GIRL CHAT VAULT: Not Bringing Your Boo Home for the Holidays

Tonight marks the first night of Hanukkah, you know, if you're celebrating, we here at Real want to wish you an amazing festival of lights, yeah, speaking of the

holidays

, if you're looking for the perfect gift, check this out, remember Rachel Dolezal, the auto - Proclaimed an African American woman who was forced to quit her job after her parents revealed that she was actually a white woman. We even had her on the show. Yeah, remember this time for selling a black history calendar just in time for the

holidays

? The calendar sold on our website for $20 features photos of Rachel along with inspirational quotes like this one for the month of December says stay awake and ready to change the world you never know when a major opportunity will arise y'all twitter is having a calendar picnic with user van our quote tweets from newkirk ii i will buy each of my dear enemies a rachel dolezal calendar for christmas.

I'm so confused by that, so I guess, I guess it's her. making the calendar because she needs some money maybe she is selling a lot of things on her website lollipop selling lollipops no way yeah so there oh yeah she saw it there early diamond part of my ignorance because I didn't go on the website and of fact look what he's selling, are they all related to black people? Well, the calendar is the calendar? Yeah, it's not all black related lollipops, not even about the booth, let's be honest, although if there's someone who knows a good salt, that's going to take off her makeup like she's Rachel, okay, actually we're just going to say to save her and act like some of the colors she came out in are okay, she actually says she's tanned so weird she doesn't wear blackface so I don't know there's no big day like it's a real tan, sometimes yes,

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I can't, honestly, I didn't know. I probably said this when we had Rachel on the show. I had no problem with her saying you know she obviously. she loves the culture, there are many people who have grown up in black communities, my black families have adapted to the culture and I totally understand that my only problem with her was lying, it was not telling the truth, you can say "I." I am white and I love black culture. I'm totally depressed about that. I'm not behind. I love black culture. Forget lying as if you were perpetrating something that is not true.

That lie was part of the calendar. Her lies were inherently heard. I thought what's the deal with the black history calendar, okay, look, can we show it again? It's like there's more pictures of her, she's like the head of her and then you know the only historical data on her is within days, so it's like that's not really black history. To me, like black history calendars, you have Martin Luther King, why do we look at you as a black boy? I just don't get it, if you want to praise people who actually did things for black history, like you know, then you can post. kind of like I really respect that, yeah, sure, you have to give up those poses, even though those poses are, I mean, she's giving you nightmare parmesan, yeah, don't call it black history, call it Rachel Dolezal history, like that What a question, wait. the calendar is specifically for black history that's what she said that's what she's saying it's black history I don't understand don't say anything let me out yeah she has some appointments on the days like maybe the 12th she has something like If you knew Ralph Ellison's birthday or something or you know it, but it's not a full length.

I think my gut is telling me that you know she has two kids. I think she just had, yeah, a baby. The baby was pregnant when he was with her. You can Remember and I think she also adopted a son, so she maybe she's just finding ways to make money, yes, but be honest about the beautiful fashion without a sale on the clothes. I mean, they're looking for people I can't handle you on Live Love Laugh Sarina. Twenty-four I enjoy it if that is what moves her boat, so be it, let the woman express herself, there is nothing wrong with that, suddenly, everything is a problem, hehe, I bleed to learn to breathe.

I agree with that, I have to say as much as I'm sitting here joking. Honestly, I love that we live in a world where you can say, do whatever you want, like I won't stay up. No, she doesn't prevent me from sleeping. You know what I mean? I'm going to make you happy and you're going to be a better mother to

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kids and you're going to be and you're going to do that and then you're going to let someone live. You know what that means, yes, but yes, I think that's what we're saying, genius of all. live in my story my story is real Tati said she agrees says no this is sad it's one thing to love black people and another thing to use our culture to make money maybe I'll see your family during the holidays yeah people leave alcohol at

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. listen to this Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez recently rekindled their relationship and are getting ready to celebrate Christmas, however, they may not celebrate together according to sources.

Justin claims that this time he is dedicated to being a better boyfriend to Selena, but not everyone believes it. A family source told PEOPLE quote that Selena's family is still not happy to see her seeing Justin. Selena doesn't take Justin to any family events. Selena is spending Christmas with her family as of now, Justin is not invited only when the time is right to bring. a couple during the Christmas season. I'm just saying: what do you think you're saying from two months to two years in two years? I think there's a certain protocol, it depends on what house they're going to like if you go to grandma's house, bring that person you've been with for a long time or you're serious about your Artie's house, that's where you could increase your boredom a little more longevity, but you know your Artie understands, I think it's up to you. whatever you feel, different relationships do different things, there have been people you could be with for years and you don't want them to show up.

There are people you've been with for months and you think, I want to introduce you to my parents, so I think every situation is different in this case. I think sometimes this is a great learning lesson to tell everyone about your issues and what's going on in your relationship. People are naturally nosy and want to know who you win if you don't bring someone. He'd be watching you cross him like why do you know what's wrong with that person and then you guys get back together that's why your family is mad because they've heard all the bad things that he abandoned you and by the way, I definitely only got your side right. from the story, well yeah, I'll tell you this if you bring someone before you bring that person, tell that person everything about your family.

