Educating The East End - Episode 4 (Documentary) | Our Stories

Jeff can't. He shouldn't be questioned and you have to deal with it and he doesn't seem to have any more tolerance or more freedom than any other kid at this school. You know, if he can't control his anger, then he won't be able to be here with everyone. It's Wednesday Jeb is back at school after serving a three-day exclusion for his challenging behavior. One of the reasons he uses time-bound expressions is when people need a period of reflection and when they come back they should be able to think about what's going on. They will be different in the future and will be able to express how their actions will change as a result.

Well, I really appreciate you apologizing. Yes, I really wanted to stay here. I really want it, but we can't allow any more of that. Those mountains. Yeah, well because I want to see you again there what he's smiling again and I want that old chair back yeah, okay, this might seem pretty for that locker oh, she's okay, buddy, okay, yeah, She is our strength, right, I don't know. She saw yes, she said she to part 95 because I see that Morris may whatever play is there is fine, so the tragedy is period five and Jeb is back in English with mr.

Bischoff and Miss Smith have come to check on him and check on him. Hello Miss. Hi sir. The double meaning is in Shakespeare. I'll keep your things. Jeb, who's writing. Good. He just orders your test. It's just that you have peanuts. It was hard enough to paint. Yeah. Perfect, that's here, that's not a terrible thing, so somehow mm-hmm young man has a lot of time left in your school day. You've done very well so far, yes, let's take you back to your English lesson, don't get too used to this. You're not going to get this every day.

There are ways we can help people experiencing these types of difficulties. If the obvious means of support isn't helping someone next week by teaching a slam poetry workshop, tell them why me, 115 kids. Some of the strategies are sneaking into sports activities, involving drama, involving your music, you know, people have different ways of dealing with stressful situations or anything you know is really difficult and we will keep trying different things without it being explicitly seen. . Like we're trying to talk about your problems oh, I found one, yeah, Oh, Jed, come on in and I'll leave it there, yeah, it's pleated, too, look at you, it's hard for you guys, isn't it?

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happens and the dates are not to give in, it will not be the last army, yes, horrible when it is yours, in reality, oh no, oh no, no, being together, is not being I live, that's even worse than for 20. years I've been together 20 years exactly ah a long time in this yes, it's very difficult because of my son's fight because he's no longer with me cheated on oh sorry, that's fine, but cheap, He was playing a game with all his classmates, he thought we would be stupid. and he jumped off a balcony he broke his neck hmm I'm sorry, oh yes, there are only 19, so not seeing him if the children grow up is very difficult, yes, still for losing my son, I guess that's why I would like I think they like one of mine so I have a good head start and I'll tell you it's really good with Roshan.

Hmm, you just can't. I think we are with JB in self-destruction and we are looking for him. nothing don't follow that path take this path and then I wish I had told Maile don't do that do this I couldn't 59 no thank you for being the one who feels comfortable writing it's Tuesday summer has been chosen to participate in a poetry workshop with the Mr. Biswas and a guest poet no spelling or grammar or anything like just getting your ideas on the page and I'll help you do it don't worry so look at the tower there are a lot of windows here but you finish if you could see.

Anyone looking out the window is nice. I love writing things. It somehow puts all your feelings on one page without you having to tell anyone. Sometimes I should go and write instead of yelling at someone or saying this and that because I don't always mean what I say when I'm angry I just say enough, thank you um, it's like it's not about me, there's no one to say that, He is saying that in there my hopes are higher than a skyscraper, but now they have been reduced to nothing. every shed tear etched on my cheek the salsa cars rained for days while I cried in many different ways eyes closed being heart seeing this key to stop me but we will only think that it is not the last in your body that turns off before I take you over Who I am?

It's me Gwen mom dad I'm a snob I was so afraid that everyone would know and then everyone would know it was something like well I guess we should name summon someone he got it summer that summer he got it amazing Somehow I realized why What am I getting upset about this? It doesn't matter if people know, don't worry, dear, writing a poem like that for the summer was a big problem because she is not someone who can easily articulate her feelings in any way that she doesn't when you. You've read it for yourself, doesn't it sound a bit flat, from where he was before to how he was when he left that poetry workshop, you could see like a weight had been lifted off his shoulders, that's fantastic, absolutely fantastic stuff, it's really uniform.

