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When Men Go Silent?

Jun 06, 2021
what our people, kings and queens, what is good for you today I have a topic I want to talk about at your request, the audience is the topic about

when

men are

silent

why men are

silent

oh, that's deep because I think what I know men are built differently, men like to conquer, men like to achieve, men like to be in charge, men like a lot of different things, but why do men They are silent for some reasons, one of the reasons why the man could be silent is because men may be processing something women talk a lot and if the man does and some men talk a lot well but women talk more than men. men but if the man listens properly then he is digesting it well he is analyzing he is really taking into consideration what you are saying and that is great because that means that he is probably not listening to respond, he is listening with the intention of trying to solve something or listening and really trying to understand what you're saying, you may be listening and I analytical mindset some people may listen to you and converse with you it's just that not all men are made that way another reason why men might be doing that, ya You know, being silent is because men sometimes find it difficult to express themselves and express themselves. his feelings I think this starts from a child that you have known since he was little and it is something that as a parent or parent you have to teach your child.
when men go silent
It's okay to do that. I think we stop kids at such a young age and you. Let's say it's not okay to cry on three sides like a man like a little girl. There are all these things that we say that interfere with men's expression and contact with their emotions, so it is less than a man even at the age and size of a child it is less appropriate for you to cry is less appropriate for you to express yourself then what do you do? You keep it inside and learn to repress it. You learn not to express yourself. as a man and then that hardens you into this creature, his heart and creature that has no way to have an emotional connection with society with other people and especially with the women in your relationship because that's what you do: you hide your turtle, you put your shell on and then you just go down, you know, to your place of misery to keep it all at bay, so those are the reasons why I think men are silent, sometimes men are silent just because they don't want to say something wrong. true and what I mean by this is that you are careful with your words because once those words come out you can't hold them back as much as we want, sometimes it's just impossible to do and sometimes you just stay silent because if you are a scold, no one he likes a leaky faucet, right, if you're a nag and you know who you are and you know you do things to get on people's nerves, this could go both ways with a guy, you try to control your emotions and you try. and hold on to that as much as you can even if it's just listening and not in your head and pretending to listen to keep the peace and that's what you're going to do because I can guarantee you that if the guy stays silent and you give him a chance of speaking, either he doesn't know how to express himself very well or he's just trying to be nice because he really wants to scold you, he wants to give you everything explicit about how he really feels, but he doesn't. you want to do it because you're probably not ready, it goes both ways, but this is what the factory thinks from the point of view of being quiet, there are a lot of times that women talk and argue, you know, they bring up things that they yes they want to talk and it's not always that you want something to be resolved ladies I know, sometimes you just want someone to listen to you and understand you and that's the end of what you want so as men we have to understand that it's not It is our responsibility to try to fix it. everything except

when

it's our time to fix something that's where you have to let us know you have to communicate that to say I want your help I need your help or even I deserve your help because if you're not in tune with each other then if you're talking to him and he he'll listen to them because that's what they need someone to hear then he won't do it he might not know naturally okay this is the time I need help if he's listening and he's in that okay mode , she needs to lean on your shoulder to cry or she needs the listening ear or a soft place to land well is what I would like to say, so that's what you're going to do, you're going to go into that mode, so communication is fundamental with another thing I just thought about is that you know, to the extent that a man is there for you, you know that he should be silent, sometimes he can be closed off based on your actions, your right vibe and even of the Things you say if he offers to do something and you say "Oh, I got it" or he offers to help with something and you continually reject him.
when men go silent

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Men need to feel that men want to feel needed and they want to feel wanted like you. Are ladies naturally our doors? Real men get up with ambition, go out and kill something and drag it home. That is conquering for men. Men want to feel needed and important, so I think this is a problem when it comes to really, really strong women and I love a strong woman. I also love a strong woman who knows her place and I, as a strong man, know my place knowing that we complement each other and that in the end we are not enemies, right? to know that what you need I can supply and to know what I need that you can supply, so although that means you have to allow a man to be the man, you can't wear the skirt and pants too and that's a problem with The Age of the Independent Woman is another topic that I'll talk about another time, but I think it's also with single women where you've been in one place for so long doing so many things alone without any help that when the help comes, it's good.
when men go silent
When help comes, you don't really know how to deal with it and it's a problem for you to deal with and then it's a problem for the guy to deal with on his part because he says I'm doing everything I know. and you're doing the best you can but it all comes down to communication and understanding each other so the funny thing is you know we're talking about men and why when you talk about men is that? it just doesn't equate to emotions, emotions seem to be nowhere in the formula for a minute, you know, from world warriors to professional soccer players, and all of this is true, but guess what happens when people lose? the supermarket.
when men go silent
Bowl or the NBA championship or whatever or even when they win, oh they cry on both sides so the emotions are there so don't treat this like you don't have them and I think that's part of keeping it at bay. . so I dare, I wouldn't dare tell you all of this without having something that I think is a viable solution for you to get help or him to get help or you know, do it together, which is really cool. I think you need to get in touch. with with with him and let him know that you know excellent what he feels when he's going through these things what it is that you know how to feel what he's thinking both are really very important and if you get to the end of that you didn't understand much too you can say tell me more when you say tell me more oh it opens up a lot good and then you say and what else those two things you can use it in personal conversations use it in business it allows you to go the extra mile, right?
You might as well avoid that silent treatment you do. You know what I'm talking about when he's silent and you want to stay silent and no one really wins? You have to leave it. I know you really appreciate him sharing his emotions with you. Let him know how that really makes you feel. What that really means to you. You know, you make him a hot cup of tea or whatever he likes and you don't even bring it to him. When you're having one of those moments, bring it out regularly, you know, it's a good time, give him something and let him know, then in that moment, when things are good, you know, I really appreciate you opening up to I really appreciate when You express yourself with me, it makes me feel very good.
You make it as seductive as you want or however you want to make it, but it's important that you let him know how that makes you feel. I guarantee that this will open up the possibility for him to be more open and transparent with you. I definitely wouldn't rule out professional help because these people know some things, that's why they call professionals. You are a professional at what you do well. people call you, they call you because you know the material, you know the criteria, you know what it takes to do the job, you know how to be effective and you're not going through everything, it's two years of relationship, five years. ten years twenty years into a relationship to do the same thing over and over again you want some results and some good results too so get professional help telling you it's not for punks.
I can also guarantee you that he is worth it because there is nothing like going through the storms and climbing through the obstacles and knowing that you fell and you won that's what winning is all about you can do this you can overcome this this this temporary moment for which you're going through what you think oh he's silent I'm not I don't know what he's thinking or even she's silent I don't know what she's thinking oh you would give yourself a problem now, but it's very easy for you to get over what it is that's bothering you.
I say now. I want to know what. It's that you want to know what's on your mind and you're dealing with it. I can probably help you because this was a topic I talked about at someone else's request and if that's anything, if there's something you're dealing with you want to talk or discuss I'm a pretty well-rounded person but I don't know everything but I know a lot so If I don't know, I know someone who does. I can guarantee you that either way my spirit is to help you my goal is to help you I want you to be successful whatever you want to do there are answers people look your best to do your best to be your best self

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