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Y la felicidad qu? - Roberto y Farid #7

Feb 27, 2020
and people like you are welcome through a special podcast to your favorite podcast chapter 777 of the podcast robert and

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how are you very well robert likes to scare here against another episode oops another episode of cheap philosophy we have in tampico this weekend week we go there we had a marken class yesterday some content marketing workshops and the rest went well I didn't feel good it met my expectations and well I hope the people's also I think people left happy I think there are things we can definitely improve but he was cool and I didn't like it at all I liked sharing the adjoining space and what are we going to talk about today what topic does he bring to the table because I have an interesting topic that I don't think does not distinguish between ages which I think is a problem that at some point they take or face or go through their mind and I'm going to put it with a I'm going to stop with a question and from there we start and we are going to break down the first question One is what would you say to a person who is afraid of taking risks to pursue something significant with which the occasion would motivate a person who is afraid of taking risks to pursue what they want to achieve what sentence the idea as 11 sentences if not that Would you advise him to reflect on what he is doing at the moment and why he is doing it and if it is worth risking what he wants to risk to go for something greater, maybe the answer is yes, maybe the person is miserable at work, well, no It's okay mother to lose that which doesn't make you happy for risking going for something bigger that you may not achieve but I think you'll be happy at least trying.
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I think that maybe there are situations that are a little more complicated than others, it is still a class, a universal response for any type of person. I insist, there are very sensitive issues and there are also different worldly dreams proposed. These are not if you want to be a soccer player and you are 32 years old, of course, and if it is known alone, I agree completely with the city, that is, what I am going to do well from the start, I think that one of the risks, one of the biggest risks and the biggest in the What we face as human beings is that typical thing like not pursuing orit something significant for you with the hope that in the future they can buy you the freedom to do it, although it is something typical, there is no reason why I am passionate about this but well, first it paid the price of being in this place that I don't like while I earn money or savings and so on so that I don't have enough cushion so that in the future I can try but that's a risk what I say and that's what I know a week ago either something unreal something illogical or something something that's like perceiving a rainbow or you're never going to have enough financial freedom to really pursue that I think you're dealing with more of a problem than you it is scary to pursue what you want as it really is the course of the you yes of course I know that you are my hypothesis or my theory that those kinds of excuses even if you have enough money so to speak the real problem that you are facing is the fear the fear of what will they say the fear of what will happen this is tried the fear that it will happen if he starts to act in a certain way I already think it is a bigger problem and you simply use the money as an excuse but for example what would I say to him I mean I think That wouldn't apply or it would be a little more complicated.
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I don't know a person who has debts who has responsibility, has a family, well, it's not as difficult as it has been. If I explain myself, I think that what you say perfectly applies to people who don't have no responsibility today as we are already 26 years old we are single we have one we already have debt we are privileged definitions of lover girl for example chosen we do not have illnesses we do not exactly have so pu It's good, maybe that's how it applies, no, but I think it's good, and it's also a problem I face because when he shares these kinds of ideas, then the comment and what happens if I'm in bed and I don't know what the hell if the end, but I think the The vast majority of people, even the people who listen to this podcast, are in that situation.