Okay, that's what I used to do. Yes, my family will directly judge everything about you. They'll watch where you go, they watch what you say, but my family is a lot of fun, they love to grill, they love to grill people, so when I bring people over, I really invite you to get in the fire pit just to see if you can really . Hang in there and handle yourself, you know, because let's say, for example, if we have chicken wings, if you eat the chicken wings and leave the grizzly on the side, my family will definitely say they ate like white people.

I don't like them. It's going to be real and you have to be cleverly ready if you can't handle my family's barbecue. Wayne meant to be in it, yeah you got it, yeah I gotta let my mom Darlene, she didn't play like she had a guy she was dating and I wasn't serious with him, she wouldn't want him to come to my house . Hammond met my brother Taylor's

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friends in about four years and it's because she's like, Are you serious about this

girl

? She narrows as if not and then she would be fine inside. I don't want to invest my time because my mom, my God, she has the gift of discernment and I was very afraid to bring a boyfriend because she knew her and my grandmother told me the truth, I remember.

She was showing my grandma a photo of my boyfriend from college and she said no, right? She would make sure I was 100% serious about the relationship before telling my family about relationships over the holidays, you know? the person really cares about you by the way they treat you during the holidays and if they don't invite you to dinners and family gatherings you may need to understand your place in that relationship yes dad, and that's our theory, yes, there are many things that can continue where you can really see how they present you to others how much they share the good things about you they like complete players players don't care you know, this is my friend at what stage of dating is it appropriate to bring Someone around during the holidays and ask a kohli, said: when you are pregnant or if you are not pregnant after a year, what is probably thought oh no, when you are pregnant or if you are not pregnant after a year, when or if not You are pregnant, what does that mean?

I mean, that means if you're not married and this person is pregnant and she says I'm important because I'm pregnant with your child, you better meet at your family's house, maybe it means that and maybe a year if the person is not pregnant. Well, another thing that's stressful during the holidays is traveling, yes, and adding a toddler to the mix can make it even more difficult, trust me. I know that Meru, a cancer researcher and Grammy-nominated concert pianist, was traveling with her two-year-old son. and elderly parents on a Spirit Airlines flight from Houston to New York when things quickly turned into a nightmare.

Spirit Right Ruie was in the process of breastfeeding her two-year-old son while her plane was delayed, delayed and grounded when she claims. The flight attendants told her to stop breastfeeding and put her child in a seat even though she pleaded for more time to breastfeed. She finally placed her son in her seat, where she immediately began to cry. Rui claims that it was then that the crew forced her to leave the plane telling her that she was not being obedient here is the video she filmed after her baby was that we would be there because the baby was crying so you are saying that you can't get rid of a family because the little boy was crying, why? drop her seat, I didn't say that, so why were we picking on people like the ones you instructed?

Well, the spirit issued a statement that said in part to cite FAA regulations and airline policies that require all passengers to remain seated and buckled during takeoff and landing. We apologize for any revenue and as a courtesy we have issued a full refund to the passenger's refund. I know it's $27.99, what is it? I know how the audience feels about the spirit, so ladies, you're not talking about the injuries, okay, what do you think? it should have been handled a little bit a little bit differently it's not about spirit okay I want to get out of that because the point is compliance and that's any airline and if they're not complying and we have to realize it's the holidays.

A lot of people get stressed, including people who work for any airline, and we don't know the other half of that video, this is the back half, we don't really know what happened because I'm just trying to inform you. Another person, I'm with you because at the end of the day, when the plane takes off, everyone has to be sitting around happy that you finished it and did a battle to hold about 300 people on a plane, depending on the schedule they have. pave the way for the people who have to make the stopover, for the people who have their schedules to arrive safely, so if your ass is not on the plane and you don't comply, I agree, walk well on the board I have, But I have experienced this. because yes, when a two year old is 2 years old, he has to sit in her seat, sometimes that is a difficult transition mm-hmm, it happened to Araya and yes, she had to stay in the seat.

I remember she approached the stewardess. to me saying ma'am we have to take off and Araya was yelling and screaming, okay, she said we can't take off until her son is in the seat and we were already delayed, they were passengers who had connecting flights and I didn't. I don't want to bother them, so she was like a riot girl, you'll have to realize this. I put her in the seat, she competes, she screams and screams all the way until we know we're okay, but you know she, her, her and me. they are somewhat experienced yes however the only thing is there are holes in the story because she said the door wasn't even closed yet and there were still passengers passing water and there are some stewardesses it's just me with kids.

I've experienced it, my son had an iPad. You know, having an iPad just helps things move forward when you're on the flight and this, and there was a flight attendant who said, Sorry, your son can't see that unless he has headphones and I have headphones. It was like this was the first time I heard about this. We fly all the time. She said no one complains that it's too loud. I don't think we even turned it on yet, so I think. it's just that