Best of Ross 2019

more and you'll be tall enough for the holidays now 6 when you're 16 you'll be about 6 feet you can get it in your you can get it in 10 years christmas in 10 years do you have something you're looking forward to yes of course you can, you just have to get them something really important that is not taught in school and should be as a life skill. Forgiveness and the reason why it is for your good mainly when you are angry or offended with someone, you cannot solve the problem for any reason, choosing forgiveness actually helps you let go of the pain and then the pain stops and does not you just choose in your mind, but when you say it and you say it out loud, there's actually a big difference, it's crazy.

I can be really angry at someone and in my mind I think, of course, I forgive them, but the moment I actually say it, it does something a lot. more than just when I think there are many reasons not to forgive people because if we forgive them then what they did to us is okay in some way, if we hold on to our anger and our unforgiveness then it makes them feel bad , if not to the others. at least for us they are wrong, so they are for some kind of justice to be done, it can be revenge, a way to get back at someone, so I understand the reasons for holding on to anger, unforgiveness and choosing to forgive, it will eliminate .

The anger that you have the pain that you are trying to get rid of the pain that justice would alleviate, goes away when you say I forgive this person, you may have to forgive them 500 times out loud to yourself when you go to sleep and start thinking about what what this person did to you and you start to get angry and you say "I forgive him" when you are driving your car and you randomly think about what he did to you and you start to get angry and you say "I forgive him" and you will notice the pain starts to go away it starts in the moment when you say you forgive them you are not going to hold it against them don't tell them you forgive them unless they ask you because that implies that they did something wrong being a bigger person won't make them feel good unless they really know what they did to you wrong and they admit it and then you can say that you are free of them the moment you say it, it will get rid of all the pain that you feel.

It's a little trick in life. They take the knife out of your back and put it in your back. I wish I could hear all your reasons why you don't want to forgive the person you don't want to forgive. because they're legit, I guarantee I can understand exactly why you don't want the way you feel about that person to make sense and you can hold on to that for the rest of your life because you're right, it doesn't. They deserve it, they don't deserve to be forgiven, it's up to you in that sense and if you want to remove the pain from your life, forgive them.