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I don't know, they are really in a situation where if the advice to risk Tibet for what you want if it applies to you I understand that there are cases for I don't understand what extremes but even in those extremes what I would do is start seeing people who are in my position and who did it and take that path as a map or as a guide to be able to do the same I think there are very few situations in life in which staying stable is your only option is more honestly I believe that there are none and even if you have a terminal illness you are the owner of you know what to do and in that I completely agree maybe people who don't has neither No serious responsibility, well, yes, that is, the cost you are paying is your life and it is customary if you are in a place where he is miserable, well, if the price you are paying is your life, well, what is he giving you, that you are investing something? very, very strong so that he does not give you something in return and if you have that flexibility, then nobody depends on you and that you do not have any other business, because I think it is worth the risk, I even say before we jump from this topic that it is more interesting and going back to the cycle of onís is that we talked about some chapters even with this mental point of money I think that happens to you that you think you need so much money and once that money you set the highest goal and exceeded seeing the highest goal and I also told you this week that I read I realized that it was the diderot effect and that is you at the moment in which some aspect in your life level scales all your other aspects also have to scale that level and by po As a consequence, this cycle of onis is generated, it is the moment that you have a thousand pesos and you buy a jacket for a thousand pesos, your pants of 200 pesos are already out of that being that that balance exists, so I think that I think that is like the internal engine of the cycle where is the fact that he is always watching you and that about breivik that makes me appreciate everything else and there are even times when it even happens with personal relationships with everything in your life I think it should A person should be afraid of taking risks and pursuing something significant, but I think that they should be even more afraid of not staying where they are if they are making themselves miserable, of course, because I think that fear must be even greater, I insist because the price they are paying it's your life and it's a personal 10 and yes yes yes yes yes and how many paying also something I would like to add is imagine that you are in a situation where you have a family you have some children you have a lot they have a lot The responsibilities that are not cannot be escaped by going beyond the look itself, it is possible, however good the advice that I would give you is consider yourself a dream that respects those limitations that have given you the balls to the limitations, I insist that they are what I talk about in my book, the limitations they are blessings everyone has limitations of a certain type and in assists and thousands 160 good Peronism that's how you got güey use that limitation for the best being the shortest basketball player it is understood that your limitations are the essence of what you are pursuing I am going to adapt your dreams to the limitations that you had to live everyone has limitations right imagine you can't see it I want to be a basketball player well maybe he gave me 1 million and 180 and it would be very difficult for me to be a basketball player not impossible but I mean I think he knows you understand your limitations and in the end dreams are invented things so if you have a dream to be an astronaut a mental one that you did even another The web is fine, it's healthy, but dreams are not the end.
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I think that here comes something, too, a premise that left me thinking a lot after reading the book of man, look for the meaning of Víctor Frank, who has recommended a damn to Grace, he is an excellent book and that it did leave me a lot to think about and I think it is very adapted to this topic that we are talking about because we could say that it is good to see what you think looking for what makes you happy doing what makes you happy is a luxury could to agree or not, it cannot be that if you are considering the scenario where a person depends, it depends, man, because I do believe that happiness, happiness begins to depend on different things once you start to have more needs, fulfilling if you don't have to eat well, eating is what makes you happy, ok, but I am about to give an example, not to support this premise, the people in the concentration camps are in the concentration camp in Auschwitz, they were people who definitely did not see Even if they could not be happy there, accordingly, they were the most aberrational conditions in the history of humanity, I would almost dare to say, well, it is being able to be happy while there, I think that in something very complicated, it obviously did not return in different magnitudes. we could assimilate it to a person who is in a job where he is miserable where he is definitely completely miserable but he is not paying for the mistake in that case you do not feel that the same thing happens with the onis cycle and that if you are in the worst condition that you can Well, your standard of happiness is very low and there are small things that make you happy, that is, it makes a difference.
