Caso Cerrado | Therapist Told Her To Cheat On Her Husband

Good afternoon, Luis is suing your wife, Alessandra. Yes, explain to me why the lawsuit is. What are you asking to resolve this case in another town? Good afternoon. I am here for you to help me divorce this woman and for you to force her to pay me 30 thousand dollars. the bank account that we have in common because why should she tell I want to know her since she was two years old, we have been married for four years, at first everything was going great in the relationship, but about a year or so ago she started to feel bad, she started to complain about that we didn't do anything fun we would go to clubs that we would go for a walk however we would go out to eat because I like to eat sushi I am we are going to eat sushi 10 years old and I am 32 years old 21 22 years old and possibly also a problem but I think that she what I wanted to go to the disco and you liked to go eat sushi the difference in interests then that month or complain a year and a half ago that we weren't doing anything fun that didn't take him out for a walk he became president he perceived he spent all day sleeping so I I

told

her why don't she believe that she is there to create and find the problem and she did it.

The secretary gave her some pills for depression that made her worse than she was. She started crying all the time, she became emotional, nothing happened, she cried. all day in bed, then one day she

told

me that a

therapist

was coming from her country who was a super famous sex

therapist

and that she wanted to go see him to supposedly talk about the relationship, which I had no problem with, I told her yes, I have a problem. She even paid for the tickets for her to go see the guy. You considered that the problem you had was not necessarily sexual in nature, but she thought that by going to see this guy, the help was going to help the relationship.

Ok, so she went and As if by magic she began to change, now happier, we have been doing more, including how to do things that I liked, like going to restaurants to eat sushi, which I like, which I didn't go to, and together with her, she is a doctor, we have a business, I have a business with I knew her, she lived in a studio with her mother, I love her at home and I paid for her university classes so she could become a graphic designer, graphic design province, and I put classes for her so that she too He will be part of the company, he already graduated and started working from home, but from one day to the next he realized that he wanted to work for other companies outside the home and I do not understand this action today because if we are calm at home we work We made good money at home, we didn't have a good standard of living, so we were complaining that he wanted to go to other places and I didn't like the idea.

If only the one who had the problem was interest, no, you, you didn't have a problem, okay, then. Well, he goes to see the therapy, he values ​​the therapist and the therapist obviously told him good things because he announced the morning and in return he smiled more when he went out for a walk with me and we did things that we liked to do but one day, doctor, doctor, as I tell you, I am a graphic designer and I was the one who had to stay at work in the different places that gave us the opportunity to work and for one day that computer game was at home, so I returned home and the doctor, when I was inside, when I opened the door to my room, I found myself This woman lying with the friend Díaz who was supposedly homosexual was so strong an indignity that here you can catch friend destroy it we started what was happening this fighting through the window then I was all closed they were having sexual relations although then I tried to run to beat the friend of her but the friend jumped out of the window then the author because he wanted to kill me and I understand it but then he told me look no my fault it's the therapist's fault and he told me that it was a therapist who gave him an idea she why he wasn't looking another man to experience different things for the relationship at that moment I took the car to him and went to the therapist I went to the therapist's office that day and I hit him he hit him hard call the police and I went to jail for three days strange imagine that your site that to endure the day I was here they passed a financier and a lawyer that we paid 15 thousand dollars to get to eventually reach him the guy dropped the charges because he left for his country so he has a paperwork problem and they were afraid to go to court that guy who filed the charges for his country, thank God, but with everything, they spent almost 30 thousand dollars on all the garlic that she now let me ask you after she saw the therapist that you say had changed her sex life of you in a happy mood were happy with the doctor our sexual way for me was always good it has not always been done until it happens to you I think but you say for me for you I think he also asks me if we asked you he assumed that you were there you were all for the complete possessive never asks me what I wanted to do and when I told him I wanted to do something it was no I had to be the wife he wanted to go out with him drink wine as he wanted he always liked it he also liked doing things that she He likes it but it would also have been nice if you told him one day today we are not going to eat his boy today we are going to a disco doctor who you like and I am going to dance what you like to dance today looking for remember that relationships giving and giving, that is, quid pro quo, I give you something, you give me something, we have to balance, all the oxygen in you cannot continue because you know better than anyone, he bought her a car, lady, everything that I no longer had, not everything with me for me in my mind she was happy even after she saw a therapist she started going out with her friends I let her allow her to be with her friends and with her friend allow she was not your little daughter no no my daughter no my wife and What I have looked at him allowed him to go see her with comments and purchases and in that it is not ok with me, Alessandra, how does he respond?

