GENDER REVEAL TIME....EP 1

It's a funny story of how we met, it was about four years ago. I was scrolling through the Instagram explorer page and I ended up coming across Alondra Desi and I was like, Who is this girl? In fact, he made a YouTube video including me in it. and people sent me messages with the link to the video. I was like, “Oh, he has a really good identity” for a while. I was like, "Oh, that was my Instagram crush. It's funny because I used to show it to everyone, hey, this is my girlfriend, you know, I'm just playing." So I think I mentioned it on my Instagram story saying that I needed to step up my editing game to get the semester past the video.

Elsie and I had been planning it for a while, but then I wasn't going to film it. After watching Benny's video I thought damn I really need to improve, his editing skills are on point and then that's when we started moving around, it was the year 2019 we went on a trip to Montana. All five were impeccable. I had a good

time

and thought he was a fun person. You know, everything matches like me. This is crazy. I saw it on the Internet. Beautiful girl. You know she's perfect. And when I meet her, her personality is just a cherry on top.

It was a great

time

for sure, and then when I got back home he came to LA and we liked that we were inseparable from then on, I think we really enjoyed each other, we just enjoyed being around each other from the day we met. I was there, we were having a great time, I really wanted to feel it, but I don't know, at first I would always like to close it and here I am pregnant, our relationship from the beginning has been super fun, like we had to travel. at the beginning of our relationship and I loved that we had the same career and I think the highlight was when he asked me out he was like super unique, super cute, skylark, will you be my girlfriend?

I'm so glad he gave it to you. a chance and that we are in a relationship now because I am extremely happy like the happiest I have ever been when I found out she was pregnant. I was extremely happy but I was very shocked because I had a Cyst on my ovaries so I thought I would never be able to have children. To be honest, I always took pregnancy tests and they always came back negative, so you can only imagine how surprised I was to finally see a positive result. Damn, this is crazy, if I told young Benny now that I was going to have a child with Alondra, I wouldn't blame her.

There was no way she would look at me. There is no way she will look in my direction. She just wouldn't believe it, you know. Like it was like a dream come true how I felt telling Benny that I was actually very nervous because I knew he wanted kids but I didn't know how soon and I got pregnant very early in the relationship when she surprised me, I didn't know. I thought. not at all, it was going to be hey, we're going to have a baby, I was feeling so many emotions going through me, you know, it was something I had never felt before, I was extremely surprised, happy and nervous in a way because I didn't do it.

I don't know what to expect overall, we are so happy to be expecting this little baby. I feel like the hardest part of my pregnancy has definitely been being diagnosed with hypersoiled junk durian, which is a very severe form of morning sickness. Being in and out of the emergency room felt like it pushed us to limits that were harder than normal. I'm sure other people have dealt with this before, but not that many, from what one doctor has said, it's rare for the condition Elantra had. During pregnancy I was like glued to the bathroom 24/7. I was always trying hard, it was horrible and not only that but I also feel like it drained me mentally because you know there were things I had to do but I couldn't because I was so physically sick that I didn't feel well so that made me not feel Well mentally, of course, we are happy, excited, but they were bittersweet moments, many things did not go as planned, not to mention you.

I know that during pregnancy, this is also the first time that I have been away from my family and anyone who knows me knows that that is my environment, that is who I am, I am a big family man. Having to experience this six hours away. In some ways, home was a little difficult because it's like I never imagined it would be. Even announcing the child to my own family didn't go as planned, you know, I had to do it face to face and online. It was hard for me to experience all of this for the first time and not just feel homesick and be away from my family, you know, that's what I was so used to, thank goodness I had a laundromat by my side throughout the whole process. all this and to help me face the changes in my life, I am very grateful for her in my life, I am sure that Benny has been very affectionate with me during this pregnancy and not only that, I feel that my family has supported me a lot, my sister too .

He comes to help me with the things I can't do and my dad is always checking on me to make sure I'm okay. He would like to give me little remedies for nausea, which was super nice, the fact that we got through it. that and we experienced it as new parents who told me that it's okay, if we can get through it, we can get through it and I'm so grateful to have Benny in my life and for him to stay with me through this very difficult time. Pregnancy The biggest scare during my pregnancy was when I fainted and it scared me, it gave me anxiety, like I wanted to make sure I was okay and not fall, like I just wanted the baby to be okay, so that's how I feel.

It was definitely one of the biggest scares in my pregnancy, yes, because I'm sure it wasn't a scary experience for her, but it definitely was for me because she didn't know what the hell was going on when it happened. I was more. I was so scared to find out what was wrong with her or what was wrong with a baby or something like I was just worried as hell about what was going on, I'm sure it was kind of stressful after she passed out a couple of times, you know, I got a little more used, I started to catch her and then I thought I just let her down and then I thought she'd be fine in about 30 seconds, you know she's coming back and if you guys don't know, it gives me a lot of anxiety especially when I'm alone, like something important was happening, so every time I went to the hospital I would like to talk to him and not feel like I was having anxiety, so I didn't feel good physically, but also.

