Capítulo: Pasos erróneos

Well, here we are back and I have a quote from the German poet Johann von Schiller who says who lives among vices and then diverts them with humiliation and misery. Well, let's see what the next case is about, Mr. Director, let the litigants pass by, Dr. Polo in the Trust is that there is danger. I am not a danger. I have the best heart, your beautiful heart. We are going to see, Maria, why is she suing Elisabeth and what are you asking for her case to be resolved? Ok, doctor. I am asking for a total eviction order and estrangement of elisa go from my house eviction and estrangement of elisa you don't want me to have her say she should leave your house I don't want her in my house anymore because she betrayed my trust it's not pulled ok to see you and apart from her leaving you don't want her come closer no I don't want her to come closer because you feel that you are in danger if the house has put me in danger her brother who is my stepson has put me in danger see that now that he has just turned 19 there is a moment in the book He and he knows he has put me in danger ten years ago I married her father that they are three brothers but at the time of marrying her father they decided the little brother and her to come with me I received them with Venezuela to I quote her in my house 1828 ok so there was one of the sisters who stayed with her mother because she liked being with her mother better because they already had another environment another path that is not the path that I have ok the mother and she the mother and the voice and the other not elisabeth and not her sister her sister ok so I am I am here my husband was going to come but unfortunately he is sick but he knows that if I am here it is because I am exposing this demand her father yes the father I think she's very good.

I need Elisabeth to leave because he knows and it's a very important thing. There's nothing because that should be the legal basis of your case. Explain Elisabeth. I'm a person who works from 8 to 8 to help you do it. to keep us all at home because since my husband is sick and she, during my work hours, has used the trust of taking her sister who is sick with vice and sister, I am going to bring her and your sister but let me explain to the doctor why There is also your brother who, now that he has just turned 19, that you have exposed him to me in danger, I am not putting myself, for example, in what I was working to earn a living for everything, he had to enter your sister, Lola, enter the child's room and he uses heroin and I'm in my house, wait a minute, what happened then is that he opens his sister's door when I'm not there and allows him and allows him to use his drugs inside the child's room and has the floor heroin, which is a horrible and terrible substance that destroys the human being, is the girl 25 plus she has other medical conditions, what medical conditions are called life, so she is putting my house in danger, my own son is in danger, my husband is in a disastrous condition. and I don't want her cause and I have chaos in my house and my house this danger because I don't know what she can do in my house on a schedule and now my son is not really yours well but I wait 7 because I do it because I make him influence and emphasis on what I am noticing I emphasize because you are the stepmother of these boys you are not their biological mother I think they must be extremely grateful that you treat them as if they were your family the mother of these boys because I He says that the other daughter was on the same path because her mother also did drugs, but despite that, when I challenged mine, she told him and she knows that I hid it from me for this same reason, but the fact is that you couldn't contribute anything.

When my son told me because he is a child that I have raised very straight and with a lot of respect, when he saw that condition, I did not believe him and I confronted you and since he saw that I did not believe him, he on his own instinct made a video and a video for me when I came here he shows it to the production and they can put it so we could see that the boy came yes as a witness yes sir let's wait to talk to him because I want to see how he took these images what moment did he do it because it is important for the evidence to enter evidence that is correct and that is not outraged let's move on to the boy please hello this one who just turned 19 how are you what's your name I don't know if I'm okay thank you very much for asking me, María was telling me that you went to tell her that your sister had entered the house and that she was using drugs in the house and she was the one who let her see what she told me that she didn't believe you and you took evidence that it exists but I was like a cell phone, like a fake one, tobacco like an egg, that is, you made her believe there that you were not taking a video, yes, yes, she was doing drugs in your room, if you do drugs, no, she has never done any drugs.

You have been arrested. You finished high school. If you are going to go to college, you are going to study criminal justice. Perfect. Well, then I believe that his testimony is credible. I consider it true and we are going to take a short break. After the break, we are going to see the images. of which he photographed that the plaintiff presents it and then you respond to this demand ok we return after this short month in how long your mother served almost a whole life that we were with her she was always on drugs so maybe you Even during pregnancy she may know and consumed that drug it may be that if she has never undergone methadone treatment of any kind because she lives because the world that I want to live in Mariah sues her stepdaughter Eliza Maybe with whom he lives and she knows lives with her stepmother and her father who is sick and could not come here today along with Elizabeth also lives her little brother Elizabeth's little brother who has just turned 19 years old and who was raised by the stepmother when she marries the father of these boys there was a third daughter who decides not to come live with her father because she felt more affinity with her mother who has also had drug addiction problems.