He wants to get divorced and for you to pay him the 30 thousand dollars in expenses that he incurred as a result of this whole situation. well doctor polo the divorce check and I did everything the therapist did to save our marriage I did it for us but also I love him I adore him more than ever because more explain to me what the therapist said to you that resulted in you looking for yourself a good lover I between them I explained to him that I was depressed that he was very possessive I found life I couldn't see my family 22 I was everything everything I had to work at home when he arrived everything for him was nothing that I wanted to watch a movie go out with my friends all of us Hector for him I explained it to his high therapist and he made me good and sexually as they are the best he was the only man I had since I was 18 years old the only one I It has cost the same I have to try something different to have a lover I tell you that has money let's do it and on the way back they have witnesses from you of course ok perfect we continue talking to you we see the witnesses we have a solution don't leave we come to ourselves Louis and Alessandra have been married for four years, he is 10 years older than her, she is 32 22 and he is here today demanding a divorce and that she pay the sum of 30 thousand dollars, which are expenses that he incurred due to a situation that I am going to tell them. tell about the involvement in an infidelity but she says that it was not an infidelity she was complying with the advice of the therapist she went to see at some point during the marriage she began to get depressed he has provided her with everything that she was young he met her at 18 He paid her education to be a graphic designer, they put her to work in their company and one day she herself told him, look, there is a sex therapist, a sexologist from my country who is here giving a conference, I would like to go see him to see if this helps us in the relationship and he pays her everything so that she goes to see him perfect to see him and in fact there is a big change suddenly he starts to feel better they start dating he wasn't complaining he was happy everything was working that one day he comes home inadvertently without telling him because he had left something and he finds her in bed with a friend of hers who was supposedly even homosexual, there the confusion broke out, the fight, the attempt to hit her, the boy went out of the window, in fact He got in the car and went to see the therapist.

He was beaten to death. They arrested him, which is part of the 30 thousand dollars that he is charging his wife. She says that she went to see this therapist to save her marriage. She already loves this man and She loves him more than ever, although she recognizes that he has been controlling, possessive, she likes to do things his way and the problem is always never him, it's her and she was following the therapist's advice and she explained to him everything that was happening and the therapist He said you have to find a lover and what did you do well I got nervous I told him I asked him how else is he going to save my marriage also mother of course and he tells me what he tells me is you don't know what you have until until that you lose him that I had to learn to thank him to value what we two have ok and I didn't know how to think about that how can I have a lover yes I love him of course no it doesn't make sense what you wanted then how you chose a lover well I my best friend came with me and the therapist doctor was not explaining my supposedly sexual best friend is a homosexual he is homosexual and just never was with a woman ok so the therapist was not convincing saying we well I was never with another man and He was never with another woman or with a woman and he is not saying that they should help us try to see the same therapists, he helped and encouraged that it was you who were gladly chosen correctly and they started then we started there were five appointments from the therapist Djokovic of portion the payment is clear in the fifth is when my

husband

came in and saw us in bed it was a vein it wasn't several times I mean your friend ok I understand your pain ok how many days has it been since the last time you saw your friend or lover three months ago and three months ago and how your relationship has continued, well he tells me that he forgives me but that I don't cook for him because I'm tired the problem begins then that you are unfaithful that you this that you that the problem and it continues and what can I do I am explaining to him that I did this to save for us how beautiful perfect beautiful you feel safer you feel that they really want him with him it is something that you want that you value and that you do not want to lose I love him I adore him conclusion Do you have witnesses?

Yes, I have to pass on the defendant's witness. In other words, the therapist's advice worked for you, not because you did it. Now let's go to more about your intimate life. It was the best. It was good. good friend, lover friend well well we just helped each other three months ago she called me and told me we are going to see the therapist I went with her and she told us what the plan was and they were going to do five sessions to the fifth session well the man realized With the man he realizes, well, the track is rubbish, he told us that this section is the problem and well, he called me too and said, hey, you have never been with the girl, I told him no, I like men and Well, she said why don't they try if you haven't tried, she hasn't tried another man other than him for four years because you didn't learn something from the experience and I don't like women, I mean, there is also everything, the girl is beautiful, the truth is that She loves him in anything, it's because we always did that, that must be a compliment to you.

I was saying to him, a man thinks about you at all times, or that he didn't choose another, a man for your mother, we received the plaintiff's witness. our exposed to give a solution to this case in this case where he is suing his wife Alessandra for divorce and thirty thousand dollars but it is basically because she followed the advice of the therapist who was treating her during her depression look this is a relationship I I find this relationship of these two people beautiful but there is a problem of difference in tastes and affinity. He likes quieter things, restaurants, wines.

