Are You Dressing Modestly So You Won’t Be Judged?

so I don't know people. I have ever heard the phrase women dress for women, yes, as if I knew that. I don't feel like I've really been complimented unless a woman does. Yes, that's what a recent study by social psychology and personality sciences said. that women actually dress

modestly

to avoid being

judged

negatively by other women. She also says that women also dress casually when meeting a new friend, so when you get dressed in the morning, do you ever worry about how other women might judge you? versus it's interesting, yeah, me neither, you've never felt like you're meeting someone new, you want them to like you, so you almost go a little silly or like yourself, you feel like if you do, my friend, since I'm Someone who likes you. loves to dress elegant.

I tell everyone that I feel like I'm going to a quinceañera every day. Some women will come along and be the way you think they will go. They will feel that I am showing them, yes, yes. and that's not at all what I'm trying to do. I dress up because I really like to play like I love that it's always a better feeling to be overdressed than underdressed, showing that people look at you and think what you think. You are better than for another woman, although yes, yes, we worked until this job. I've only worked with men, so it was never a problem.

You know what I'm looking at you and saying oh, you think you're cute, yeah? She makes you feel like I don't want her to think that about me. I really want to like him. Yes, she likes herself more. No, that's the wrong way to think, but that's it, if I'm honest. right way of thinking, absolutely and I've felt this in multiple situations if you meet a parent like a boyfriend's family, yeah, and you're like, I want them to like me, I don't want them to think I do. or not, if it always sends a message, no matter what, yes, you got to know yourself better, people are finding their way before they know your heart and your personality, unfortunately, but I have also felt this obviously in the church setting or things So. or not wanting to get out of Hollywood and you're like oh no, I'm here with no makeup and a ponytail, people like, praise the Lord, don't think I'm going to make sure we're in Spain, like this bank right now is crawling towards down like I do something like that when you meet another woman to let her know that I'm not here to be competitive and that you were all in the same game.

One thing I love about you is that you are a girl. girl and I will make sure to teach my daughter that when you see a beautiful woman don't feel threatened by her, be inspired by her if you saw a girl in high school and she looks super beautiful, super puddle with her makeup. Fly your ass, be honest with yourself, what was the feeling you felt? I hate her or damn do I want to be her friend, yeah I don't know because I wasn't. I don't care how I can find out how she did it. go that far instead of saying I hate her because she's flying do you guys feel like women are actually more critical than mint welcome to the world identity 2020 it's like we inspect each other I want to know where it comes from that's because we're always harder on ourselves, yes, okay, and because we are so insecure by nature, then we have to work on it so as not to drag ourselves into general insecurity.

I think the patriarchy has made us feel insecure in that way. We've been introduced for so long. this is what you're supposed to look like this is what men will like, yeah, you know, and this is what it looks like to be together, yeah, yeah, this is what seems to be considered pretty, this is what looks best , so I think you already know. we just live in a very visual society where a lot of us like to look at these images and then we look at ourselves and we look at other women, well how close are we to this, we start now hair, yeah, it starts to get better.

I feel like As you get older, at best, you start to say, "Okay, yeah, yeah." I agree with you that you should be. I don't care and at the end of the day you should dress when you look good. in that reflection when you feel yourself recovering and ready for a date that might make Sun come up with a job opportunity, you're already ready for a win-win, however, I think it's some nice girl code that you don't have to do. do this, but it's good girl code that if you're going out to lunch or a night out, it's nice that you don't have to, but it's also nice that your sisters know how you plan to do it. dress or what the dakotas are like, yeah, even at this table, if everyone notices that we tend to try to be a little coordinated, yeah, you know, it's because sometimes I get mad at the big guys and I blow these dresses up.