Capítulo: Esa No Soy Yo

but it is the Argentine writer Jorge Luis Borges said any destiny consists of a single moment the moment in which one knows forever who is a cordial greeting and welcome to case closed the law with great emotion but it really is out of context so let's receive Today's first case to see what it can mean, Mr. Director, let it happen, don't tell her here, I'm not denying a reality, I'm preventing this one from killing her future, we have to save her life, what she needs is to understand her, love her and support her, good afternoon, welcome, Daniel, you are The plaintiff is suing Carmen.

Correct, explain to me who she is because the lawsuit does ask to resolve the case. Well, they are going to be there, Dr. Carmen. This study had a relationship with Carmen 16 years ago. It's true that we met from that relationship. Alejandro, our son, was born. True and That's why I'm here, I'm suing her and I'm asking for custody of my son Alejandro, full custody and I'm also accusing her of moral harm against my years-old son as an abuse, moral abuse or let's all follow it morally, excuse what's left. Alejandro is 12 years old, Dr. Alejandro is 12 years old, ok, your relationship was not marital, dry, you don't get married, no, we never got married, defect, you got to live together as a couple, no, we never got to live together, all of you didn't live as a couple, never, ever, ok, but when the baby is born, turre You met the child legally as parents and everything was ok during these 12 years of Alejandro's life with whom he has lived most of the time with me and with the mother with the mother but you shared time with him and the doctor as well.

We had shared a year of One birthday was spent with the mother and one birthday was spent with me. I never abandoned the relationship with Africa. The facts that bring you here. I am going to ask for full custody of Alejandro for child abuse or that now I am accusing him. She produces children for the The next reason is that at the time we met, we were born, this Alejandro, true, at the age of 5, because of the insecurity of the country, we are from Venezuela, because of the insecurity that arose there, I authorized her for her to come to this country because I too I wanted to come here, I had planned to solve my legal problem in a year to come here to this country, it turns out that unfortunately things went wrong doctor and it took seven years, a period of seven years where unfortunately I could not physically see my perfect son, what happened then?

Well, doctor, it turns out that when he arrives in this country, she tells me that the child is having this strange attitude and I ask her what strange attitude. Well, the child does not feel like a child as such, the one he has. he wants to be a girl he likes to play with girls he likes to play with dolls so I am an open-minded man and I told him ok my problem is fine I think that must be because he is confused at a stage of childhood and suddenly that There is nothing wrong with it, the boy can play with dolls, he can feel like a girl but it is a stage where this can change because what we can do, I recommend that she take psychological therapy to see if the psychologist who is there and see if he As he grows up, that attitude can change and you can grow.

What a child is as such is that then I have the opportunity, he gives me my document so I can legally enter this country, right, that's six months ago, I have six months in this country to my surprise doctor to my surprise because it is not the same when I see Alejandro in a photo or video as the boy with long hair and with an attitude of but it is not the same when I see him physically in person hey I was shocked, it shocks me in a way that's true. I hope I'm open-minded like the one before and very mature.

Ok, I took it calmly so that he wouldn't feel that I was rejecting, I think that's what I gave, doctor, to the child. I didn't see the boy as a line like a girl as well as a girl Alejandro that you discovered, I started to investigate and the most serious thing I got, doctor, is that this really has me heartbroken. Hey, I don't need your help, doctor. that the child she was giving children hormones so that the child would change and if it were a girl, true since they gave from the age of 10 the whole child would have it for you that is child abuse for me a part because it is child abuse another because this doctor when the little boy the little boy still when he was already in Venezuela is not with us because it turns out here because I come to the demand look here are the tests that we did on him that caused the chalets that caused those hormones that gave him this Mrs.