She wants to go to clubs to go out dancing. These problems exist, so she starts to get depressed and is going to see a therapist and the therapist tells him you have to find yourself a lover so that you start valuing what you have because until you lose what you have or feel threatened you don't really start to value what you want he says I'm in love with my

husband

and her friend who went with her who is currently beautiful gay because somehow the therapist will find a way for these two to have five sex sessions with the misfortune that is the last one in which he grabs them and this whole problem is formed We are going to show the plaintiff's witness, please, I have risked what you did, but it has a risk, although of course how nice he is also at the same time because your comical candidate in all of this is very nice, good afternoon, an athletic man will put up with you, my friend Luis.

OK, Luís, I met him during this period as a stripper, but since he was one of my clients, we became friends when he started having problems with his wife, so I'm going to tell you, woman, he's not expensive, he's recorded, he usually puts on many times, he's an excellent man. and I didn't get anything, he never wanted to, he was given the opportunity and nothing, nothing is good in love with this dinner, that is, he was given the opportunity, it means that if he pleases and you have private dances, you made him some offer outside of the strict one, that it never hurts you, what was he doing there?

Triple I only went to myself but to no strippers and a doctor arrived and she danced a lover the word lover is sex of course you can I won't have intimacy of words you can have secrets about everything but that is not normal in the face of a lover lie down sexually to forgive every time I look at her everyOnce we have intimacy it is not a threat in anything that sincerely now we are going to pass in our respect Mr. Lucena and Dr. Hernández but not the many men who are very friendly yes to talk about friends they do not talk about him if they were paying me everything you were doing it for free yes Why don't I go to another man and it's worth it and I never touch you, ever, more than anything, that's like ok, well, lawyer, do you think that the advice that the therapist gave this girl was crazy, the advice was crazy and the way I handled it It was also crazy, it really is not unethical to enter from the beginning or that in a relationship process where it is difficult to recommend a physical lover and insinuate it and work directly, you know that is not a therapeutic intervention and that statistic really but I have read articles by doctors The sexologist who recommends having a lover depends on the perspectives that you give, what lovers gave you, you can be a lover, musically, reading can be an active way that really generates a spirit of denial, a passion, and that changes your relationship.

As a couple, now that part is interesting because the same passion can also be disloyal to the couple's relationship. If I am playing the piano all the time and I don't pay attention to my partner, then my lover, who is the piano at that moment, is intervening. I agree with my relationship as a couple, I have seen couples break up because of an activity like no other and it is important that they clarify what the word lover has to do with it because when a third person is included I do not believe that there is any type of benefit to the relationship.

The relationship is two and must be maintained between the two people. In the case of the gentleman, we are seeing that for her there could have been a benefit, but for him he feels betrayed. In reality, the relationship has been damaged. I do not think it has been a benefit to include a third. person what can he do to overcome this because he loves her and recognizes it that he loves her and I think she loves him too I adore her she felt a little displaced because he is possessive he is that you are he he is possessive he likes to be the guardian the one who does the one who creates the one who gives this I like that I like it and we are going to do it the way I like it it is correct and I think that figure was a little disappointed she felt out of place what do they do to really live This is good, a good therapy.

I think it is important that both of them receive therapy because we know that they themselves have said that at the beginning there are many difficulties in the relationship. You yourself mentioned it that he is possessive. She did not feel that she was indulging in tastes and interests. that she has so we are already seeing a lack of communication that possibly led to her looking for this technique and person something important also the age difference is not that Windows brand is not that the brand is not but there is a defined role and each one He takes a more paternal stance and there is a more Thai daughter stance.

He doesn't ask me and you don't have to ask him. As a woman, she can tell him I want this. I need this. I'm leaving. I'm leaving. I'm letting her go out with her friends in marriage. That doesn't work. I'm going to. go out with my friends I'll see you later that's all there is to say is the concept that he has that allows her to go out with her friends is a concept where you are already seeing an inequality between spouses where one takes a paternal stance and then she becomes the daughter and you don't want a daughter a woman that you make restaurants do things friends so that your friends that my best friend is your best friend I have more friends I have other things to do not only and sometimes even in Look, I like that we maintain the friendship with the friend.

I think it's good, yes, I believe, yes, I don't believe that the friend is the problem, the problem is with them, both of them, they don't want to have friendship with friends. They have seen me give a divorce when the spouses tell each other that they love each other when and look there are reasons to divorce in this family financial life that if I follow it through what follows this whatever but for me there is only one to stay married and love each other and during this entire fight, both of them have said that it is impossible to love each other, that they should get a divorce.

I deny your demand. I send you to go to a nice couples therapy when you are the ones who explore this situation and I ask you to give your wife a kiss. give him a kiss, give him your old man so I can give him the hammer, give him a kiss from madrid, depressed, from a barceló woman and