This girl has drug addiction problems and also has health problems because since she has AIDS she comes today to ask for a eviction order against Elisabeth and a restraining order because she considers that she is putting the place in danger because Isabel allows her sister to enter the house secretly because she already knows during her work hours and to use the room. of this boy to inject the drug, she thinks he is endangering the family, and they were also deceiving her in a betrayal of her and respect for her home. What is she saying? It is a betrayal of her.

It is an attraction. Mistress was watching over my sister, your sister has to be watched over by the media, well, it's not you or your mom is not going to beat me. Three years ago, we went to live with them, with her and my dad, I interrupted her now, bad Mariah. I tell you the truth, she was extremely respectful and fell down during the entire presentation of your house. Now we are going to give her the same courtesy. 10 years ago we lived with my mother, my mother. She had a drug habit, what kind of drug? For how long did she have, she didn't have the service, almost a whole life that we were with her, she was always on drugs, so maybe even during her pregnancy, she may have used those drugs, maybe yes, at what age did your mother die?

Mom died, I think it was in her forties, she was almost 50, and she died of an overdose, an overdose, that you take drugs at home, how many times did your mother try to quit that drug a lot of times, I think at the beginning they told us. But we tried to live with her, we had always been on drugs and for Paco I decided to take us along with him but my other sister loved us, she stayed with me with my mother because she felt better with my mother and she was also already in drug addiction, who taught her the addiction of that drug, your sister, I think she learned it from my mother, what drugs does your sister use?

She is now using heroin since she was, you say that she has been using since she was 15 years old. on drugs but her heroines were about five years old, your brother is now 25, let's look at the evidence that your brother worked, how could you do that, the scolding, reading his territory, protecting his foot, he is portraying that time that he is respecting the home that he has I have always or for the last 10 years been free of this. One has to think about what one does and one has to know who one helps one but I prefer to try to bring the FIFA that is not on the street and get the sample on the street So she prefers that she die inside the house, I'm not trying to get her to go to a program either, but if she doesn't, I'm not trying to help her either, and we won't be able to have her in the house.

She came, brother, and she came, she went to the church, hello, stay, stay here. come here stay here gloria let's see is with us gloria hernández who has a master's degree in psychotherapy and works with patients who have addiction population who have substance problems that we are seeing here naturally like your brother's first name we are seeing here how tibet consumes Not this heroin and see how much that heroin is worth. How much do I say 10 dollars and where do you get the money from to be able to buy this? What will they do in a creative way to do it?

If you have had to prostitute sometimes you visited sisters who since the age of 15 you have been consuming drugs that drug, you started using the stone at 15, the stone was 15, who taught you to do that, see my mother and tell the enlargement to your mother and all the people around you, my sister told me that she is diagnosed with AIDS, that is true, I already have hiv how to get HIV because I don't want it because you don't want it because it is the world that I want to live in and why do you want to live in that world that I have in life is beautiful and we are all going to die look at me we are in you you are going to die because of that In other words, because you are killing yourself, little by little you are killing yourself, but you have everything, you are 25 years old, you have everything ahead of you, what you don't want, I have friends who have HIV, some of them have even had AIDS and have been saved.

Nowadays, there are medications that They save you but if what has a dead heart is something else, if your life, your illusion of living, your desire to live is over, that is another thing, how many times you inject yourself a day, well, more or less how many are there with a case in 2011 too? you can have them you have been arrested many times you have never been arrested for prostitution this is the only moment of that day of joy happiness changes your face completely doctor we are going to take a short break on the way back we are going to talk about this case and all the cases similar to this one because the studies and statistics indicate that the use of heroin in the United States is immensely increasing.

We are going to talk about the reason for this and we are going to talk about what can be done when a 25-year-old has a vice like this. We will return to teach. You're going to die soon, that was the beginning and I don't care, I have to care, you don't have any motivation to change your lifestyle, it's true, how dangerous drug addictions are, you're 25 years old and I look younger than you. you and you were twice your age 2 we return with the case of this stepmother who is now suing her stepdaughter Eliza by issuing an eviction and restraining order because she has discovered this stepdaughter who had been asked not to do so and enters her sister who She has had a habit since she was 15.

