Let Me Talk: Divorce Court - Andrea vs. Paul

I disagree, I am. I would like to sit down and work it out with her. No, she wants to run to get something to drink. So how often does she drink now? Is it every day? She, if she can, every day, she will do it, her honor, she will do it and now is not the time. fact that I don't want my wife to drink I love my wife I worry about her health I had people in my family that I watched They drink themselves to death and you don't want them to go away. I don't want it to happen to her.

Miss. Miss Brad. What is it? Is she drinking too many cocktails? never play poker, it will make you tired no, it's not too much how often do you drink? I drink when I leave work every day not every day when I leave work no, I take one or two days you drink a glass of wine or you have a couple of drinks from the whole bottle and she drinks alone, you don't chase her or whole, he comes home from work with a bottle like this and around 5:00 he leaves work with a bottle like this at 8:00 no, it's not, I need something else to shake it, it's Miss Brazwell, are you doing something similar? because people always downplay their alcohol consumption, that's number one, two, you smile like a Chesser cat, so I know he's telling the truth. and it has too many details.

I'm going to tell you something, Miss Brazwell, look, I can get ahead of you, don't let me, so you have to get ahead of yourself and you have to put self-imposed restrictions on how you behave. You drink a lot just so you don't get ahead of yourself, that's all I'm saying, I'm saying it, Miss Brazwell, you say you want a transfer title on the car when you leave, but I don't think you want to. Wow, I'm right about that. I do not want to go. What do you need and I want you to hear this question?

What do you need from him to be satisfied and happy within this relationship? I want him to be able to trust me. um, I'm not the one who was doing crap while we were married and I need him to understand that it's okay, women need space from him, they like having him, he's in your business about where you go, who sees, what you do. It feels like the first year of marriage I should be at home working at home all day every day for the first year of marriage, then I can unplug and go out and have a girls' night out M M M Mr.

Crosby, that's an exact reflection of your desires what is the only thing I tell her is that we have not even been married a year we still need time to learn and get to know each other you prefer to choose that it will be better for you to go out with friends who already knew it before me so, what to pass a lot of time with me, spend a lot of time with me, we need to stay connected, we haven't been married for a year, we need to keep trying to understand each other, these girls, you've been knowing your whole time. life and you only asked her one question she answered it but my thing is when it's time to

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I'm asking her things what would you like what do you want to do I don't know I don't know what you need to be happy within the limits of this marriage I just need my wife to understand that I want us to have this connection I want us to be able to communicate

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be able to work things out without going the other way or turning a small thing into something big Let me say this to you two, number one, Mr.

Crosby, I think you're a very nice guy. , he talks a lot and he is a good conversationalist and he is very convincing and sometimes I think that what a woman needs more than anything is to understand that she has been listened to and I think that maybe she doesn't feel heard by you because since you don't even let me finish the phrase, I took a risk, look, you're interrupting me right now. Not now, you can't, Mr. Crosby, let me tell you something when you interrupt people, you tell them a couple of things, one you don't respect them enough to let them finish a sentence, one says something else you're thinking. about what you want to say while I'm telling you what I want to say, that means you didn't understand what I wanted to say because you're thinking about what you want to say.

I can't, you're interrupting. I can't talk to you again because you don't know how to listen and you have to learn to listen. I'm telling you, look, wait until you see the tape of this show and you'll be like, oh man. I never shut her mouth I never let her talk and that's how she feels. I tell you. You're telling me what the problem is. You can't fix it. I'm trying to tell you how to fix it. You can accept it or not accept it, but that is the answer to that problem. You, stay quiet and listen to her instead of telling her all the time.

Things may turn out a little better for you. I wish you both the best in this matter. The session was postponed, but I don't just need to listen, I need to be more understanding with her and you know, figure out how to say my words the right way, where she doesn't get offended by things and be more understanding despite our communication. It's over. I still want to work on our marriage because it's still fresh. I still believe we can get back to where we were at the beginning. It's going to require a lot of work.