I think that's how you get to normalize the matter, but at the same time you have the point of comparison, which he didn't explain if it's a post from previous conversion remember that the century the onís cycle is when it really works is when you are climbing between more scales because you do not have a previous point of comparison but b well we also talked about that in that chapter that we gave the example x and you go back to the middle ages eventually I was going to be happy because you remember that we said that it depended a lot on the context in which it was clear to you universally speaking that you are living better in the world because you have the knowledge that no one has, but well, if you see everyone unhappy, don't wish so badly for that, but you know that outside of there, people are not the same. humanity were to submit to that condition imagine and imagine tve imagine that in 100 years the cure for all deaths for all diseases is discovered if in 100 years that happens the reality of right now is going to be in a certain way a concentration camp for the people in 100 there is the number we are conditioned to death what you are saying is that since we do not know that this exists we can be happy do not you think it can happen Give enough time for that point of comparison to vanish, I think that if I go to the best first month, no, but you give me ten years in that reality, well, then in this one, well, I insist if everyone lived as is, well, in agreement In other words, in the end, a large part of the satisfaction of our life is because we look around and take refuge, so I insist, well, in a concentration camp, if perhaps a very small extract of people is the same as you, but you know that it is not like that. really and that there is a majority outside the concentration camp because they live in completely different realities and even so you already were used to something else no but well what I want to get to is that there is a quote from Víctor forma that says that life It is never unbearable because of what you have to live with, but rather it is unbearable because of the lack of meaning that they can give it, taking as a reference how people in the past were able to overcome that test. concentration camps because the fact that he was a survivor tells you that this is him in his book he narrates his experience in the concentration camp he was a psychologist and what he was able to notice under experience of others and his own was the sense that each time the only thing What made them pass that test and get ahead was the meaning they gave them, either to see your family again or to share this story with humanity, if I explain myself, everyone makes sense and who didn't at least no longer had to. to live, because he died quickly, he got sick faster and I agree against it slowly, but I think that this adapts very well to this topic because at the same time I don't know how to insist on different obviously in different magnitudes but I do like being in the field of concentration with being in a miserable job and I don't know let's say you're tied up you're not tied up like a prisoner in the concession camp who can't do anything about it by going out there let's say you are at that end, well, you are not really condemning yourself to an unbearable life, but perhaps you could ask yourself how you can build meaning to your work, maybe if what you consider significant for you is to support your family member's education, maybe you can see your miserable work as the means to be able to give your children quality of life and in this way it becomes a little less unbearable every time it costs you a lot to be there and so on, well, remember the end or the purpose, the meaning that it has for you to be there and that way you can lighten the load I'll explain if I agree with you and we'll go back I say the meanings are things that you construct exactly but at the end of the day it's weird and it's really we have two really everything that everything that to everything that we assign an intrinsic value to it is something that we definitely did not invent for the lamination of music you are going to cry because you will assign it this is the intrinsic value it is r They really are, there is no meaning in life that you can't invent for yourself, well, even in bad conditions, you can invent a meaning, you can feel sorry for it.
I think that faith is a very useful tool.powerful very is very is very hand in hand with the meaning is ugly if it really is faith is a belief without a rational foundation or at least with a touch of hope and I think the meaning is the same web but yes I agree it is one is a social resource in mind they are a resource that you build on adversity so that you can bear it if I explain myself and that's when it comes a lot to the field of religion or religion comes to good for a long time now less and less but with to explain the inexplicable of course if it works yes I think this is still the problem is that because the field there is a field where the sciences have not reached and that the problem is that this campus and it is getting smaller and smaller is correct completely completely aqua with you but finally in the area of ​​religion was that precisely not throughout the story it was not what the region said it is not one it is a window of ignorance exact they fit in times ago that we knew each other the flavor of the planet d and the religion that dictated if the sun came out because if the earth was round and not and if the opposite is not the hair I don't but as you say little by little they do it has been taking that heading but well there are certain issues where It has not arrived yet and that is why it is still very valid also in religions and in the future it will arrive, it is science, we do not know what is going to happen, but well, finally, it is a resource.
This is a resource that you decide to take to give it. Here comes another premise, which is that more than the success or happiness of the human being, what we are really looking for as human beings is meaning, I think I totally believe that life would not be unbearable, even if it is your creation and an illusion and an invention whatever you want I think it is necessary for one's own survival otherwise success life makes no sense because when you are there in suicide at the end of the course when you have a life that seems to be perfect way if you want to follow meaningless if you don't find meaning in pleasure if you don't find meaning in all the wolves you have on so that you continue living and that's why the towns come to pass suicides like in my winehouse that may appear to be lies today they are successful people they have everything but they don't it makes sense then they do not serve wealth because if the present is that these people lose meaning in life having everything, be it due to fractured personal relationships or because oops well I think it is a combination of many factors I think it largely takes the i play the cycle of an ist because for example there we can see in the players who win olympic medals the athletes michael phelps reports that about 90% of the winners of the olympic athletes after the competition ended up in depression and in fact they have a term that It's called poop post olympique depression it's a literal term it's 90% talking about something stupid and anti gantes ccoo and 90% 90 for the olympic medalists r He graduates with depression, don't suck and I say I think it makes sense and here the wheel Donis is highly valued.