Alejandro, although going further, well, it turns out, look, you have what impacted me the most and what has me the most, we are going to be destroyed, she says here that Alejandro has been evaluated by a bone cancer oncology clinic and has been diagnosed with a testicular tumor in his testicles. The solid tumor shows an intensity in the images that they are talking about medical things that are quite worrying and this is all a consequence of that hormone. The doctor does not say that because of the chemicals she gave to the child, that was not a consequence of the fact that chemical the hormones and it is a chemical that she gave to the child and that could have had the consequence of what the doctor told you, well, cancer is a case that is too lethal, a cancer that must be acted quickly, it is very aggressive, detected 10 days ago, cancer doctor Protect based on Fidel says he doesn't have time for this. two options, one of the options that the doctor gives us is that I am passing from one testicle, the child can have the cancer eradicated or created and he has a chance to and the other option is to castrate him completely, which I do not agree with.

I agree because she says she wants to take advantage of that moment that she says that Alejandro really loves it when for me that is a lie that it is time for him to be a girl there where he can develop I don't want a doctor because a girl who dies asks what You want me to live or live doctor as a man but not as a boy with the option with the option number one with the option number one testicle it is clear that yes and I tell him and I say it here in front of the public that yes tomorrow when it is already have a choice because he is a child he is not yet at the stage of a child I decide one thing in the morning and in the afternoon they already have another decision they are children his head is constantly developing and it is urgent when he has the authority or 18 years old I think he must be more mature now and wants to be a woman.

I support him now I support him method ok perfectly we will take a short break and when we get back you respond here there are many witnesses in the case so we are going to attend to we will return immediately need a cancer testicle organ as such, not the testicles, we are talking about the penis, it will not be removed until it is a little bigger. cases Danielle sues Carmen, the mother of her son, and they demand full custody of the child who is now 12 years old. What he considers is child abuse but here the metals come periodically there was a non-marital relationship and as a result of the relationship the child is born this was in Venezuela they never lived together but they were parents they always participated in the life of the child and at some point it becomes bad situation in venezuela he authorizes her to go out with the child from venezuela and bng to the usa he planned to come quickly but his life became complicated and he was detained for seven years in venezuela while she was here always in contact with her son through social networks etc. six months ago she arrived here in the United States and saw her son for the first time after all that during that time they were in Venezuela and here she tells him that the child was going through a behavior, a transition, something that She wanted to be a girl and he tells her, well, take a psychologist.

This can be a facet of children's childhood that can be temporary. Take them to a psychologist. It's six months ago. Six months ago he arrived and the first time he met his son. It is used for him because his son is a girl dressed as a girl, but what he discovers is more worrying. He discovers that the child has been taking hormones since she was 10 years old and that this has caused two medical conditions, one of which has had bone loss. His bones have weakened and secondly they discovered a cancerous tumor in one of his testicles.

The doctors give him two options or remove one of his testicles, the one with the cancer, and not give him more hormones because this can cause testicular growth in him. the other testicle or castrating it completely, which would rob him of the possibility of being a father or mother in the future, loss of his sexual organ without a number of serious consequences. He advocates removing a single testicle and stopping the hormones and that is why he wants full custody of the child. or what starter meat good afternoon doctor good afternoon why did you give hormones to the child that is totally false that is not how he said it doctor I want to explain to you that the girl was in a six month process hiding from me that she was taking these hormones in the girl got hormones at school I buy hormones 10 at the age of 10 doctor I went to school I talked to the principal I made a fuss I went to all the media where I had to go and what did they tell me they washed their hands doctor what they told me was what happens We can't do anything.

They get drugs. They get heroin. We can't stop them from getting this type of medication. We see more things and it escapes us. There are a lot of children. I think he immediately gave it to me. He has always been responsible with my mother with my daughter, sorry and he knows it. The first thing she told me was that she already has it, it is already in her body, it cannot be removed immediately because it is counterproductive, you have to ration it and you have to gradually remove the dose until you reach the moment when she can, over time, have it.

