A Dating Coach Matches the Dating Profile to the Person | Lineup | Cut

If you are interested in someone, how would you start a conversation with them? If I ran into you at the bar, I'd say, "Oh, well, I see the business jacket. I'm here to do some business. Hello, what's your name and what?" Do you dedicate yourself to making a living? My name is Cora Boyd. I am a

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for men. There aren't many resources available for men these days and most of the ones that exist are pick-up artists and just guys telling guys what women want. Do you work with men? on their

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s, yeah, sorry, I feel like they're all stereotypes, honestly, the guy who tries too hard and is too thirsty for a relationship, the shirtless mirror selfie group chooses the walking photo, the photo of the wedding you are going to match with the dating

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. the

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, I'm ready, can you invite to the line?

Please, where is the table? Are here. Hi, Laura is our dating

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. Yes, I can say you can say it. Alright. I'll give you a phone. Okay, describe. what you see is fine, so here is a photo with a girl who is making this symbol, she has long black nails, red hair and a camouflage jacket. A lot of guys will do this because they know it's social proof, like putting a picture of a hot girl on your profile I don't recommend this is confusing especially if you're looking for a relationship like this guy is a guy who cleans well I'm ugly so you know I'm funny can i talk to you for a minute how?

How do you feel about your own attractiveness? I think I'm pretty decent. I mean, I'm not the best, but I'm not ugly. Would you make a joke like that about yourself? Maybe yes, I'm going to say it's him. Go ahead and get back in line, okay, we have our classic wedding pick, as I anticipated my mom would describe me as a nice guy who needs to settle down, has no pets, smokes weed socially, and is looking for something casual, yeah, I mean , this

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looks. like a nice human to spend time with who here seems like a nice human to spend time with what's up nothing much how are you I'm cool yeah cool if we were at a bar and you were interested in me how would you approach me excuse me Me, can I get a crown?

Hey, let me get it for her. Hello, my name is Naseem. I don't like beer, but I'll drink one with you. It's pretty good. I do not think that's true. It was fun. Actually, I want to. to talk to you for a second, yeah, so you have a lot of friends. Most of my family is in Kenya, but I have a great community of friends here. If you're dating someone, do you introduce them to your mom right away? It is important. to me not only for my mom but also my friends to approve of me I think it's you based on the very limited information I have yes let's do this right thank you this is difficult right it's difficult to create a dating profile that represents you very accurately , we're not always very aware of what people like, what information someone is gathering by looking at this very limited digital presentation, so the next person carrying a backpack and jumping on some burning logs, this person is an analyst financial. a photo taken in Italy or some favorite Mediterranean place quality of a person kindness that's all I know can I talk to you for a minute about myself thank you cora, nice to meet you, I really like your dragon which I have never seen?

Thanks, I don't think it's you, but it's nice to meet you, hey, do you like us, yeah, tell me about one of the most interesting things you've ever done in your life. I lived in Spain for about a year. I finished my last semester of school, whoever this person is, whether it's you or someone else, I'm getting the explorer for the very limited amount of information I have. I could see you in finance. You're very self-possessed, so I could see you operating. Well, in the corporate world, okay, um, up, okay, yeah, go ahead, sorry, I think you're going, no, no, what I was going to say is that a good thing, being self-possessed doesn't sound very, no. , that's super positive, oh, okay, that means you. be yourself great you are very charismatic and friendly great I think it's you um okay next one I'm adopted and I haven't met my parents I'm color blind but not because I don't see red I have a star shaped birthmark this The person has put much more in the biography than other biographies we have seen.

Can you come and hang up? Yeah, yeah, so I mean there's a lot of similar expressions and expressiveness and some panache in this bio that I saw of you in our The interaction like this person is really fun and a little bit goofy and warm. I think it's this guy. Yeah, I'm going to go ahead and say it. Assistant regional manager at Dunder Mifflin. Okay, so that's a joke. Enfp, I'm also demisexual. Alright. Great, what is that? Demisexual is when you feel emotionally connected to someone so that the lever of physical sexual attraction registers. This person is a great love.

I believe is you. This profile is very attractive. There are many exclamation points. You are a very friendly and warm person. Thank you. You, you're welcome, how do you know? How do I know? because he came up to me and said: hello, what's your name? I see an enthusiasm in him that I also see in this profile. Would you rather be an emu or a pharaoh? great question, I had a ferret for a couple of weeks, just big flightless birds, they just speak to my soul more than burrowing animals, I think it's definitely him, okay so we take a selfie.

