Girl Chat: First Dates, and Unattractive Mates

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girl? What do you do when you realize that you are no longer as attracted to your partner? This is very scary because this really happens. Yes, I have a goal. Elite daily, this happens a lot in relationships and they say you should make sure you are open and honest about how you feel without rushing to let it all out, but I want to know what you guys think, obviously you guys have. married for a while you were married at some point this attraction ended but you know, I want to know what you guys do with him, how do you think is the best way to handle it if one day you wake up and he's gone?

I'm already attracted to the person, what do you do to me? Adam would have had to do something for me to be attracted to him, so let's say we got into a fight or something and I just didn't like what he said. I would literally like to wake up. I like that you're not cute with me anymore guess what it's done to me too so it's not just yeah but what I do is make sure we reconnect and yeah it's a pin because you know some people they could say like a girl. I mean try it and I just can't feel it, just welcoming Bamie Adams' mind is really sexy, so I like having it like that, it's nice.

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, when you meet someone, what attracted you is your partner's laughter, shall we see you? He laughed all the time and even when we have arguments, if I'm honest, which are very few and far between, he literally tries to make his mm-hmm point and stumbles on a word and I die laughing. No, puppy love, yes, but that's what I'm curious about. How many years until I pass through it? I don't find you attractive, but what I was trying to say is what you say and what you always say about Freddie. It's not a physical attraction, you know some people like you know what I would like to buy my wife those eyes, well, sometimes those eyes get old, they want more, you know I liked it, but that butt sags, a physical maturity for recognize this, you, you.

There can't be a lifelong commitment to someone where it's pure physical attraction and the second thing I'm going to say is I'm going to speak for myself, but I want to say that for most of the women that I've met in my life we ​​are attracted to brain. I'm talking about intelligence, yeah, yeah, so what you were saying, Freddie and I are approaching a decade into our incredible relationship with Betty. You know, sometimes your marriage comes to a standstill, like an exercise, like any normal thing you've ever done. Been doing for a while, yeah, a diet, you start Plateau and I say, what are you laughing at?

That's all. It didn't work out right now sewing and you actually said perfect on your diet, you were like a genius, what do you do? I do it to get back to it, yeah she's trying to lose weight and she just stopped for a while and you have to do something different, so with Freddie we started talking about the same things when you're in a relationship for a long time. I started to say, How was your day? How was your day? I had a dispute about it because I do routine and that doesn't stimulate my brain you guys that happens to the stimulation in the, so I asked him, let's talk about the deep, which I, oh yeah, and for Freddie.

Same thing always, wives, nothing sexier than a wife who not only says what can I do, what can you do for me, but you also have to ask what can I do for you and when our men, when, when did we meet, because we are strong women. when you're when our husbands say you know what you could actually do more you could step up you actually get a little bit of whoo what baby hey that looks like this. I completely agree with that. I believe communication is the key in everything I do. Don't do more to that person I'm sorry to say it but I do I like people to be honest with me and in fact I can take harsh criticism as long as I can take it it doesn't hurt my feelings I'd rather you hurt my feelings today then 15 years after my marriage you're like I would have forgotten you for so long and you never told me how, you know you never liked it, you never gave me a chance to fix it, but sometimes, especially in law, because I've been in the long relationships where you start out and the person is one way and then it ends another way, I said no, I'm not just talking about the physical, like they said they were going to be, you know something and then they gave up. that also becomes

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, so I really think that you really have to speak up and say what you want and what I expected from you, what you expected from me, and then you can work it out, that is, reconnect with my husband and my. reconnect, we are 100% honest with each other and we usually have a date night and then we just sit down and have a glass of wine and I really mean to say the word absolutely relationship where you tell someone well what can I do to improve is better and they tell you I don't know I just don't feel it guys and women you have to know what you want I can't give you something if you don't even know what you want from me you have to I know that now we are asking, well, what turns you on, what attracts you to Me, what don't you like, you need to know when your spouse is saying okay, honey, what can I do to work on this?

You have to have an answer, yes. You can't just say I don't know, I'm just not sorry, yeah, that doesn't help, yeah, and I also think that in a marriage you need to know what stimulates you, what you like, for me it's intelligence, for Fredi it's quality time. So my job is to make sure that Matt spends that quality time well and feeds it well, and that he does the same to simulate me, excite me and bring me two different experiences together, so you have to be in charge. to take care of you to make sure he wonders okay? what are you all doing? all that they're doing all these reconnections camula and knowing and it's still not happening how they should wait not long to be together yeah yeah sorry I think you've really tried and you tried everything and really and they were just attracted to the right things of the that we were talking about at the beginning if you initially tried with the mind yes, I think your mom always yes, after trying it is a wrap, yes, I'm sorry, yes, and then there are some people who don't know what they want, so they have to that person running in circles trying to please them, trying everything they can do, but that person just isn't right with themselves, so it's not about you, that person needs to take some time for themselves.