This is not a product of her medication but what the doctors have said for a moment, please take her there, the doctor will take her, this is that she has a tumor in the right testicle, what's happening, doctor, the doctor tells me, look, this is very serious this is one of the most aggressive cancers this aggressive and eats the other organs can move to the next testicle and thus eat the other organs this is something quick a decision must be acted quickly when a woman has cancer in a breast immediately The doctors recommend that the other 12 also stretch because there is a risk exactly here it is for a certain time yes and the same thing is happening and because of that risk and for the health of my daughter because it is a relief you never had problems with the identity of your daughter doctor I'm going to tell you something at first it was difficult for me but then I let her be allowed because inside the house because I saw her happy I saw her calm but when I went out to avoid comments to avoid being used to play with me my love treats me Like a child, put on a cap, you shouldn't see the veil, which is so long, but why am I going to confess it?

When I was doing all this to her, I saw her in two stages, unhappy and happy, inside the house she was passing by. My daughter fell into depression. daughter fell into a state of anxiety, not even the doctor knows this, I am going to tell you this here, doctor, my daughter tried to commit suicide, I said that she feels like a child, doctor, you are going to see her, although you are going to see how my daughter performs as A girl, the defendant's first witness, means that she feels happy and I left her. I felt judged.

Seeing the church that I have not lost friends, I understand the position of both of them. Please, I understand them. You do not have to convince me of anything. I am analyzing the facts. and the best interest is the real one and allow me to call her alejandra from now on because if the mother is telling me that she feels happy that way I am going to respect her ma'am what is her name or the doctor by my name It's Neil to Neila and you are here supporting the defendant that Mrs. Carmen, who knew me, I am a volunteer at a therapy center which I attended and I met her and then in her case I come to tell her for me. own experience, I had a boy who presented the same conditions, the same sexual tendencies, he believed himself to be a girl, he believed in a girl, but I was totally closed to this case, he forgives me, but emotionally it still affects me, what happened to him as time went by, I always wanted to Being a girl and I repressed him, I abused him, I punished him, time passed and a little while ago, two years ago, my son took his own life, he still had it, but he remains, he was 12 years old.

I am very sorry, thank you and I come to ask the Lord to please understand and support to his son 100% demand to be alive or the future of having children the future of pellegrini is that as a girl or as women as men it always exists that it is beautiful of course what is your name my name is José I am going to sue the plaintiff Mr. contact daniela for the situation you are studying I was currently going through I went through the same situation that your son was going through you had testicular cancer yes at approximately 10 years old I began to feel an inclination towards women that is I liked how they dressed the way they wanted to be I could become a woman and a moment in my life when I became a woman I played with the girls they put makeup on me to grow my hair they dressed me they played with me as a girl and I felt really happy I felt good the cancer found me in the testicle I was taking hormones no you never took hormones ok I have cancer in the testicle and they give me two options they can eliminate it with an operation andThey eliminate all of them or they can also do it with chemotherapy.

The problem is that I made the worst decision of my life. The worst decision of my life was to eliminate my entire organ. That had consequences for me because there were around 15 years between high school and I realized. The fact that I find girls attractive draws my attention. What happens to me with the figure of women draws my attention a lot. I liked you, you know very well, but it was already too late and I realized that at that moment it was too late. Because later I thought in the future, at 20 or 25 years old, that I would want to start a blood family.

I didn't have cancer in both testicles. One only had the option of removing one testicle, but you decided to remove both. Yes, because what they told me was that If one was there, I could run to the other and from there I would go to other organs and they would pass the breasts. I will also explain it more, but it is also the biggest decision. You are alive if you are here and if what I wanted was to live, Alejandra triumphs if we take a short break. and on the way back, if you allow me, I would love to see you, we will return in 6, that femininity that you feel so so and nothing is so genuine, I imagine that you have thought that you want to be a mother one day, if that's the case and what would be your option, case Danielle and Carmen have a daughter whose name is alejandra and was born a boy was called alejandro daniel sues carmen the mother of his daughter and demands full custody of the child who is now 12 years old for what he considers to be child abuse or what happened to me alejandra tell her Let Leandra come, I want her to come with Dr.