They are people who put mind, body and soul for a long time. chingón a huevo had the most reward and what happens after that you're ready normalistas and me and now and now all your money that gigantic meaning that they award an event of something all your life you strive for that moment that ends that moment and now that It follows that this happens to footballers, to the old, it is to people who have a career that reaches a gigantic point and who ascribed meaning to the career instead of the process to the end point, that is not over and so now out and do it same for example it happens well similar in those who win the lottery that there is a study of the authors of the study but I have just seen it that says that the winners of the lottery after a certain time are reported feeling just as happy as before winning it, which is a manifestation of the agonist network, in the end, not their expectations, just their reality, normalize the situation and well, they want more or they already got used to what they have, so their feeling stabilizes, no And at the end of the day, I think that all this is related to putting all the eggs in your basket in a finite destination, not that it's good that now I keep going back to the point that we were talking about a little about the search, the human being is meaning, a definition. success is there because success or what you think will make you happy in the end is something ephemeral of course the end result of something or the destiny of something is ephemeral you get used to it it will normalize something else is created and if it you are leaving a result currently that result is going to happen at that moment of glory it is going to end exactly but instead the meaning is different the meaning what is behind the achievement of something the meaning does not have e an end is a star an infinite path polar star be exact so that's why I really liked this what this conclusion of the meaning of viktor frankl is that human beings are really looking for that and going back to question 1 the second question that you I said that if it is a luxury to pursue what is significant to you, well, maybe if it is a luxury to pursue what makes you happy, well, that is my position, no, but it is a moral obligation to pursue what is significant to you and you don't believe that it is the same what is significant gives you a much deeper happiness I think that if you pursue superficial achievements then if it is if it is a luxury to pursue then I do not know and let's imagine let's put the hypothetical case of a person who is passionate about who would have loved it pursue the dream of being an astronaut that would have made him very happy in his hypothetical situation but that's it I know I would do more that is a superficial achievement the astronaut career is something that I'm going to turn on the gas, for example you, Farid Díaz, that everything is a person, you're 25 years old, you're good-looking, someone has millions of followers on the street, they ask you for photos, they recognize you, dude, you have an incredible podcast and make good videos right now, you may be in the plan of your life you may not be able to believe it better nowhere imagine you are 35 years old the internet no longer exists is your videos are watched by 513 people and spoke in those millions who see you before and new conferences I'm going like what does it mean now than in That moment would not fall into a very deep depression, my meaning is that whatever finds me being, regardless of its apparent magnitude, serves as an instrument that my positives are exactly what I mean, the astronaut face, not those of justice, the meaning that you have of those I would tell you well if you stop being a speaker to be a speaker today my meaning is I was correct but I don't know I'm going to give you a case I don't know maybe u As a footballer, his career is finite and what definitely makes him happy was playing good football, but well, there comes an age where he can no longer play football, he is already 50 years old, maybe we will even go in the case where a footballer from the sub prime talk about a soccer player in his prime tell him that a jet of time still in the body and whatever you want and he has an accident he becomes a paraplegic he can't play soccer anymore he can't do what makes him happy a miserable life is doomed I would like say no water but the net how many that is it is very easy to say but how many people it is very easy to know I know I want you to know but if tomorrow all this ends well maybe a sadness was invented although I although According to me, I don't definitely agree, but the phrase that is not condemned to be miserable is back in force, but I don't completely agree if I find a meaning for it, that's exactly what I'm going for, if they make a polar stripe, if I go there, I can s well you know exactly but that is what that is the point that after saying you can no longer do what makes you happy you can no longer that made you happy and suddenly one day foal you are no longer that no longer but I am not OK, you are not doomed to a miserable life if you construct its meaning.
I think that condition you are in can be bearable, which is where Víctor Frank's phrase comes into force. I would complement it a bit with I believe that real purposes are not conditioned to your physical limitations or your limitations and in complete agreement as long as you are conscious you can pursue a purpose, but if as an official goal the purpose that you mentioned, even though you are a paraplegic, you can continue to be kind to someone and that's it, even if you remain mute, you can continue like this or you know something that while this consciousness you can continue to do when your purpose is something physical something if something something finite something finite well eventually you are either going to die or you are going to That finite point, dude, and once that finite point is reached, you're going to fall into a void because it doesn't go completely, but that's what I want to get to, that happens to everyone, the net solution is to find a new purpose and a purpose that be a polar star way and considering that it can be many purposes many times they sell us the idea or we believe the idea that you have to pursue a huge purpose and you know when it really is that many things can give you different purposes or you can follow a Purpose: If you know that you can't change it anymore, you change it, the passion to deteriorate, the joke is to move forward or to improve, it's when you get stuck, it's when it takes you to the end. you stand still but well, that is, only today when I mean that it is a luxury to do what makes you happy because maybe this footballer, well, yes, he no longer has the luxury of having a cu erpo working to do it explained yes but when your purpose is very limited that is yes yes yes what makes you happy is being soccer is playing soccer well I'm there I am referring to if soccer makes you happy your purpose is to play soccer, that is, if that is what makes you happy, well, eventually, when you get to that point, don't forgive eventually, if your purpose is to play soccer, then if it is a luxury to pursue happiness because you have the physical conditions to do so, if your purpose is it goes a little further so it is not a luxury to pursue it is one, as it says, a moral obligation it is a necessity of the human being to pursue that purpose how strange if it is it became unbearable then returning to the question can you be happy in a concentration camp having a very clear purpose I would say that yes I do not know if I could do it but I would say that it is possible I do not think that I would not put happiness in there I simply think that I could bear tar tolerable makes it makes it tolerable exact no no I wouldn't dare to say because I don't know I would like a I really liked a definition of happiness that does maybe leave the harvard teacher who says that happiness of the sum of meaning with positive experiences I really liked the formula because it really makes sense but there can't be a positive experience in that in the middle of that context I understand that you're in a moment I agree it's a moment that's why full happiness really I don't think it exists if it's not for moments think, that is, let's say right now we are talking and I ask you and they did not give you a project that is good for you, it is soon at that time of Félix passes and Priscila in an hour to move your mother I ask you are you happy it doesn't even make me Answer I think that happiness is not something general, it is good, if your mother dies, even a year later I wonder, are you happy, of course, but she is already living after the good, it is a very good example.