Today she has 25 years of heroin at this moment and it allows her to use the house to inject heroin. I imagine that you give her food that you let her bathe in. Don't listen to me. I understand your desperation. We have the girl with us. Ms. Gloria Hernández, psychotherapist in situations of addiction in cases of addiction let's talk about this case and the case in general I was talking to Ivette and she was telling me that she had really asked for help once she was in the village she went alone and asked Help was there for two weeks and the interesting thing about this is that she knew why she asked for help and I would like to ask her again because it seems that the videos are a little confusing.

I am nervous with the cameras. Is it possible and you see? You told me that you had been in the village that you went there alone and that you sought help because what motivation did you have? We planned it. My mother died to a doctor. I found out that I did not have HIV and I was scared. I thought I was going to die. the counter fire match and that was after two weeks the doctor announced that her T-cell level was fine and then her fear went away and now when she is sorry doctors no now you are not scared and now you are not afraid of dying but you just said that you think that you are going to die and you are going to die soon that was at the beginning and at least I care I already have you care now you have no motivation to change Your lifestyle, you see, tell me one serious thing: what is the first step that a family member has to take because here we see a disc, we see a dilemma in a family of people who love each other and have known how to respect each other over the years, but this sister There, I see Sister Elisabeth's terrified face, what is the first step that a family member who has a daughter, niece, granddaughter, friend in this state has to take?

Well, I personally recommend that the authors recommend that the first step is to talk about the problem in the family. because what happens when you don't knowtalk about the problem when the cycle of lies that the addict needs to be in his addiction and involve the entire family system is maintained. This happens, the family breaks up, the relatives of the addicts create a codependency with the addict and without evils, the addiction becomes worse. It is the codependency that maintains the cycle of addiction, so the steps that Elizabeth is taking are wrong, the steps that Liza is taking are not wrong and they as a family system could have had a better approach to be able to help Ivette, which ultimately is what she needs. more help from all the families that spills over then you could have had a more family approach more more among all of you have asked for help as a family and have asked has apologized has asked for help as people what do I have to do and I couldn't ask for help from My stepmother rarely went to my mother, she was told, please, let's accept her and try, since people have not understood the main point, the help for her is not opening the doors, not giving her a house, food and a room and a roof where she lies. on drugs to help her is to tell her that my sister needs help right now we are going to a rehabilitation center to an emergency room we are going to a place help no the account warns that my house was entered for it is not help no I didn't allow her at all in the house or to be able to talk to her, no, but I can't allow her because she's not the one who has to talk to me, she's the one who has to talk to me who has your five senses on, she doesn't look what she can.

I am not going to tell the truth, I am also a great believer that the addict has to make the maximum effort to be cured and let's see one thing too and let's see a note too, science has recently been discovered, it is changing a lot because they are beginning to touch these addictions as a physiological disease, not just a psychiatric one, that is, many addicts are addicts because they have a chemical imbalance in the brain, that is organic, and to help these addicts it is not just about talking to them and I am going to give you, you do not have to look for a medical solution with someone. type of chemist and then talk and get tough and close and I'm not going to allow you I'm not going to help you and you can't imagine what I'm going to do I'm going to order that the producer in this case not pay you a single cent if he already You looked at me badly, look if you know where you're going, you know why so that you can't buy drugs because they pay you here today for having come to show your face so that many people know how horrible the vices of the drug you are 25 years old and I am crazy younger than you and I am twice your age and I am twice your age and even a little more if I continue like this yes now if you really put on panties you saw the interventions are important in my opinion and If the family does not get tough and strong and seek help, she ends up just like your mother but younger and you know what is worse for me, this child who is clean until today is on the right path, he is focused on a healthy life in a beautiful future and looking and touching her to see this is to kill her hope and her inspiration in life.

I think you should spend a lot more of your energy, Elisabeth, on helping your brother and guiding her to where she needs to go, but I don't think so. that you are qualified to help her I think that your heart is so sad and you have codependency as the lawyer was explaining and you don't know what to do you are afraid and you are not doing the right thing I don't care if they look at me with bad box and everything because I know that in my heart I am telling you something for your own good, nothing more, even if I make you record with me, the loss will leave the house again, they asked me what the program is about, we can force ourselves to those programs They are volunteers.

I promise with all your heart. Look at your mother loudly and say it to her face. I promise she won't let her in anymore. I'll give you others a chance. But the problem is that the gay man, listen to me, Maria, and he'll undo it again. You don't have a clue. to come, this is the decision if she screws up just once, the eviction and removal decision order is automatically in, that is the decision of the case that I have said, but do not move next to 12, the summons to the house, the bass the effects of alcohol because he was always with his drunks, this man leaves in the car