The irony is when you jokingly take a selfie in the bathroom, but it works. to be the best photo of you now I really wish I could see the photo the conversation is the best bio to be honest, if I try to make everything sound basic, which may very well be just one way to find out, I think it's you yeah? Are you interested in someone? How would you start a conversation with that person? Well, if I ran into you at the bar, I'd say, "Oh, well, I see the business jacket. I'm here to do some business.

You're a really fun guy." thanks and this is a pretty funny profile okay cool yeah this person is drinking a beer with a friend at a baseball game oh cool he's wearing a necklace that says bae cool okay so what are you going to do this weekend? It's probably not much. just go to the gym on Sunday to play basketball. I don't know anyone else in this

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who I would see wearing a bay necklace as much as you. He's fine, thanks you're welcome, demolition specialist. We have a nice cowboy hat. Very kind. from a country fan nice motorcycle, okay, could you get on?

You seem like a good country boy. Well, thanks, yes, I think it's you. Why do you think these seem like activities you might enjoy based on the aesthetic you're presenting? Are you a good country boy? Yes, ma'am, those are all options that couldn't have been played better. Yes, ma'am, raise your hand if he understood you correctly. Pretty good for what he had. Hi, hi, so my profile is good, bad, too many selfies. Too many selfies and you need more images that have more context of your life, so you always want to add as many images as you can so you can represent all facets of yourself.

Yes, could you swipe? Yes, well, no. I know if my boyfriend is going to like it oh, okay, so which one were you. It was difficult for me to understand that you were the heart of the bay, so yes, yes, it was a joke, it was 100 jokes, of course, but it was a good possibility. I don't know, there's not much information about you. I don't feel like I know you through email. The profile. What are you hiding? My girlfriend. Alright. You definitely also want at least one good quality smiling photo because you want to look. inviting okay, great, thank you, thank you, hi again, hi again, you were right, great, yes, good, you came out pretty clearly in your profile, thank you, I like it, your personality came through, which made it easier knowing it was you, it was more elaborate, um, I appreciate that.

Do you have any little advice? Do you know a sexual semi uh? Yes, do better in dating gaps. I guess well, I think it's awesome that you're honest about it from the beginning and explain a little bit about what. that means to you, I think keep doing that, keep doing that and people might not know what it means either and I'm sure they'll ask you and I'm sure you're used to it and that's cool and you I like the conversation and the hugs, so I do what a good conversation is the lazy one, oh okay, I was totally wrong, it's fun, I would say add more and add more specificity, that's usually my grade across the board, okay, brilliant.

You understood me right, I understood you right, so I would do it in the note that I said about the friends, it reads a little transparent and it's a little unpleasant for the woman because she says: What if she was actually famous? That's even worse because it's even more social proof, so you don't need that, you can like it, you have things for yourself, you don't need the association to make yourself valuable, right, I mean, it's used, it's a good conversation starter. , it's your decision, clearly I want to keep it there, I'm not going to tell you what to do, I'd just say that it makes it seem like you need social proof and that you have other things to start conversations about, there are other things about you that are interesting right, so That would be my suggestion, okay, which one were you with the mirror selfie?

Oh, the mirror selfie, was that really the best photo of you? It was at that time. Well, then I realized that you are not verified. Yes, with mine. In my

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you think so, it could just be because it's an extra layer of responsibility and you like to show that you're putting in that effort and it's also an extra layer of security. Alright. Alright. I just got out of a long term relationship. I'm looking to keep things a little more casual. Okay, there's my profile. It conveys that saying your mom says you're a good boy who needs to calm down sends a different message.

You don't want to communicate informally. You still want to have personal connections. with people even if you see them casually, so you can let that come through in the conversations you have with people like, hey, this is where I'm okay, thanks, yeah, thanks, how was this? This was interesting. Dating apps are amazing tools for connecting with people, but you want to connect with the right people and you don't want to waste time attracting people you're not going to resonate with, so if you have a more generic profile, you're projecting a profile. wider. net that is not going to be filtered is like marketing, you also want to filter out the wrong people, okay, everyone crowds around him and holds your phone and it looks like you are guessing his profile, you will also get a photo of me, so I can put it on instagram