, I don't know. yes it's a real show on cable but I watch it on youtube it's called social catfish and there are people on there who actually look for you and tell the person you know this wasn't really the person it was fake there are places on Google where you can search on reverse image search and you can search, you know, you can cut, copy and paste the image into the search bar where it says photo and it will show you all the websites where that photo came from. a lot of times it's just stock images, okay, it might not even be someone's social account, it could just be one of those standard images, a stock image, what are they called stock photos, and it's really annoying that people still fall.

So now sometimes it's people who are new to computers that go, but he talked to me on the phone and sent me photos, but how do you know he wasn't using someone else's photo? Someone sent him a gift. One of the victims sent a gift and the person returned a photo thank you for the gift, cut and pasted the photo of the man she wanted to look like and did such a good job Photoshopping it that you know the woman fell for it. He said look, it really was him, uh, the people on the catfish social show, excuse me, catfish social, they actually found, you know who he really was, there have also been stories of pretty people who have had their pictures used and that too It's sad because the person would contact me and stop using my photo.

You know, I don't think there's any danger of someone using my photo, but if someone is very good-looking, that's fine, or it's a model or a very good-looking man, especially to an army man or a navy man, anyone in the military. . "You're going to use that photo and you know it's very sad and they're going to steal your blinds in a way to know for sure and you know we can all be aware of it, but we can have an elderly father elderly aunt uncle widow even grandfather who, uh that's not very familiar with this and it's a new and exciting world for her to try online dating and they might start talking on the real dating site and then the scammer says, let's take this outside let's go to our. personal chat, you know, our personal chat, let's do a personal chat, but the person never shows their face if you say: can we do a live chat or a face-to-face live chat?

Look, there's something wrong with my computer, they'll do it. Make up any excuse and a lot of times the person will say, "Okay, you know, I'm here in the military and there's a lot of dust here and the dust gets on my computer and then my camera, my webcam doesn't work and the person they say okay, that sounds reasonable, then they'll actually say, I'm in the hospital, I got hurt really bad, and they don't accept my health insurance here. I desperately need some money and they will show a photo of themselves in the hospital they will simply find a photo of when the person whose photo they used was in the hospital or they will find a photo on the website of a person in the hospital and paste their face on it of that handsome man now It works both ways, women have done it with men too and it's very sad, I mean this man was actually cheating on his wife saying "I'm leaving you for this girl" and I guess they ended up in the social catfish even after proving this the girl wasn't real he still said I don't believe you I

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her and the wife said she felt sorry for the wife I mean she was simple but she had a real heart and that's what really It matters and she was really good. person she was like this guy is an idiot I think she ended up leaving and I'm not sure so he was like rejecting his wife for an imaginary woman online and same thing no offense but you're a fat old man.

Do you really think a twenty-something model is going to chase you for anything other than money? Okay, there are exceptions, I accept that, but it's real, it's funny, but it's not funny, because you think about the person who was victimized and you say, oh God. and you just want, you want to go and shake that person who didn't say what the hell is wrong with you. I mean, if someone does that to me again and luckily I didn't fall for it, you know I actually did it. It's fun to harass him and say things to him and if someone is so desperate to do that to you, what you do is you keep saying please, please, please, I'm stuck, whatever you say, you know, I know that's not really you because I know to that guy and I see.

If that fools you and I say some guy said no, no, this is me, I said no, I know whose picture you're using, I know that guy disappeared, another thing is you can tell them what the problem is. you think you have too ugly to use your real photo, you have to use someone else's photo, you know, and it might make them think and then they'll say no, no, no, that's really my photo. He would never lie and his English, even when writing, is terrible, they don't. I don't use proper English, okay, and I know a lot of Americans don't use proper grammar, but there's a difference between grammar and them speaking English, okay, now I feel really bad for anyone who got caught up in that scam, another type of scammer who has victimized me when you use your debit or credit card at the gas pump.

I started receiving unknown charges. This happened seven years ago. I think I started getting unknown charges on my card. Wait a minute, what's going on? Then I saw the Walmart was in, you know, money was spent at Walmart. I called that Walmart and they said we were going to check the camera and they actually called the police and this place is an hour away from me, but I knew it was at that place. city ​​a couple of weeks before because I stopped for gas and used a car, which I will never do again. They have skimmers, which is old news, but every time you come up with a new method to defeat it, they come up with something newer. skimmers and they actually put on camera the people who were spending the money and doing it it was night and they were both wearing baseball caps.

Okay, I don't think there's any sun at night. Someone is not so bright. They weren't camouflaging themselves anyway. Then the police got rid of it, they sent me pictures and uh Walmart had sent them pictures or something, I don't know what happened, but they eventually found out and the comment on one of the pictures said it looks the same. people from a few months ago, so they were already on the radar, luckily my bank, my credit union, they refunded my money, thank God because it was a scam, you know, people trying to scam other people out of their money , those are truly disgusting and ill-gotten gains.

They're not good or whatever they're saying, I mean how could anyone do that? That's disgusting. You know, we live in a society now where I think social media has done a lot of good things. People brought people together. Friends. You already know. Whatever. He would have known me, but they also give you a lot of creeps and the you-know-what stories go to the crime channels on YouTube. True crime channels. There are some wonderful true crime channels that I watch and many of them are the same. story where a guy pretends to be another teenager and lures the girl and she gets killed I mean it's disgusting I just don't know what the hell is wrong with people so we really have to be careful online no matter what happens in the future.

I would like to discuss certain things about dating because dating sites do that too. By the way, I'm finishing a date. I'm not looking to date, but I want to help other people avoid some of the mistakes I've made, maybe thank God I haven't. Money was lost in any transaction except at the gas station, but I got it back, but I'm an older girl and I like to share my experiences and it's not always your age that has the most experiences. I could learn things from younger people. too, but I thought it would be nice to get together and you know, have some friends here interact with each other interact with me.

This is a new channel that just started today but this scam thing was really bothering me and I just had to take it down if this annoying video stops one person from getting scammed it will be worth it ok I'll try to continue maybe one or two times a week, okay, like I said, I'm new to this, I don't do it. I know what the hell I'm doing I don't know why my face is red on camera I mean I really suck at this um in the future I might play like a quick little guitar piece at the end of each one and I mean short I promise end of each video, guys, I

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you, I hope to see you again very soon and, by the way, leave some comments about what you likeI would like to have argued because not only can you learn from me, I can also learn from you.

We can also learn from each other and there are some interesting things in society and in life that no one else really knows or things that haven't been explored enough and I think it would be fun to talk about things that haven't been explored enough. It wasn't discussed much ok this channel is going to keep it clean it will be rated pg there may be some unfortunate stories about people being victimized but I will try not to use foul language if anything I will use the substitute word like uh frigg instead of you know. the other word is a damn instead of that word really bad and stuff like that um and I hope to see you guys again soon, bye, damn, I said bye, it doesn't stop, help, damn, I'm not trying to torture you, it just won. do not stop