No Sex Marriage – Masturbation, Loneliness, Cheating and Shame ~ Dr. K. N. Jacob

How can a married couple go an entire week without sex? Jesus, according to an article published in very well done. 27 percent of married women and 15 percent of married men did not have sex at all last year. A whole year. live robert epstein phd research in san diego psychology says that between 10 and 20 percent of

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s are sexless and, according to psychologists,

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s are considered sexless if couples have sex less than 10 times a year, So what are the effects of a sexless marriage? There are many things. What couples in a sexless marriage go through, some begin to masturbate, others feel lonely,

loneliness

becomes part of their lives, others begin to cheat, others become filled with

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and guilt, others feel a lot of resentment toward their partner, and others even withdraw from the marriage. life of their partner they begin to make decisions alone and their marriage begins to go south paragasha an article published today in psychology indicates that married couples who have sex less than once a week are less happy than those who have it more than once once a week A separate article published by La Virginia indicates that couples married in sexless marriages consider divorce much more frequently than couples who have regular sex, although they did not give the percentages basically the net effect they say couples who They are more intimate and have fewer cases of divorce. that those who do not have intimacy in the brain language, sexism is a cause of divorce, so I asked myself what are the causes of lack of sex in marriage, what causes couples to become mothers and people to become asexual within their marriage, why two married people would sexually punish each other.

Well, well, let me show you some ideas. I have 10 causes of lack of sex in marriage. Before I give you these 10 courses, let me ask you a question. Have you subscribed to my YouTube channel? Hey, if you haven't subscribed, do it right now. I support you with quality content I think, so you also support me by subscribing to my YouTube channel, we support each other they used to say scratch my back and I'll scratch your back please subscribe right now and let's follow asexuality courses in the Marriage 10's are depression and anxiety number one, and even high levels of stress compromise sexual intimacy, maybe you are stressed about your workplace or lack of money, whatever the case may be, if you are very stressed , you need to address the causes of stress you need. deal with anxiety and learn to relax and rest even while working hard learn to take things easy because when the body is stressed you will not enjoy intimacy number two low libido 12 percent of middle-aged women and 7 percent of women aged 65 and older according to an article published by considerable do not have sex, so low libido in women is one of the main causes of lack of sex in marriage, what you may not know is that this is tractable. number three erectile dysfunction when men feel that men can't get erect many of them are full of

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low self esteem I need you to know this you don't need to feel ashamed or embarrassed because of the importance that you didn't cause it is a medical problem condition like any other just its gynecologist treatment is available stop being ashamed instead of seeking medical help stop hiding admit that you have a medical condition this is a health challenge opt for treatment number four alcohol and drugs if you were not aware of alcohol and drug abuse Substance abuse can literally render a man unable to function; in fact, they compromise his ability to erect, not in all people, but in some cases, alcohol and drug abuse can even lead to erectile dysfunction and in that case, you definitely need to address it. your alcoholism you need to stop using substances and chemicals intoxicating chemicals you have to choose between your chemicals and your marriage number five sexually transmitted infections and STDs sexually transmitted diseases of course, STDs and STDs number one can compromise your ability to be chosen, but again number two, your partner may not want to be intimate with you, if you have an STI it will infect you so it needs to be treated immediately, that is the time you should disclose it even if you would like to cover up your crime for their act of sin if you know for sure that you had unprotected sex.

I'm not advocating sex. I would say marriage. I believe in fidelity. I think couples should be completely faithful to each other, but if you know that you have broken away from the marriage and contracted an infection, you need to immediately reveal it to your partner because even if they would like to forgive you, they may have a hard time forgiving you because contracting it from a sti an stl will compromise your privacy as a couple number six, bad hygiene, you smell bad, come on. brush your teeth take a shower a shower treatment twice a day keep your bed clean your pants your siblings learn to deal with your sweat stay clean smell good perfume yourself when you smell good you are likely to have more intimate moments because your smell is better as important as even cleaning yourself yourself number six lack of prayer and sometimes when there is no room to play you know what happens to women it hurts some women don't get wet easily they are dry so take the time prepare your girl if possible use lubricants if she doesn't wet so fast but don't try to have sex dry eight hearts and eventually she will start avoiding you and will shine for intimacy number eight missing obviously you are having sexual intimacy but your partner is not climaxing you know?

The Bible challenges you that love seeks to give love seek the interest of the other person the Bible says do nothing out of selfishness abortions Philippians 2 3 you must seek the interest of your partner never leave your partner hanging you have enough clothes to hang Come on, yes you can do it for your partner, don't do it first, do it for them and then for yourself in intimacy and in all matters of marriage, always be your partner before putting your partner before you, be considerate of your partner , never leave them. hunger never comes until they come yes number nine conflicts in marriage are perhaps the biggest cause of altruism in marriage and conflicts in marriage can be mainly due to two things number one effective communication and number two commitment in your marriage both They want to win in this marriage and then you communicate in such a way that even if for some reason you can't have sex, maybe you are doing prayers and fasting, maybe you are having a health problem or maybe you just want to relax, yes, moments where we are not always on high we are not always in the mood you need to learn to communicate there has to be a mutual agreement on how to communicate in fact the bible says in 1 corinthians 7 5 the only time you can't have sex in marriage is by mutual consent for a while, you have to consent for a while, which means sex in marriage is when once not, when both of you were not, if your husband wants a lady and you are not ready, you must be ready, gentlemen, if your wife wants and you are not ready you must be ready let me repeat madam if your husband wants and you are not ready you must be ready hey husband if your wife wanted you or not today you must be ready that is the law From God, intimacy matters and the only time you cannot be intimate with your partner is only by mutual agreement, you would have agreed and you have defined how long you will not interact, perhaps through prayers and fasting or things that have to do with a health problem, fatigue or a little stress or maybe monthly periods, whatever the case may be, you must agree, there must be mutual consent number 10 and the last one, sexual manipulation, there are some couples who simply do not have sex because the man or woman is sexually manipulating the couple. let me give you a warning sex in marriage is not a privilege it is a right in fact the lack of sex in marriage is equivalent to infidelity in marriage infidelity is not only leaving the marriage but even denying your partner their marital rights is infidelity strictly speaking a marriage legally speaking can dissolve due to lack of sex and when you get to the scriptures, even from a biblical perspective, there is no sex, there is no marriage, if you look at first corinthians chapter 7, verse 3 and 4, the bible is so clear that your body as a woman belongs to you and your husband, gentlemen, your body belongs to you and your wife, so the bible says in those two verses that it is a duty, you know, sex in marriage is a marital duty, it is not a privilege, it is a right, your partner has the right to your body, it is not a Privilege, it is a right, you either choose to get married or, if you do not want to have sex, be single, but you cannot choose the marriage and say you don't want to have sex, you have the right to remain single, so if you don't want to have sex in marriage, please.

File for divorce, everyone is available to your partner. I have written these things in this book. Marriage works. Get this book as a couple. It is available on Amazon. It will positively impact your marriage. Very soon you will give me a testimony because you need it. have a lot of sex yes, it is sacred in marriage sex is not dirty sex is God's idea every time you have sex as a couple the age club they have done it again heaven is happy heaven is excited when you have intimacy as a couple because It is a symbol of the relationship between Christ and his bride, the church.

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