Mabel and Otra Cara, and Maldonado, please come by, Alejandro, from here, she's my girl, Doctor. How are you doing? Nice to meet you. Sit here with me for a little while. A week ago they needed cancer in a testicle. He's going to tell me something for a long time. I have planned that when I'm 18, I want to remove my male organ because I don't feel happy, so I don't understand you and now, well, they gave me cancer. two options, Victor, I ask, 'stimulation or remove both, exactly, doctor, and for me the best option is to remove this author because, for example, we kill two birds with one stone' because it's not that the cancer is already removed, only the other doctor and the other can infect me. second is that the electoral body was taken away from me because I don't feel happy like that, I want to be a girl and I feel like a girl trapped in the body of a baby with that femininity that you feel so nothing so genuine, I imagine that you must have thought that she wants be a mother one day be a doctor that's it and what would be your option so many children that are in the world I can give some of them and where love as if I were their mother a doctor is a very good option god bless you don't you want to stay here with We stated that she has the capacity if she is a very mature girl very ok let's talk medically first the doctor abandoned the consequences let's get to the point in this case let's speculate with so much let's concentrate on this case the loss of bone matter already has like a type of osteoporosis already walking slowly as a result of the fact that at this young age the court gives normally can happen as a side effect of hormonal treatment since it is not allowing the masculine characteristics to be fully expressed where the bones are going to develop much larger. denser than any other man by removing that capacity from the body because you will see the difference that we can say that the loss of bone matter can definitely come from the use of hormones if they are medically supervised exactly those that can reverse when she is under the observation of a doctor who can give her the treatments second the cannes second testicular the good thing is that testicular cancer the mortality is extremely low or perhaps the income if it is the one that is more aggressive than yes they are describing not even the parents that the girl has if It can be transferred to the other testicle and what is done is total autonomy or you also want to remove the organ.

You can do that already at this moment at two years of age, normally because the organ itself needed a little more time. Not the testicles, we are talking about the penis. It will not be removed until it is a little bigger. It will receive the hormones. It will not have testicles. It will not have. The organ will not develop. Ok, I know. I have not had time to examine it, evaluate it in depth as any professional likes obviously, but based on what we have here and the evidence presented here, what to recommend and well, I am going to call you doctor and we have to take into account Keep in mind that they are already 12 years old, I know that she is a mature girl but no matter how mature she is, I consider that they still do not have the capacity to make a decision because I consider that her mind is more focused, well, you know that it is something of two things at the same time. hand of the parents so much is the impulsive thought of wanting to get something quickly but we have to think that in one year and in two years she will change her mind because of the natural thing in her psychological development, not insane of her identity.

I have had many patients who are in this transition and then at 17 and 18 years old they decide not to undergo the sex change because the consequences of the hormones, the side effects are so strong and then the consequences that exist, life is never necessarily the same. I was listening carefully to this case, this is not about to assign or change her sex, this is about saving her life, my dear friends, and I'm going to tell you this, Daniel, but it's all heartfelt. I'm a cancer survivor. Mine was in 2003. At that time, the doctors didn't tell you.

They removed both breasts preventively two years later they started doing it and I live every year with the fear that cancer is going to come to the breast that I have there and I have a mammogram and when I go to have the monographs done I get a cold sweat and it gives me tension anxiety I would have preferred not to have to live with that and to remove both breasts for the sake of my life to live a better quality more calm calm sir that has not touched me I believe that it is necessary to eliminate it from the root from the root and if the possibilities that are run to the next testicle having that aggressive cancer in one of them I prefer that I remove both testicles thank you doctors to save your life which for me is more important than everything therefore I had total and absolute custody of your daughter but because I think that You are fabulous parents, continue to spend time with her, continue to talk about all the decisions that need to be made now, she is going to face serious surgery link series whose recovery is also going to take time with two parents who support you and love you much better. that as fasting acceptance is possible, I think so, thank you, give your parents a hug, I said fields, true, we returned with more than cases closed to you, thanks, my life, take care of yourself in the middle of the sexual act afterwards, the name of the other one at that table was the name of the great one from grace and she climbs on top of me and wrinkles me and tells me she rapes me but I feel like they rape you I was crying damn you are perhaps more Dr.

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