The anxiety was like "OMG but I'm honestly glad Benny was with me all the time and wanted to take care of me because if it wasn't for him and I was alone I would have fallen on my head so I'm definitely grateful he was there." to help me a lot during this pregnancy. I am very excited to know what the

gender

will be. I have the feeling that I am a boy. Everyone is already convincing me that it is a boy, but deep down I don't know, I still want to. think it's a girl message for our baby.

We are so excited to meet you. You are already so loved by everyone on the internet by the family. Your grandparents are so excited to meet you and me. If you are a boy or a girl, just know that you will have the unconditional love of both parents, we already love you very much, we don't even know you yet, thank you for giving us a purpose in life, thank you for changing us for the better and thank you for coming. to our lives and bless us right now I'm going to cry uh excited it was definitely a surprise that you can definitely change this for the better and uh we're just looking forward to getting to know you guys well we're getting ready for the big day still at the hotel in Right now the nerves are starting to take effect you guys, I'm very excited to see if I'm going to have a prince or a princess, so Alondra is also getting ready.

We'll see her when she gets out of the shower. I appreciate everyone stopping by, knowing what I'm saying, and experiencing this moment with us. Hi guys. Today is the big day, I'm super excited, so last night this was the second night in a row that I dream that it will be a girl, so we'll see, I'm currently getting ready, Bendy went to buy something at the mall, I think that your paper is finished, you can't be in my section, you don't make enough, you have to stay somewhere else, man, we're all in trouble, that's how I'll stand looking at everyone at the party brother, we're just trying Let's settle in now guys, it's getting close to the

gender

reveal

, I should be there probably in an hour or so, planning to do the

reveal

at 6pm. m., have a few drinks, get the vibes going and then I'll make the big reveal.

I have never been so excited even on my birthdays. I never get excited, but I feel like today is such a special day. Our lives are changing and we are going to find out that we are going to have a baby. girl or a boy, but I feel like either way, if she's a girl or a boy, she's going to be a mama's boy or a mama's girl, go get us some food, can you guess what it is? I'm pretty sure you already know Chic-Fil. -a Is it a big surprise that we still have a few hours?

The clothes are pregnant. She is eating for two and I am eating for two. Two damn people love chicken strips. Her clothes are being prepared right now. I assume the clothes are barely in her robe. now getting out of the shower I'm going to have some salad and fancy spicy chicken some fries some nuggets direct games brother some fries for those thighs ideal for the boys oh you're bad so how do you put both colors on them? In case you know I have to be prepared, so if it's a boy, I'll take off the pink, the girl will take off the balloon.

Alright guys, we're just a few hours away from the actual gender reveal. Emotions run wild. I feel anxious, excited, all of the above I can't wait until I get there, we're already done getting ready to get dressed, I mean, Alondra still needs some time, but your son is already done, that's just my baby, okay, like this that I'm basically ready. I need to finish combing my hair. I ended up combing my hair so hard that I couldn't actually put the extension in, but I'm super excited. I feel butterflies right now. I'm so excited to hear that I was super hesitant.

My dress also ended up changing my mind and I'm going with the white dress instead of the beige one I had mentioned, I'll show you guys when I'm well dressed, we're almost there, I'm scared. I need a boy and a girl with a beard an hour and a half to find out the gender. My first thoughts when I found out that the laundry was going to be a happy mother from the interrogation and I was very happy because my sister is an amazing person that I knew. She would be an amazing mother and honestly it was such a blessing to know that she was in shock and we were dying to get pregnant together, but now we are going to unite our children with the quality that I think Alondra has. will make her an amazing mom, she is very loving, she puts others first, yes this has been important, I know she will give her child, boy or girl, an amazing life and she will enjoy her baby when she is little and know that she will never will be alone because we all know that you are going to be an amazing mom, we are all here to support you and we love you, this is like the first time I post a big message, not big, but like a party, I think it was like big it wasn't like that It's like my first party I was telling Benny I wish I could hang out at my own gender reveal because I've been getting so tired I feel like I could only be gone for a few hours because I start I'm so sleepy here we are, what?

Oh no? Okay, what do you guys think? The corner stops today is the day after months of preparation and I was sick and obviously planning gender reveals takes a while so I couldn't say if I would feel okay a month from now. You know what I mean. You're ready, you're not ready, you already think it's a boy, it's a boy, but what are you going to do if it's a girl? But what the hell didn't he want to go? I'd be super happy anyway, but it's time to think. I'm a little nervous, but are you ready to find out if we have a prince or a princess?

We will have a princess. I've never been so nervous. In my life I am excited to know what the legacy will be, boy or girl.