I'm reading it right, moving very proud of that Domenic, maybe you want to tell me what you're doing with that chair, get off the chair and put it back in the school please, okay, but I'm not going to give you your skateboard. Back off, it's that simple, I would be very grateful if you could put the chair but you weren't an accomplice Harriet, it's Friday Joshua Jeb JEB has been away all week on Jebin's day Miss Smith is working with her mother to try to get him back home. school, I know. It's like I said there's only so much you can do physically you can't bring him to school you know we can't go around and take him out of the house and force him to come here if he refuses to come to school there's only so long we can we can allow this situation continues, we will do our best to engage the children from school, but there are times when other things become more than they can bear after a total of ten days of unauthorized absence, so come in and take a seat .

Jeb has I'm back at school How are you? It sure is a pleasure to have you back. I am very happy today. I know things have been very difficult for you. Maybe you know that I can't let you stay at home. Well, really glad you're here, okay, I want to see you still smiling, enjoying being back at school, sure, okay, it's 10:00 am. m. second period of the day and Ms. Smith has been called to resolve a dispute between students and teachers. Jeb Ivan a month ago. -science Jeb misbehaved Derrick asked him to leave the room and he is convinced that he will not leave.

Jeb has refused to leave the classroom for two different teachers, so Hazel and Miss Smith have been called in to intervene. He won't go out again now, yes, trips. and it might turn out okay, I don't give a shit, this isn't just leaving me alone, there's someone there like something easier and bigger, getting lost I don't want to talk to see, I know, but we can't. leave this at this I'm not calm right now but you have to get out you can't make me I know I can't make it I know I can't right yeah that's all I want you to do Hi Jeff that's it Why do I want you to get out?

Because the consequences of you refusing to do that are so serious. I don't want to have to go back. One of the needs. Can't the school pick him up? He's... he says he's here. I'm really worried that he is. We'll start now Jeb stays in class until the end of the lesson while Smith Smith contacts his parents Jeb is sent to the intervention room with Hazel the amount of time you spend alone with one student when there are all these students who need you, you can 'Not sticking with one student forever, you'd like to, but you can't, we're at a point where I have to prioritize the majority of the school over one individual, if I can't get through to Jeb, you know enough is enough,' you can do it.

I can't stand school, it's Monday. Jeb hasn't come to school since he refused to leave his science lesson six days ago. We've done everything we can to keep him here and support him here, but I've had to make the decision, but Jeff hasn't. You will be able to return to school. Miss Smith has recommended that Jeb go to a pupil referral unit and will inform him and his father later today. Jeff is coming to school today. Bingle I, his father, when you are the person he is doing. the final decision you are the one who carries the weight of that decision I am the one who has to live with it you are going to go out, come in and take a seat, we completely understand how difficult things have been for everyone family and we have done everything possible to really support him, it has been very, very difficult with Jeb to the point where he has refused to come to school and when he was at school, his behavior was very difficult for us to deal with, so when he was the Last week his behavior and his first lesson were really poor to the point that he wouldn't leave the classroom.

One of my many concerns is when Jeb doesn't want to do something, he won't do it, he won't change his mind because it's gotten to a point where he's been completely out of our care and control. I hate doing it. Failure. He failed at a scam. There is nothing more we, as a school, can do. You need more intensive and specialized support than we can offer now. In fact, I think so. I go to the people forum unit and can access all the therapeutic support and time. It's probably best for him now because it will help him get the kind of support he needs.

You constantly think that you could have done something differently. You could have handled it. differently, but understanding the whole context of what was happening with Jeb, he needed a break from regular school because he wasn't, he wasn't coping, let's look at the top columns, it says descriptive writing, extended writing, and source work, it is the end of The spring and summer term has chosen which subjects you will take for GCSE next year. I'm hoping for him to make it through the summer as he moves into year 10. His karma is certainly a lot more reasonable and he's back to being that really lovely young woman that he can be.

So can you say, in my opinion, yes, your opinion? So I'm taking it as a point where I hated school but I ate everyone in it or I just got into fights with all the teachers who got mad at me. I was going to leave now thinking it's just silly, do you mean yes, have a nice Easter? Yes, they like me, have another inspired good time. Make sure you come back after the two weeks to joke around. Are we honest enough? You like that it went well. I don't think he should. To be honest, I have stayed at a TVA school.

I think he needed to go and get help so he would realize that the world is not a bad place, it will get better and it will go a long way. I miss you, it's a pleasure to see you how you are. Going to university is really good. I enjoy school a lot more and now my behavior has improved a lot and I have a different perspective on life. I didn't like that she surprised me. I'm glad it was that way. I think everything is fixed I like it or I won't change it for anything I'm an Englishman who finished question one next time school is very very scary, like a prison for children, three very different children struggling with school, my brain he says, you're going to panic: you know, a panic attack and it's a little strange to forget and the battle to get them back to class, this five minute clip is assumed, don't let him do that to you.

I have every faith in you, you can do this. you