A Powerful Technique To Seduce & Influence Anyone: Robert Greene

seduction is a high form of power if you are more seductive in your approach if you are more indirect people will do what you want or go in your direction without even realizing it what makes you a great

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r is very simple I can sum it up It is very simple, you mentioned seduction there. The art of seduction. Why did you write a book on the topic of seduction? Seduction is a high form of power because you make people feel pleasure, you make them feel excited or interested in you and then their resistance. your ideas slowly diminish and you have the ability to

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them and move them in the direction you want if you yell at them like we talked about your children and tell them to do this, they will resent it and for good reason. but if you are more subtle, if you are more seductive in your approach, if you are more indirect, people will do what you want or go in your direction without even realizing it, then it was a subtopic in the 48 Laws of Power and so it was somewhat interested in the psychology of that and why some people are good at it and others are uncomfortable about it, so when I finished the 48 Laws of Power I thought this would be a natural Segway.

The next book, what are the qualities? of a great Seducer well I would like to distinguish between cold

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rs and warm seducers a cold Seducer is something that you do not want to be that is the typical image that we can have of a male Seducer but even of a Seductress like the great courtesans and establish relationships with her only for money or men just for sex that is not my ideal my ideal is a back and forth quality where it is not domination it is like a game you are playing it is like a mating game it is like a courtship ritual where both parties seduce each other each other and what makes a great Seducer is very simple.

I can sum it up very simply: you're outward-directed, so when you meet someone for the first time or you're on a date or whatever you're not having that internal monologue, does she like me or does he like me? I could dress nice I'm saying stupid things what can I do to impress them? no, you turn it off and you're directed outward and you listen to them and you get into their spirit and you hear them say things that give you an idea of ​​what they're missing in life of what they want of what their needs are of what makes them in an individual you are absorbing it, you are entering their spirit and then you can reflect it to them, you can give them gifts, you can take them to places that show that you are attentive to them, because if you look at how we are in our daily lives normally people never pay attention to us , they are always so absorbed that they never think about us, it's you.

I've had moments where you get the feeling that people are really interested in who. you are as an individual it's pretty rare if you give that feeling to someone it's incredibly

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because we all want to be validated, we all want to be recognized, so the Seducer is not someone who is worried about him or herself and thinks they are involved in the another person are absorbed like a sponge within their psychology within their world a lot of this is very applicable to romance and dating etc. it feels like for some reason. It's not necessarily something I've read a lot about. in your work, but it seems that dating, romance, and relationships have become so much more complicated in the modern world, that it has become so much harder to seduce someone.

What are someone's attributes? So that's not good for seducing. Anti-seductive. It has many qualities I have a whole chapter on the anti-seductive treatment and I define it uh there are several of them I can't I don't have them all memorized but one quality that is very anti-seductive is preaching and moralizing is like telling people oh that's wrong what you ended up with to say either your politics are ugly or you're not really good at this or something having a moral superiority a sense of sanctimonious prudishness in a realm that should be about pleasure or should be that kind of equality that kind of back-and-forth dining Dynamic in which you are asserting your moral superiority it is deeply anti-seductive the element of preaching to people who are not generous and I mean not only with money, money is important but not being generous with your spirit, right, you want to be open, you want give the other person as much of yourself as you can, of your time, of your money, of your energy, etc., so I'm a little confused and I don't want to come on, I don't want to spend money, I want to take you to the cheap place to eat, no.

I want to give you a lot of time it is very very anti-seductive when you were talking a second ago about the person who is going through the day and they are thinking about themselves and what they know, what their hair looks like or anything else that you talked to an insecure person is insecurity a seductive quality or is it an anti-seductive quality is anti-seductive now there is a part of weakness that is seductive so I would say that vulnerability is seductive but insecurity is anti-seductive and there is a big difference why vulnerability attracts people to you because the sense then, if I can define seduction in simple terms, most of the time we are closed to the

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of other people, especially now that we have these walls up because life is hard.

People come to us with their advertisements, their pleas, their desires for money, this and that, and we have all learned to be very defensive. The truth and seduction is an openness, it's the opposite of that and you felt it as a child towards your parents, you felt very vulnerable and open and there was an element of your parents and how they treated you that was very similar to a seduction. That's right, seduction is about being open to the other person to the point that you can even fall in love, you can fall under their spell and the feeling of letting go of your ego, letting go of your defensiveness and letting another person into your world is being seduced requires vulnerability if you come across the typical scenarios of a man who is not vulnerable at all, he is so

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and in control and everything has no vulnerabilities, it is scary, you know, for a woman, it could be very scary So, he's so strong, so invulnerable that there's something wrong with him, you know, maybe he's a serial killer, maybe he has skeletons in his closet, something's not right about that, what seduces you about a puppy, about a child, of an animal, it's their vulnerability, it makes you want to hug them, it makes you want to help them correct the sense that if you ran into a tiger that is there and they don't need it, well, that's not seductive, I mean , on your screen it is, but they are there in your life. room that is not seductive but that puppy is the correct vulnerability the feeling that someone needs protection or help brings out qualities in us that we normally do not have that I think allows seduction so that is being vulnerable that is to say I can be influenced by that other person, I'm open to your Spirit, right, that's being vulnerable, the word vulnerable, I hate to sound like a professor, so excuse me on seduction, it comes from evil, the root means a wound, vileness, so you have a wound inside of you.

You and You need healing and the other person naturally wants to help you, but being insecure is the option means I'm so self-absorbed that I'm so worried about myself that I can't get out of it and we've all had that. experience when you meet someone and them and you can feel like you can smell their insecurity on them. I'm not judging you because we all have insecurities, it makes you feel insecure, it makes you feel a little uncomfortable, whereas if you meet someone who isn't like who is confident etc it brings out that quality in you so if you are in a date and there is someone with whom you smell that kind of insecurity, it makes you uncomfortable and insecure, it creates some kind of problem, so that would be the difference between two, if you love the diver CEO brand and watch this channel, do me a big favor, make me part of the 15 viewers of this channel who hit the subscribe button, it helps us tremendously and the bigger the channel gets, the bigger the guests.