For example, I will not be at times, but if a loved one dies, you are already conditioned by this reality, you already have a reference to the reality in which your loved one lived and however they want, they can be happy, but normal until well, that is what I mean, I also think they can normalize the extremes but I don't know if the concentration is different I already have the reason to see it well I think because if it takes you to take it and the normal time passes and also in that interval of time if you are experiencing positive things of xe I don't know you achieved a goal you are doing what What do you like if I explain myself if you have certain certain achievements and others are positive experiences you have your friends and others whatever you want that help you how to stabilize your happiness also normalizing a life without having friends but what experiences music can achieve outside the good thing about being there that they are torturing there is no new person and they kill him the next day in the gas chamber if I explain myself sa set I understand that I think I think that in a concentration camp the degree of positive experiences was minimal, the negative experiences were greater, although we would agree exactly on the degree, six-minute files, a field of consciousness, minds in the field, the expenses of assets were much more, but those negative experiences They were already part of your reality, that is, they are already normalized, that is, they are torturing you, they torture you every day in a certain normalized way, but then what keeps you alive?
If I would be happy having reality, it seems more like a lack of respect for the people who were involved in the change of the situation, it is not seen, that is, I think it is that I insist if the meaning is very strong, I feel that you could not lead a life, I don't know looks bearable bearable tolerable tolerable I'm going around not happy but tolerable is happy next to intolerable that is happiness after all this condemnation a frame d e reference and if your frame of reference is an intolerable life and now he is tolerating I think the degree is something else I believe it because happiness I believe that happiness is a transition state in this attraction but rather that it hasa treaty a frame of reference although up to now if you already know that since life is intolerable right now it is tolerable maybe saying happy is a pretty strong word but maybe you subtract a degree of happiness in the number a minimum degree or whatever, but what is exactly what I want, no, you are definitely not going to be fully happy, but I think you have a certain degree of spelling. if one agrees less to give it a little meaning that gives you a little bit of happiness on your birthday and that's enough you can eat to give meaning to your life I say I insist we are saying it right now we who have this reality if we lived in reality and I I'm asking the same thing, I don't know what I would answer if you had to be there to be able to determine it, a rather gloomy episode, it's quite sad, you're going to Chile, wey Chile, tomorrow tomorrow You will have to travel but you have to leave late, it's two o'clock, yes, but this time it arrived, tell it, tell the people to unite and be well tomorrow except at twelve noon from here in Monterrey to arrive until 8 in the morning in Chile and where trips to monterrey give them dallas miami we don't have that medium the trajectory i hate lante either and you're going to stay in chile how many hours well he arrived at eight o'clock in the morning on thursdays of hers 10 million and more the next day at about seven in the late and arrived in Monterrey until the next day until Saturday night I'm going to be on the plane longer than I'm not in chincha but hey that's fine this is all for this chapter number 7 of robert and happy a pretty chapter gloomy that the net I think we were never going to end with such low energy but hey thanks for listening we send you a big hug bears to all the people who share us and who follow us see you in the next chapter error of faith chapter n number 8 greetings to all greetings two moms no

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