Yes, I've had those ex-boyfriends. You still want to be with someone. Am I the only one who feels grateful? I just don't want to be with you. I mean, every two weeks, oh my God, be with you. It was initially. Do you see what I'm saying? No, okay, I tried, so that's what I do try with one of them. I tried one of them. I did not try it. Okay, one of them I tried because it had been a long time, okay, and if I'm on a show, sometimes some things happen that you just can't exactly fix, that's what I'm saying, that's my last major relationship, It was just it just didn't work out and you feel bad because you want it to work because you can put so much time into the relationship, you know, you put in three, four, five years, okay, I can make it work and sometimes you just have to.

Be like: Forget it, it doesn't work, yeah, you ever loved someone and you woke up one day and realized, but I don't like you, I don't think people realize how important love is, love comes and goes, it will be You better keep it up. How long I'm not in love, that's going to happen. I think well and I hate everything, so feet. Sorry, what do you think we're going to brush? Thank you, I hate mom so much, oh why did I ever think you were cute? Yes, that's real. Yeah, when you start having those kinds of feelings you really need to get away because it drives you crazy what you're not doing.

Only a friend helps you know that you are doing well for yourself. It's true. Yes, we are talking to so many specific people. I feel this the way I do now because we've all been through those partners, it's those people, even in our marriage, it's something you constantly have to figure out, but the best relationship is when you're serving another person and you know yourself and true. and you are cycling that love like you do with others, Allu, that nice marriage where you can find out where that partnership is or even that boyfriend every two weeks, that's when you know yourself better and you had a good place, some of the best.

The marriage advice I ever received was to wake up every morning being intentional um like having intentions like today I'm going to serve my spouse please I'm going to think of ways to make him smile I'm going to think of ways to be good to him be kind be compassionate be considerate sometimes you need to wake up and say wait a minute what have you done to serve me thank you like giving a take yet to make sure that one doesn't take take take - yeah, you have to make sure one is not just give give give because that costs.

Heck, if you end up deciding to break up with commando, you'll definitely try to go out and date a bit and with that comes the dreaded

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date, oh my goodness. Oh people. They are often nervous on a first date and unfortunately don't always make the best first impression, but how many chances do you think you should give someone before you give up and move on? I tend to think I'm very generous. I usually give you about three appointments because you always rush the first day. The boy who had bad breath the second day. The third day is baby.

Hey? No, I didn't suck on the third date. I just didn't like them. the third thing, oh, if not, if it doesn't work the first day, I just think it's okay, honey, he's not nervous, yeah, it doesn't work the second day. I'm just saying, well, maybe that was just the warm-up, so if not feeling it on the third date is when I say sorry, it just doesn't work like that, yeah, like that, like that, like that, I feel you with that, maybe I can't give them three

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, yes, but I love a good underdog. You know what I mean, I like my friend who overcomes challenges, like on my first date with Freddy, he was super nervous, okay, you were nervous, his palms were really sweaty and I just didn't know her well at all, so He took me in the car.

I got off the freeway and we had to get back on the freeway, then he made a wrong U-turn and said, "I should have looked at a map," but really he just wanted to say I had a bad first day. Yes, that's the cube. You had some connection, right, yes, I grow endearing teeth. The first day, if we go out to dinner and he's constantly on his phone, if it seems like he's not, you know, he prohibits attention, you know, or if he doesn't. have a conversation now, that's you, that's horrible if you're Africa, a country or continent and you don't know the answer, man, I love its people right now like a brazier and if Africa is a continent, its continent isn't it is a country.

It's that country, look, this is why the next time you go out on the first day, the kids in the country are going to think I'm crazy, okay, I don't go out with people, I don't know, okay, what are you doing, like this that always you? I've already spent time with you, everyone I've ever dated, I hung out with them, I knew them and I didn't like a group of friends and then I was like, "Damn, I really like their personality. I want to go on a date." him like that, actually that's why yes, yes, I wish the lord would meet them, spend time and then he would say or you know, literally, if I had a friend who had a friend, I like the person, then he would be like me, Your friend is cute and you got me hooked.

I wonder if I want to go on a date with them and then I would go on a date with them and then I wouldn't have to go through the issue of whether I like them or not. If you're awkward, you know? I've already dated him, but hey, let's talk about the first impression. Do you think some of these dating sites now have group activities? Yes, I believe in group activities. Hang out in the group and pick the guy in the group who, you see, has a swag that you like, has a vibe that you like and then you might say, I want to go on a date with you, but to me that's like you're competing.

Now you know it's like because what if? Someone like you you know me, you choose it, you know I'm going to do it, you know, ego, you know, yes, I'm going to be able to do it, what if we want to be with you? He wasn't born like me. Oh God, what if we? They both like the same guy now that we compete, look. No, isn't that what you're dating? I'm talking about going out on a group date. What I'm saying is if you give me some time alone, I'll do it. try to make you mine, the right was given to you, yes, I, Loki, it would be like everyone got Imani, they have this boo, but like the guy was fed it was like playing with me more.

I would be like you're like your backup or you. I don't see that we have a connection, there is chemistry. I have that problem because you are drinking.