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WHAT DO YOU BRING TO THE TABLE IN A RELATIONSHIP? | CHAT WITH SHAZ E02

Jun 08, 2021
Honestly, I'm short on clothes right now because most of my clothes are legal. I didn't think it would be in pH for this long, so please be patient. I have the same outfit as in my previous video. Welcome back to my Channel Guys, welcome if this is your first time. I hope they are here to stay, so today is another episode of stock

chat

. They know we're trying to grow the brand. This is episode 2 and I'm going to be are. It's not an answer. I'm going to ask a question, so this is actually inspired by the first video, the first episode of stock

chat

, if you haven't seen it, I talked about my views on dating and

relationship

s today, so please do. .
what do you bring to the table in a relationship chat with shaz e02
I'm sure they'll check it out. I would link it in the description box, so today I'm going to ask you

what

you should

bring

to the

table

as a woman. I'm going to do something like why you should

bring

to the

table

as a man, but today we're just talking about our ladies okay, so if you haven't subscribed, you know

what

I'm going to say, subscribe and join the family of the Chas nation. Well, basically I'm trying to work on myself. to grow as a woman, so I watch a lot of videos about

relationship

s, marriages, etc.
what do you bring to the table in a relationship chat with shaz e02

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I asked some guys what they expect a woman to bring to the table and also my opinion, so what do I think she should bring to my marriage, so like I always say, I'm very open to learning. If you have something to add then put it in the description box and if you also have something to subtract then put it in the description box too. Let's have a discussion. So before we start this video let me give you some teeth because actually this is an herbal tea it's coffee because it's very bitter so a friend of mine was sharing a story about her past relationship and she was with this guy you know what were. in love and everything and then they had this argument and he says you bring nothing to the table this is someone you've clearly said you love and she said she loves you too and you for you to tell her that I mean it's you .
what do you bring to the table in a relationship chat with shaz e02
Meet men, please work on yourself whenever you are angry like you are not just men, actually whenever you are angry and talk to your partner, be mindful of what you say because once you say it, you can't stand it . Initially she felt bad, but I chatted with her and we finally discussed the whole situation. He is a legal talking boy, so in Lagos the big boy is a guy who has a lot of money, clean or dirty, but he still has the money. he knows, like the important people in Lagos, the people who run things and they go, yeah, every time things happen, like he's always there, you know all these events, he has front row tickets, so that's like a big illegal boy for you and in Nigeria it is very common that you see a man marry a girl because of her father's wealth but if her father is a politician or an oil tycoon, he will definitely marry her because he will inherit all of that, most of his friends clearly will. be legit talk to guys and their friends we are dating girls you know her parents had a lot of money and now she my friend is just a normal girl you know she's not poor but she's not super rich she just feels very comfortable, so he says that, um, she doesn't bring anything to the table, what she understands by that now is that she doesn't bring any connections, like his friends, girlfriends, who you know he's going to inherit the company from, so he she's just the normal basic girl and also some things she used to tell me about her character that he didn't like she's a lot like me she's very gentle and he didn't like that he wanted her to be a lot more aggressive for him she was No is that and now he has met another person who loves absolutely everything that the other hates.
what do you bring to the table in a relationship chat with shaz e02
Anyway, I'm very happy for her. Why am I telling you the story? As a woman, what you bring to the table would definitely depend on the man, so you have men who really just want you to be able to cook well and just have sex and that's it, and you have other men who would pressure you to be ambitious and you know you should support you and all that, so now it's all up to the man personally. Thing number one was in no particular order. The things I would like to put on the table in my marriage are number one.
I would like to bring peace to my husband. I am a very peaceful person. I avoid drama. I avoid arguments. I just avoid anything that can take away my peace or stress me out because stress doesn't feel good to me guys I can't deal with stress so because I am peaceful I want to bring peace to my husband and you. The funny thing is that, no matter how much the man is the head of the family, you know that he is the provider. This is that we are actually the ones who determine the tone and atmosphere of our house, not the man, so it is very important that you have that. mentality or that mentality of always wanting to be at peace because that means your home is going to be peaceful.
Next on my list is to support/encourage men. They try a lot. Many of them don't talk much about what they are. going through what you're going through, but if your husband comes to you to tell you what he knows is going on or if he has a business idea or if you're having difficulty with your business right now, be aware of the words you use in those moments because they are very very sensitive, so the things you say could make or break him, could inflate or deflate his ego, so as his woman, it is very important that you use a soft approach and support whatever he wants to do. .
It's something good. Obviously it's not like he comes up to you and says, "Oh, I'm going to cheat on you today." I'd say yes, honey, you should totally fool me. No, it's not okay. Thirdly, I want to be financially independent. I can't stress how much men love. When a woman is financially independent, she may have a lot of money to support you and get you everything you want, but knowing that without it you can still get things, is one of the best feelings, believe me, I have ever had. A lot of guys told me that a lot of good mature guys don't like childish guys, so I know what I'm saying, it doesn't even have to be like a missed nose job, just keeping busy, they love that too, so why not? favor. make sure you stay busy like I said it doesn't have to be nine to five it could be YouTube it could be you know a small business just make sure you have an income because the truth is there will be times where you would be the breadwinner like Africans, you definitely testified this many times, our mothers were actually the breadwinners, so you know maybe our parents were going through financial difficulties right now and really your mother is the one you like to provide food and pay the rent, but she wouldn't tell you, so it's very important that you are financially stable and financially independent so that when your husband isn't doing so well you can pick things up like you know nothing ever happened. being submissive to my husband I believe in submission I grew up watching my mom submit to my dad and it was great and now I have three sisters who are married and are very submissive to their husbands and they are all happy so I have had four examples of successful marriages in those where submission was involved and for me that is very important.
The next thing I want to bring to the table is spirituality. As you know, I love God even though he has not expressed a faith. video for a while now I'm currently on an intimate journey with God because my mom was like the prayer warrior and the family and I want to be that for my husband and for my children and for my family, so right now I'm basically building my relationship with God so I can be that prayer warrior. I think it's very important as a woman to be spiritual because many times your husband may be doing things that you've complained about and you know he's just not changing, but when you start praying every day like you've heard so many stories of this, believe me, the Holy Spirit would definitely touch him and change him, so it is very important that you are the spiritual one, it is also good if he is spiritual too I think.
Women are easily more spiritual than men. I could be wrong, but that's how I feel, so these are traits that I would like to have in terms of domestic values, of course, I think it's important that you know how to cook and clean as a woman. I don't mean to say that men shouldn't know how to do it. I feel like I believe in teamwork. You know, if I'm available, I'd like to do it if I'm not available, like my husband should be able to do it. Well, it's not that you have to cook, you have to clean.
No, I don't believe in that, but I also feel that it's good for you as a woman to be able to cook and clean. I really want to choose my words. wisely so you know not to misunderstand me. I don't want to say that a woman's role is to cook and clean, but I feel like we are better at it, let me put it that way, we are better. in the kitchen and those are the main things I would like to bring to my husband. They are very, very simple. If you have anything else you think a woman should bring to the table, put it in the description box.
I can't wait to read what you have in mind. I hope you enjoyed this video again. If you haven't subscribed, be sure to subscribe and join the family. Thank you very much and until next time God bless you.

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